If A Hiv+ Wants To Be Your Bf

[Guest Ritz]

Would you agree? How to prevent getting hiv while in the relationship?

[doncoin]

As long as he is on his medication and getting regular checkups, you can have a healthy relationship with someone who is HIV+. 

[Guest Guest]

Another question...How many can accept a man with HIV+ to be your bf?

[ERFAbangBear]

I've had 2 HIV-U exes and I've remained negative all these years. I've even spoken to both their doctors and usually as long as they don't miss the medication, its completely fine. And yes we do have raw sex. 

[Guest How how how]

If your dad have hiv+ and still want to be your dad how? 

If your mom have hiv+ and still want to be your mom how? 

If your brother have hiv+ and still want to be your brother how?

If your sister have hiv+ and still want to be your sister how? 

If your teacher have hiv+ and still want to be your teacher how? 

If your classmates have hiv+ and still want to be your classmates how? 

If your colleague have hiv+ and still want to be your colleague how? 

If you have hiv+ and still want to be you, How? 

[Guest Guest]

On 8/10/2022 at 8:23 AM, Guest How how how said:

If your dad have hiv+ and still want to be your dad how? 

If your mom have hiv+ and still want to be your mom how? 

If your brother have hiv+ and still want to be your brother how?

If your sister have hiv+ and still want to be your sister how? 

If your teacher have hiv+ and still want to be your teacher how? 

If your classmates have hiv+ and still want to be your classmates how? 

If your colleague have hiv+ and still want to be your colleague how? 

If you have hiv+ and still want to be you, How? 

 

Do you have sex with these people?

 

 

 

[Guest Guest]

On 8/10/2022 at 5:54 AM, ERFAbangBear said:

I've had 2 HIV-U exes and I've remained negative all these years. I've even spoken to both their doctors and usually as long as they don't miss the medication, its completely fine. And yes we do have raw sex. 

 

Russia's roulette much?

[Guest Gay sex]

On 8/10/2022 at 10:27 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

Do you have sex with these people?

 

 

 

 

Oh yes. 

[Guest Well done]

On 8/10/2022 at 10:27 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

Do you have sex with these people?

 

 

 

Best reply!

[Guest Problem solved]

On 8/10/2022 at 11:35 AM, Guest Well done said:

Best reply!

 

Then be HIV+ yourself too lo. 

People nowadays more afraid of monkeypox than hiv

[simply_me]

I think. 

 

First you need to think about urself "is it okay for you to have HIV?" coz the chance you you getting HIV is high.

But study shows that if a person with HIV is already undetected then its okay to have sex with them (like raw sex). 

Must wait for them to be "UNDETECTED" first before going raw. It doesnt mean that if they are taking medication its okay to have raw sex with them.

 

But if youre okay to have HIV and you can start right away. 

I got alot of friends who are positives and They are doing well as long as they take their medications religiously and have a healthy lifestyle.

 

 

[doncoin]

On 8/10/2022 at 10:20 AM, simply_me said:

I think. 

 

First you need to think about urself "is it okay for you to have HIV?" coz the chance you you getting HIV is high.

But study shows that if a person with HIV is already undetected then its okay to have sex with them (like raw sex). 

Must wait for them to be "UNDETECTED" first before going raw. It doesnt mean that if they are taking medication its okay to have raw sex with them.

 

But if youre okay to have HIV and you can start right away. 

I got alot of friends who are positives and They are doing well as long as they take their medications religiously and have a healthy lifestyle.

 

 

 

 

Too many people still have the old school thinking that being HIV+ is a death sentence. In the decades since it was first announced, HIV has become manageable. As long as the person is on his medication and getting checkups regularly, he can have a healthy life. Medications have been improving the quality of life for those HIV+ and extending their lives. 

 

It is no different than anyone with a chronic illness who has to be on long-term medication. It comes down really to the individual in wanting to be in a relationship with the HIV+ person or not.  Address the concerns and educate yourself to make an informed decision about going forward with someone who is HIV+. 

[earth_tone]

On 8/10/2022 at 2:31 AM, Guest Ritz said:

Would you agree? How to prevent getting hiv while in the relationship?

If A Hiv+ Wants To Be Your Bf (what does that mean? only he wants to and you do not?) 

Because if you do too, this title should write  If I Want A HIV+ To Be My Bf ... Would he agree?

 

PLHIV has every right to choose too you know. Sorry but not sorry, he does not need your approval but your respect.

Obviously this is a one-sided love. Because you could not seem to look beyond his HIV status. If your feelings for him are strong enough the kind of questions you'll be asking here will be totally different. So, maybe you're not ready for him, let him go find someone else who's more suitable instead.

 

[ERFAbangBear]

On 8/10/2022 at 10:29 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

Russia's roulette much?

First of all its Russian Roulette. Secondly, what part of medical advice and seeing a doctor constitutes gambling your life away. 

[Guest Guest]

On 8/13/2022 at 8:06 PM, ERFAbangBear said:

First of all its Russian Roulette. Secondly, what part of medical advice and seeing a doctor constitutes gambling your life away. 

 

The part where you rely on someone else to take his own medication consistently and rigorously? And also the part where you bet on his test results to be undetectable when you have sex with him?

 

Anyway, to each his own. You do what suits your own risk appetite. You do you, and I do I. 

[Steve5380]

It is perfectly fine to have a bf who is HIV+, takes his antiviral medications consistently, and consistently tests "undetectable".

 

VERY IMPORTANT:  how did you find out your bf is HIV+?  This is a crucial test of character of your bf.  He should tell you of his condition before you have any serious sex.

 

This is what my late bf told me immediately.  He was HIV+ when we met.  And we had very superficial sex then.  He needed a place to stay and he moved in with me.  I convinced him to start treatment and he became "undetectable".   After living for 21 years with him,  I did remain HIV negative.   However, the main reason for this is that I don't do anal sex,  ha ha.

[ERFAbangBear]

On 8/13/2022 at 9:13 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

The part where you rely on someone else to take his own medication consistently and rigorously? And also the part where you bet on his test results to be undetectable when you have sex with him?

 

Anyway, to each his own. You do what suits your own risk appetite. You do you, and I do I. 

 

I think no one disagrees that the "risk choice" is yours. To be fair anything in life is a risk but to imply that being in a r/s with HIV-U people is akin to Russian Roulette therefore equating to a death sentence is disrespectful. We don't have to be backhanded about something we will not partake in. People live HEALTHY normal lives with HIV-U and we can do better at not spreading unnecessary stigma.