side fun

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

This does not required anal or sex. So if u r new or curious or inexperienced u just gotta trust the flow. They say practice make it perfect haha so trust the process with the right person haha 

[egal]

do u expect bj too then

[Kentazmania]

please understand that side fun means that there is no penetration involved. So as per say and mention for those kept on thinking is sucking is involved please see the below.

 

1. Sucking -> yes 

2. Kissing -> yes

3. Hand job -> yes

4. Hugging -> yes

5. Groping -> yes 

 

if u are Curious or Bi Curious or Straight and wanna try or experience u can do any of the above for side. 

if u are thinking of trying penetration my best suggestion is that u try with a toy before u handle a real human. 

reason behind it is simple u dont want to get hurt by the real person as they can get rough and u are not ready and may injured yourself.

Start small then slowly increase the size before u go for the real human. this is my 2 cents. 

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Yes kentaz valid points 👍 

 

Also if u r so shy or very curious u can just meet the person shirtless n touch him anywhere haha or just shower together n go with flow haha 

 

I have encounter those who r new or curious not even side fun. U gotta go with their flow but just supervise it so let them lead which ever they interest at. Never rushed those curious or new or inexperienced u gotta give them time or weeks or months when they ready coz their hormones is raging n they learning to control it our job is like support or supervise based on their needs then when they get comfy will proceed next stage or level or steps haha 

[JamesAdmas]

Just curious if a guy says he is not into anal or oral, will he still classify as side?

[leckmich]

i think so;  no penetration at all, rite

[cbm]

6 hours ago, JamesAdmas said:

Just curious if a guy says he is not into anal or oral, will he still classify as side?

Yes

[yhtang]

On 2/25/2026 at 3:31 PM, JamesAdmas said:

Just curious if a guy says he is not into anal or oral, will he still classify as side?

 

I think not.  If the person is not into anal or oral, he could be partial to mutual masturbation or frottage. 

 

In my mind, a "Side" would more be a person who is quite contented to watch the action and not actively participate.  

 

[cbm]

8 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

I think not.  If the person is not into anal or oral, he could be partial to mutual masturbation or frottage. 

 

In my mind, a "Side" would more be a person who is quite contented to watch the action and not actively participate.  

 

 

A watcher is a voyeur, not side

[MasterChief]

7 minutes ago, cbm said:

 

A watcher is a voyeur, not side

Yeah true

[yhtang]

On 2/27/2026 at 10:48 PM, cbm said:

 

A watcher is a voyeur, not side

 

You do have a point there.  

 

[fatguy]

I am not really into anal, I can btm, but having to clean before just makes it quite troublesome. I am find with just side fun, bj, rim, kissing... even a hand job... can be enjoyable. 

[DonT]

23 hours ago, fatguy said:

I am not really into anal, I can btm, but having to clean before just makes it quite troublesome. I am find with just side fun, bj, rim, kissing... even a hand job... can be enjoyable. 

Agreed. 

Other than anal, other side fun can be enjoyable too

[Balestier]

On 3/12/2026 at 8:01 PM, DonT said:

Agreed. 

Other than anal, other side fun can be enjoyable too

Love passionate kissing alot alot alot. 

[moonchild]

On 3/12/2026 at 8:01 PM, DonT said:

Agreed. 

Other than anal, other side fun can be enjoyable too

It’s easier to manage 

[leckmich]

side must always include bj, is that so?

[Balestier]

3 hours ago, leckmich said:

side must always include bj, is that so?

No .... all vibes. I have ppl not comfortable for fear of STDs

[moonchild]

 

3 hours ago, Balestier said:

No .... all vibes. I have ppl not comfortable for fear of STDs

Ya , always good to be cautious

[Balestier]

1 minute ago, moonchild said:

 

Ya , always good to be cautious

Maybe it is being cautious or not having met a guy who turn u on enough to cover his lampa w yr mouth

[moonchild]

2 hours ago, Balestier said:

Maybe it is being cautious or not having met a guy who turn u on enough to cover his lampa w yr mouth

That’s a common issue we all face don’t we? Haha

 

But still being careful is always good 😊 

[Cruiser123]

Cool

[leckmich]

i suppose there is no fix def fr side

[Balestier]

8 hours ago, leckmich said:

i suppose there is no fix def fr side

There is. Simple and straightforward 

[Balestier]

8 hours ago, leckmich said:

i suppose there is no fix def fr side

A side" (or "side gay") is a gay or bisexual man who prefers to engage in sexual activities other than anal intercourse, such as oral sex, manual stimulation (handjobs), kissing, and cuddling

[MasterChief]

Does fingering counts as side fun? My buddy likes to finger me while jerking me

[Balestier]

39 minutes ago, MasterChief said:

Does fingering counts as side fun? My buddy likes to finger me while jerking me

But u like anal since u enjoyed fingering ??

[MasterChief]

I have done anal but his d*ck never entered. Maybe i didn't stop him when he did that because i was enjoying too much of his hj. Haha

[Balestier]

17 minutes ago, MasterChief said:

I have done anal but his d*ck never entered. Maybe i didn't stop him when he did that because i was enjoying too much of his hj. Haha

Point is u WILL not WONT

[kinky kyle]

Side is good enough. I prefer to play safe.

[ToughGuy]

57 minutes ago, kinky kyle said:

Side is good enough. I prefer to play safe.

SMART thinking ....PLU group, highest in STD HIV cases, regardless of country

[oBiGeekie]

The only sides I get is coleslaw and mashed potatoes 🥲

[ToughGuy]

5 hours ago, oBiGeekie said:

The only sides I get is coleslaw and mashed potatoes 🥲

With cum dressing??😂😂😂💦💦💦💦

[leckmich]

On 4/30/2026 at 7:49 AM, Balestier said:

A side" (or "side gay") is a gay or bisexual man who prefers to engage in sexual activities other than anal intercourse, such as oral sex, manual stimulation (handjobs), kissing, and cuddling

The „such as“ part includes too many options, hence not fixed

[Balestier]

1 hour ago, leckmich said:

The „such as“ part includes too many options, hence not fixed

Anything other than anal intercourse is the KEY

Edited May 1 by Balestier

[Cruiser123]

In the end I am sure I will 💦 

[EastSgDad]

Side fun? 

Enjoyable if both are regular... trusted and safe 

[Cruiser123]

trust? not ez to get by

[EastSgDad]

On 5/14/2026 at 5:21 PM, EastSgDad said:

Side fun? 

Enjoyable if both are regular... trusted and safe 

~ ditto ~

 

... monogamous exclusive for security and safety reasons 

[OziBoi]

Not really into topping or being a bottom…. More into kisses, cuddles, sucking and connecting. 
 

looking for others with similar interests 😏

Edited 22 hours ago by OziBoi

[Balestier]

38 minutes ago, OziBoi said:

Not really into topping or being a bottom…. More into kisses, cuddles, sucking and connecting. 
 

looking for others with similar interests 😏

Side here too. Love kissing hugging oral and maybe rimming

[Kentan76]

On 5/16/2026 at 12:53 PM, EastSgDad said:

~ ditto ~

 

... monogamous exclusive for security and safety reasons 

Yeah .me too.

[Kentan76]

On 5/14/2026 at 5:21 PM, EastSgDad said:

Side fun? 

Enjoyable if both are regular... trusted and safe 

Yeah .l like too .buddy with trust

[Kentan76]

On 5/1/2026 at 2:12 AM, oBiGeekie said:

The only sides I get is coleslaw and mashed potatoes 🥲

Nice too .haha.what u looking

[Kentan76]

On 3/12/2026 at 8:01 PM, DonT said:

Agreed. 

Other than anal, other side fun can be enjoyable too

Yeah .I like too.

[Kentan76]

On 2/16/2024 at 5:52 PM, samdiggin said:

im all for side fun. it can feel very good even without any penetration. but of coz it has to be very mutual. sometimes on the pretext of side fun, ive encountered guys who still try to ask if anal is possible MULTIPLE TIMES during fun, and it can become a huge turn-off.

Yeah .I agreed .side fun is nice too.is u have wrong trusted buddy 

[Kentan76]

On 8/10/2024 at 3:04 PM, auscent said:

Sucking can be fun. The sight where we both deep throat each other is thrilling.

N8ce too.