Guest Happy Posted August 23, 2019 Report Share Posted August 23, 2019 How to be happy always even the sky falls down. Want to be happy like when I was a kid. To be cheerful and socialable. Now all i wanted is to avoid ppl n isolate myself to some extent. The exception is I think when I need sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted August 23, 2019 Report Share Posted August 23, 2019 Get a boyfriend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Euclid Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 Chat with the right people here on any topics that you are comfortable with. When you feel comfortable with somebody, go for coffee. Need the right chemistry, so don't rush. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest antisocial Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 I migrated to a high cost of country just like Singapore where money is more important than anything else so I see people with or without money are unhappy as the country is getting more expensive, outrageously so since the mid/late 2000s resources/China boom and decreasing living standards due to perpetuates inefficiency in the country. Because of too many unhappy people, I tend to avoid and isolate myself completely from outside world as in reclusive life. This lifestyle makes me happy the most to avoid the negative energy outside. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 2 hours ago, Guest Happy said: How to be happy always even the sky falls down. Want to be happy like when I was a kid. To be cheerful and socialable. Now all i wanted is to avoid ppl n isolate myself to some extent. The exception is I think when I need sex. Kids are happy because they had little and simple desires, just an ice-cream or chocolate would make them happy for the day. Kids dont isolate themselves, they got lots of playmates and they make friend easily without any motives. Kids had little or no worries, happy go lucky, time to play, they play and time to eat, they eat and time to sleep, they sleep. So if your lifestyle can adjust to that level, yes u can be happy like kids robin 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodMan654 Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 find someone both love each other. make more friends. do charity work. it should easy to make you happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sam8899 Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 I wish there are simple answers to this. They say, having good friends is very important, but somehow I cannot seem to manage to keep my closest ones (migration/death) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henryt1 Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 8 hours ago, Guest Happy said: How to be happy always even the sky falls down. Want to be happy like when I was a kid. To be cheerful and socialable. Now all i wanted is to avoid ppl n isolate myself to some extent. The exception is I think when I need sex. Be contented, dun expect too much, have good frens, b ard positive energy, help others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 8 hours ago, Guest Happy said: How to be happy always even the sky falls down. Want to be happy like when I was a kid. To be cheerful and socialable. Now all i wanted is to avoid ppl n isolate myself to some extent. The exception is I think when I need sex. Write down what you like and dislike. Hobbies and passions. Values you treasure. Exercise more because it releases the feel good chemical like sex. Get enough proper rest . ToughGuy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 23 hours ago, Guest Fatty said: Get a boyfriend Wrong. If you are stuck with the worst kind of bf/partner/spouse as I am, you WILL BE SCARRED for life and TRAUMATISED. Learn to be alone and be happy being so. It's a life skill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 Watch this video （click here）. You will sure be happy! Only Singaporeans can understand. Also, please laugh out loud! Do not suppress laughter, otherwise, you "tio laii xiiong" (中内伤). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 21 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Kids are happy because they had little and simple desires, just an ice-cream or chocolate would make them happy for the day. Kids dont isolate themselves, they got lots of playmates and they make friend easily without any motives. Kids had little or no worries, happy go lucky, time to play, they play and time to eat, they eat and time to sleep, they sleep. So if your lifestyle can adjust to that level, yes u can be happy like kids my 8 yr niece who also such a wonderful mindset. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 19 hours ago, sam8899 said: I wish there are simple answers to this. They say, having good friends is very important, but somehow I cannot seem to manage to keep my closest ones (migration/death) U must learn to do replacement a new one. i offer to be the one for you. strictly with mutual respect is my term and condition. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 42 minutes ago, mate69 said: Wrong. If you are stuck with the worst kind of bf/partner/spouse as I am, you WILL BE SCARRED for life and TRAUMATISED. Learn to be alone and be happy being so. It's a life skill. aiyo....cannot one burn twice shy lah...give other a chance to have you mah. dun be scarred n traumatize in life...as the old saying quote, the more practice then the more perfect lor. alone can be happy too life skill mean to be share around but not keep to yourself. i do believe you were able to identify the worst kind of people thru your previous experience unless you got blind eye to gaydar it. Dun discard the apple tree vineyard because of one rotten apple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted August 24, 2019 Report Share Posted August 24, 2019 Single is still the best. Period. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted August 25, 2019 Report Share Posted August 25, 2019 No one will be able to make u happy or give u happiness apart from you yourself. Always remember this life lesson. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted August 25, 2019 Report Share Posted August 25, 2019 On 8/23/2019 at 8:32 PM, Guest antisocial said: I migrated to a high cost of country just like Singapore where money is more important than anything else so I see people with or without money are unhappy as the country is getting more expensive, outrageously so since the mid/late 2000s resources/China boom and decreasing living standards due to perpetuates inefficiency in the country. Because of too many unhappy people, I tend to avoid and isolate myself completely from outside world as in reclusive life. This lifestyle makes me happy the most to avoid the negative energy outside. Since you migrated into Singapore but now you have to isolate yourself completely from outside world, can you now migrate out of Singapore and into a country where people are more happy and cost of living is lower? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sam8899 Posted August 25, 2019 Report Share Posted August 25, 2019 2 hours ago, Diamond said: U must learn to do replacement a new one. i offer to be the one for you. strictly with mutual respect is my term and condition. yes, i must try harder. it is not as easy as when you are 20 years old and single. i guess too easy to be stuck in my own comfort zone (partner, extended family) rather than go and pursue friendships. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted August 25, 2019 Report Share Posted August 25, 2019 Just now, sam8899 said: yes, i must try harder. it is not as easy as when you are 20 years old and single. i guess too easy to be stuck in my own comfort zone (partner, extended family) rather than go and pursue friendships. stuck to one's own comfort zone is best. No need to put up with partner's/spouse's/bf's rubbish/shit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 25, 2019 Report Share Posted August 25, 2019 10 hours ago, mate69 said: No one will be able to make u happy or give u happiness apart from you yourself. Always remember this life lesson. try me...not 100% but at least i try Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Meaty Posted October 2, 2021 Report Share Posted October 2, 2021 On 8/24/2019 at 7:52 AM, Guest Fatty said: Get a boyfriend Yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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