Worry for my nephew

[Guest Guest]

My sister is sending my nephew to canada to continue his study. My worry is that he has been spoiled at home too much. He never do his laundry, clean room, do own food, wash dishes. He dont know anything at home. He don't know how to spend money because he just ask someone to buy or pay. Study wise he is getting so so grade so I dont think sending him to study offshore would be such a waste. He always lock himself in the room and has to be always called during mealtime. Do you think he can survive living alone there?

[robin]

Sounds like a parent who worries that the son will die while serving his NS 

[Guest Stop babysitting Him]

Let him see the world outside SG provided that his parents can afford it. And, most importantly don't force him do things he don't like. Ask for his opinion and don't treat him like a child, for example, like does he even want study aboard? Or, his parent forces their opinions down his throat?

[farku29]

How did he even survive NS?

[Guest Guest]

On 6/14/2022 at 11:14 AM, Guest Mary said:

Your honesty 10 points. 

Made up this story 1 point , very lousy story leh , but again u r not alone , some worst like - Watson and Guardian which one 

Yup there are even worst story than this thread and yet there will still be responses. People never learn

[mate69]

On 6/14/2022 at 7:01 AM, Guest Guest said:

My sister is sending my nephew to canada to continue his study. My worry is that he has been spoiled at home too much. He never do his laundry, clean room, do own food, wash dishes. He dont know anything at home. He don't know how to spend money because he just ask someone to buy or pay. Study wise he is getting so so grade so I dont think sending him to study offshore would be such a waste. He always lock himself in the room and has to be always called during mealtime. Do you think he can survive living alone there?

 

Send your nephew to me.

I'll teach him 

[Guest Guest]

On 6/14/2022 at 2:01 PM, mate69 said:

 

Send your nephew to me.

I'll teach him 

He doesn't exist hahaha

[Guest Worry for what]

On 6/14/2022 at 7:01 AM, Guest Guest said:

My sister is sending my nephew to canada to continue his study. My worry is that he has been spoiled at home too much. He never do his laundry, clean room, do own food, wash dishes. He dont know anything at home. He don't know how to spend money because he just ask someone to buy or pay. Study wise he is getting so so grade so I dont think sending him to study offshore would be such a waste. He always lock himself in the room and has to be always called during mealtime. Do you think he can survive living alone there?

 

I think you are right. 

 

You also spoiled your nephew. He go study abroad or what not. You also worry this worry that. 

 

Let him go lo. If he can't survive he can't survive. People who goes abroad come back with a better perspective. Trust me. 

 

Stay in Singapore just complain gahmen this no good that no good. Go outside. Get hungry abit. Get robbed abit. Then come back realised Singapore so good. 

[yhtang]

On 6/14/2022 at 7:01 AM, Guest Guest said:

My sister is sending my nephew to canada to continue his study. My worry is that he has been spoiled at home too much. He never do his laundry, clean room, do own food, wash dishes. He dont know anything at home. He don't know how to spend money because he just ask someone to buy or pay. Study wise he is getting so so grade so I dont think sending him to study offshore would be such a waste. He always lock himself in the room and has to be always called during mealtime. Do you think he can survive living alone there?

 

Your nephew is fortunate to have someone who is concerned for his well being.

 

As concerned as you are, are his parents concerned as well?  If his parents have made the decision, there is nothing much you can do.

 

Is you nephew looking forward to going to Canada?  In either case, it may turn out to be a learning experience for him.  If he did not learn to be independent during his days in Canada, I suppose nothing will change.  Then that would really be his parent's problem - I doubt there is much you can do.

 

 

 

[passinthenight]

This is exactly what he needs.

He needs to start fending for himself.

Making lots of mistakes and growing up.

I left home when I just turned 17 and I had to learn very quickly.

[Guest Mary]

On 6/14/2022 at 3:59 PM, passinthenight said:

This is exactly what he needs.

He needs to start fending for himself.

Making lots of mistakes and growing up.

I left home when I just turned 17 and I had to learn very quickly.

there are alots of ppl like you too , didnt finished reading the story and start making conclusion and opinions 

[Guest Mary]

On 6/14/2022 at 2:11 PM, Guest Guest said:

He doesn't exist hahaha

I must say you are very successful.  Despite you came clean that it is a fake story , still there are responses and best many dont even bother to read , just assumed your initiate story and add comments 

[Guest Fatty]

Sic the ig of your nephew and we will advice accordingly 

[Guest Mary]

On 6/15/2022 at 6:41 AM, Guest Fatty said:

Sic the ig of your nephew and we will advice accordingly 

Another DONT READ - U