Are you still attracted to your regular fuck buddy if he's out of shape but sex is still great?

[juicyass]

I have a regular fuck buddy whom we met few years back. Both of us were slim and lean that time. As the years passed, our physique changed due to lifestyle habit. I was consistently on the gym fit side while he was at borderline bear/fat. Somehow the sex was still mindblowing great every month we met.

 

To be honest, I guess we both have become comfortable with each other in sex and we tend to forgo the flaws of the person you used to attracted to. Because finding a compatible sex partner is extremely hard these days. 

 

For me, as long as the sex is still a bomb, I wouldn't mind if he is out of shape.  

 

What is your take in this ? 

[Guapo]

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Edited May 8 by Guapo

[Balestier]

38 minutes ago, juicyass said:

I have a regular fuck buddy whom we met few years back. Both of us were slim and lean that time. As the years passed, our physique changed due to lifestyle habit. I was consistently on the gym fit side while he was at borderline bear/fat. Somehow the sex was still mindblowing great every month we met.

 

To be honest, I guess we both have become comfortable with each other in sex and we tend to forgo the flaws of the person you used to attracted to. Because finding a compatible sex partner is extremely hard these days. 

 

For me, as long as the sex is still a bomb, I wouldn't mind if he is out of shape.  

 

What is your take in this ? 

Guess u r already very comfortable w each other

[juicyass]

3 minutes ago, Balestier said:

Guess u r already very comfortable w each other

 

the dick is the bomb. that's why hahahaha

[Balestier]

3 minutes ago, juicyass said:

 

the dick is the bomb. that's why hahahaha

Not easy to find ppl willing to host too

[juicyass]

2 minutes ago, Balestier said:

Not easy to find ppl willing to host too

 

yes this is very true. but we always went to a cheap motel for 2 hours rate la. since the sex always last around 45 min. 

 

To find a guy who gives great sex and can host, literally impossible. lol

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, juicyass said:

 

yes this is very true. but we always went to a cheap motel for 2 hours rate la. since the sex always last around 45 min. 

 

To find a guy who gives great sex and can host, literally impossible. lol

Enjoy while it last.

[jonathan94]

7 hours ago, juicyass said:

I have a regular fuck buddy whom we met few years back. Both of us were slim and lean that time. As the years passed, our physique changed due to lifestyle habit. I was consistently on the gym fit side while he was at borderline bear/fat. Somehow the sex was still mindblowing great every month we met.

 

To be honest, I guess we both have become comfortable with each other in sex and we tend to forgo the flaws of the person you used to attracted to. Because finding a compatible sex partner is extremely hard these days. 

 

For me, as long as the sex is still a bomb, I wouldn't mind if he is out of shape.  

 

What is your take in this ? 

I’m honestly a little jealous — it’s amazing to have regular fuck buddy like that, especially when you guys still make time to meet every month and enjoy each other’s company 🤩

[juicyass]

23 minutes ago, jonathan94 said:

I’m honestly a little jealous — it’s amazing to have regular fuck buddy like that, especially when you guys still make time to meet every month and enjoy each other’s company 🤩

 

Well, it has been getting way lesser now. Since he has a gf, he barely texted me anymore. Last meetup was few months ago after almost a year of not meeting up. Probably he has another bottom who suits his time and convenience. I am a bit upset but not surprising. He stays quite far away, so meeting up has always been a challenge. Good times always come to an end. I shall move on and look for others. 

[jonathan94]

4 minutes ago, juicyass said:

 

Well, it has been getting way lesser now. Since he has a gf, he barely texted me anymore. Last meetup was few months ago after almost a year of not meeting up. Probably he has another bottom who suits his time and convenience. I am a bit upset but not surprising. He stays quite far away, so meeting up has always been a challenge. Good times always come to an end. I shall move on and look for others. 

Move on with courage and determination. Let’s strive together 😊

[Jo L]

Yes, I would be. If sex isn't great, a handsome muscle god is nothing close to a satisfaction, so basically a nothing.

[absboy]

On 5/8/2026 at 11:45 AM, juicyass said:

I have a regular fuck buddy whom we met few years back. Both of us were slim and lean that time. As the years passed, our physique changed due to lifestyle habit. I was consistently on the gym fit side while he was at borderline bear/fat. Somehow the sex was still mindblowing great every month we met.

 

To be honest, I guess we both have become comfortable with each other in sex and we tend to forgo the flaws of the person you used to attracted to. Because finding a compatible sex partner is extremely hard these days. 

 

For me, as long as the sex is still a bomb, I wouldn't mind if he is out of shape.  

 

What is your take in this ? 

 

I had similar experience before. When I bumped into my JC crush after 20 years, he was already out of shape and aged more than me. However, when I looked at him, I still find him cute and felt nervous talking to him as if we were back in our old school days.

 

I don't know who to explain but I think if we knew that person for some time and have had feelings for him before regardless if it's for sex or love, we tend to be less critical about his appearance.

 

My question to you and myself is if we had not known them previously, will we be attracted to them if we are meeting them for the first time today in their present stages?  

 

My answer is probably a yes. The appeal in him that I was attracted to before still present. In my case, it is his boyish look but I might not develop feelings for him as the situation is different now. We are starting off as strangers, not as schoolmates.

 

 

[HC-B]

It’s sometimes the out of shape dudes or fuck buddies who serve!
 

One such middle aged dude with a paunch bloomed into a masterful top after getting him hard. Pounded my hole in so many angles till my eyes rolled and tongue drooped.
 

So if the size is right and the sex divine, I omit the rotundity!

[funky beaver]

Why can't you request him to get in shape?

[XgymX]

hahaha if you still get turned on enough by him even though he is out of shape. i will tell him that i prefer if he is in shape the moment he starts to look off

[radiusulnar]

14 minutes ago, XgymX said:

i will tell him that i prefer if he is in shape the moment he starts to look off

Ouch. The ego must be bruised. But I guess he just keep up with your bod

[XgymX]

7 minutes ago, radiusulnar said:

Ouch. The ego must be bruised. But I guess he just keep up with your bod

dun think its hurting his ego la. he did get back into shape soon after though.

[juicyass]

On 5/9/2026 at 11:16 PM, funky beaver said:

Why can't you request him to get in shape?

 

good question. probably i didn't want to hurt his ego and, also, his full time working hours are odd and working part time as e-hailing driver as well. so i feel a bit too much to ask since he was willing to take some time to have sex with me. summore now he has a gf, he totally didn't find me anymore. 

[Naveyafluz]

I will still prefer a good sex though rather than no sex. Lights off, specs off, actually no differences. Lol

[Why?]

On 5/8/2026 at 11:45 AM, juicyass said:

For me, as long as the sex is still a bomb, I wouldn't mind if he is out of shape.  

 

What is your take in this ? 

Your ass has already decided, your opinion doesn't matter.   

[paddle_up]

Exactly, most important is the sex is still great.

 

Remember the comedian shared during his/her talk show, others can see the wetness in your pants/shorts when you wet yourself but only you and Only You, will feel the warmness and deepness that Only You will know and feel.