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Hi Forum,

 

I am thinking about starting a group outing for SINGLES; if you are looking out for someone special, to make friends and widen your social circle. To make it work, I am thinking of creating different interest groups. Such as

1) Movies

2) Foodies 

3) Gym / Workout Fanatics, etc.

 

If you are keen, let's get it rolling. 


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I am a chef, we can start a supper club at someone's place and i don't mind making friends myself. i am a 41 158 95 chn hairy guy bi chub discreet & divorced.

 

the proposed 1. Movie club & 2.Foodies club, I am so keen on it

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Hey guys. Thanks for responding and for your ideas. They are very good. I think due to the lack of size of the group, as we are a new group, maybe the best way to start is to gather and have a meal together.

 

Get to know each other. Hopefully it will grow with time. We can have a game, do some sports, other interactive activities etc.

 

Since we come from different parts of Singapore, may I suggest that the first meeting place at central Clarke Quay. Central but not too crowded.

 

Date: Sunday 26 May or 2 Jun (Your Vote is required)

Time: 2pm

Location: Clarke Quay

Food Venue: TBC To be discussed on LINE.

Line Group created. PM me your LINE ID to add you in. Thanks!


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Some like potatoes, some like rice, others may like noodles or kway teow. This is not CDAC nor American Club. It's open to all who would like to widen their social network to forge possible meaningful friendships for a start. This is an inclusive group, regardless of race, language or religion, or sexual identity. Albeit mostly are singles, with an urge to merge, I strongly advise that participants be open minded and be graceful to socialise with your fellow commarades. However, it will be up to your ability to mingle, be tactful and respectful others who may be different or may not be "your type". Please don't stalk or hog on your crush. This is a group gathering, not a speed dating stinct.

 

It's up to the individual who may want to connect personally with each other privately. My advice is to keep the synegy of the group dynamics above your own personal interest during the gathering. Anti-social behaviors such as constantly talking about self, putting someone down, being overly loud (unless everyone is equally loud), should be of caution and mindful about. In a setting of strangers coming together, there bound to be introverts and extroverts. Be nice. Be considerate. Let's come together with a common purpose and identity.

 

Let's get the group going on LINE, and let the dynamics take its course. I try to moderate and take charge of situations that may arise.

 

So, in a nutshell, only nice people are welcomed. 

 

*Disclaimer:

Attending such a function is not a gurantee that you will find a soul mate. (Especially at an instant.) But as the group grows you bound to make some meaningful friends with the same vibe and interests. Extremely closetted individuals should practice caution that a group of (gay) guys hanging out together will always draw unwarranted attention. I would advice your participation when a sizable number of homophobic gays/bis could form a sub-group. At mean time, you are still welcomed to join the forum/thread.

 

Please becareful however, of spammers, marketeers, agents of any kind with a business intent, or someone who may be lurking out to cheat or cause any form of harm. Please keep me posted if you suspect any indecent activities - which does not include consensual sex between /among adults in their private arrangment. HAHAHA...

 

Have fun and be safe. ;) 

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Hey guys, please be patient as I am doing this at my free time. Will add you upon request. However due to security and safety for all participants, I am still figuring how we can authenticate genuine interested guys vs guys sent from WAAPD for instance, who have an agenda to create havoc and disrupt friendly activities for the gay community. They can actually come on a pretext of interest and stir trouble. It could also be the gay community sabotaging themselves by getting personal and feeling emo about trival things.

 

Whatever the things may be, let's get together. Cheers!

 

Please PM me if I have missed adding you.

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On 5/13/2019 at 6:17 AM, moonchild said:

im keen

 

On 5/13/2019 at 3:35 PM, Guest Tyler said:

I'm keen

 

On 5/13/2019 at 3:37 PM, Zackling said:

I am a chef, we can start a supper club at someone's place and i don't mind making friends myself. i am a 41 158 95 chn hairy guy bi chub discreet & divorced.

 

the proposed 1. Movie club & 2.Foodies club, I am so keen on it

 

On 5/13/2019 at 6:13 PM, kidster said:

HMU

 

On 5/14/2019 at 1:22 PM, Yyq90 said:

HMU TOO

 

On 5/15/2019 at 6:03 AM, jackie1981lee said:

Dun mind joining to make new friends. 

 

On 5/15/2019 at 9:06 PM, GoodMan654 said:

 

i like.

 

On 5/16/2019 at 12:03 AM, vera. said:

yos me 2

 

On 5/16/2019 at 2:38 PM, Dan 28 said:

Movies 

Food ( Buffet / HK food / etc)

 

Hi All, please PM me your LINE ID if you are not in the group yet. Cheers!


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On 5/17/2019 at 11:54 PM, Task-changer05 said:

I have yet to received any line invites for group.

 

Added. Right?


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Hi All.

 

Here is a (introductory) video of myself (singing) and promoting what this group is about.

 

It is about a group of (single) guys who is interested in widening their social network. To create opportunities for them to know more singles out there.

 

Many of the gay apps today only help instant gratification rather than real people with a longer term needs.

 

I hope we can generate sufficient interest from the community to help guys get hitched. See you on LINE.

 

 

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On 5/16/2019 at 12:12 AM, Guest Blank said:

i'm attached already, not so nice to join right?

 

For those who are already attached. We can form another sub-group. Cheers! 

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22 minutes ago, GoodMan654 said:

u sing so well.

 

Thanks. But not really.

21 minutes ago, onlylonely said:

Im keen. How to sign up?

 

What’s your Line ID?


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Please note that future guys who would like to join the group for meeting up would require to go through a 2-step verification.

 

A video authentication and a facepic to allow group members to identify you.

 

If you are not ready for that, then I suggest you can remain here in BW. I can’t help people who don’t wanna help themselves.

 

For certain, I am not going to entertain secrecy individuals just to kapoh and see who is in the group without showing who they are.

 

If you are not comfortable to even do a simple video chat, my doubts are high that you would be comfortable to meet other guys in person when the outing is established.

 

By the way, it takes extra time and energy to provide a free friendship and dating service for the community. Don’t pull a fast one and try to create havoc.

 

Cheers!


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6 hours ago, tjan_troy said:

Please note that future guys who would like to join the group for meeting up would require to go through a 2-step verification.

 

A video authentication and a facepic to allow group members to identify you.

 

If you are not ready for that, then I suggest you can remain here in BW. I can’t help people who don’t wanna help themselves.

 

For certain, I am not going to entertain secrecy individuals just to kapoh and see who is in the group without showing who they are.

 

If you are not comfortable to even do a simple video chat, my doubts are high that you would be comfortable to meet other guys in person when the outing is established.

 

By the way, it takes extra time and energy to provide a free friendship and dating service for the community. Don’t pull a fast one and try to create havoc.

 

Cheers!

 

Do they PM you their video or they have to post it here on the forum? I would suggest PM and you can share it within your Line group chat. Some people even if they are out, aren’t so comfortable/extrovert with a public video of themselves.

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11 hours ago, kratos said:

 

Do they PM you their video or they have to post it here on the forum? I would suggest PM and you can share it within your Line group chat. Some people even if they are out, aren’t so comfortable/extrovert with a public video of themselves.

 

They PM me the video, or do a face to face chat on LINE. A recent photo of themselves be posted in notes with a brief introduction of themselves, (if their LINE profile does not show their face.) They are free to express themselves. Those who don't, would be added to the non-verified group who prefers to be anonymous. They can contact each other among themselves too.

 

2 different groups to cater to 2 different mentality of folks. Of course, there are those who are just selfish and curious, who just wanna see who's in it without showing who they are will eventually leave, because they can see no one except those as anonymous as they are.

 

If you want a relationship. Learn the following:

 

- be considerate

- be sociable

- don't be too high strung

- don't bomb the chat group with your post (which leads to the next)

- don't be desperate

- have a picture

- verify yourself and be sincere about it

- it is not all about you

- don't make it the fault of someone else just because you aren't able to co-exist with someone else

- learn to live and let live

- be constructive

- just because it doesn't serve your purpose, it does not give you the licence to be destructive

- put the interest of others before yourself

- I don't know if it is a good idea to meet guys with plastic bags over their heads, so I would strongly suggest that you have a recent photo that reflects your true state, and authenticate that the picture is you through a video chat / or a video introduction sent to the admin(s). Since the group is small, I take on this responsibility, in future as the group grows, I will sub-out this role to someone who is mature and non-bias.

 

If you can't do simple things listed above, I doubt you are ready to meet other guys. I doubt you are ready to enter a relationship. Because in a relationship, it's not all about you. It's about making small compromises and suit everyone in it.

 

Cheers!

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Hi guys. Thanks for your pm and participation.

 

Currently we have 14 guys on board. We have Chinese and Malay, guys in 20s and guys almost or over 50s.

 

I had a conversation with a friend yesterday and kinda agree and concluded that this group is really important to reach out to those who are seniors and lonely without a support group.

 

The young guys have it easy. Date opportunities aren’t lacking. I would like to sincerely reach out to the older guys here who see the importance of support and friendship as one ages, and those of a minority race.

 

We are here to make friends and mingle, getting hitched is not the main concern. But if you find someone who clicks and become your special someone, than by all means.

 

Different people have different needs. But friends are hard to come by. I hope to create a platform whereby there’s mutual respect, consideration and trust established. Unexpected friendships, having a good time doing things together, baking, cooking, dining, outing, and sports.

 

Cheers!


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3 hours ago, auscent said:

This is one of the most inspiring threads in BW! Frenship circles are the pillar to any community!

 

Thank you! Are you in it?? ;)


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We are meeting!

 

Date: 29 May 2019

Time: 7-10pm

Place: Along Orchard Road

Purpose: Make new friends (who are single) and mingle

 

Let me know if you wanna participate.


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17 hours ago, Guest Tantrumboy said:

Can I join!

 

What is your Line ID? This group is open to friendly guys who would show their face and verify their identity before turning up.


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18 minutes ago, kratos said:

Is this for dating and singles only?

 

For singles only at this point in time. Dating happens among themselves after meeting up. I only create opportunities for (single) people to meet.


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