Lee Patrick David Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shy Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 2.5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marriedmly Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 wow..before marriage.. till nowand all the orgies..wow..countless Quote Tall & Mature. Bisexual & Married.Versatile & Hung. Experienced Malay.LINE ID - marriedmly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
batamsg Posted August 29, 2014 Report Share Posted August 29, 2014 2.52.5 what? Quote line : batamsg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean_sean Posted August 29, 2014 Report Share Posted August 29, 2014 Can't recall. I'm a slut :x Quote A man who stays in a cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2014 Report Share Posted August 30, 2014 Can't recall. I'm a slut :xYup! I fxxx you! plus those whom you fxxx plus those whom they fxxx.....I am a super whore! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marriedmly Posted September 25, 2014 Report Share Posted September 25, 2014 wow Quote Tall & Mature. Bisexual & Married.Versatile & Hung. Experienced Malay.LINE ID - marriedmly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funbunny Posted September 25, 2014 Report Share Posted September 25, 2014 abt 20 -30... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2014 Report Share Posted September 26, 2014 What is defined as sex partner? Do you count touching soft cock, non-contact wank together, frottage, deep oral kissing without genital contact, one way bondage til cumming, insertion without cumming, etc???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted September 27, 2014 Report Share Posted September 27, 2014 Can count with my fingers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest123 Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 just wondering, cos i see so many gays are visiting sauna, clubs, etc. frequently. so many gay in trevvy, those ''apps''...this include oral fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 How about guest123 start us off, since you are the TS? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest123 Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 How about guest123 start us off, since you are the TS? Â around 20...... i know most gays have fun with that amount of guys within one week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 around 20...... i know most gays have fun with that amount of guys within one week. That's about 3 guys a day, lmao. What, you had 1 guy with every meal of the day ar? Hahah! Quote   Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest123 Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 That's about 3 guys a day, lmao. What, you had 1 guy with every meal of the day ar? Hahah! not me lah. i mean other gays. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seedrick Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 That's about 3 guys a day, lmao. What, you had 1 guy with every meal of the day ar? Hahah! Must take after meals like medicine =p Quote If Michelangelo had been straight, the Sistine Chapel would have been wallpapered Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HendryTan Posted October 19, 2014 Report Share Posted October 19, 2014 I merge this new topic into an older similar topic cum survey. About 400+ BW members told us their answers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 20, 2014 Report Share Posted October 20, 2014 Lost counts. I hope I'm still on double digits lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 21, 2014 Report Share Posted October 21, 2014 The people who has more than 1000. Superman and wonderwoman  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curious Posted April 24, 2019 Report Share Posted April 24, 2019 I went searching for some statistics on this online, and it's pretty difficult to find anything I'd consider reliable. I've found this below which seems to write numbers generally in line with what I see written in other surveys for STRAIGHT people (<10-20 in a life), but we all know in the gay world we're probably multiplying straight people's numbers by anywhere between 10 and 100 on average.  https://www.euroclinix.net/en/vc/between-the-sheets/#/  I'm curious to know what you all here estimate for your lifetime number of sexual partners? And tell us your age too for more perspective?  To add definition let's say a sexual partner is anyone you've had penetrative sex with, or blowjobbed or handjobbed with. Touching or groping for short moments in a sauna doesn't count.  I'm 29 with ~25ish lifetime sexual partners. I think I'm probably far below average in the gay community. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guestilicious Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 I think you’re doing fine compared to me.  I’m 32 this year and i’ve only ever had one sexual partner (who is my ex from a 10 year relationship).  #onedick4life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 Since you are so curious, let me see if I can remember...  I am in my 70s, so my memory is fading rapidly and I barely remember my name ... but, let me try...  Since the 20s, I must have had a different sexual partner each week. so... ... 50 times 52...  Yes!  about 2,600 sexual partners.  I hope you like this number, and forgive me if it is slightly off...  my memory, you know.  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cruised Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 @35 I reached 50ish target than I stopped for about 10 years from cruising and than...lost interest in cruising completely due to change in Singapore landscape and also because of the number of HIV cases on the rise. Otherwise would have doubled the numbers by now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Uglyboy Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 If very minor sexual contact is included, like touching and JO, For the past three years (I actually counted), both local and overseas Gay Sauna: 15 Cruising parks/public space: 23 Masseurs/MB: 14+3 Gay apps: 6 BF: 1  Total 62. I never thought is so many, until I start counting and recalling.  If sexual partner means sexual intercourse, then only 1 - my BF.  #onesexualpartnerforlife  Uglyboy  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wonder Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 5 hours ago, Guest Guestilicious said: I think you’re doing fine compared to me.  I’m 32 this year and i’ve only ever had one sexual partner (who is my ex from a 10 year relationship).  #onedick4life  you said an ex. aren't you dating someone now?  #2dicks4life? haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auri Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 So far this year, easily over 50 partners hottub and mate69 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Winkwink Posted April 25, 2019 Report Share Posted April 25, 2019 30y.o with 11 partners Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zyjd Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 27 years old with 20 partners. I think I'm also below average haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 I used to organise my sex partners in two fantasy football clubs, one against the other. I even selected the captains. That would be like ~30. I think the number now probably 50. But who can keep track, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mmmmm Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 30yo with 20peeps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanabishi Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 (edited) . Edited September 25, 2019 by Hanabishi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiacla Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 (edited) . Edited May 23, 2020 by Fiacla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest change Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 2 hours ago, Hanabishi said: 35 now and 1 only. This is upsetting.  But you have it in your hands to change it. What keeps you up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, Guest change said: Â But you have it in your hands to change it. What keeps you up? Â He should let another gay have it in his hands, or maybe his mouth. . Edited April 26, 2019 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
West93 Posted April 26, 2019 Report Share Posted April 26, 2019 I'm bisexual. Am 26 this year. Lost my first time at 17. Was a swinger from that age till 25 last year when I retired. So overall between swinging, commercial sex, saunas and casual hookups... I genuinely lost count and never bothered counting in the first place. Not my cup of tea to keep track of notches on the bedpost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 27, 2019 Report Share Posted April 27, 2019 3 hours ago, West93 said: I'm bisexual. Am 26 this year. Lost my first time at 17. Was a swinger from that age till 25 last year when I retired. So overall between swinging, commercial sex, saunas and casual hookups... I genuinely lost count and never bothered counting in the first place. Not my cup of tea to keep track of notches on the bedpost.  In any case you surely had not always the same bedpost.  And at 25 you retired !!??  Are you now cashing in a pension with your monogamous bf? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
West93 Posted April 27, 2019 Report Share Posted April 27, 2019 4 hours ago, Steve5380 said:  In any case you surely had not always the same bedpost.  And at 25 you retired !!??  Are you now cashing in a pension with your monogamous bf? Not really. Still single. Just got sick of that particular lifestyle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest silly Posted April 27, 2019 Report Share Posted April 27, 2019 I find the counting very silly too. Maybe just keep the very good memories of some memorable events with you. I read that it might be 1000 - 2000 at a life time of a gay person. there are "statistics" for gays on that question. just need to google a bit better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lostcount Posted April 27, 2019 Report Share Posted April 27, 2019 It is difficult to keep track once you go over a certain number. Unless you note them down like what i hear some people do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethchung Posted May 27, 2019 Report Share Posted May 27, 2019 omg how do u all even do with so many people Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted May 28, 2019 Report Share Posted May 28, 2019 One and he's my first bf till now  So I've no idea how much difference other erected dicks feel like when touching or sucking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fallmerees Posted September 24, 2019 Report Share Posted September 24, 2019 On 4/26/2019 at 10:56 PM, Hanabishi said: 35 now and 1 only. This is upsetting.  Aw don’t feel bad about it. Intimacy is better than sex. Sadly not many people believe in that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted September 24, 2019 Report Share Posted September 24, 2019 8 minutes ago, fallmerees said:  Aw don’t feel bad about it. Intimacy is better than sex. Sadly not many people believe in that. What if majority of partners able to provide that intimacy, with sex? 😆 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fallmerees Posted September 24, 2019 Report Share Posted September 24, 2019 53 minutes ago, Kimochi said: What if majority of partners able to provide that intimacy, with sex? 😆  Haha Kimochi. Damn it, your name is so cheeky. Anyway if that is good for you then it shouldn't matter haha. I think intimacy can be non-mutually exclusive but also can be mutually exclusive for some. Personally I don't think intimacy should only be limited to sex or involved sex. It can, but it doesn't have to. Kimochi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted September 25, 2019 Report Share Posted September 25, 2019 Do saunas count? Like orgies during skin night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quatro Posted February 18, 2021 Report Share Posted February 18, 2021 (edited) . Edited August 3, 2021 by quatro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2021 Report Share Posted February 18, 2021 Why need to leave down so many trace of evidence? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 18, 2021 Report Share Posted February 18, 2021 8 hours ago, quatro said: Do you guys keep track of all the sex that you have? Just counting or having the name of the guys, pictures even...?  I once saw a folder on the laptop of my date with all guys he'd been with (dating, hooking ups...).  Not a bad idea. A log in form of a computer file.  The easiest is a text file indexed by date, the most recent on top. But a spreadsheet is more sophisticated, with many columns for date, time of day, quality grade, his name, age, ethnicity, height, 'size', top/bottom, etc. etc. The name of the file does not need to reveal its nature  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Time Saving Posted February 19, 2021 Report Share Posted February 19, 2021 9 hours ago, quatro said: Do you guys keep track of all the sex that you have? Just counting or having the name of the guys, pictures even...?  I once saw a folder on the laptop of my date with all guys he'd been with (dating, hooking ups...). Yes I do. Only keep the name and their mobile phone number for ease of trace and contact. Other data not crucial because some are fake and the only thing that is real is SEX. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kys0n Posted February 19, 2021 Report Share Posted February 19, 2021 (edited) I know of a person who does that. It's simply due to OCD. And I suppose it's also helpful for contact tracing if you ever get any STDs. Edited February 19, 2021 by kys0n sum1outhere_03 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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