My colleague look at my dick

[Guest curious]

2 hours ago, BusinessBi said:

My boss who just got married also like to flirt with me at times. He say now he has the urge to touch guys especially me, maybe he is sick with his wife and change of sex interest. 

 

Then there times we joke around with poking my back side, he will say remember to pull down my pants and wait for him. 

 

40 minutes ago, spurt said:

Whenever my boss calls me over to his desk, he will be speaking to me while I stand beside him, crotch at his eye level. Every time I can see him resisting, but end up staring at my crotch, and struggling hard to look away. 

 

......and that is why we have 200,000 men having sex with men in SG. 

[Dan L]

On 6/1/2019 at 9:38 PM, Guest Try and see said:

You can tell him, "Eh, you saw mine already. Now you must show me yours. Fair, what? Correct?"

 

Say it in a half-joking way and see his reaction

Good idea 

[Ben Ben Ben]

6 hours ago, Dan L said:

Good idea 

I am more attracted to your kkj

[No Frills Factory Outlet]

Omg

[Guest Then]

On 6/9/2019 at 9:03 AM, spurt said:

Whenever my boss calls me over to his desk, he will be speaking to me while I stand beside him, crotch at his eye level. Every time I can see him resisting, but end up staring at my crotch, and struggling hard to look away. 

 

I don't know about your case.  I notice that some of the guys I know are like that.  But from my long time interactions with them, my feel is that they are straight.

Unless he makes an effort to put you in that position to stare at you, and do it over and over again, I would not think the person has any inclinations.  

Just that sometimes, people are like that.  Like in the army, we stare at each other to check him out but in the end, nothing.  That's my thoughts. 

[Ben Ben Ben]

1 hour ago, Guest Then said:

 

I don't know about your case.  I notice that some of the guys I know are like that.  But from my long time interactions with them, my feel is that they are straight.

Unless he makes an effort to put you in that position to stare at you, and do it over and over again, I would not think the person has any inclinations.  

Just that sometimes, people are like that.  Like in the army, we stare at each other to check him out but in the end, nothing.  That's my thoughts. 

True. Just like you are checking whether the guys noses are sharp or flat, nostrils big or small etc. But you don’t really want to touch their noses or poke your fingers into their nostrils to dig. In short, don’t think so much! 

[Guest Then]

2 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

True. Just like you are checking whether the guys noses are sharp or flat, nostrils big or small etc. But you don’t really want to touch their noses or poke your fingers into their nostrils to dig. In short, don’t think so much! 

 

Actually, I think gay/bi think too much into whether a guy is straight or not.  I've known people whom I can confirm 100% straight fooled around with other guys just for the fun of it (not sex).  It's because gay think about sex, that's why I guess they project that onto other people.

I use this car workshop last time and I know them well.  To cut the long story short, I was there once to pick up the car.  One of them got a new phone and he fool around taking photo of the other guy when he was washing up.  That guy came running out chasing him for the phone.  He was naked but he grab the other guy and force him to delete the photo.  After that, he humped him from behind and went back to bath.  He got a big erection doing this. But 100% not gay lah.  

[Guest Guest]

4 hours ago, Guest Then said:

 

Actually, I think gay/bi think too much into whether a guy is straight or not.  I've known people whom I can confirm 100% straight fooled around with other guys just for the fun of it (not sex).  It's because gay think about sex, that's why I guess they project that onto other people.

I use this car workshop last time and I know them well.  To cut the long story short, I was there once to pick up the car.  One of them got a new phone and he fool around taking photo of the other guy when he was washing up.  That guy came running out chasing him for the phone.  He was naked but he grab the other guy and force him to delete the photo.  After that, he humped him from behind and went back to bath.  He got a big erection doing this. But 100% not gay lah.  

I totally agree.

First case: I have an ex colleague ,he is kind of naughty, open minded, playful man. His wife was out station and few of us went to his place for a drinking session. All didn't stay late because of wives at home leaving me continue at his place. We went into some dirty topic later on and I started to flirt we him. He dare me to suck his cock and I did. He did fxxk me on his sofa but after nearly an hour he stop because he somehow can't cum. He told me he prefer a pussy...haha! 

Second case: During my BMT, 1 of my bunk mate always wear only undie in bunk. 1 nite a few of us sat together on his bed and the bed next to his talking cock. We talk dirty about girls and geylang. While he was just in undie lying on his bed, I went naughty touching his thigh trying to make him horny. Everyone laugh. My hand went to his cock area and massage him. He said CB touch must pay ok! I thought he will go hard but he did not, he stay soft throughout . 

Just like what you said, some straights just like fool with other guys. To me they are just being playful and naughty. 

[Ben Ben Ben]

Just like gays bitch around with aunties, female colleagues, sisters, etc. Straight guys flirt with gays! Sometimes people flirt to prove that they still have market values! Enjoy while you can flirt!

[Guest Haha]

9 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

Some of u really have interesting and fun colleagues, though I still find it hard to believe

In life u din met 1 n tat dun mean no such ting. Wait till u come across 1......

[FattChoy]

1 hour ago, Guest Haha said:

In life u din met 1 n tat dun mean no such ting. Wait till u come across 1......

 

When I was in Beijing, our manager hired an Anhui engineer.  He's married stocky father of 1, same age as me, ie late 30s about 1.68m and 75~80kg, goatee and bespectacled.  Since he worked in a German company before,  he spoke English with a Chinese-German accent.  I got a crush on him but me being his superior,  I've always behaved.  But we were close as in friendly and social.  But us being guys, he has always had horseplays with me.   

 

I think it started when a hkg buddy left Beijing and passed to me a suitcase full of Dvds , most of them R rated European movies which involved art and nudity.  As I had no time to watch those, i tend to ask my friends if they'd like to watch foreign dvds.  One day I randomly grabbed a handful to pass to this colleague, whom I asked beforehand. 

 

After a few weeks, he told me he was very enlightened cos the movies were very interesting and sexual in content.  Apparently among that bunch of dvds was an 80s movie called Spetters.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spetters  I've never watched it before him,  so he told me about that scene where 3 guys were comparing their dicks, of which I immediately took back the dvd to check it out.  He also told me that there was a pair of British produced BBC-like educational Dvds which basically taught couples how to have sex enjoyably.  

 

He confided  that when he got married in his early 20s, he was clueless about sex and those dvds would have been very helpful.  He also mentioned that he have some close guy friends whom he can have intimate chats about how he have sex (with his wife) and how long he would last.

 

Because we were buddy buddy friendly one day when I was at the urinal, he took at peek at me pissing.  Then there were the horseplays where he would do a walkpass-and-grab at my crotch when walked by.  In shock all I can do was grabbed back at his ass.  I think this happened only twice and very far in between.

 

There was one time he brought up who have the bigger bird, and since he was shorter, I told him he would lose.  One day, the opportunity came when out of the blue, the manager arranged a football match against another company.   It was raining and I wasn't too happy to be out on the pitch.  I was surprised when after the match, they arrange for the players to go wash up in a bathhouse nearby.  I think the guys at my firm were shy as only 2 of us as opposed to everyone at the other team went (the other team was a fengshui consultancy - would you believe that, and their fee was astronomical).  It was nothing fancy, just a quick shower and maybe some quick steam bath.  But since Chinese bathhouses were all nude, I finally had the chance to look at my colleague's dick,  months after he caught a glimpse of mine.  So I walked up to his shower from behind and said , "So, we can finally see who is bigger"

 

No surprise,  his was shorter than mine and his foreskin only covered half of his head. He tried to turn away laughing a few times but there's no where to hide.  After like 5 to 10 secs of taunting I walked away victorious.  Not willing to lose, he then claimed it's useless to compare soft dicks and said he knew how to use it better and that's what counts.   And that's that.

 

From then on there's still horseplay after that episode, but nothing more sexual than brotherly.  There was one night though that I was putting in overtime to prepare a presentation and had a tough time getting the right translations.   That night he was there to do his own OT and he helped me translate everything and I thanked him.   And he said, "since I helped you, you must help me back."  To which I replied to him, "Sure, anything you want.  Anything.  Ask and I will give it to you".     Since no one was in the office except us, heck I would go down on him if he asked.  But he didn't ask for anything, and that was it.  I think we worked together for like 6 to 7 years and I always find it special to connect with someone exactly my age.  And he's totally my type too.

Edited June 10, 2019 by FattChoy

[Guest Then]

I also know some chinese man.  Married but not 100% straight.  So I ask one of them why they get married, is it pressure from family.  He said that from teenage, he knows what turns him on more, ie guys.  He marries because it's the right thing to do.  No pressure and he's totally fine with it.  He enjoys his family life.  I ask if he can marry a man, would he.  He says depends but unlikely.  He wants a family life and he wants his own children from his wife.  But I think many gay man think it's social pressure, but never thought it's possible that people wants it that way.

 

Anyway, today, he let me touch his one.  Semi-hard.   

[horchew]

On 6/1/2019 at 3:41 PM, Guest Then said:

In my office, sometimes we joke about sex and once, we talk about size.  As guys, we usually boast about having a big one and that's what I did.  I forgot about it as it was just some rubbish talk.  Recently, I walked into the toilet and saw my colleague washing his hands at the basin.  I went to the urinal and as I just started, he came as looked at my one.  He said he wanted to see if I really got a big one.  And he look at me until I finished my business.  I got a hard on after I finished my business.  

I would've told him,  "If you want to see my big one put it in ur mouth! Feel it grow in ur mouth" 

Lol 

[Ben Ben Ben]

Sorry to say. Seems like gays are bitchier than straight guys! Above few cases clearly show that! Straight guys tend to flirt with chio bu and feel nothing with guys! 

[Guest curious]

2 hours ago, FattChoy said:

Because we were buddy buddy friendly one day when I was at the urinal, he took at peek at me pissing.  Then there were the horseplays where he would do a walkpass-and-grab at my crotch when walked by.  In shock all I can do was grabbed back at his ass.  I think this happened only twice and very far in between.

The horseplay, grabbing of crotch (he grab me I grab his) was quite common during my army and uni. 

[Ben Ben Ben]

16 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

as a matured guy, usu we dont

many state that boys learn how to socialise from their daddies, hence participating in some events are important for the boys to learn
a matured men will hardly play around like a kid , at least not in an office setting once started working

You will play around if you are aroused by the cute colleagues

 

btw, I think that some singaporean boys are cute and playable 

[Ben Ben Ben]

11 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

oh ok, maybe not young anymore, no1 will "play" along with me

Great you found the root cause 

[Guest guest]

15 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

You will play around if you are aroused by the cute colleagues

 

Tis is quite true. 

[Guest Then]

3 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

as a matured guy, usu we dont

 

I have seen old people do silly things, just like the young.  But usually not in front of the younger people.  As for horseplay, my feel is that it's not that old people don't do it, but older people just grow out of it or lose interest in the things they do when they were younger.

There are old people who just discovered fun with the same sex only when they grow older and start this "young habit".  

I don't know, I just guess we keep an open mind and accept whatever comes long. 

[Guest Guest 2]

On 6/2/2019 at 8:53 PM, Guest disclosed yourself said:

 

 

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Please report to HR immediately! This is sexual harressment! Stand your ground. Please know that we are here for you! We stand by you!

 

#WeAreHereForYou #StandUnited #WorkSafeEnvironment #TimesUp #MeToo #WeShallOvercome #IAmHereForYou #YouAreNotAlone #IAmHereWithYou 

 

Lol

[Guest Try and see]

On 6/7/2019 at 9:48 AM, Guest Then said:

 

no lah. Just take it as it comes.  

He told me he was straight all the way.  Just a few days back before the toilet incident, we were in a very crowded lift and I was standing in front of him.  He said I was pressing my body against him, though I wasn't aware of it, he said this gave him a hard on.  That's when he started to have thoughts and got curious.

 

Actually, for guys, when another guy stands very closely in front of you, in whatever situation, you will get hard due to the proximity of another body being very close to your cock.  

 

It works even for straight guys. It's a physiological reaction, regardless of the guy's sexual orientation.

 

So in the picture below, even if the guy behind is straight, he will also get hard because another guy's bum is so close to his cock that it arouses him   

 

[Guest Then]

17 hours ago, Guest Try and see said:

 

Actually, for guys, when another guy stands very closely in front of you, in whatever situation, you will get hard due to the proximity of another body being very close to your cock.  

 

It works even for straight guys. It's a physiological reaction, regardless of the guy's sexual orientation.

 

So in the picture below, even if the guy behind is straight, he will also get hard because another guy's bum is so close to his cock that it arouses him   

 

 

Don't think applies to everyone.  Like one of the post here, the straight guy tries to f another guy but can't get an erection.

That's why lor.  I think we tend to project our thinking onto others.  That's why we end up researches claiming that everybody is a little gay or people claiming that a straight person must be bi in order to have a little fun with another guy.  Or that a gay person who marries to a woman marries against his will or to fulfill his family duty or for convenience.  I think anything is possible.  Of course, sometimes, what we project may be true after all, but we won't know.  Just a hunch.  

 

Nothing much happen so far with him except touch touch which I enjoyed.  I think both of us are afraid that we take things too far and cannot turn back... is it ?? hello ?

[BusinessBi]

On 6/10/2019 at 8:51 PM, -Ignored- said:

Some of u really have interesting and fun colleagues, though I still find it hard to believe

Up to you to believe but my boss will tease me once a while. When I ask him what you want when he come to my table then he will say "I want you".

[auri]

On 6/11/2019 at 8:58 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Actually, for guys, when another guy stands very closely in front of you, in whatever situation, you will get hard due to the proximity of another body being very close to your cock.  

 

It works even for straight guys. It's a physiological reaction, regardless of the guy's sexual orientation.

 

So in the picture below, even if the guy behind is straight, he will also get hard because another guy's bum is so close to his cock that it arouses him   

 

Ha ha... no way

If a woman is that close to me, I will probably shrink, ha ha

[Guest Cool]

On 6/11/2019 at 6:58 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Actually, for guys, when another guy stands very closely in front of you, in whatever situation, you will get hard due to the proximity of another body being very close to your cock.  

 

It works even for straight guys. It's a physiological reaction, regardless of the guy's sexual orientation.

 

Yessssssss..... Very true! 

On 6/11/2019 at 6:58 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

[tomcat]

Actually, these type of scenario is very easy - works best on people you already know and midway between joking and flirting. For once, let your eyes do the talking!

 

Once in a while, when just you and him, during casual conversation or topic, let your eyes linger on him for just a few seconds more.  

 

Don't make it too long, cos that's just creepy, but stealing glances is playful and fun. I usually like to do this in short random glances, and look at my fave parts, like his lips, eyebrows, nose etc. I mean, it's not a hard task because If you already like him, you probably already like looking at his face. 

Eventually, he will catch on, but you should just deny it playfully. That will still leave enough impression that he is someone that has caught your attention. You can gauge whether he is flattered by this or not. Other small gestures here and there, like smiles or friendly words also strengthen this. 

 

If possible, try to have that same scenario again in the toilet, and this time just glance down at his dick. No need shy or what, you guys are past that. Match his own energy, that first time he looked at yours. 

 

And no need to be slutty, lick lips, all this. You want to hook him, not make him vomit. Plus, we are not predators, but two adults coming together, curious to explore more. 

 

Just look down at his dick, and nonchalantly nod, "Hmm, not bad - looks good", then look. Away. Completely. 

 

That is the best opening (pun unintended) you are giving him because the next thing he will say, will be along the lines of:

"Haha - what? looks good? Looks good for what?" 

Here is where it is a more delicate gauge of him and match of your own character. I would usually shrug, and let it drag on. I really do love the hunt more than the catch, and that will drive him nuts, which just makes it more fun.

 

But some more honest and forthcoming (cough:desperate) guys, can try to say something more inviting.

 

"Good enough to makan lah, what else. haha"

 

Once you are there, and he responds positively, it's still nice to prolong the courtship. In fact, the wooing has reached a new level, now both is on even field - and there is a stronger push and pull factor.

 

There is more, but I don't think I should give all my tips, walao. All I can say is that, if he is really curious or interested, at this point, he seriously considering going ahead with trying something or losing the chance completely.

 

That means, he is properly engaged. So you just need to keep up being your charming self, and soon he will bring up the topic again. 

 

 

[Guest Then]

On 6/18/2019 at 4:14 PM, tomcat said:

Actually, these type of scenario is very easy - works best on people you already know and midway between joking and flirting. For once, let your eyes do the talking!

......

 

 

A friend told me, last time when it first started to have smartwatch that can measure heart rate, he got one and his colleague, a girl, played with his watch.  She asked him, how come last night, the heart rate race so high in the middle of the night.  He said because he was playing with himself.  He asked her to try.  That's was his way to get the girl to bed. So easy... but of course, this guy very handsome, got good body and a big one.  ha ha... 

[Guest Guest]

https://comicbook.com/wwe/2019/06/12/john-cena-admits-accidental-boner-wrestling-wwe-watch-what-happens-live/

 

Your statement could potentially be true. HAHAHAHA

On 6/11/2019 at 6:58 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Actually, for guys, when another guy stands very closely in front of you, in whatever situation, you will get hard due to the proximity of another body being very close to your cock.  

 

It works even for straight guys. It's a physiological reaction, regardless of the guy's sexual orientation.

 

So in the picture below, even if the guy behind is straight, he will also get hard because another guy's bum is so close to his cock that it arouses him   

 

 

[fab]

On 6/11/2019 at 6:58 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Actually, for guys, when another guy stands very closely in front of you, in whatever situation, you will get hard due to the proximity of another body being very close to your cock.  

 

It works even for straight guys. It's a physiological reaction, regardless of the guy's sexual orientation.

 

So in the picture below, even if the guy behind is straight, he will also get hard because another guy's bum is so close to his cock that it arouses him   

 

 

Only if the guy in front is his type.

 

Imagine someone smelly n not your type standing in front of you.

[Ben Ben Ben]

18 hours ago, Guest Then said:

 

A friend told me, last time when it first started to have smartwatch that can measure heart rate, he got one and his colleague, a girl, played with his watch.  She asked him, how come last night, the heart rate race so high in the middle of the night.  He said because he was playing with himself.  He asked her to try.  That's was his way to get the girl to bed. So easy... but of course, this guy very handsome, got good body and a big one.  ha ha... 

Curious to know how you know he got a big one? 

[discreet18]

Think is very normal among straight guy to check about other guys dick if they are very close. Out of the curiousity, not really means they are interested to have fun. I have the same experience as well.

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, discreet18 said:

Think is very normal among straight guy to check about other guys dick if they are very close. Out of the curiousity, not really means they are interested to have fun. I have the same experience as well.

Yes agree. Every men curious abt sizes of other men. I saw str8 men in sauna looking at others too. 

[discreet18]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

Yes agree. Every men curious abt sizes of other men. I saw str8 men in sauna looking at others too. 

Yes. Either is curious abt the size or shape. Especially cut and uncut might looks different

[discreet18]

27 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

i guess (straight men) ok to take a quick look but NOT stare as if it is  a fat fruit or a new species since sauna

 

Yes. Unless the shape or the size look very different from others then they (str8 guy)might ask more

[Guest Then]

On 6/21/2019 at 9:41 AM, Ben Ben Ben said:

Curious to know how you know he got a big one? 

 

His bulge is big enough to see even clothed.  Other people also made fun of him.  I think he's pretty proud of his size and very willing to let people have a look. 

[Damian Lee]

When I was doing my internship, there were 2 men in my department that loves to grab the crotches of other male colleagues. Both were married, manly straight guys, one Malay and the other Chinese. The Chinese uncle even done times refuse to let go & feel you up. I remember some of the other male staff complaining (but it was never lodged as sexual harassment) but since both these men were in charge of their department, it wasn't taken seriously and considered horse play. 

 

I kept in touch with both of them (and many others from my internship) but especially the Chinese uncle because he was so easy to get along with. Once I had the chance to attend a conference and had an extra bed in my room. Since he was going to the same conference, I invited him to stay with me. I remember he told me he had no problems being naked in front of other guys. So when it was time to shower, he went in first but he didn't close the shower door. I stripped naked and went in to wait for him to finish. When he came out, also totally naked, he seemed nonplussed about it. But that's as far as if went as he's this very straight acting, manly guy and I didn't want to make it weird for us. 

[Ben Ben Ben]

Sometimes bosses used sex or flirt to motivate their staff. Some flirting spices up the working life. Don’t think so much 

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/19/2019 at 7:56 AM, Damian Lee said:

When I was doing my internship, there were 2 men in my department that loves to grab the crotches of other male colleagues. Both were married, manly straight guys, one Malay and the other Chinese. The Chinese uncle even done times refuse to let go & feel you up. I remember some of the other male staff complaining (but it was never lodged as sexual harassment) but since both these men were in charge of their department, it wasn't taken seriously and considered horse play. 

 

Wah! I would love to intern/work in this department!!  

[fab]

Married doesn't mean straight. 

 

I know a few.

[Guest Blank]

I've seen my ex colleague dick before. 

 

Small, ugly and bushy. 

 

I rather not see to be very honest. 

 

By accident of seeing it, and he's not even handsome or cute

[Guest Guest]

8 hours ago, fab said:

Married doesn't mean straight. 

 

I know a few.

Haha.... I noe a few too. 

 

 

5 hours ago, Guest Blank said:

I've seen my ex colleague dick before. 

 

Small, ugly and bushy. 

 

I rather not see to be very honest. 

 

By accident of seeing it, and he's not even handsome or cute

Uniquely Singaporean men's dick.