Bangkok Cruising Places (Malls, Parks, Hotspots)

[slimmaturebottom]

There are more than one such rooftop swimming pools that host gay parties or are gay friendly. Two are very famous: Ibis styles in Silom and SO Sofitel. No idea about onlyfans videos. Perhaps you can compare the videos to the photos of these places. All the best.

[osborn_tt]

Hey everyone!

 

I'm visiting Bangkok during Sangkran - until the 21st (April) - and I'm very new to cruising!

 

I'm fairly 21, Asian, and I'd consider myself to be a cub (borderline chubby but idk, I just know my ass is huge lmao) and I'm:

- shy unless provoked (like I'm fun but only when the others initiate)

- awkward in social settings (not to the point where I can't pick up social cues, I'm just awkward in general when it comes to strangers like I'll try not to make eye contacts...etc)

 

And this links to my concerns:

- I read through the tips & tricks to identify fellow cruisers but everything seems to be the exact opposite of how I should be

- I'm into older men, like 40+

 

Where do I go in Bangkok to find what I'm looking for without having to change my whole personality?

Edited March 29, 2025 by osborn_tt

[And then]

On 3/30/2025 at 6:53 AM, osborn_tt said:

Hey everyone!

 

I'm visiting Bangkok during Sangkran - until the 21st (April) - and I'm very new to cruising!

 

I'm fairly 21, Asian, and I'd consider myself to be a cub (borderline chubby but idk, I just know my ass is huge lmao) and I'm:

- shy unless provoked (like I'm fun but only when the others initiate)

- awkward in social settings (not to the point where I can't pick up social cues, I'm just awkward in general when it comes to strangers like I'll try not to make eye contacts...etc)

 

And this links to my concerns:

- I read through the tips & tricks to identify fellow cruisers but everything seems to be the exact opposite of how I should be

- I'm into older men, like 40+

 

Where do I go in Bangkok to find what I'm looking for without having to change my whole personality?

i imagine that during songkran, the whole place will be full of gay guys, so you probably don't really need any skills to cruise successfully.

you are young, so the chance of success is automatically very high already

[durianking]

Just be careful this songkran about the crowd and the building. As recent earthquake has affected many buildings in BKK. Sekali too crowded in the party place ......hmmmm , just dont want this to happen

[wyz]

Anyone has a review of Phahon Theater? Is it safe to go as solo? 

[immortal]

On 4/20/2025 at 3:39 AM, wyz said:

Anyone has a review of Phahon Theater? Is it safe to go as solo? 

im also curious. i went the other time but it was closed at 9pm. wondering if anyone can share their exp.

[slimmaturebottom]

I have written quite a bit about Phanon Theatre and the adjacent 39 Hornet coffee on this thread. Please scroll up a few comments to find the details. Happy to answer specific questions about these places.

[Cricket_Cowboy]

Anyone stayed at the new Togayther hostel yet? I believe it used to be the old Marble hostel.  It should be safer to cruise since it market itself as a gay hostel.

[desmadonna]

On 5/19/2025 at 11:48 AM, Cricket_Cowboy said:

Anyone stayed at the new Togayther hostel yet? I believe it used to be the old Marble hostel.  It should be safer to cruise since it market itself as a gay hostel.

i heard it is very happening. you should go try.

[Yi007]

I will go to Bangkok 

next weekend

 

will stay in Siam Stadium hostel hehe

 

[yhtang]

For those going to Bangkok, have fun, but do be aware that the cases of Covid-19 is slowly increasing.

You may wish to consider wearing a mask if you happen to be in crowded places.

 

https://www.thestar.com.my/aseanplus/aseanplus-news/2025/05/20/covid-19-cases-double-in-thailand-bangkok-tops-with-over-6000-infections

 

 

[autumn]

Field Report:

 

I decided to try mybed - it is happening. I am not really into groups but they are really bold. 

It is not noisy (in reference to the street noise) but the sound from those making out is a little loud.

 

I wanted to try the theater but felt that there might be bugs. Instead, I tried 39hornet, it is happening though there's a limited choice but still ok. Someone passionately sucked me dry. 

 

Enjoy!

 

 

[autumn]

how was it?

[autumn]

On 5/20/2025 at 7:29 PM, Yi007 said:

I will go to Bangkok 

next weekend

 

will stay in Siam Stadium hostel hehe

 

how was it?

[autumn]

I also tried Lumpini Park, its not as happening as i thought it is. Its hard to see a place that is not well lighted.

[immortal]

On 5/29/2025 at 12:09 AM, autumn said:

Field Report:

 

I decided to try mybed - it is happening. I am not really into groups but they are really bold. 

It is not noisy (in reference to the street noise) but the sound from those making out is a little loud.

 

I wanted to try the theater but felt that there might be bugs. Instead, I tried 39hornet, it is happening though there's a limited choice but still ok. Someone passionately sucked me dry. 

 

Enjoy!

 

 

yea i wanted to try the theater too but i'm afraid of the dirt, bugs, theives, ghost (from outside it looks very creepy)...

[Sport1]

slightly out of topic. 

 

Need recommendations on places to get underwear, i.e., Jockstrap, thong, etc. And does any legit pharmacy sell Kamagra jelly? Is kamagra jelly regulated? found mix information in the net. 

[desmadonna]

14 hours ago, Sport1 said:

slightly out of topic. 

 

Need recommendations on places to get underwear, i.e., Jockstrap, thong, etc. And does any legit pharmacy sell Kamagra jelly? Is kamagra jelly regulated? found mix information in the net. 

underwear you can try Platinum Mall in the daytime or Silom roadside stalls at night. I think the local pharmacies at Silom Road got sell. Can go in and ask. 

[Cyrus_lim]

15 hours ago, Sport1 said:

slightly out of topic. 

 

Need recommendations on places to get underwear, i.e., Jockstrap, thong, etc. And does any legit pharmacy sell Kamagra jelly? Is kamagra jelly regulated? found mix information in the net. 

X rock underwear, u won’t regret

[yhtang]

On 6/5/2025 at 9:03 AM, Sport1 said:

slightly out of topic. 

 

Need recommendations on places to get underwear, i.e., Jockstrap, thong, etc.

 

I find the cutting of the underwear sold along Silom Road a bit on the small side.  I have to buy a size or two larger than what I usually buy. 

And who knows, maybe you will find someone with a similar interest in underwear while you are browsing along those undies stalls along Silom Road! 😁

[durianking]

13 hours ago, Cyrus_lim said:

X rock underwear, u won’t regret

X rock? sold in Silom or department store is also available? 

[Cyrus_lim]

On 6/6/2025 at 2:31 PM, durianking said:

X rock? sold in Silom or department store is also available? 

No. Is an underwear shop. Google it. The underwear is nice. Some more u can try 

[Yi007]

On 5/29/2025 at 12:11 AM, autumn said:

how was it?

good as usual

many happened in the room or shower room

 

my room was fully occupied with all gays

[durianking]

which website you go to book MyBed? I search it, it is hotel, not hostel. 

[Yi007]

3 hours ago, durianking said:

which website you go to book MyBed? I search it, it is hotel, not hostel. 

Yes name is Mybed hotel

 

https://maps.app.goo.gl/rjUvMK9GJpW8f5fw7?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy

[msclwrshp]

I booked a single capsule in male dorm at Tiang Capsule. Any luck there?

[durianking]

1 hour ago, msclwrshp said:

I booked a single capsule in male dorm at Tiang Capsule. Any luck there?

Which area this Tiang Capsule? 

[durianking]

anyone stay Amara Bangkok before? how is it? 

[msclwrshp]

4 hours ago, durianking said:

Which area this Tiang Capsule? 

It's in Silom, Surawong Rd. I don't know if it's possible to cruise there.

[yhtang]

5 hours ago, msclwrshp said:

I booked a single capsule in male dorm at Tiang Capsule. Any luck there?

 

I am not aware of a lodgement by the name Tiang Capsule.  Please keep us posted with updates! 

 

[msclwrshp]

2 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

I am not aware of a lodgement by the name Tiang Capsule.  Please keep us posted with updates! 

 

It looks good on the hotel booking sites. Sure, I'll be staying there during the Mid-Autumn Festival. I hope to find friends there too.

[Yi007]

9 hours ago, msclwrshp said:

I booked a single capsule in male dorm at Tiang Capsule. Any luck there?

If u want to cruise

U should book Togayther hostel lol

or Siam Stadium or Mybed

 

Tiang also happens but not that much 

[And then]

21 hours ago, Yi007 said:

If u want to cruise

U should book Togayther hostel lol

or Siam Stadium or Mybed

 

Tiang also happens but not that much 

maybe that uncertainty also adds some extra excitement?

 

sounds like some other hostels almost like going to gay saunas

 

 

[durianking]

22 hours ago, Yi007 said:

If u want to cruise

U should book Togayther hostel lol

or Siam Stadium or Mybed

 

Tiang also happens but not that much 

He will stay Tiang and it will make Tiang happening again

[Leanmeat]

On 6/6/2025 at 1:04 PM, yhtang said:

 

I find the cutting of the underwear sold along Silom Road a bit on the small side.  I have to buy a size or two larger than what I usually buy. 

And who knows, maybe you will find someone with a similar interest in underwear while you are browsing along those undies stalls along Silom Road! 😁

Oh a friend told me now very few selling underwear on the street already, no? I rmb getting them for Abt 100b each years ago .

[Mike Sanuk]

3 hours ago, Leanmeat said:

Oh a friend told me now very few selling underwear on the street already, no? I rmb getting them for Abt 100b each years ago .

No change in prices...and I think buy 10 gets a pair free... there's also some on offer at times...3 pairs at B$100

[Leanmeat]

22 minutes ago, Mike Sanuk said:

No change in prices...and I think buy 10 gets a pair free... there's also some on offer at times...3 pairs at B$100

Wah! So they are still around on the streets... Nice

[Mike Sanuk]

27 minutes ago, Leanmeat said:

Wah! So they are still around on the streets... Nice

Just next to BK in Silom... 😂 

[sgtwinkbottom_]

Btm here planning to book one of the cruisy hostel from 8 AUG to 11 AUG 

 

HMU if you wanna tag along

https://t.me/twbt14

[grandcharm]

On 6/30/2025 at 2:52 AM, sgtwinkbottom_ said:

Btm here planning to book one of the cruisy hostel from 8 AUG to 11 AUG 

 

HMU if you wanna tag along

https://t.me/twbt14

Pity I have a trip to Desaru with friends planned for those dates!

But if anyone is up for group trip to BKK on 28AUG to 31AUG let me know! Planning to get a whole house for up to 10 pax to share in Bang Rak / Silom area and then check out the saunas in the neighbourhood (among other things of course) 

[autumn]

On 6/12/2025 at 9:51 PM, durianking said:

which website you go to book MyBed? I search it, it is hotel, not hostel. 

Agoda

[durianking]

12 hours ago, autumn said:

Agoda

Thanks ... I have made my booking on it

[Dmz]

usually My Bed  cruisy on Friday ? 

[murano]

On 6/6/2025 at 2:31 PM, durianking said:

X rock? sold in Silom or department store is also available? 

X rock so so far from Silom, take bus around 1.5 hrs one way 

 

Very challenging for tourists, better don't go 

[tlll]

any latest update of the hotspots for public cruising other than bigc?

 

what about gloryhole, anyone found it?

[Discreet_Xpat_Cruiser]

St Louise Bts AIA building, the toilet near 711 after 8pm i guess no more cleaner around. The toilet is quite. Anyone been there?

[Discreet_Xpat_Cruiser]

Newbie here   Discreet expat exploring

[Kl Visitor]

Chub btm going to Bangkok end of the month

[durianking]

SIDE 

 

New themed cafe with side fun. 

Entrance ticket 300B with one free drinks (that cost 100B). 

Second floor is the bar and drinking places. The staff speak pretty good English. u will get a wrist tag as a ticket. 

Go to the third floor, u can bring ur drink along with you. When I reached there it is about 7.30pm. The staff told me basically people will start coming after works. That day they have event on the 4th floor. 

Okay let me go to the 3rd floor first. Basically there is sitting area with dark room, some bed rack, relaxing chair, and some maze with chair and SM accecories. Basically it is kind of "playground". 

On the 4th floor, there is an event going on. the ticketing guy is very kia su and need to check whether we really have the wrist tag or not. 

actually inside they hire one model, and u can play with him. I mean Side play yah. Basically it is a dark room with table and some computer and telephone, kind of working office table, plus the sound effect recording ah ooh ah ooh to intensify the atmosphere. haha. the model is fully naked while the audience were dressed as normal. Yeah it is quite kinky and new experience, not stop until there. not fantastic I mean. not much crowd, mostly 10 pax that nite. and... when I walk out, the staff who check the ticket bump with me and my whole drink spill on the floor. I tot they will replace it with a new drink, but the guy down stair said, no I have to buy a new one. I think this is unfair as their staff is at fault and they didnt have good-will compensation. I didnt bother to order a new drink for me. anyway it is just a drink and I can get any drinks later when I need it. 

The clock hits 9pm and the event ended, the model go to shower before holding an umbrella to go home. 

It is kind of Hornet cafe style and u ask me should I go there again, I doubt will go there again. 

[adms93]

Anyone in bkk from the 21st of October? I’ll be around. Will be staying at Siam stadium some time. Maybe lazy Sunday and will try togayther too. See ya