Guest Guest Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 For one who has fully paid up a flat , having a job and savings ...where and how to find an equivalent Singaporean partner at 50 years old here ? Any advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Member to be Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 By registering as a member for a start, update your profile and start writing with an account. Is that so difficult to do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Eix Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 Not the only way, however. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 3 hours ago, Guest Eix said: Not the only way, however. Any recommendations? For most gatherings , all are searching for the most popular young , fit , cute looking ones ...those are meant for sexual purpose gathering and not long term partner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest2 Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 37 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: Any recommendations? For most gatherings , all are searching for the most popular young , fit , cute looking ones ...those are meant for sexual purpose gathering and not long term partner how to be long term partner if you are not attracted to him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 14 hours ago, Guest Member to be said: By registering as a member for a start, update your profile and start writing with an account. Is that so difficult to do? LOL! Comical but important. As member he can remain anonymous but still be identifiable, from one post to his next, and able to receive messages. 14 hours ago, Guest Guest said: For one who has fully paid up a flat , having a job and savings ...where and how to find an equivalent Singaporean partner at 50 years old here ? Any advice You seem to be economically stable, a big plus. Would you accept someone who is not, but has other attributes like physical attraction, good character ? Do you have other qualities to offer, like personal attractions? If so, your ideal companion may not be of your age but younger, even 20 years younger at 30. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Think Posted January 6, 2019 Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 19 hours ago, Guest Guest said: For one who has fully paid up a flat , having a job and savings ...where and how to find an equivalent Singaporean partner at 50 years old here ? Any advice If u are ugly than what is the point of savings, fully paid house and job? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 5 minutes ago, Guest Think said: If u are ugly than what is the point of savings, fully paid house and job? So that you can pay for a handsome bf who will like your paid house, savings. Of course, like all relationship you must know how to manage.. Most of us will be like half breed and will have to work for we are lacking so that we can be aquaman- master of the sea eventually, in a lifetime, hopefully. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 Look for someone compatible in look, age and interests. It's difficult to find a young fit and handsome guy when you are old, unfit and average looker. Be realistic. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 Question is where to look for such a companion? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sexy Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 1 hour ago, auscent said: Question is where to look for such a companion? In the closet. Most of them are hidden in there waiting to be found. Like a boat full of hidden immigrants, you just need to open the lid and there they are in a squeezed compartment shivering with hunger (for sex). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Try Travel Chat Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 Try advertising in the travel chat group for like minded people to go traveling together. This way you get to travel w someone new and if click can save torrid sex and if you like each other then can start a fuck buddy arrangenent first. I did that 10 years ago and went in at least 5 different trips to Batam, KL, Penang, Bangkok and furthest was Perth with people who responded to my travel advs. they were from as young as 35 to 55 when I was 50. May be it was luck, all were pretty decent looking to good looking except For one who Is bit fat. I was a better than average good looking guy with lean but not toned body. All of them were so happy when we first met and all couldn’t wait to accidentally touch me all over when we were traveling... the moment we were in hotel room.. all of them would just hugged me and started feeling me and touching me all over...so the sex ( non anal) was great with all of them. well, all five wanted to continue something with me after the trip but I wasn’t looking for a LTR at that time... so I thought. One of them was persistent in contacting me. He was only 35 so I was much older than him. He wasn’t the best looking if among the five but he has the strongest body and a damn fat cock. He funnily enough I likes to suck my cock and please me and not like me to do much for him... so we started hanging out together and it has been 10 years! Yet in the 10 years he hasn’t fucked me even once... he tried at the start when I was willing to try but it was too painful before his cockhead could penetrate my ass that he gave up. Since then no matter how horny I was and begged him to fuck me he won’t be Che said it would tear my ass.... but he has not stopped enjoying sucking by cock.... and he is by far the best sucker I have ever come across. so you see... u can find someone special here... you just need to be lucky a bit and be sincere w people. I hope we have another 10 years together though I am not sure if he would still like me when I am in ny 60s and I can’t or don’t really satisfy him sexually... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 5 hours ago, Guest sexy said: In the closet. Most of them are hidden in there waiting to be found. Like a boat full of hidden immigrants, you just need to open the lid and there they are in a squeezed compartment shivering with hunger (for sex). LOL! Where can you find such a boat? What are the dangers of opening a pandora box instead? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nah Posted January 7, 2019 Report Share Posted January 7, 2019 This thread is turning into a story/fetish thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted January 9, 2019 Report Share Posted January 9, 2019 On 1/7/2019 at 7:21 PM, auscent said: Question is where to look for such a companion? The question is not where but how. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drake25 Posted January 9, 2019 Report Share Posted January 9, 2019 i guess...when u are not looking for it...they happen to show up?.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sad Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 Don't look in this forum. Everyone just wants sex here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest same same Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 14 hours ago, Guest Sad said: Don't look in this forum. Everyone just wants sex here. Don't be sad. People who "just" want sex can also become good long term companions. The "just" can change in a microsecond! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 On 1/11/2019 at 11:04 AM, Guest Sad said: Don't look in this forum. Everyone just wants sex here. Not only wants sex here but also wants to look for cute or hot bod. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavedboy Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 Nbsb here meaning no boyfriend since birth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 (edited) Edited January 14, 2019 by Garyl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavedboy Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 No boyfriend since birth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riverrobles Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 Do a broadcast in BLUED and share your talent and experience, in BLUED you can say what you want to say and do what you want to do , there are people who will be interested . Good luck searching! On weekends, I just show them how I clean my room, or on weekdays give them a glimpse and taste of what I am having at lunch or during break time. BLUED is a gay app for broadcasting, livestreaming yourself to the world. I also like the dating app okcupid . For networking and group activities, I prefer to use this two sites Meetup and Internations, be open and maybe your long lost love is not a local, it might be a foreigner who might happen to be also joining these activities. Quote I'm really turned-on if both heads (the head above and the head below) are both functioning well https://asianguysgonewild.newtumbl.com https://linktr.ee/riverrobles Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 Honestly speaking, if you had not found someone while you were in your prime and gone through the ups and downs of relationships, I seriously doubt you will settle down with a long term relationship at your current age. Those years in your prime are the best time to go through the bitter sweet time of exploring love and relationship. I certainly don't think you are suddenly able to handle a relationship after turning 50 and expect to be able to settle down suddenly with a person. Most matured older men, will carry with them lots of baggage, cliche, habits, and a certain way things had to go about in their daily lives and suddenly life goes upside down and had to accommodate and change ways and habits because they found another person. It would be a daunting task wouldn't it? Although not impossible but, there are just too much things to give up and to learn and adapt, etc. So unless you are an accommodating, accepting and easy going guy who can learn and change your ways, then I would say, you are fighting an up hill task in getting a partner. Don't know who told you that you can only start looking for bf when you finished paying for your house, having a job and saving? That person needs to be shot. Best of luck in your search, you will need it. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 1 hour ago, GachiMuchi said: Honestly speaking, if you had not found someone while you were in your prime and gone through the ups and downs of relationships, I seriously doubt you will settle down with a long term relationship at your current age. Those years in your prime are the best time to go through the bitter sweet time of exploring love and relationship. I certainly don't think you are suddenly able to handle a relationship after turning 50 and expect to be able to settle down suddenly with a person. Most matured older men, will carry with them lots of baggage, cliche, habits, and a certain way things had to go about in their daily lives and suddenly life goes upside down and had to accommodate and change ways and habits because they found another person. It would be a daunting task wouldn't it? Although not impossible but, there are just too much things to give up and to learn and adapt, etc. So unless you are an accommodating, accepting and easy going guy who can learn and change your ways, then I would say, you are fighting an up hill task in getting a partner. Don't know who told you that you can only start looking for bf when you finished paying for your house, having a job and saving? That person needs to be shot. Best of luck in your search, you will need it. What you write shows common sense. But life may not be so clear cut. One thing that comes with age is experience. Not only self experience, but also that of others. Many matured old men can carry with them sufficient experience to realistically know what a relationship is about. And their habits are usually better than the habits of young people. So it is up to the younger to recognize the better habits of the older, and accommodate to them. A 20 y.o. can drive a 70+y.o. like me crazy, if I allow this to happen. But knowing how young guys behave I am cautious to initiate a relationship with anyone, no matter the age as long as he is sufficiently younger, who cannot accept a healthy style of life. So I would modify your phrase: "So unless you are an accommodating, accepting and easy going guy who can learn and change your ways, then I would say, you are fighting an uphill task in getting and older partner" Many mature men didn't have much ups and downs. They found earlier a good partner, even before having a good job, paid house and savings, and they have a healthy relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 14, 2019 Report Share Posted January 14, 2019 Maybe at 50 harder to get companion. In exchange u dun deal with emotional uncertainty of being with a partner. Some like that others dont. Perhaps singlehood is underrated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BriefsGuy Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 (edited) . Edited May 10, 2019 by BriefsGuy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 (edited) On Monday, January 07, 2019 at 7:52 AM, Guest Think said: If u are ugly than what is the point of savings, fully paid house and job? Wrong concept...ugly even need to have more money to save yourself...just like someone say single save so much for what? It is precisely no one will take care or support u and u need to be self sufficient. Edited January 15, 2019 by lonelyglobe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 3 hours ago, auscent said: Maybe at 50 harder to get companion. In exchange u dun deal with emotional uncertainty of being with a partner. Some like that others dont. Perhaps singlehood is underrated. Dont say 50, in this circle, once u pass 35, is like clearance sales already and by after 40 is like expired soon....the thing is u have been doing things alone for 50 years, taking the whole bed for 50 yaers and so on, how to adjust to the presence of another one? And after he left, u got to adjust back to single mode again. fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 1 hour ago, lonelyglobe said: Dont say 50, in this circle, once u pass 35, is like clearance sales already and by after 40 is like expired soon....the thing is u have been doing things alone for 50 years, taking the whole bed for 50 yaers and so on, how to adjust to the presence of another one? And after he left, u got to adjust back to single mode again. This is not even true for the evaluation of the physical aspects of persons. There are guys of 50 who are quite attractive. But you really think that a companion is just a body? The body should not even be the 50% of a companion. Bodies are so easy to find, so easy to buy! Even to have the same interests, the same position in life, the same education, etc. is not a good formula for a good companion. Companion goes beyond the material. It is spiritual. It is having found in the spirit of another person something unique, Irreplaceable. Tampenises 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Gystt Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 20 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: This is not even true for the evaluation of the physical aspects of persons. There are guys of 50 who are quite attractive. But you really think that a companion is just a body? The body should not even be the 50% of a companion. Bodies are so easy to find, so easy to buy! Even to have the same interests, the same position in life, the same education, etc. is not a good formula for a good companion. Companion goes beyond the material. It is spiritual. It is having found in the spirit of another person something unique, Irreplaceable. past the age of 50, i think companion isn't so much about body already. it's more for company. like you said, if someone at 50 wants purely body and nothing more, there are many young ones willing with daddy fetish or needs $. nothing wrong as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 Whether single or attached I think its still important to retain attractive qualities: independence, kindness, motivation, honesty and healthy optimism. Without these timeless qualities ure am ugly human. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Client Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 Since your case is rather urgent, why not start off with a fuck buddy first and see how things go from there. If clicked, invite him to over for a romantic weekend & make breakfast for him the next morning. Im sure most guys will be touched. Use this as a litmus test to determine how at ease you are sharing your personal space with a partial stranger. Also don't limit yourself to people your own age, personality, interests & maturity are key factors to consider when seeking a potential partner. Let's not waste anymore time, create profiles right away on the dating apps catering to your market - Daddyhunt for old & young, Growlr & Scruff for bear & stocky men, Gayromeo, Grindr & Jack'd, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 Would you consider a dog? Not for sex of course. fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted January 15, 2019 Report Share Posted January 15, 2019 16 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Dont say 50, in this circle, once u pass 35, is like clearance sales already and by after 40 is like expired soon....the thing is u have been doing things alone for 50 years, taking the whole bed for 50 yaers and so on, how to adjust to the presence of another one? And after he left, u got to adjust back to single mode again. Daddies' lovers 5 hours ago, lean n mean said: Would you consider a dog? Not for sex of course. Or dogs for orgy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meh? Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 What is the problems of living alone, got so difficult meh? You can still have lover at 50, and many lovers if you want as long as each one kept their own freedom and pay a visit once in a blue moon for kopi siew dai and catch up chit chat. Other than that, there are so many things to do alone, like watching youtube, bitching in this forum and spring cleaning and watching porn and writing critique letters to the govt and many other hobbies must done during your free time. Cannot meh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 serial monogamy, or multi track monogamy is the answer, have multiple monogamy rls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Behind the holy gate Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 I have seen many guys who still look extremely attractive after 50yo, but they are not easy to court into relationship because they have seen enough of the world to feel that relationship is no longer the main object in life and they just wished to live happily independently free from hassle and hussle with as little drama as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Truth Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 wah like that also can...then can consider MLM liao, if 口碑 good, 家愈户晓hor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Truth Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 3 hours ago, Guest guest said: serial monogamy, or multi track monogamy is the answer, have multiple monogamy rls wah like that also can...then can consider MLM liao, if 口碑 good, 家愈户晓hor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 Mature men - we have a moral duty to be attractive in looks and attitude. Ques isnt so much abt looking for a date but be date-able quality. Nobody comes to the house doesnt mean uve to make the house ugly. Steve5380, mate69 and IMChinese 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 17, 2019 Report Share Posted February 17, 2019 50 is the new 30. Cliché but think chuando. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 On 2/16/2019 at 5:37 AM, Guest Behind the holy gate said: I have seen many guys who still look extremely attractive after 50yo, but they are not easy to court into relationship because they have seen enough of the world to feel that relationship is no longer the main object in life and they just wished to live happily independently free from hassle and hussle with as little drama as possible. It is perfectly possible after 50 to be drawn into a relationship that is happy, free from hassle and drama. So was my 21 year relationship, the happiest in my life so far. One has to be agnostic. Not convinced, believer in anything, but open to all possibilities. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Truth Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 12 hours ago, fab said: 50 is the new 30. Cliché but think chuando. Unfortunately, 50 can only be the new 30 if you start taking care of your skin & body at a much earlier age, say 28yo. Haiz how I wish I had the wisdom when I was much younger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 Should already get comfortable being single after 50. It's hard for them to adjust and accommodate. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 Serious .. 50 is the new 30? You mean your dick can still function as well as you are 30? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 (edited) 39 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: It is perfectly possible after 50 to be drawn into a relationship that is happy, free from hassle and drama. So was my 21 year relationship, the happiest in my life so far. One has to be agnostic. Not convinced, believer in anything, but open to all possibilities. 21 yrs.. still going on? Edited February 18, 2019 by Garyl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Truth Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 12 minutes ago, LeanMature said: Should already get comfortable being single after 50. It's hard for them to adjust and accommodate. That's provided they have been single all this while, I've already met quite a few who are having problem adjusting to singlehood after breaking up or having their partners passed on in their early 50s. If I had a bf, I hope I will be the one to see him off, it is just so sad to be left alone in an empty house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 On 1/6/2019 at 12:20 PM, Guest Guest said: For one who has fully paid up a flat , having a job and savings ...where and how to find an equivalent Singaporean partner at 50 years old here ? Any advice Be like my friend...at the age of 37yo....already start going around "包养" people. When you have something lacking....you use what you have to fulfil what others dun have. That is life, unless you are old, rich, still charming and fit. That might be a different case, I guess things are hard to come in one whole package, when you strives to climb up the ladder, you compromise on your outward maintenance and grooming, stress pay but comes with a price. Garyl 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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