I'm not into orgy just intimacy when I go sauna

[Guest dweeb]

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

[Guest You]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

Yeah you're the weird one

[yoyo74]

In this world there are people with many personality. I dislike anal sex and oral sex as i feel its dirty. I dislike french kiss as well as i dont like my tongue touching other people saliva but if its a hot or cute guy i will just bare with my dislike hoping its a short duration kiss. I only enjoy sensual touching and gentle caressing. I dont believe the definition of gays had to involve in those penetrative anal oral sex. Be yourself and find people that suits each other needs is the key.

[Guest Guest]

On 7/26/2022 at 10:19 PM, yoyo74 said:

In this world there are people with many personality. I dislike anal sex and oral sex as i feel its dirty. I dislike french kiss as well as i dont like my tongue touching other people saliva but if its a hot or cute guy i will just bare with my dislike hoping its a short duration kiss. I only enjoy sensual touching and gentle caressing. I dont believe the definition of gays had to involve in those penetrative anal oral sex. Be yourself and find people that suits each other needs is the key.

 

Agree....different people different personality. People has own preference. 

[Guest Be Yourself]

You’re not weird. It’s your body and face. Do what you want to do with it.

 

[Greenliv]

That's your own preference. But it would be more enlightening to know whether you mind having 'just physical touch, holding hand and huggng' with old men, obese guys, feminate personalities, other races, people with some physical disabilities, people whose face cmi. They would love to 'just physically touch, hold hands and hug' you in the gay sauna. And btw, it's not weird if you allow them to come into your embrace.

[fab]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

 

U should not go to sauna.

 

U should go to Sunday school. 

[yuquidam]

On 7/27/2022 at 7:12 AM, fab said:

 

U should not go to sauna.

 

U should go to Sunday school. 

But schools are closed on Sundays ar... keke... just kidding. 

Edited July 26, 2022 by Yuquidam2022

[fab]

Sauna should not be a daily event.

 

Once a week seems right. 

[Guest Lala]

I remember the first time I went gay sauna after clubbing. Half drunk.

 

The old uncle used me sia. Touch me. My cock etc. I was in my 25s. Tanned. Gym bod. Free or cheaper entry for student. 

 

How I miss those days. 

 

Now I go sauna at 40. Expensive. Go also nobody wanna touch or play. 

 

Aging is horrible 

[Greenliv]

On 7/27/2022 at 1:23 PM, Guest Lala said:

I remember the first time I went gay sauna after clubbing. Half drunk.

 

The old uncle used me sia. Touch me. My cock etc. I was in my 25s. Tanned. Gym bod. Free or cheaper entry for student. 

 

How I miss those days. 

 

Now I go sauna at 40. Expensive. Go also nobody wanna touch or play. 

 

Aging is horrible 

Look for 80 years old uncle. You are half his age.

[lean n mean]

U r not weird. U r practical. U cant just ask anyone for an intimate cuddle anywhere but at a sauna u dont even hv to ask. I clap for u. 

[Ironrod]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

 

Yes, u are weird. Just hug a good friend is more rewarding then finding some strangers who may give u skin disease or worst monkeypox

[yhtang]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

 

I would not say you are weird, but you are probably a minority in the sauna.

 

Everyone has his personal preferences, and in your case, it happens to be principally tactile stimulation.  I am sure you will be able to find a community of people who share your preference - however, I am quite certain they would not congregate in a gay sauna.

 

I dare say many pay to enter a sauna with the expectation of some intimacy, if not a few orgasms and ejaculations.  With many patrons looking for such fun in a gay sauna, those patrons matching your preferences would be few. 

 

You have, knowingly or not, placed your square peg self in a sauna full of round holes (no pun intended) so if you do not feel particularly welcomed, I dare say it is not the fault of the other patrons in the sauna.    Misplaced, definitely.  Weird, not necessarily so. 

 

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

 

Not weird. I'm like that also.

That's why I don't go to saunas, and don't use gay dating apps, cos I know most gay guys in those zones are into oral/anal sex, which I'm not fond of.

I prefer male-bonding, chatting, and intimacy, without the sexual component.

I know this is not common in the gay community, so that is the reason that I stay away from the mainstream gay community and just do my own thing. 

You won't find me at gay bars, gay saunas, Pink Dot, etc.

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/27/2022 at 1:23 PM, Guest Lala said:

I remember the first time I went gay sauna after clubbing. Half drunk.

 

The old uncle used me sia. Touch me. My cock etc. I was in my 25s. Tanned. Gym bod. Free or cheaper entry for student. 

 

How I miss those days. 

 

Now I go sauna at 40. Expensive. Go also nobody wanna touch or play. 

 

Aging is horrible 

 

There's a thread that was talking about this:

[Guest Guest]

On 7/26/2022 at 10:19 PM, yoyo74 said:

In this world there are people with many personality. I dislike anal sex and oral sex as i feel its dirty. I dislike french kiss as well as i dont like my tongue touching other people saliva but if its a hot or cute guy i will just bare with my dislike hoping its a short duration kiss. I only enjoy sensual touching and gentle caressing. I dont believe the definition of gays had to involve in those penetrative anal oral sex. Be yourself and find people that suits each other needs is the key.

True, I have a fxxk buddy who don't do oral and anal too. He love intimacy on bed and fxxk in between my thighs.

[Guest Peterpan]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

 

Yeah confirmed weirdo.

[Guest Empathise]

On 7/27/2022 at 7:00 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Not weird. I'm like that also.

That's why I don't go to saunas, and don't use gay dating apps, cos I know most gay guys in those zones are into oral/anal sex, which I'm not fond of.

I prefer male-bonding, chatting, and intimacy, without the sexual component.

I know this is not common in the gay community, so that is the reason that I stay away from the mainstream gay community and just do my own thing. 

You won't find me at gay bars, gay saunas, Pink Dot, etc.

I get what you mean, and believe there may be a niche in thr community who don't do the hook up or even sex. Just curious,  hour then do you deal with your sexual urge? Just masturbation? Or you leave it be?

 

And by intimacy do you mean physical but chaste intimacy? Like hugging and holding hands? Or just relational intimacy like baring your soul?

 

Do you believe in having a boyfriend who doesn't have sex? Or exclusive relationships are not for you?

[Leftright88]

I just like to be manhandled

Edited July 29, 2022 by Leftright88

[singalion]

On 7/29/2022 at 4:04 PM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Both, I guess. Sometimes, if I leave it be and do something else, the urge will go away. If it doesn't, I just take care of it in my own time. 😉

 

 

 

Yes, to both. There are many ways to show love and affection.

For example, you could make breakfast for me instead of pounding my ass. Just saying. 

 

My objection to oral and anal sex is more from a scientific and medical point of view, rather than say, a religious point of view. 

That being said, I'm okay with mutual masturbation as long as it's done in moderation, and the mouth and anus are not involved. LOL

 

 

 

Yes, to the first question. Except that in my limited experience with our gay community, I have not met one who is like me. So far, all the gay guys I've chatted with are very much into sex, of various kinds. It's like to them, no sex = no friendship.

They won't even want to talk to you or try to get to know you. They just want to know how big you are "down there", and when you would be free to suck them.

 

I'm certain I don't belong to the mainstream gay community, so I don't fight their battles for them either. That is why you won't see me at Pink Dot.

 

Over the years, I've learned to develop my own hobbies and solitary lifestyle, and by now, I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything as a gay guy. 

 

Anyone can do what he wants. 

 

But straight people engage into oral and vaginal sex. That's part of the "common" sexual activity. For gays it is anal sex. 

 

Just wonder what hinders you to indulge into oral or anal sex. 

 

Your point on the length of the tool I think is misplaced. For mutual masturbation not sure whether the dick size is a big factor. 

 

You should eventually change the angle: In the gay community you are surely a rare minority, maybe you shouldn't blame those guys on apps who understand intimacy between guys at a different level. 

 

 

[singalion]

On 7/26/2022 at 8:42 PM, Guest dweeb said:

hi. 

 

is it weird that when i went to gay sauna im looking for just physical touch. i prefer holding hand and hug. when its starting to get intense i find it repulsive e.g like someone is trying to french kiss me. or trying to grab my bird and suck it. im not into orgy just intimacy. 

 

is it just me? or im just the weird one. 

 

Please don't think in categories of weird or not normal etc . 

 

The variety of sexual likings or dislikings is maybe much bigger than you imagine in the gay community.

 

 

[Guest Try and see]

On 7/30/2022 at 12:57 AM, singalion said:

Just wonder what hinders you to indulge into oral or anal sex. 

 

Just the idea of putting a penis into a mouth or an anus turns me off, especially when you think about what comes out of a penis (besides cum) and anus. 

[Expired Btm Uncle]

On 7/31/2022 at 10:46 AM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Just the idea of putting a penis into a mouth or an anus turns me off, especially when you think about what comes out of a penis (besides cum) and anus. 

Rainbow sprout from both my holes. Whats so dirty about it?

[Guest guest]

On 7/26/2022 at 10:19 PM, yoyo74 said:

In this world there are people with many personality. I dislike anal sex and oral sex as i feel its dirty. I dislike french kiss as well as i dont like my tongue touching other people saliva but if its a hot or cute guy i will just bare with my dislike hoping its a short duration kiss. I only enjoy sensual touching and gentle caressing. I dont believe the definition of gays had to involve in those penetrative anal oral sex. Be yourself and find people that suits each other needs is the key.

High chance you have OCD?

[Guest Guest]

On 7/31/2022 at 10:46 AM, Guest Try and see said:

 

Just the idea of putting a penis into a mouth or an anus turns me off, especially when you think about what comes out of a penis (besides cum) and anus. 

You can ask the guy to wash his penis thoroughly? Or you volunteer to wash his penis to make sure it is 100% clean?

[G_M]

This is not a hook up thread but a discussion.

Get back to the topic of It will be locked.

 

 

[singalion]

On 7/31/2022 at 12:29 PM, Expired Btm Uncle said:

Rainbow sprout from both my holes. Whats so dirty about it?

 

yep, quite bizarre