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2 hours ago, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

 

I also prefer 1000 times more to have sex than to read vedas  :)

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5 hours ago, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

Hello, you have straight friends? Count how frequently they talk about sex. If you don't join in, they'll think you're gay LOL.

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3 minutes ago, Guest Slut executive said:

Hello, you have straight friends? Count how frequently they talk about sex. If you don't join in, they'll think you're gay LOL.

 

Well let them think what they want. I'll let them do the guess work lol.

 

1 hour ago, auscent said:

Gay social acceptance is relatively limited. With lesser mainstream social infrastructures to support holistic gay identity, sex has greater focus. Frustrated as it is, you just have to put greater effort to develop ur identity beyond sex.

 

Ignoring the calling to have sex and questioning oneself regularly seems to have done wonders for my self indentity lol.

Speaking loudly, suffers softly. Smiles so wide, cuts unseen inside.

Bitin' the bullet, but never kick the bucket.

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6 hours ago, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

Men are just men...men both heterosexual and homosexual thinks about sex all the time, prove is there are now about 13 billion people on earth and they are all created by horny heterosexual men ;).  If you ever have close heterosexual men friends who are comfortable with gays or otherwise, many will joke and talk about sex all the time with you too, but if they know you are gay and not close to you, of course they will not talk or joke about sex with you, simply because gay sex just don't interest time ;)

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Homosexual  think about sex all the time because they have limited assess to sex and were often being questioned in the Straight world.  Heterosexual don't just think, they went into action with women all lined up for free or paid fuck, and seems pretty acceptable and a norm in this society.

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men are horny period. get two or men together and those urges snowball, fed by the sheer ease and convenience of hookup platforms. 

 

Casual sex is also a coping mechanism to prevent one from feeling lonely and unwanted. There's something cathartic about being vulnerably intimate in a society that still isn't fully ready to accept us.

hello! i've left the site a long while back as i'm in a monogamous relationship.

 

thank you for contributing to this thread, and let's keep motivating one another 💪

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On 12/6/2019 at 10:05 AM, Guest Strawberry vs Bananas said:

Homosexual  think about sex all the time because they have limited assess to sex and were often being questioned in the Straight world.  Heterosexual don't just think, they went into action with women all lined up for free or paid fuck, and seems pretty acceptable and a norm in this society.

This sounds like gays are the bad guys while straight guys angels. 

It seems you didn't need to go to army or don't have any straight friends. 

In my experience straight guys talk 99% of their time while being with straight friends about sex and girls, even if they are already married. Actually I find it more difficult for a straight guy to fuck a girl if you're not in a relationship. Isn't it much easier for a gay to play with another guy than for straights?

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4 hours ago, Guest pretty said:

. Actually I find it more difficult for a straight guy to fuck a girl if you're not in a relationship. Isn't it much easier for a gay to play with another guy than for straights?

Wrong!   Singapore red light districts are built for the straight guy to get paid fuck. Straight foreign workers can go to Orchard Plaza, Paya Lebar Square to look for free pinoy fuck.  There are no lacks of avenue for straight guy to hunt for sex regardless of your status - blue or white collar.   What about gay?  I saw all uncles standing inside the toilets and frightened the straight people. 

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Not all straight guys frequent prostitutes. 

You know nothing about those Filipina "girlfriends". Meet some Bangla boys and they tell you about them. It's not the fault of the Filipina girls if the Bangla boys are so stupid to "invest" their few savings for a fuck.

I saw plenty local guys at the bars at Orchard before, not only Foreigners frequent them.

What you say about local boys to date girls might be right, but how many local girls will allow the straight guys to entertain into sex after first meet in a club or elsewhere. And where to go to have fun? 

 

Now your nonsense about toilet cruising. What did you want to say?

 

Gays of all ages  meet near to everywhere, malls, park toilets, in the "worst" case they enter a sauna and go into a room n shag it out... Did you really try to say gay guys are disadvantaged compared to straight guys in finding fun in Singapore? I think two gays are more willing to have sex on first sight then a usual gay guy who met a girl. If she's a Singaporean, oh damn, probably the poor fellow needs to show all his pay slips for the past 5 years to her, before she even allows him a first kiss. 

I think you know nothing about srtaight guys life in Singapore...

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On 12/6/2019 at 3:56 AM, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

 

Keeping religiousness aside for a while. 70% of the population here is Chinese and 20% Malay. Just that alone and you are expecting anyone to read "vedas" with you? 🤦‍♂️

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On 12/6/2019 at 3:56 AM, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

 

Well, what do you expect? We are not monks.

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On 12/6/2019 at 11:14 PM, shaunrobot said:

I don't think of sex all the time... I have a low sex drive. 

 

 

Good on yer mate. 

 

Less laundry to wash, less clean up, 

 

No sticky key pads, no slimy floors. 

 

No expenditure on ' entertainment expenses'.

 

 

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I've been looking for true love but all men/gay i met only thinking about fun and have sex with me even at first meeting and will not follow up if i don't want to. Why like that?

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7 hours ago, Guest Teti said:

I've been looking for true love but all men/gay i met only thinking about fun and have sex with me even at first meeting and will not follow up if i don't want to. Why like that?

U asked them lor, why come here and ask cyber strangers ?? 

 

With your intelligence that u need to find out such thing, it explains why they dont show up 

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It's a guy thing, not a gay thing.

 

Just ask any NSF what his campmates like to joke/talk about - it's 95% about sex, girls' breasts, naked girls, bikini girls, etc.

 

It's just that straight guys control their dirty sex talk in front of girls, whereas gay guys tend to be less inhibited in the presence of other gay guys.

 

Also, you would have noticed that most gay guys won't talk about sexual stuff in front of straight guys, because of the latter's homophobia.

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Every night I spend the last 1 hour before bed to search for new porn to jerk off. 

 

Every night. 

 

If i don't do this to release my sexual energy, I will feel very frustrated and impotent the next day. 

 

Am I sick? 

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7 minutes ago, Guest Lol said:

Every night I spend the last 1 hour before bed to search for new porn to jerk off. 

 

Every night. 

 

If i don't do this to release my sexual energy, I will feel very frustrated and impotent the next day. 

 

Am I sick? 

 

Masturbating daily or finding new materials to facilitate the process aren't sick in any sense of the word. You're fine as you are.

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On 12/5/2019 at 1:56 PM, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

 

I have never found anyone who likes to read vedas.    I have never done it myself but I suspect that there are better writings to read...

 

But I like to discuss about FUN and have it.   I think that fun is an essential part of life.  

 

 

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5 hours ago, Guest Lol said:

Every night I spend the last 1 hour before bed to search for new porn to jerk off. 

 

Every night. 

 

If i don't do this to release my sexual energy, I will feel very frustrated and impotent the next day. 

 

Am I sick? 

 

There is nothing sick in what you do.  Instead, it is smart.   What would be sick is if every night before bed you go out to the scene to look for new sex.

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On 12/6/2019 at 3:56 AM, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

True. I rather be alone.

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i suppose our sexual part is the one thing that has to be hidden from view, like a dirty secret. we can always explore other aspects of our selves with others in your conventional social circle. so when one is in the company of other gays, there is a tendency to express more of your sexual self. and sex is an important of our selves that we need to take care of also.

 

it makes the whole community seem obsessed with sex. i feel that way sometimes too. but what to do when we can't fully express our selves in our lives?

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On 12/6/2019 at 3:56 AM, Guest Ravi said:

I think 90% of what other gays discuss is about having fun. Is it just my observation? I hardly can find someone who like to read vedas with me without ending in sex.

Your Name RAVI say it all your weird thoughts 

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That’s not a gay issue, most of the opposite attract discuss such topic including straight people. Else, what you expect them to talk about? Marriage, politic or religion study with you?

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