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Not attached now but I can share one My main love language is acts of service. For a while back in '16 (JC days) I had been making handicrafts for sale, to support causes. Sometimes when my then date was studying, I would be making those. He noticed that I was running out of materials, so a few weeks in advance, he ordered some hard-to-find designs online, so that it would come on time for V-day. While he surprised me with the lovely goods, I also surprised him back with one of those clear folder-files, each folder containing a handmade heart in a different design and a brush-lettered quote. We spent that day over at my place where he helped me assemble some of the products while I was making some of the more technical items, listening to lo-fi, seated opposite each other where we would often glance at each other and flash some of the brightest beaming smiles. That was when I realised that our love overpowered lust. Fingers interlaced, we hugged slow and danced silly topless to some of our favourite Spotify songs. This continued until he had to go overseas. Even though both of us amicably agreed that with our hectic schedules we would prefer to have less responsibilities, we are still in contact and on good terms. So this year (as with previous years), I am choosing to spread the love to my friends and family because they will always hold special places in my soul. It may be a handwritten note, a dinner treat, whatever -- these are the relationships I cherish and strive to maintain. Valentine's day isn't just for couples 😉

When you exit just return the towel and key loh! And yes it was pretty packed tonight, easily 100* guys spread over the floors. I really appreciate the drinks on the top floor, and the numerous eye candies (statues included). Only gripe would be the shower area which is right next to the smoking area. Will probably go again (so long as dorscon doesn't go red LOL or when it reverts to yellow). and stay socially responsible guys 🙂 *To clarify as per the posts below: this was around 5-6pm when there was still free entry. Maybe not 100+ but should have been close to that number -- there were many dudes in the maze, gym and smoking area

You're back!! welcome back po

tldr breathe out all the air, suck in your belly button "towards your spine", breathe in and repeat start with 5-10 and can work on the duration + intensity of contraction. helps greatly with core control and gradually, flattening the stomach. it does so by working the often under-trained transversus abdominis (TA), which is deep to the six pack (rectus abdominis) and the obliques. I couldn't really find a scientific explanation on why it works, but I'm thinking that by increasing the tone of TA, it holds the internal organs better and is less likely to bulge outwards, in turn preventing the six pack from bulging outwards I can't wait to see the results after I finish my cut.

when you fully embrace him as a person and excitedly await every date for his charisma and not just for the sex.

stomach vacuums help if you're referring to eliminating the bloated look! I started doing them a few weeks back after reading about it. Anyway, keep the photos coming guys 😛

Hey! There was a thread named something like this previously but I couldn't find it anymore, so perhaps it's time for a new one? Let's motivate one another to keep fit. Feel free to post your thirst traps, but please no nudity!

Apart from the sexual gratification in gay bathhouses, there are the conversations concerning the deepest topics in the universe. When two men are stripped of their clothes and in close contact, they are vulnerable. Vulnerable enough to pour out their fears like familial rejection, and thoughts of being lonely as the years fly by. Perhaps contributing to this is the anonymity of bathhouses and the sheer likelihood that they are never to meet again. Like Whisper? They may be worlds apart when it comes to their socioeconomic backgrounds, but are intimately, inextricably linked by the relentless struggle of being gay. Every time I go to a bathhouse, I come out feeling shiok of course, but also pensive knowing that someone out there is having it a lot harder than I am.

anyone got any emails after registering? I haven't received any 🤔

Good point. I'm considering going while it's still the holidays. Not sure if there's any members going then, though.

Sun 20/12 around 3am @ Taboo You were a pretty swole tall guy with a mild demeanour making you seem like a fun guy to hang with. We were evidently half- (or fully?) gone given our sleepy eyes and slurred speech, and I think you were with your friends who were also shirtless. Amid the intense temptation we took our shirts off and made out, lips to lips, nips to nips. The kissing felt so passionate, so natural. It felt brilliant to wrap my arms around that well-built back of yours, too. I think we kept murmuring if we could exchange numbers, but somehow we kept forgetting LOL I went off to find my friend who had left unexpectedly, and then went to send off another friend who was unwell. When I came back, you and your friends were gone. Hmu if you're here and are comfortable with getting to know each other better. If not, thank you, for contributing to the unforgettable euphoria of that night.

PrEP only covers HIV, don't forget chlamydia, gonorrhoea, herpes simplex etc. Condoms greatly lower the risk of STIs in general. If you suspect you got exposed to fluids of a HIV-positive person, PEP is also an option (if within 72h?) I don't think there's any good way to ensure that your partner is clean -- it's easy to lie. Perhaps it's better to assume that the partner has an STI, and follow the relevant precautions

As long as you're getting stronger, there should be some muscle gains.