More like to top when getting older

[Guest kds]

I wonder if anyone here ever thru this kind of life phase before. I always tho im pure btm. I really enjoy getting F'ed

But now in my 40s there’s something change in my brain lol. Im starting to like be top n do the F

 

if you ask me to rim someone few years ago, i will reject coz i feel disgusted. But now the sight of hole especially pink hole makes me horny to the moon n rim him like no tomorrow.

I dont think i will be become top tho maybe VT. But since now im also looking for bf. I just feel this will make it even harder to find bf with this yet "another new requirements". 

Now instead of looking for top, i will insist vers top so i can get to bang too

 

recently i just unblocked all on grindr coz i tend to block those btm last time so my grid will have more suitable option lol

[Jonesak]

Do you think it can also have some consequences

octordle

[Guest Bisexual]

I oposite. I like being bottom older

[Guest Hhaha]

Preference changed over time. 

[Guest gENG]

On 4/18/2023 at 3:05 PM, Jonesak said:

Do you think it can also have some consequences

octordle

such as? I think it will simply open up more options to explore

[Guest Kian Ann]

I am turning 51 this year but i prefer to do bottom.

[Guest Fish]

I turned top after 30 too and love it since then.

[Albert_1234]

On 3/23/2023 at 8:52 PM, Guest kds said:

I wonder if anyone here ever thru this kind of life phase before. I always tho im pure btm. I really enjoy getting F'ed

But now in my 40s there’s something change in my brain lol. Im starting to like be top n do the F

 

if you ask me to rim someone few years ago, i will reject coz i feel disgusted. But now the sight of hole especially pink hole makes me horny to the moon n rim him like no tomorrow.

I dont think i will be become top tho maybe VT. But since now im also looking for bf. I just feel this will make it even harder to find bf with this yet "another new requirements". 

Now instead of looking for top, i will insist vers top so i can get to bang too

 

recently i just unblocked all on grindr coz i tend to block those btm last time so my grid will have more suitable option lol

I also got this feeling to from b to vt

[Guest ffffffff]

Perhaps , when you were younger, you needed a masculine role model

 So you bottomed.

 

Now that you are more secure in your masculinity, you want to top

 

 

[Guest Time Cruiser]

3 hours ago, Guest ffffffff said:

Perhaps , when you were younger, you needed a masculine role model

 So you bottomed.

 

Now that you are more secure in your masculinity, you want to top

 

 

I totally agree with this, younger need someone to make themselves feel secure. And when become older then will be different.

[doncoin]

When I was in my 20s, I was primarily a top, and then I met this guy, we dated, and he wanted to fuck me. Since we were in a relationship then, I agreed. It was a somewhat uncomfortable experience for me the first time, and hurt like hell, but after a few times, I got more comfortable with it, and we did flip flop. Things got more interesting when we started having 3-ways and small sex parties with a few guys and I have to admit that I did enjoy a lot being sandwiched between 2 guys and having my cock and ass pleasured simultaneously. 

 

As I enter my 30s, I was relatively flex still but more on the top side. Somehow, i have the top vibes as one guy said about me. Now in my late 40s, I have pretty much for the last decade been exclusively top. Party, I have grown into the "daddy" look with salt and pepper hair, and a relatively decent body I guess. The guys I attract are definitely younger than me mostly in the 20s and some early 30s. 

 

There's something to be said about being a top in the 40s. I don't fuck like an energizer bunny like i was in my 20s. Back then I could cum maybe 3x but these days, I cum once, but I take my time to cum. Sure, maintaining an erection requires more effort at this stage in life, but sex has been satisfying and I enjoy bouncing off a perky butt.