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Can one be in love without getting hurt?

Of course, you can: we call that one-sided love.

Or, you never feel any love for that person, then you won't get hurt.

If you are worried that you are going to get hurt, then you just stay single and don't get involve with another person.

 

If you had not feel hurt, how would you know you had truly loved someone?

Do we stopped loving just because we hate the feeling for being hurt?

 

I use Chat GPT to help you with the answer.

 

Can one be in love without getting hurt?
According to some sources, love is meant to come without pain and is supposed to be selfless and free of fear. However, others believe that once you start to love someone, you have already taken the risk of a heartbreak. It’s important to note that everyone’s experiences with love are different and what may be true for one person may not be true for another. Ultimately, it’s up to the individual to decide what love means to them and whether it’s worth the risk of getting hurt.

 

How to be less hurt when in love?
There are several ways to love more and hurt less in relationships. One way is to understand that relationships are not meant to last forever and that everything is impermanent. Attachment is often the cause of suffering, so it’s important to let go of the need to control where a relationship is going and surrender to the natural flow of relationships. It’s also important to be present in moments of intense love, conflict, uncertainty, vulnerability, and joy. Another way to overcome the fear of love is to understand why so many people are scared of love. Many people fear getting hurt or rejected by someone they love, so they pull back from the relationship and limit any type of intimacy. Understanding these fears and working through them can help you be less hurt when in love. 

 

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It is not only possible to be in love without getting hurt,  there are countless couples who live this way.  Many old folks live steadily in love.

 

Although we cannot always choose to be in love,  we can make our love unconditional and make it last forever, even if the subject of our love does otherwise.

 

 

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9 hours ago, Guest Xiobile said:

Are they always together?

Love is like drinking water.  We cannot promise you will not occassionaly get choke on water.  There will be a bit of struggle to breath, but it won't kill you.  Will you stop drinking after that?  Of course not!!!

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Love need to have its own arguments it is norm that brings the bond together! Both will grow wiser and mature. 

 

If there is no hurt either one of you or both of you are cheating each other waiting for that person to say "don't think it is working out!" How lame sad fake it is? Why still in that situationship or relationship if you already knew 😂 what a loser! No wonder both of you cheats 😂

 

Some r single or healing or worst heal too much that there is no more emotions you don't wanna be in that position! 😂

 

Love is like you see your parents or parents loving caring their child. The child also get scolded by their parents too. Make sense right? 

 

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On 6/1/2023 at 11:24 PM, MasterFitMalaySG4U said:

Love need to have its own arguments it is norm that brings the bond together! Both will grow wiser and mature. 

 

If there is no hurt either one of you or both of you are cheating each other waiting for that person to say "don't think it is working out!" How lame sad fake it is? Why still in that situationship or relationship if you already knew 😂 what a loser! No wonder both of you cheats 😂

 

Some r single or healing or worst heal too much that there is no more emotions you don't wanna be in that position! 😂

 

Love is like you see your parents or parents loving caring their child. The child also get scolded by their parents too. Make sense right? 

 

 

True love seems to have its own decision making power.  It might grow and exist without one being too conscious about it.   It can happen that the love becomes the strongest when the object of love is lost.   Let's not wait so long,  and recognize the love that exists, and care for it.

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