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I haven't quite found "the one," but I have been looking and would like to share some thoughts on this. Firstly, we forget how small this community is, and hence how challenging the odds are. Assuming 5% of the male population are gay, and a typical cohort size of say 40,000-50,000 Singaporeans born each year, we are talking about 1,000 - 1,250 gay men of the same age. That's smaller than a secondary school. Compare that to a straight male who has access to a theoretical pool of about 18,000 women. Hence, it is no wonder that larger age differences are more common among gay relationships: your chances of success are better if you expand your target pool by age (or nationality for that matter). Against that, we like to further select our partners on other criteria such as looks, sexual compatibility, lifestyle, race, etc. Every time a new requirement is added, the odds of finding "the one" decreases. I am not suggesting that people settle for less than what they desire. But given the odds, it does mean that if you are really looking for "the one," you need to work hard at it. Go out and meet more people, reply to messages, take the initiative to meet guys for coffee. Even if some chap may not be the perfect guy at first glance, give it a chance. The more chances you give yourself, the more likely you will find a man that you share some personal chemistry with and would like to spend the rest of your life with.

I had never been able to swim and water scared me. I still remember vividly back when there was a compulsory 'Learn to Swim' programme for non-swimmers in Sec 1 and I was one of them. While I attended a few sessions, I also played truant when I found the chance to, so much so that I would wash my dry trunks when I got home, pretending that I had gone for it. Well, years passed and in JC, swimming was part of the PE curriculum (since there was a swimming complex in my sch) and the phobia returned to haunt me, though I had more fun learning how to swim this time (but still couldn't master any stroke). During NS, I was in the non-swimmer group and even before ORD, I couldn't swim a full length. Ironically, it was after ORD when a few of us army buddies met and made swimming our Sunday activity. Slowly with the "kick, glide, pull" (can still recall my PTI's instruction for breaststroke), swimming for me became a breeze. Too bad my Sunday swimming ended too quickly due to study and work commitments, but now I make it a point to swim whenever the weather and my schedule permit. Now I go for the continuous lap section at the pools to build up my stamina. So far so good! Of cuz, the eye candy at the pool helps to distract me if I ever think of taking a rest.

how about mine? I swam often.

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Hello 25 170 65 here~

So..... Any successful fun just now?

anybody around pj has car can pick me up, later on tonight? mly / flex / straight act / 32 /75kgs feel like giving someone a Hj while he drives.

Sorry ... I can't disclose due to respect and privacy matter.

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V-shape V-shape. Very difficult to get V shape. Triceps or biceps?

Hello everybody. I'm 33, chinese, into officewear and erm.. other wilder fantasies but I'd love to make friends with anyone who wouldn't mind having me for company.

23 mly 170 68 dont know if that matters but yeah.. likes to bake, cook and play mmos.. not very good at them but still =/ currently studying in unisim. likes to joke around and probably offend people but i guess thats just how i show affection? lol

Lifetime relationship (if it ever exists) natural colour for hair OR dye colored hair for CNY?

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Its my one. Looks good? Lol

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Didn't have a lot of time at home lately.. kinda late for this month.. my bad.. first, thank you for the giftaway. received the coupon and collected the underwear. as size doesn't fit me, i gifted it to a friend whom i recommended the shop to. he is extremely happy and satisfied with the underwear. he said the underwear material is very good =] next, the Jan contest.. my fav team8 item would no doubt be this!! http://www.male-hq.com/teamm8-underwear-astro-brief-white/ reason being, black and white 2 of my favourite colours. the underwear will suit any1 for any purpose! not to mention, the stripes design gives it a sleek outlook! yummy!

Push ups wont lead to a bigger chest efficiently. Try doing the bench press, dumbell pres and dips pers session and give yourself a week to rest between sessions. Once u get the chest size you want, do cardio ontop of ur routine

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27 chi here. Gyms at true fitness. Hoping to meet someone who likes sports so we can do them together as well as movies and exploring. LINE me up at <removed by mod>. Sincere hope to find a bf. Why no one give me a chance

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Got my silver and long distance. And I think that is during my secondary sch days. Since then, the number of times I went in to the pool is countable sia............. I want to start a swimming regimen again.

For those looking for a freelance chubby masseur in Klang Valley, you can try Abang Long ( 018-255 8741 ). Although he does outcall, he prefers the clients to go to his place in Klang. And, for the non chubby masseur, try Rozi (016 380 8961). He also does outcall. Both have their own skills but I personally prefer Rozi's.

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I'm going to Taipei this 26th - 30th Jan by TigerAir

Hello everyone. I am 26, Pan-Asian, 5'9 (175cm) tall and 150 lbs (68kg) Athletic. Always identified as straight, but lately have found myself becoming a little curious. So long story short, would be nice to talk to someone, and take it from there maybe? Though caveat is that anything that does happen has to be discreet and at a pace that I am comfortable with. Send me a message if this appeals to you! Thanks!

My favourite kind of tan is not really a "line" but a gradual tone from dark (starting from lower legs) to light (thighs and butt). Ombre effect. So sexy

oh! anyway, my cattleyas just bloomed! so happy, that's really really good fragrance!

Hey everyone! how's everybody's plants doing? Just figured I should ressurect this thread from the ashes here are some blooms of mine! enjoy! Pink rose, smells like bandung Muskmallow plant, Abelmoschus Moschutus Arabian Nights Jasmine Dendrobium Sanguiletum(i think) Papillioanda Mimi Palmer Pinguilca in flower!

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Wow, so happening... Went there at 7 plus.. Nth much happening

They used to have some good masseurs that left. One of them, Honda is in Yang Xin Dian at People's Park & Hugo is in One One Foot Reflexology at Smith Street. Both are excellent in their own right.

Finally managed to visit Zufu for the 1st time.After reading so many positive comment about Ah Dong, finally tried him. I must say Im really impressed with his skills. Definitely 8 or 9/10. He gave a really good profesional massage, with a little bit of sensual especially on the inner thigh. I personally like masseur with big strong hand, so hes perfect for me. I think his age is around early 40? or late 30, and has nice meaty built.He seems very caring? I just felt very warm with him.LOL Just a question for those who already meet him, when you get turn on, do you cover your hard dick, or just let it fly...I just dont know how hes going to react to that, though I really think he purposely give some sensual massage to attract customers. Seriously I swear I just wanted him to finger me when he did that! No HE, but yes, lots of precum.

Hello, currently serving army right now im 20 chinese mixed Would love to meet up with fellow nsf's or people in general still pretty new to this line: youngnwild

That'd be awesome! We should plan one gay diving trip with all the divers from here. Haha!

massage until precum leak.. btw.. this youtube user coming to singapore soon...