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After we became official, I notice that he is moody. I don't want to break up because I already love him. Bug how to handle his temper?

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On 8/15/2022 at 4:07 AM, Guest ashura126 said:

After we became official, I notice that he is moody. I don't want to break up because I already love him. Bug how to handle his temper?

Give him 2 tight slaps, locked him in the toilet and throw ice cold water on him 

Until he cool down make him kneel down in front of u , to apologise 

Got it 

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Maybe try to talk to him? It could be something you unknowingly did or something else that is affecting his mood. Its best to communicate early and try to solve the issue than wait long and let it build up inside both of you and later explode and ruin the relationship. Tell him how his mood makes you feel and try to find ways to work around it? Hope that helps. Communication is usually key in solving problems.

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On 8/15/2022 at 4:07 AM, Guest ashura126 said:

After we became official, I notice that he is moody. I don't want to break up because I already love him. Bug how to handle his temper?

He is moody only after you both became official? 

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Tell him this is not what you signed up for. If this continue on, even at your best patience, you would still break.

 

Best to honestly tell him at the beginning of the relationship that you want him to improve on this aspect

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not sure there is any treatment...

 

also you say too little what is the cause of him having temper?

 

Jealousy? You not obeying? Refusing to have sex with him? Not following orders or instructions... ???

 

If his temper is just out of any reason, best is when you react as a true drama queen, throw plates, shout loud, run to him and bang your hands on his body while drawing an angry face.,

 

 

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On 8/15/2022 at 4:07 AM, Guest ashura126 said:

After we became official, I notice that he is moody. I don't want to break up because I already love him. Bug how to handle his temper?


u know why babies like to throw tantrums? Cos there’s something bothering them and they can’t quite express it so throwing tantrums is one way to get attention.

 

You can either ask him to grow up and stop throwing tantrums, or treat him like a baby and pacify him all the time or teach him to express his frustration so the need to throw tantrums is gone. 
 

When I was in a relationship, my ex suddenly became temperamental and was throwing tantrums. He even threatened to commit suicide. But after all the wayang, he confessed all his insecurities and dirty secrets. I assured him that I would still accept him the way he was and not leave him. After that he became more devoted  and loving towards me and sayang me more even though he was much younger. 
 

Your bf behaved this way to get your attention and assurance that you will love him no matter what. Now the rest is up to you.

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Your bf sounds like me! I’m the problematic one in my current relationship.

 

My bf has tried different methods and he has learned to resolve our quarrels by giving me space but still look after me by making sure I have my meals, doing the laundry and dishes, cleaning the house etc. though we are supposed to share these household chores.

 

Since deep down we really love each other, I would feel guilty making him my punching bag so I will always patch up with him. One partner in a relationship has to be the mature one (like my bf) - otherwise breakup is inevitable.
 

A relationship will have a better chance to last, only if the love between 2 parties is genuine. I have had several relationships before and my current bf has been with me for over 20 years.

 

Do be prepared, however, if your bf does not change although you have tried your best, perhaps you should end the relationship first.

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For me, If he temperamental, I do it back 🦁 style. Then both angry then have damn passion awesome sex and lovey dovey next day...reason moody can be varies...he also must learn he is not the only one...2 way street. 

 

Don't be an idiot or keep giving in..keep intiating... to love...the person will take advantage of you...etc....will play mind games on you....he might even cheat on you...if not happy go on move on...I have others on the list to date...this kind of people are the selfish pathetic pity human being on earth..... always the expectations...

 

 

 

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Feed him your pacifier.

 

鍾意就好,理佢男定女

 

never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want.

 

结缘不结

不解缘

 

After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say.

 

看穿不说穿

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Guest Not right

I'm an introvert child. Brother always go out explore. I stay at home. 

 

As an adult I also don't have desire to go out you know shopping orchard etc. 

 

My boyfriend loves to go out. Go this hawker go that hawker. Go hiking. Go Henderson wave. Go do all the popular YouTuber do. Mimic them.

 

Im like so tired.. Can I just stay at home. 

Being your bf is so exhausting... 

 

So I told him even though I love you, I love myself more. So I told him its better that he find someone who share the same outdoorsy passion as him. 

 

So we broke up. 

 

Now I have a gamer bf. Everyday we game. Meet online. Sometimes Friday night just go kopitiam din din together before going to my place to game together. 

 

So blissful and happy. 

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On 8/15/2022 at 4:07 AM, Guest ashura126 said:

After we became official, I notice that he is moody. I don't want to break up because I already love him. Bug how to handle his temper?

Left him don't continued the relationship before you really love him so deep. He cannot has sex with other guy because you with him all the time.

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So simple... let him vent out his temper in bed lor. You know how to come to BW forum but you don't know the answer already? 

 

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On 8/16/2022 at 11:19 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

 

cannot post pictures ... too bad. 

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