Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Hi everyone. I am a straight guy. I believe in experiencing different things in life, so I wanna go see what it’s like in a gay spa. Please help me with the following: Which spa would you recommend that I go to? What is the most happening timing to go? Will it be rude for a straight guy to step into a gay spa? Or are such joints typically welcoming? Any etiquette I should observe? Is it like a Korean jjimjilbang where everyone is naked? If not, what do you wear there? Many many thanks. All advice much appreciated. Most sincerely, Str8Man Quote
Guest Derelict Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 All these threads created by sauna owners? Quote
Guest Wtf Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 14 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Hi everyone. I am a straight guy. I believe in experiencing different things in life, so I wanna go see what it’s like in a gay spa. Please help me with the following: Which spa would you recommend that I go to? What is the most happening timing to go? Will it be rude for a straight guy to step into a gay spa? Or are such joints typically welcoming? Any etiquette I should observe? Is it like a Korean jjimjilbang where everyone is naked? If not, what do you wear there? Many many thanks. All advice much appreciated. Most sincerely, Str8Man What are you looking to achieve from your visit? Quote
Guest Real Six Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Straight men in gay forum? Not simple... Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Hi guys! 100% confirm that I am a straight guy. 100% confirm this has nothing to do with spa owners. Man, I don’t even really know where these spas are accept they are generally in Chinatown. Sincerely, this is just a curious guy trying to see what it is like in your world. Nothing demeaning or rude. 🙏🏻 just truly curious Quote
blueblueblue Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 go keybox on mon, thur or sat after 6.30pm 😁 Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Oh, I forgot this. I am truly sorry for creating confusion here. Maybe what i am asking is very very unusual. 🙏🏻 Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Hi blueblueblue Thanks. Keybox after 630pm eh. What do I do as to not be awkward? thanks. Quote
austslim Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Find somewhere comfortable and stand there naked, with easy access to your dick. Enjoy the pleasure and company of your fellow men Quote
austslim Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Hi blueblueblue Thanks. Keybox after 630pm eh. What do I do as to not be awkward? thanks. Find a nice spot, get naked and enjoy the pleasure other men can give you ;( Edited March 23, 2021 by austslim Quote
lonelyglobe Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 29 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Hi guys! 100% confirm that I am a straight guy. 100% confirm this has nothing to do with spa owners. Man, I don’t even really know where these spas are accept they are generally in Chinatown. Sincerely, this is just a curious guy trying to see what it is like in your world. Nothing demeaning or rude. 🙏🏻 just truly curious Yes but after visiting, no guarantee u will still be 100% straight, like many have became 50-50 or even a complete change. Think twice, are u willing to face the consequences? There is no difference like straight man like u go nad fuck a girl, just that in sauna man fuck man. Of course u can waste your time by walking around or join the famous stamford raffles standing statue competition. Quote
Guest Not Str8man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Funny sia, this is like gay men going to Geylang to fcuk whores. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Wait a min... get naked? Is that mandatory? 17 minutes ago, austslim said: Find somewhere comfortable and stand there naked, with easy access to your dick. Enjoy the pleasure and company of your fellow men Quote
superflawless Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Nothing is mandatory. Just go and have a unique experience. No one will bother you if you don't wish to be bothered. Quote
Guest Wtf Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 3 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Wait a min... get naked? Is that mandatory? Tell you what, why not google difference between a men’s spa gay and a gay sauna. Will be much quicker and useful than the back and forth on here. A quick answer: gay men go to gay sauna to have sex, many men go to men’s spa for jacuzzi, sauna, etc. - mostly naked and can be a mix of gay and straight. As you are at the point where you don’t know about the nudity requirements of any spa and are not even sure you want to get naked, you should do some google research or search this forum because your question is too general to get any useful answer. Quote
Guest Straight gay Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 12 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Wait a min... get naked? Is that mandatory? Hello police? What you think happen in gay Spa? I was straight. During uni me and another straight dude went to gay Spa with our gay buddy. He came out to us. And to show our brotherly support we ask him to show us around. He brought us to gay clubbing. Tanjong pagar area long time ago. Can't remember the club name. Then we went 7-11 to buy alcohol cause its cheaper. See alot of guys. Then we didn't feel like club hopping, so my other straight buddy suggest why not we go gay Spa. I think it's the alcohol in us. But all 3 of us went. All 3 of us never been. Was quite scared when we undress. I think we are more afraid of seeing each other naked than to see others. Anyway we got a towel. Undress. And went to the tub? It was empty when we got in but boy. The moment 3 of us went in. Alot of guy came in. They started touching our cock under water. I swear I can see my buddies cock under the water. I was lucky cause the guy beside me was quite hot. Very tanned. Older. But can tell he is quite experienced. He led me out of the tube.. I saw my other buddies enjoying in the tub. So I just went off by myself with the guy It was my first time with a man. And gosh I never seen a real hard cock close up. It was very exciting. He blowjob. And I told him I never done this before. He say its okay. And ask me whether I have fucked another guy before. I said no. He guided me to finger him. I didn't like it. Cause in my mind argh shit. But it was clean. And I did the unthinkable. I stick my cock into his ass. It doesn't really feel much with condom on other than very tight. I'm not sure whether I'm hurting him or not. But he just told me to fuck him. And I just pump abit. I think I got too excited. And cum inside. Didn't give warning. He was like keep fucking. But I already cum and getting soft. Can tell he was disappointed. So I ask him can I jerk him off to make it up to him? He has a very nice hard cock. But he say no need. He want to enjoy more with other guys. I left when I couldn't find my friends. I remmeber taking the night rider home and thinking myself. Gosh. I think I might be gay. Quote
Guest Old meat Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Be prepared to see alot of out of shape horny uncles. Unless you're an uncle yourself. I remember last time if you're certain prime age. You get to go in free. Like free meat Quote
Guest Hmm Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 If you're not firm nor careful, you'll get preyed on. Consider yourself warned. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 51 minutes ago, Guest Not Str8man said: Funny sia, this is like gay men going to Geylang to fcuk whores. Maybe you can take it as a gay guy, after having a nice frog porridge, decides to go get a massage at a brothel, without an intention to have sex. Makes sense? Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Wait a min! Please elaborate on preyed on? I am more than competent regarding protecting myself - this I can 100% say with confidence, and I’m not saying this because I have muscles or big. 13 minutes ago, Guest Hmm said: If you're not firm nor careful, you'll get preyed on. Consider yourself warned. Quote
Guest Guest Curious Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 A straight man wanting to visit a gay spa? Wonders will never cease. Straight men are interested in women's bodies, tits and vaginas. Gay men are interested in dicks, more dicks and asses. If the TS wants to see what really goes on he'll need night vision goggles. And if someone approaches him in a dark room and touches his dick, what is he going to do? Scream like a femboi and run for the lockers? Seems like either the TS is bi or gay or he's trolling. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Out of shape horny uncles? How bad is it? Yes, I am an uncle. And I am not out of shape. In my highly contact sports, I compete with 20-30 year old guys, and I can hold my ground. 35 minutes ago, Guest Old meat said: Be prepared to see alot of out of shape horny uncles. Unless you're an uncle yourself. I remember last time if you're certain prime age. You get to go in free. Like free meat Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Cool! 👍 57 minutes ago, superflawless said: Nothing is mandatory. Just go and have a unique experience. No one will bother you if you don't wish to be bothered. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 5 minutes ago, Guest Guest Curious said: A straight man wanting to visit a gay spa? Wonders will never cease. Straight men are interested in women's bodies, tits and vaginas. Gay men are interested in dicks, more dicks and asses. If the TS wants to see what really goes on he'll need night vision goggles. And if someone approaches him in a dark room and touches his dick, what is he going to do? Scream like a femboi and run for the lockers? Seems like either the TS is bi or gay or he's trolling. hahahaha 😝 I can understand your skepticism on this. But no lah, I won’t run away, and most definitely not like a “femboi” 100% truth, I am not gay. I don’t even have any gay frens, at least not ones who are close. Quote
Boom Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 2 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: hahahaha 😝 I can understand your skepticism on this. But no lah, I won’t run away, and most definitely not like a “femboi” 100% truth, I am not gay. I don’t even have any gay frens, at least not ones who are close. Go for massage - example spa Dlite - can look for nick , he's nice. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 58 minutes ago, Guest Wtf said: Tell you what, why not google difference between a men’s spa gay and a gay sauna. Will be much quicker and useful than the back and forth on here. A quick answer: gay men go to gay sauna to have sex, many men go to men’s spa for jacuzzi, sauna, etc. - mostly naked and can be a mix of gay and straight. As you are at the point where you don’t know about the nudity requirements of any spa and are not even sure you want to get naked, you should do some google research or search this forum because your question is too general to get any useful answer. Ahhhhhh, now this is useful info. Much much appreciated! So, I should be heading to a gay sauna, not men’s spa, then. Thanks. Quote
Boom Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 3 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: hahahaha 😝 I can understand your skepticism on this. But no lah, I won’t run away, and most definitely not like a “femboi” 100% truth, I am not gay. I don’t even have any gay frens, at least not ones who are close. If you like to go for spa massage , go for spa Dlite , try out nick. It be comfortable for you cause he adapt to newcomers and make newcomers very comfortable. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 1 minute ago, Boom said: Go for massage - example spa Dlite - can look for nick , he's nice. New info. So some gay spas have massage? This I would like to try. Thanks. Quote
Guest Guest Curious Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Just now, Guest Str8Man said: 100% truth, I am not gay. I don’t even have any gay frens, at least not ones who are close. I have gay friends and I have straight friends. Not one of my straight friends (Asian and western) would be seen near a gay sauna/spa. Not one of my gay friends would have any interest in visiting a girlie spa. If you read BW, particularly the threads about the Singapore gay spas, you will know precisely what goes on there in intimate detail. If you are not even bi-curious, why would you want to experience it for yourself? What in particularly are you looking for? Bragging to your straight mates that you crashed a gay sauna? Quote
smallboix Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 You would definitely need to undress unless you want to stand out like a sore thumb. Though you can cover yourself with the towels provided. But as others mentioned, people go to gay sauna for sex. So brace yourself to be touched by other guys. renoma1069 1 Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Geez man... Reading that made me turn a little gay for a while. LOL Thank you so much for sharing! as for police, fuck me, 100% no lah! Hahaha 1 hour ago, Guest Straight gay said: Hello police? What you think happen in gay Spa? I was straight. During uni me and another straight dude went to gay Spa with our gay buddy. He came out to us. And to show our brotherly support we ask him to show us around. He brought us to gay clubbing. Tanjong pagar area long time ago. Can't remember the club name. Then we went 7-11 to buy alcohol cause its cheaper. See alot of guys. Then we didn't feel like club hopping, so my other straight buddy suggest why not we go gay Spa. I think it's the alcohol in us. But all 3 of us went. All 3 of us never been. Was quite scared when we undress. I think we are more afraid of seeing each other naked than to see others. Anyway we got a towel. Undress. And went to the tub? It was empty when we got in but boy. The moment 3 of us went in. Alot of guy came in. They started touching our cock under water. I swear I can see my buddies cock under the water. I was lucky cause the guy beside me was quite hot. Very tanned. Older. But can tell he is quite experienced. He led me out of the tube.. I saw my other buddies enjoying in the tub. So I just went off by myself with the guy It was my first time with a man. And gosh I never seen a real hard cock close up. It was very exciting. He blowjob. And I told him I never done this before. He say its okay. And ask me whether I have fucked another guy before. I said no. He guided me to finger him. I didn't like it. Cause in my mind argh shit. But it was clean. And I did the unthinkable. I stick my cock into his ass. It doesn't really feel much with condom on other than very tight. I'm not sure whether I'm hurting him or not. But he just told me to fuck him. And I just pump abit. I think I got too excited. And cum inside. Didn't give warning. He was like keep fucking. But I already cum and getting soft. Can tell he was disappointed. So I ask him can I jerk him off to make it up to him? He has a very nice hard cock. But he say no need. He want to enjoy more with other guys. I left when I couldn't find my friends. I remmeber taking the night rider home and thinking myself. Gosh. I think I might be gay. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 To be honest... I think... AT THE MOST, I’ll turn 10% gay. But who knows 🤷🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️ Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 No lah! Why would I brag that. 😄 I am just being curious. 9 minutes ago, Guest Guest Curious said: I have gay friends and I have straight friends. Not one of my straight friends (Asian and western) would be seen near a gay sauna/spa. Not one of my gay friends would have any interest in visiting a girlie spa. If you read BW, particularly the threads about the Singapore gay spas, you will know precisely what goes on there in intimate detail. If you are not even bi-curious, why would you want to experience it for yourself? What in particularly are you looking for? Bragging to your straight mates that you crashed a gay sauna? Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Will they touch you if you don’t give the signal to proceed? 29 minutes ago, smallboix said: You would definitely need to undress unless you want to stand out like a sore thumb. Though you can cover yourself with the towels provided. But as others mentioned, people go to gay sauna for sex. So brace yourself to be touched by other guys. Quote
Guest Prey Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 50 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Wait a min! Please elaborate on preyed on? I am more than competent regarding protecting myself - this I can 100% say with confidence, and I’m not saying this because I have muscles or big. I tell you how I will prey you. When you walk in, I see whether you are my type or not. I will lurk around close to you almost stalker like so I get you first before the rest. If you never reject me, I'll take it that you consent for me to approach you and touch you. Your nipple. Your crotch. And if I really like you, use my hard cock and caress against your thigh. If you respond by being hard, I'll use my cock to caress your cock while I hug you tight tight. If you don't like, I'll quickly kneel down and suck your cock. I wont let you escape until I taste your juice. Must make you cum or you will find someone else... OR You walk in. So not my type. You stand there whole night. No taker. And since you new don't dare to prey others. So end up just stand there awkwardly with a flaccid cock. Your ego will hurt. Girl reject you. Gay also reject you. You leave feeling dejected and wonder are you ever good enough. Quote
Guest Boring Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 12 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Will they touch you if you don’t give the signal to proceed? Depends. Usually those experienced uncle will just eat you up. Imagine a muscle hunk walk in. You think all the horny uncle will not try to have sex with you. Everyone will want a piece of you. Even if you say sorry not interested, the comeback is "its okay, I suck for you. You no need do anything for me." Or "give uncle happy abit, never suck cock very long, let me enjoy abit. You just stand there and enjoy can liao" Or worst got some really horny uncle will try to make you penetrate their dirty hairy hole without condom. You know what man can do when they are all aroused. And men who go gay sauna want sex. But does it mean everyone will be a sec object. Nope. Like I said, it depends on whether he is your type or not... Sometimes a twibk like a chub uncle. Or a hunk like q chub uncle. Or someone fem? There is no quality control. You have to say no if someone too fem not your type want to suck your cock. Or worse some small cock uncle think they making porn, force you to suck his cock. With all their hairy pubes and all. Be warn. Porn make sex looks hot. In real life, its dirty, tiresome and usually few minutes arousal only. So don't expect much from your first time in sauna. Also, you can't know for sure if any of them have hiv or not. It's always a risk. Unless you already on prep. I think you go home watch gay porn and just explore your sexuality better. Quote
ffcruiser Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 14 minutes ago, Guest Prey said: I tell you how I will prey you. When you walk in, I see whether you are my type or not. I will lurk around close to you almost stalker like so I get you first before the rest. If you never reject me, I'll take it that you consent for me to approach you and touch you. Your nipple. Your crotch. And if I really like you, use my hard cock and caress against your thigh. If you respond by being hard, I'll use my cock to caress your cock while I hug you tight tight. If you don't like, I'll quickly kneel down and suck your cock. I wont let you escape until I taste your juice. Must make you cum or you will find someone else... OR You walk in. So not my type. You stand there whole night. No taker. And since you new don't dare to prey others. So end up just stand there awkwardly with a flaccid cock. Your ego will hurt. Girl reject you. Gay also reject you. You leave feeling dejected and wonder are you ever good enough. 😂 Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 18 minutes ago, Guest Prey said: I tell you how I will prey you. When you walk in, I see whether you are my type or not. I will lurk around close to you almost stalker like so I get you first before the rest. If you never reject me, I'll take it that you consent for me to approach you and touch you. Your nipple. Your crotch. And if I really like you, use my hard cock and caress against your thigh. If you respond by being hard, I'll use my cock to caress your cock while I hug you tight tight. If you don't like, I'll quickly kneel down and suck your cock. I wont let you escape until I taste your juice. Must make you cum or you will find someone else... OR You walk in. So not my type. You stand there whole night. No taker. And since you new don't dare to prey others. So end up just stand there awkwardly with a flaccid cock. Your ego will hurt. Girl reject you. Gay also reject you. You leave feeling dejected and wonder are you ever good enough. Damn! Right there, I actually got hard a bit. Hahaha! Maybe I am a little gay. Now I think twice of going to the gay spa, for fear of really turning gay. 😄 Anyway, I enjoy reading your post the most. 👍 Thanks Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 20 minutes ago, Guest Boring said: Depends. Usually those experienced uncle will just eat you up. Imagine a muscle hunk walk in. You think all the horny uncle will not try to have sex with you. Everyone will want a piece of you. Even if you say sorry not interested, the comeback is "its okay, I suck for you. You no need do anything for me." Or "give uncle happy abit, never suck cock very long, let me enjoy abit. You just stand there and enjoy can liao" Or worst got some really horny uncle will try to make you penetrate their dirty hairy hole without condom. You know what man can do when they are all aroused. And men who go gay sauna want sex. But does it mean everyone will be a sec object. Nope. Like I said, it depends on whether he is your type or not... Sometimes a twibk like a chub uncle. Or a hunk like q chub uncle. Or someone fem? There is no quality control. You have to say no if someone too fem not your type want to suck your cock. Or worse some small cock uncle think they making porn, force you to suck his cock. With all their hairy pubes and all. Be warn. Porn make sex looks hot. In real life, its dirty, tiresome and usually few minutes arousal only. So don't expect much from your first time in sauna. Also, you can't know for sure if any of them have hiv or not. It's always a risk. Unless you already on prep. I think you go home watch gay porn and just explore your sexuality better. Hahaha! Appreciate your sincere advice. I guess there is much wisdom in your words. Will think twice about going. 🤷🏼♂️ Quote
Guest Confirm gay Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 9 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Damn! Right there, I actually got hard a bit. Hahaha! Maybe I am a little gay. Now I think twice of going to the gay spa, for fear of really turning gay. 😄 Anyway, I enjoy reading your post the most. 👍 Thanks Knew you are gay curious all along. No gay man will want to walk into a room full of pussy and forced to lick their pussy. Gross. Quote
dragonfly_y Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Do you have a hot body? Some straight guys might assume that they will for sure become popular at a gay bar or sauna, but in reality is, gay ppl can be super picky too. If you don't have certain physiques that most gay men like, you may end up going home frustrated... Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 9 minutes ago, Guest Confirm gay said: Knew you are gay curious all along. No gay man will want to walk into a room full of pussy and forced to lick their pussy. Gross. LOL 😂 You are funny, man. still straight, never been intimate with another guy. Ok, very seriously, so ALMOST NEVER you will see a straight guy at your gay spas? Right? Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Oh, don’t get me wrong. I don’t think so highly of myself that I think all guys will like me. Sumpah. Of course everyone has their standards and type. IF I turn gay, I’d probably go for a femboi. I think. 🧐 I look ok lah. I have my own upkeep, but I am definitely not like some gym hunks. 3 minutes ago, dragonfly_y said: Do you have a hot body? Some straight guys might assume that they will for sure become popular at a gay bar or sauna, but in reality is, gay ppl can be super picky too. If you don't have certain physiques that most gay men like, you may end up going home frustrated... Quote
Shootme Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Why not just go massage palour first. gym sauna sounds way too high risk if you Wana just to explore. Quote
Guest Str8Man Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 2 minutes ago, Shootme said: Why not just go massage palour first. gym sauna sounds way too high risk if you Wana just to explore. Gay massage parlor will be a new experience for me. It’s safer. But I was thinking about the gay spa thing because now that’s really full on gay experience. Maybe I dunno how much trouble I am getting myself into - as in, will I turn out being really gay myself. 😂 Quote
Guest Guest Curious Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 3 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Gay massage parlor will be a new experience for me. It’s safer. But I was thinking about the gay spa thing because now that’s really full on gay experience. Maybe I dunno how much trouble I am getting myself into - as in, will I turn out being really gay myself. 😂 Sorry but everything you keep on saying suggests you are just a troll. Instead of asking the same question time after time, read the threads on saunas here and then actually go to a sauna. See for yourself. Nothing anyone writes can compare to the actual event. Just go. Quote
Guest Please don’t play with us Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 Hello. If you want to test us (as if you think you’re very handsome or good-looking) just for your market sake, please don’t visit gay spas. Don’t play with our feelings if you have no intentions to date any of u. Sincere thank you Quote
smallboix Posted March 23, 2021 Posted March 23, 2021 14 minutes ago, Guest Str8Man said: Gay massage parlor will be a new experience for me. It’s safer. But I was thinking about the gay spa thing because now that’s really full on gay experience. Maybe I dunno how much trouble I am getting myself into - as in, will I turn out being really gay myself. 😂 Hmmm seeing how you said you were turned on by some of the descriptive posts above, I don't think you are straight at all haha Quote
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