James Justin Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 (edited) Firstly, anyone know what’s the difference between straight curious and bi-curious? It feels like those terms are used interchangeably 😂 anyway back to the point. I guess any tops,bottoms or sides can chime in. For someone who is straight and curious about his sexuality and keen to experiment (just physical aspect and not emotional aspect like dating someone or falling in love and what not), what should he do? Hoping to get some thoughts and opinions of people who went through this similar struggle before. Would it be better to experiment with someone of similar age and profile or? Would a similar straight but curious guy be better for him to experiment with? Or is it better to experiment with an experienced side or btm? Is it normal and better to get to know the other person too first as friends or at least slightly familiar acquaintance or it makes no difference from a random person you meet for the first time through BW? How did you also overcome the, I guess slight paranoia (at least for me), of people finding out? Discretion is important but is there too much discretion and paranoia? 😂 Anyway, there’s a lot to ramble on but I’ll just leave it as it is for now, you know with the average attention span shortening and all! Please keep it civil and kind and my PMs / inbox is open! Edited May 16 by James Justin Typo with the word experiment. I wrote experience instead of experiment. van0 and Jack_LJK 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 First, how old are you? Then ask yourself, does woman or man turns you on? When you watch porn, who are you more interested in? You can lie to others, for fear of rejections but you cannot lie to yourself of who you really are. So, to answer your questions. 1. No. Depending on your age, the person who might be your first time should be someone experience, maybe older not no necessary have to be the same age. It doesn't matter as long as he is able to guide you and help ease you into your first time. 2. Unless you know you are born bottom or top or side, otherwise, you will only know when you had tried all possibilities. Don't be too quick to say no. 3. It would be good practice to speak to the person and know the person. Don't have to be shy to tell people that you had never tried sex. It's nothing to be ashame of. the reason for speaking and getting to know the person is so that you can find out what you are getting yourself into. 4. Please also learn how to protect yourself. Please practice safe sex and tell your partner what you can or cannot do. If they don't respect your wishes, then they cannot be trusted, especially when you are naked and he insist or tried to fuck you raw. Tell him NO, if it is against your wishes. 5. Learn how to wear a condom if you are going to fuck. Some guys will turn soft when putting on condom. Let the bottom put on the condom if you not too sure how to do it. 6. Anyway, learn to explore and tried to relax and enjoy the process. Sex can be very enjoyable but if the person knows how to make love to you, you will enjoy even more. If you realised that you do not like sex with men, then go try sex with women. Only then you will be able to tell, which you prefer. That said, I still think you are more likely gay than str8 since you can be in BW. Anyway, enjoy exploring your sexuality! It's going to be a very stimulating journey! ktq and van0 1 1 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbm Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 (edited) Simply put, men are horny. I have played with guys who identify as straight, bi, gay and everything in between. These labels aren't meaningful for me when it comes to having fun. It's better if they tell what sexual activity they are into or not into. Examples: Identify as gay, doesn't like anal Identify as straight, enjoys getting blowjobs from men Identify as straight curious, enjoys receiving anal play For someone who is curious, and prefer abit more control on how the experience will be, he should define what he is curious about. What activities he's open to trying and what activities he is not keen on. Then he can go on the hunt to find someone who matches with his interests. You may have certain preferences about physical attributes, compatibility, attitude. Then there are practical considerations such as availability and whether he can host or not. You can sort these out in your chats with potential play partners. Most chats will fizzle out and you have to keep on grinding. Who will find out? How will they find out? The only way they find out is because they are also perusing the apps, isn't it? Edited May 16 by cbm van0 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted May 17 Report Share Posted May 17 Anything you do sexually with a guy is gay. Even bi or str8 curious haha is also gay. Most will disagree etc haha but it is what it is. Haha If I were u just stay str8 get a gf who accept understand you for who u r make babies have your GENERATION. Singapore birth rate is almost 0. Haha There is more then a million gay bi in Singapore and increase in trans. Do what best for you! Think of your future and money. Do some business etc....Not getting diseases etc...haha Thank me later! I rather make YOU curious think hard long...before going to the cold 🥶 cruel bias racism gay bi world! There is no turning back! Remember the world 🌎 is dying and SATANs is conquering haha most Angels 😇 or innocent are being tricked etc.... karma is real. What goes around comes around from "YOUR HEAD TO YOUR TOES!" Gonna eat your aura energy and u will look older faster then your age! Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted Sunday at 03:17 AM Report Share Posted Sunday at 03:17 AM To find out if you are gay or bi, you need to conduct an experiment on yourself. Watch gay porn and see if get an erection. For the results to be conclusive, repeat the experiment 3 times. NOTE: Do not watch straight porn as you don't know where your eyes are focusing on. That's what I did for myself. Hope it helps. van0, ebutx and yhtang 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lightsmith32 Posted Sunday at 04:43 PM Report Share Posted Sunday at 04:43 PM (edited) If u are here means u are gay ... Whether u want a cock in you or you want to put yours in someone .. you are gay ... Find a mature man u are comfortable with and attracted to and just let things flow ... I was straight as an arrow till I met a feminine guy who charmed me and turned me. Haven looked back since. Edited Sunday at 04:45 PM by lightsmith32 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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