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Blue Line - BP to Bugis line @ 7.30am: I took the train at Beauty World and chosen the door opening side to lean against the metal bar and you boarded at King's Alber Park. It was packed with passengers and you tried to squeeze in and stood with your back in front of me. I was wearing a pair of white shorts (commando) with a blue T-shirt while you wear a pair of grey sweatpants and white singlet. As the train was moving, your butt tends to touch my bulge and at times i can feel that you tried to rub against it. Since the train was fully packed, i used my palm to touch your butt over the sweatpants and found out that you were in commando too as i didn't feel any other materials except your sweatpants. When the Train stopped at Tan Kah Kee, your hand rubbed my bulge and i gave a throbbing motion over my cock and you inserted your hand into my shorts and grabbed my cock and stroked and you place my hardon cock straight and u pushed yourshelf against my cock, that is, my cock was sandwiched between your butt cheeks. I was fully so horny that my hand went over to your frontal and rubbed your cock which yours already hardon and i can feel some sticky stuff over your sweatpants (leaking precum). When the train stopped at Botanic Garden, you alighted while i alighted at Bugis. If you are reading this, please PM me so that we can arrange some fun and would love to taste your thick cock and balls and your tight ass too

I think it’s important for the young to have what might be construed as illusions of Romance - life will mostly make you jaded eventually anyway. It might also be possible that the failure to find a relationship that works the way you imagine is precisely what makes one jaded in later years. And it might also be possible to enter into the idea of a relationship right from the start without the preconceived notion of possessiveness and worry of one’s own attractiveness dressed up as ‘love’ for the other party - which admittedly is usually the case for many people who say they ‘love’ their partners too much to share him. I often wonder, if they were the ones constantly receiving sexual advances from people they actually found attractive, and their partner received none, if they wouldn’t be the first to ask for the monogamous cord to be cut. It’s why generally I notice Long-term relationships work best when both parties have balanced leverage - either both are equally attractive (or not) or one party makes up for a lack in one area with a particular ability in another. After all, you fall in love with attributes and qualities, shallow or otherwise, but the ability to last Long-term does require one to put a lot of baggage aside as has been mentioned. It’s why I advocate for wider acceptance of homosexuality - not so that it is legal for men to fuck, they’re going to do it anyway, but so that hopefully future generations of gay men grow up with less emotional baggage and thus can form healthier relationships.

Just thought I'd drop a review of my trip for:- Prime Massage - weekday at about 1.30pm - I managed to get a walk-in 90 minute oil massage. Maybe it was early in the day. Only managed to get one massage this trip as I only needed one! The masseuse was very firm and got all my knots, that I was sore the next day and was in no shape to get tenderised again. Ran out of time on my third day. I tipped 250 THB. The Quarter Silom - I think this will be my go-to hotel in Bangkok now. Book yourself a slightly larger room with balcony. It was clean however the aircond did smell a bit musky - probably from the humidity of Bangkok. Walls are a bit thin, can hear room neighbours having a conversation. It is VERY CRUISY. Everytime I walked into the reception foyer, gym or the breakfast room, I felt like I had walked into a gay sauna and I was the 'fresh meat' with the eyes looking. The breakfast food spread was not bad for a small hotel - but not what some might expect eg. noodle bar or egg station - be realistic for the cost of the hotel. The gym is small and basic-to-OK equipped to maintain major muscle groups, however it is full of young local men that sit at machines and are there for literally hours...you can do the math. I had fun in the steamroom however on 2 days of my stay. Be discreet please as staff do check and there are straight patrons. DJ Station and GOD - Unfortunately I only got to go for one night out of the 3 nights I was here as I went during the Buddhist Lent festival which meant that Saturday and Sunday nights, they were closed. The Friday I went, it was busy - entry to both is 400THB each. DJ required me to show ID which I used a photo of my passport on my phone. I enjoyed DJ more than GOD as I personally got more "eye contact" with guys. GOD was just so busy and dark it was a meat factory, like animals in an abattoir. You can't see much, and you can't meet anyone. Music abruptly ended at 2.51am and the bright lights came on and they closed shop. Maxwell Onsen - close to The Quarter, but a bit of a walk from Sala Daeng station. Entry is 580THB (correction). Crowd is mostly below 40, of Asian descent. Very easy on the eye, but also very competitive as a result. Service is good, except for the front counter ladyboss. Food was karaage chicken or kimchi pork bowl. I had a funny moment when I went, as there were two Caucasian men who were obviously straight and wore their jinbai pants downstairs in the pools and sauna. I asked them what were they doing and advised them that the place is a gay and bisexual venue..they didn't know as they just googled "sauna near me". We all had a good laugh about it, I advised them not to go into the steam room. They left soon after anyway. The action happens in the steamroom and it gets packed. It's a dark steam room, and not illuminated like Zen, so be wary. Other than that, it was mostly just retail therapy at Chatuchak/Platinum Fashion mall and eating street foods. Also, side note, if you're using Grindr - you're not in SG anymore. Don't start with a message/demand of "pic" when you have zero profile photos or one very blur photo and the other person has 3 or 4 clear profile photos. I scolded someone for that, and I knew they were from SG before I even asked and got blocked lol. Grow up and be respectful. I hope this helps to those going in the future.

Hey tmr weather seems good, anyone wanna go suntan together?

In a mood. A lot of pent up energy that's looking for a release.

Will be heading beach tan tmr ( Mon) around 3

30 mins ago, at near Expo Hall 2 toilet at the end, was naked doing edging at urinal. Suddenly you come in and saw me,then you ask me and know I'm edging, you help me edge with your strong hand for few time until cant control already and cum all out into the urinal. Finish with im suck ur dick till you cum at urinal and pee and went out. If you here, msg ya.

Those grower wearing polyester, nylon or cotton shorts or jogging pants must be careful as your instant erection will be very obvious to the public naked eyes. I have witnessed one China guy with my own eyes. He was wearing a pair of polyester dark blue jogging pants with another male friend in Clementi on Monday. Initially i was walking behind him admiring his toned ass from the jogging pants as the seam slight snuggly between his ass crack. Then i tried to walk beside him a slight distance away as i would like to see his bulge. I saw his bulge was swaying left and right as he walked and got me horny. Then out of a sudden, he use his right hand to adjust his cock and to my shock, the cock just erected to a 90 degree tentage. He quickly adjust his instant hard cock up and use his T-shirt to cover up. Unfortunately, his T-shirt was abit short and his cock just bounce back to 90deg tentage. He turned to me and saw my eyes was wide and staring at his instant tentage, his face turned red and nodded to me like kinda telling me sorry and quickly cover with his hand.

i went three places within this one month in KSL Sebastian massage He massaged me in my naked body, before massage i asked him to allow me to be naked. he said, no problem. during massage, its so good, he massaged my butt. he is straight. when he massaged my leg, my foot touched his bulge, i rubbed with my foot. i could feel Relux Borneo two hours for 130 ringgit my massseur was young indian malay, very handsome, with light mustache. he is straight. when i drop off my boxer, he is okay. he is very good, better than the other one. i asked him not to strong, he massage my back continue to my butt, every movement, always kena my butt, so sensual. he massaged below stomach also, but nothing happened. Holiday Plaza i tried Javanese 88 massage, two hours for 90 ringgit, so cheap. i totally naked, he is straight, he is not tempted. few times when he massaged, his hand touched my penis head, but it was accidentlyl, not in purpose. he was very strong man, muscle man. his massage is good, and very strong, i asked him to reduce his strength, but he still use his power, after 2 days, my body feel pain here and there.

Hi... Im an expat here...looking for a young,healthy,clean n good looking guy with a big uncut dick (preferably chi) for longterm discreet friendship and fun...Im a newbie here Thank you

Anyone walking around AMK Park later?

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Anyone staying in sengkang west?

Thanks a bunch!

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yup! Agreed!

According to www.sentosa.com.sg, swimming is not allowed. The notices are a little ambiguous as to whether other beach activities (non-swimming) are allowed as it only mentions swimming & sea activities.

I prefer it when a place is cruisy. Relying purely on random luck to cruise aimlessly can sometimes cause me to waste a lot of time haha. I'm a bit impatient but thank you so much for sharing. Glad to know a fellow cruiser is having fun as well at this particular mall lol.

I can confirm this. GF toilet near MyNews/Batik and the other one near Max Fashion. But my luck is not as good as yours as I've only had 3 encounters haha. All happen during weekend late afternoons. I then tried to observe the place or cruise more within the next few weekends when I'm there but no luck. Feels dead. Mostly family and no cruisers. I suspect the 3 times I was successful might be a case of pure luck by being at the right place at the right time. Was your encounter recent? Mine was about 2 years ago.

As much as I want to agreed with you about what you wrote about gays, that they are intensely sex-crazed. I want to highligt to you that sex craze or is a men's thing. It is not just a gay thing. Most Men Str8 or Gay will cheat, when the opportunity is right. As to monogamy, unfortunately, many gay men encountered many cheating partners in a relationship which made the jaded. I am speaking based on my own experience. When I was younger, I had 2 relationships and both relationship had my partners cheated on me. I learned the lesson in ealier age that men will cheat. When it comes to my turn in later relationship, as much as I want to control myself, I can't help but also cheat in my relationship. It was not something I was proud about and eventually, my past few relationship ended until my current one. Like I said, many young people will have idealist views about relationship, they want exclusivitiy and monogamy, but depending on who you meet, some might be able to give you what you want, but some might not. So you will have to find the right person who could give you what you want and someone who is abe to be inlined with your relationship views. I am sure there are others who only want monogamy and faithfulness in a relationship, if your current partner is not able to give you, you might want to find someone who can. A lasting relationship will work if you can find the right partner that match your views about relationship.

To be on one common ground, in a relationship, needs two hands to clap. A working relationship needs common goals. Each individual has to openly and honestly share why the goals are important - not only for him but for the relationship too. Many relationships fail because two individuals are taking each other for granted, right from the ‘honeymoon’ period. These individuals forget that they have their own cultivated habits/goals before coming into the relationship. Do not forget that each of us have our past that made us what we are today. Therefore, there will be unspoken baggage. This baggage, should it not be addressed, can be the knife that cuts deep when disagreement starts to surface. To make things work, moving forward, these two individuals need to understand the past. To understand the past, they have to communicate. While communicating, it is important to accept and not to judge. Acceptance is the only way to make these individuals become closer. @juion, the way I see it, you still want this relationship to work. To me, this is good. I believe you know what you want. And, I also believe not to waste what you have started. All problems have solutions, but it depends on your acceptance. Right now is about finding the right time to reach out to each other. Make sure the two of you have calmed down. The two of you need to forgive each other and rekindle the reason(s) why you guys were in love and wanted this relationship. Of course, the big question here, can the two of you forgive each other? Can you, @juion? The next big question, do the two of you still WANT this relationship to work? To know the want is crucial. It is the catalyst for what will come next. Ideally, should you guys have a common friend – who can be neutral – will be good during the mediation. Else, lay down the rules for the heart to heart conversation. One example, rule 1 is to let one person speak while another listens. One should not listen to talk. Have more rules that are agreeable to the two of you before the commencement to talk about the problems. You may want to discuss about the Grindr thing, for your peace of mind moving forward. But remember, it is not important should you have forgiven him. Do know @juion, a gay relationship can work provided two parties understand each other well. May you have to courage to move forward. Wishing you all the best!

Am @ CW now. 2 foreigners Bangla I think, did an activity behind a shower curtain. Then they photographed and vide themselves in and beside the pool. Upstairs 2 regulars did an activity behind a curtain; one of whom I thought was straight! Now 2 slim well endowed guys are commencing an activity in the shower.

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Turns out I've been cruising in the wrong toilets at KL sentral... It was super exciting on the way back to take the MRT, I accidentally saw a toilet, went it and check it out and it was the cruisy toilet. OMG, the amount of guys crusing there! So hot!!!

Do I fit into the quality of being categorised as a twink?

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also I have been Panpuri Onsen cuz I love to have sauna and Jacuzzi I have been there on Monday 2pm but theres a lot of hot guys there more than Yunomori or gay sauna could not do anything in there but really enjoyed eye candies I could feel that they also gays 😝 https://maps.app.goo.gl/f8f7BPxjp83y9XKG7?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy

I was staying Marble hostel in Silom (male dorm) https://maps.app.goo.gl/oTMaVL4f8hz4q1zP6?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy after check in immediately I got blow job in the room and most of guests are gay in male dorm so I could walk in naked and some of them keep giving BJ lol

Almost every night, with additional 1x on weekend mornings 🙈

Why would it move much? At most it gets hard. And if the masseur accidentally move it/or obstructing the massage, then just move it the other side. If need to shift left or right then shift lor. But it shouldn't be very often.

Looking for sucker/edger, an experienced one. I can hold for a long time and would like to train my post orgasm tolerance. Lean fit chin, would love watching you suck. Tele me heyheyhavefun

1. Name: Dam81 2. Age: 43 3. Height: 1.83 4. Weight: 87kg 5. Role: top 6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF, plays nintendo switch, collect pop mart toys, hiking etc. I stay in the north west / west region and I stay alone from Mon to Thursday although I own the place. 7. Self-description: been told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the last person who dated but I guess it takes two hands to clap. I guess in life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first. 8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored.I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets me, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

Hellooo, I'm a straight curious Chinese (30/175/80) that is only a gay submissive bottom for White guys, especially big fat old White daddies with Big White Cocks. White daddies just ignite something in me that I cannot extinguish and I just feel all sissy, girly and slutty around them. I love being straight all the time but discreetly gay whenever I see a white daddy. Hoping i can find a White Daddy that doesn't mind, or better yet love, my figure and body hair (most of which i can't shave for discreet purposes). I would love to have my cherry popped by a White Daddy and become your girl as you pound all my masculinity away. Make me do all sorts of kinky stuff, stuff me into girl clothes, White Daddies drive me nuts. I'm dying for your DMs and hoping something can blossom from it. <3 TLDR - Looking for: Top White Daddies Much older than me Much larger in size than me Don't mind/like hairy bottoms

Hi I am 60yo total bottom in UK. I will be visiting Singapore 12-22 August and looking for any willing tops who would like to meet. Will be staying in hotel so can host evenings/ weekend.

Not v practical...i like the front though...

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Hi guys, This thread has gone so quiet. I’m bringing it up the discussion, so we will not forget how much we miss wearing it. The material these days are not sheer, thin and silky anymore. I hope the production factory knows what they are doing, and go back to making the shorts in its original form. It’s got to do with the amount of nylon tricot material that goes into it.

Hello everyone, thanks @IkuTube for the announcement. Have been a member here for a long time and BW has always been my 'getaway' place from work stress, etc. From reading real/fictitious stories/experiences of members in a blog to the current forum format, we've come a long way. Not forgetting when SgBoy/Trevvy died out, quite some members there flocked over and making it more regional. So, I thought why not volunteer to help out in moderating this forum during my spare time. Being new, I would of course need the guidance of the more experienced moderators. Having said that, I probably would be stepping on some people's toes here to get the job done. I know it is likely going to be a thankless & tireless work moving forward, but let's all work together for a better community we are in yeah. Personally, my believe is such that we should all be able to coexist together, with all our differences. Like one moderator said to me, which I truly agree, that BW existed for our benefits so that we could all connect/mingle/interact with one another, let's not take it for granted that this is our entitlement, and misused it yeah. Everyone's support is definitely appreciated, cheers! P/S: do avoid asking me my member profile, so that I could help without giving anyone prejudice/preferential treatment yeah. Thank you. 🙏

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I’ve definitely met some guys who tried to push my boundaries and made me really uncomfortable. Really put me off meeting anyone new for a while and I’m pretty cautious now when I do decide to meet someone new. Not really sure how to go about it but it does happen. thankfully it never got to the point of full on r*pe but I feel like if the guys I meet were a lot bigger and stronger than me it might have ended up a different story.

After gym last night. I'm slowly gaining the muscles, hopefully I'd be more lean toned in time to come~

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