Am I Confused?

[Guest Ben]

Hi guys, need some advice here. So I consider myself as straight. However I always had a hard time with girls and it seems to be difficult to find a gf, often being friendzone. 

 

I have this guy friend whom I confided in and he has always offered ‘make my desires complete’, although I’ve rejected numerous times as I don’t like the idea.

However, recently after being turned down by a crush I was feeling down and when my male friend offered a..."special mouth action" I accepted it to feel better.

However, I declined to give it him back as ‘I was not comfortable with another guy’. Now I’m confused because I have the urge to let him make me 'shiok' but I still did not feel comfortable with me making him shiok.

 

Am I considered bi or confused?

[juicyass]

31 minutes ago, Guest Ben said:

Hi guys, need some advice here. So I consider myself as straight. However I always had a hard time with girls and it seems to be difficult to find a gf, often being friendzone. 

 

I have this guy friend whom I confided in and he has always offered ‘make my desires complete’, although I’ve rejected numerous times as I don’t like the idea.

However, recently after being turned down by a crush I was feeling down and when my male friend offered a..."special mouth action" I accepted it to feel better.

However, I declined to give it him back as ‘I was not comfortable with another guy’. Now I’m confused because I have the urge to let him make me 'shiok' but I still did not feel comfortable with me making him shiok.

 

Am I considered bi or confused?

 

I have encountered plenty of bi-curious guys like you. Enjoyed receiving but refuse to reciprocate. It is common amongst the bi-curious guy group. 

Some do not like to kiss a guy; Some do not like to touch any part of a man. But they do love getting their dick sucked, especially, by a man because gay guys suck dick 100% skillful than women.

Even some gay guys refuse to do any of it to another man, just enjoyed being the receiving end, in this case, it is more like a personal preference.

 

You may want to try fucking a man's ass. Who knows ? Probably you may like it.

 

Forget about the labelling, whatever makes you feel better and happy, just go for it and let it be. Sex is a spectrum, there is no fixation. You can be Bi one day, gay for a different day, straight for some days.

 

A lot of times these bi-curious guys enjoy their sexual pleasure more with men than women themselves.

 

 

[funky beaver]

My comment is on the topic of consent. We all should respect consent. If you decline to make him shiok and he is being ass about it. Time to move on.

[cbm]

Bi here. There are mainly two parts in attraction.

1) romantic feelings

2) sexual attraction

 

They don't have to go together. A person can have romantic feelings for women only and be sexually attracted to both women and men. This is one example. There are other variations.

 

You are talking about your romantic feelings towards women. 

 

Your guy friend is talking about his sexual attraction to you. 

 

A blow job can feel good regardless the gender of the person giving it. It's got nothing to do with being gay or straight or bi. It's about physical pleasure. As mentioned above, some gays never suck dick.

 

If you want someone to suck your dick, make sure it's clean. No urine smell. No dick cheese (smegma). Be considerate.

 

If you're not comfortable with reciprocating and sucking your guy friend's dick, be upfront with him about this. See if he is okay with this or not. Consent goes both ways.

 

Note: even if you agree to suck his dick, doesn't mean that you will be good at it. Your inexperience in this area might make it unenjoyable or even painful for him.

 

[Pubico1]

5 hours ago, Guest Ben said:

Hi guys, need some advice here. So I consider myself as straight. However I always had a hard time with girls and it seems to be difficult to find a gf, often being friendzone. 

 

I have this guy friend whom I confided in and he has always offered ‘make my desires complete’, although I’ve rejected numerous times as I don’t like the idea.

However, recently after being turned down by a crush I was feeling down and when my male friend offered a..."special mouth action" I accepted it to feel better.

However, I declined to give it him back as ‘I was not comfortable with another guy’. Now I’m confused because I have the urge to let him make me 'shiok' but I still did not feel comfortable with me making him shiok.

 

Am I considered bi or confused?

You still straight. Just exposed to a BJ by a guy. There are some gay guys are ok with just giving BJ and not receiving. You need to check with him. A straight getting “shioked” circumstantially by a gay is quite kinky 🔥 

[cutejack]

7 hours ago, juicyass said:

 

I have encountered plenty of bi-curious guys like you. Enjoyed receiving but refuse to reciprocate. It is common amongst the bi-curious guy group. 

Some do not like to kiss a guy; Some do not like to touch any part of a man. But they do love getting their dick sucked, especially, by a man because gay guys suck dick 100% skillful than women.

Even some gay guys refuse to do any of it to another man, just enjoyed being the receiving end, in this case, it is more like a personal preference.

 

You may want to try fucking a man's ass. Who knows ? Probably you may like it.

 

Forget about the labelling, whatever makes you feel better and happy, just go for it and let it be. Sex is a spectrum, there is no fixation. You can be Bi one day, gay for a different day, straight for some days.

 

A lot of times these bi-curious guys enjoy their sexual pleasure more with men than women themselves.

 

 

Looks like someone trying to add in one more member in our group. I'll calculate your commission for yr hard work ya. 

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

You r confused but at the same time u are curious n like it. 

 

As long your mouth and ass didnt get played touch u r deemed straight if I were u stick to that is just that you haven't meet the right girl yet. Pls follow your instincts not your desire. 

 

There is estimated 1 million gay bi in Singapore most have their preferences till they felt alone drama mama haha 

 

Pls use your Right to say NO n don't mf feel guilty about it. Maybe I can train u to be another master dom top just received n watch haha 

[Damienzo]

I feel chances are, you are bi. 
 

[Guest Guest]

I think the thread starter is a straight guy who is horny but cannot get action with women. So guy also can.

[Home_SG]

On 7/26/2026 at 8:36 AM, Guest Ben said:

Hi guys, need some advice here. So I consider myself as straight. However I always had a hard time with girls and it seems to be difficult to find a gf, often being friendzone. 

 

I have this guy friend whom I confided in and he has always offered ‘make my desires complete’, although I’ve rejected numerous times as I don’t like the idea.

However, recently after being turned down by a crush I was feeling down and when my male friend offered a..."special mouth action" I accepted it to feel better.

However, I declined to give it him back as ‘I was not comfortable with another guy’. Now I’m confused because I have the urge to let him make me 'shiok' but I still did not feel comfortable with me making him shiok.

 

Am I considered bi or confused?

Follow your heart. That’s all it may matters 

[Damienzo]

The fact that you found it difficult to date girls says a lot. 
I believed I went through a similar phase. Eventually I came to realised I could not develop sentimental feelings for gals and a guy came along and never had I had this much feelings for someone before.
I think you are confused and you should take sometime to explore the possibility of developing an emotional connection with a member of the same sex, then you might actually realise your preference is to date a member of the same sex and not gals after all. Think about it 

Edited July 29 by Damienzo

[J.J.H]

As a Bi here, 

It is easier to communicate with a guy than a girl. talking to them is so complicated TT

I also kinda enjoy being sucked, but the other accepts that I dont reciprocate.

[Pubico1]

On 7/26/2026 at 8:36 AM, Guest Ben said:

Hi guys, need some advice here. So I consider myself as straight. However I always had a hard time with girls and it seems to be difficult to find a gf, often being friendzone. 

 

I have this guy friend whom I confided in and he has always offered ‘make my desires complete’, although I’ve rejected numerous times as I don’t like the idea.

However, recently after being turned down by a crush I was feeling down and when my male friend offered a..."special mouth action" I accepted it to feel better.

However, I declined to give it him back as ‘I was not comfortable with another guy’. Now I’m confused because I have the urge to let him make me 'shiok' but I still did not feel comfortable with me making him shiok.

 

Am I considered bi or confused?

Did your guy friend ‘shiok’ your little bro again  recently? Share more of your tales🔥