How Many Of You Have White Boyfriend Before? + Angmo With Asian Boyfriend (compiled）

[singalion]

On 2/9/2023 at 4:09 AM, Adam_ said:

So many racist xenophobic and ageist presumptions, stereotypes, judgements and attitudes in this thread.

 

So many rediculous assumptions about who will be top and who is bottom

 

Every human on earth is different and has own attitudes upbringing thoughts needs attractions and desires. Everyone has different incomes and level of openness to difference. 

 

I was shocked when younger well off Asian friend took me to dinner in restaurant (he was shouting) in BKK and waiter would only talk to me and asked what my friend wanted to eat.

 

Treated this lovely young business man like a prostitute and assumed I was paying the bill. Terrible attitude.

 

Unfortunately same attitude in some posts above.

 

Sad - In an oppressed minority group we judge and condemn a group within our own group.

 

 

 

You are right!

 

Let people be happy how they want to be happy...

 

Actually don't understand why Asians and in particular Singaporeans always need to focus so much on where someone comes from, whether he is Caucasian, Asian or not Chinese...

 

I would be more interested why Singaporeans need to resort to such comparisons and attitudes?

Is it jealousy? Is it an inferiority complex? Is it lack of self confidence?

 

Just what makes people focus so much on race, status etc?

 

 

Can't they just enjoy life, relationships and sex?

 

 

 

[singalion]

2 hours ago, And then said:

I live in Australia.

I used to be into white guys, but last few years, have become sticky rice, haha

Yeah, cruising here in Sydney sauna definitely another element of "difficulty" compared to SG... you just don't know whether your target is into ang mohs only, or not. There is nothing sadder than seeing a hot Asian guy go into a cubicle with a decrepit white grandpa. Breaks my heart, haha...

 

It might be sad for a hot young Caucasian guy too. haha

 

The worn out Caucasian grandpa just might have that huge fitting tool to bring the young hot Asian into ecstasy.

 

Australia is already quite cosmopolitan in the sense that you can find anyone with any ethnic background and not just Caucasians.

 

I don't think there in Sydney is any lack of Asian guys who wouldn't mind having fun with another Asian.

 

The bigger issue in Australia should be whether any Caucasian is into Asians or not.

 

 

[singalion]

3 hours ago, And then said:

I live in Australia.

I used to be into white guys, but last few years, have become sticky rice, haha

Yeah, cruising here in Sydney sauna definitely another element of "difficulty" compared to SG... you just don't know whether your target is into ang mohs only, or not. There is nothing sadder than seeing a hot Asian guy go into a cubicle with a decrepit white grandpa. Breaks my heart, haha...

 

What I noted in Singapore is that there seems to be some new fanciness into "daddy" types.

My gay friends told me that they stopped searching for younger guys and just go for the daddy type.

 

May I critic your expression of "white decrepit" grandpa.

This is not nice.

Probably there was some other suitable not that old shag material in the sauna but the guy still preferred the grandpa. Let him have that choice. Never forget you will grow old also.

 

What I admit is, that there are worn out white guys who frequent places such as Pattaya or Phuket searching for mid aged Asian guys to entertain them sexually. Same I heard from the Philippines...

 

 

And if you visit any sauna in Singapore again, trust me there are Singaporeans who don't walk more than 30 seconds around the aisle of the rooms and immediately push a 50 - 70s greying not that slim Caucasian guy into the cubicle... 

 

Edited March 16, 2023 by singalion

[singalion]

3 hours ago, calvt said:

I was never interested in dating a white guy after a few bad experiences in Australia. They were really closed up and into their crickets and inwards looking. T

 

Eventually they just wanted fun and not any sort of relationship (social or sexual).

 

Not every Asian guy looks for a relationship also.

 

And you should also be aware that Singaporeans tend to stick together in their own turf also. Gay Foreigners in Singapore may experience the same also, not having local friends etc...

 

 

[And then]

33 minutes ago, singalion said:

 

What I noted in Singapore is that there seems to be some new fanciness into "daddy" types.

My gay friends told me that they stopped searching for younger guys and just go for the daddy type.

 

May I critic your expression of "white decrepit" grandpa.

This is not nice.

Probably there was some other suitable not that old shag material in the sauna but the guy still preferred the grandpa. Let him have that choice. Never forget you will grow old also.

 

What I admit is, that there are worn out white guys who frequent places such as Pattaya or Phuket searching for mid aged Asian guys to entertain them sexually. Same I heard from the Philippines...

 

 

And if you visit any sauna in Singapore again, trust me there are Singaporeans who don't walk more than 30 seconds around the aisle of the rooms and immediately push a 50 - 70s greying not that slim Caucasian guy into the cubicle... 

 

If the hot Asian guy goes off with a hot white daddy, or at least someone somewhat conventionally attractive, then I have nothing to say.... it is what it is.  But when it is someone who looks like they belong in a nursing home, then the pill is somewhat harder to swallow. 

The comparison with Singapore is a little bit different.

In SG sauna, white meat is uncommon, so fanciers will take what they can.  That is certainly not the case in Sydney.

 

Of course there is nothing wrong with someone liking really old guys, but it just makes me feel a bit weird.

[Guest 溶冰冰]

4 hours ago, calvt said:

quite true in the Gay community everywhere.

People tend to pre-judge a white person as being more desirable.

When I was going to the clubs in Sydney, a lot of Asian gays would view each other as competition.

Or when I was working at this company, there was this loud pinoy gay who would be so rude to me because I happen to be gay and sometimes our clients are nice to me by giving me gifts or stuff and he would make a big fuss.

He would also ask me the race of the guy i was dating with that time, it was another asian gay.

Then he was like, 'oh sorry to hear that'.

I was never interested in dating a white guy after a few bad experiences in Australia. They were really closed up and into their crickets and inwards looking. That's why I rather look for Asians to date. But most of the ones in Australia are looking for white gays.

 

 

 

I want to gaypoh lar.

 

That filipino gay co worker, is he the type that born and grew up in Oz or those that got in via sponsored de facto partner spouse visa types. 

 

You can poke and slime him via mail order spouse if he belongs to the latter. 

 

I think lotsa  Thais , Pinoy,

 

 

 

lesser of Sinkies and Msians go there by  sponsored de facto partners / spouse visas .

 

We are not so desperately poor and dying to get out of the poverty shithole as the poorer provinces outside of metro manila

 

So you can see why , he is so very proud of having snagged an old, richer angmoh gey who is willing to sponsor him out of the slums in pinoyland. 

 

He is only 借光 and 沾光 。only.

 

And if he is not granted permanent residences yet , he may lose his temporary visa and asked to leave Australia. 

 

But u can never underestimate the resourcefulness of dire straits dirt poor pinoys. 

 

They can even get into sham marriages with another Pinoy lady who have obtained P.R. IN OZ , A sham marriage , just to get in Australia and then  continue living an open gey life in Oz after that. 

 

Tell me how many sinkies will do that desperate measure. 

 

 

Anywat, the prize is always an ang moh Australian citizen partner. 

 

Even tho the so called  Ang Moh maybe those with darker skin, black wavy hair, Roman nose, thick chest hair, of Lebanese , Albanian, Romanian, Middle, Iranian, Syrian,  Eastern heritage, they all get lumped together as Ang Moh,

 

Even Nescafe skinned Sourh Asians can qualify as Ang Moh in Australia becos a large part of Australian anglo saxons have  Greeks, Yugoslav, LEBANESE, Iraqi, Iranians intermarriages so have gotten mixed with the brown darker skinned Caucasoid blood types . 

 

They are all lumped as Ang moh for us from Sourh East Asia.

 

A pinoy will not want a fellow South East Asianer. 

 

 

Its like  撞号

 

 

[singalion]

6 minutes ago, And then said:

If the hot Asian guy goes off with a hot white daddy, or at least someone somewhat conventionally attractive, then I have nothing to say.... it is what it is.  But when it is someone who looks like they belong in a nursing home, then the pill is somewhat harder to swallow. 

The comparison with Singapore is a little bit different.

In SG sauna, white meat is uncommon, so fanciers will take what they can.  That is certainly not the case in Sydney.

 

Of course there is nothing wrong with someone liking really old guys, but it just makes me feel a bit weird.

 

No worries I understood your point.

 

I assume the grandpa was the one who might have swallowed a pill to get hard. 😂  ha ha

 

 

But if you take away the race what difference does it make?

Wouldn't you also feel sad if the Asian guy went with an Asian "outdated" grandpa into the cubicle?

 

What I want to say is:

 

a) accept the guy's preference

b) don't boil it down onto race.

 

Regarding white guys in Singapore sauna's, not sure when you visited the last time, but you might be wrong on that, from my view the amount is much higher than some years back.

 

If you go to certain areas in Singapore, on the apps you will find more white guys than locals!

 

 

 

[singalion]

pointer:

 

Hm, if you know Singaporeans or Malaysians who immigrated to Australia through a relationship avenue, then probably

I m not sure if Filipinos and Thais are the only "desperate" ones.

 

I don't want to comment on the rest because the post seems to me carrying too many prejudices on other nationalities and a glorification on locals...

 

One of my Australian friends partnered a Singaporean Chinese, took him to Melbourne and guess what, just 3 months after that Singaporean received his passport, he quit the Australian. ...

 

 

[calvt]

4 minutes ago, Guest 溶冰冰 said:

 

 

I want to gaypoh lar.

 

That filipino gay co worker, is he the type that born and grew up in Oz or those that got in via sponsored de facto partner spouse visa types. 

 

You can poke and slime him via mail order spouse if he belongs to the latter. 

 

I think lotsa  Thais , Pinoy,

 

 

 

lesser of Sinkies and Msians go there by  sponsored de facto partners / spouse visas .

 

We are not so desperately poor and dying to get out of the poverty shithole as the poorer provinces outside of metro manila

 

So you can see why , he is so very proud of having snagged an old, richer angmoh gey who is willing to sponsor him out of the slums in pinoyland. 

 

He is only 借光 and 沾光 。only.

 

And if he is not granted permanent residences yet , he may lose his temporary visa and asked to leave Australia. 

 

But u can never underestimate the resourcefulness of dire straits dirt poor pinoys. 

 

They can even get into sham marriages with another Pinoy lady who have obtained P.R. IN OZ , A sham marriage , just to get in Australia and then  continue living an open gey life in Oz after that. 

 

Tell me how many sinkies will do that desperate measure. 

 

 

Anywat, the prize is always an ang moh Australian citizen partner. 

 

Even tho the so called  Ang Moh maybe those with darker skin, black wavy hair, Roman nose, thick chest hair, of Lebanese , Albanian, Romanian, Middle, Iranian, Syrian,  Eastern heritage, they all get lumped together as Ang Moh,

 

Even Nescafe skinned Sourh Asians can qualify as Ang Moh in Australia becos a large part of Australian anglo saxons have  Greeks, Yugoslav, LEBANESE, Iraqi, Iranians intermarriages so have gotten mixed with the brown darker skinned Caucasoid blood types . 

 

They are all lumped as Ang moh for us from Sourh East Asia.

 

A pinoy will not want a fellow South East Asianer. 

 

 

Its like  撞号

 

 

 

That pinoy guy is Aussie Pinoy as he's born in Australia but have relatives back in the Philippines. When I first joined the company I was quite looking forward to get to know him but he was so stuck up and even made fun of my Singlish accent whereas he speaks in typical Aussie accent. Very femme and campy.

 

Lucky my boss was based in Sg before and she knew that was not appropriate to comment on.

HR even gave him a warning not to do that. Quite surprised cos I knew some nice pinoys from my Uni so he was quite rude.  Of course cannot say the same for everyone but thats my experience.

 

I was even sabotaged by him many times in work but lucky I was quite insistent on being fair and the manager knew he has some attitude problems. Company was able to let me handle Chinese speaking clients and that showed my strength to him. 

 

It was a nightmare to work with him for sure, he's on Grindr and we all can hear the sounds from the app. Always trying to flirt with other white colleagues or clients. And always commenting that the Gaysians on the app are always trying to steal his men. Really annoying and so I didn't interact with him anymore and lucky I left the company.

 

The dating scene in Sydney is hit and miss. Sometimes you meet nice HK or Korean guys. I even dated nice Chinese guys too. But you are right, those from SEA countries tend to want to fight with you over the Aussie guys. For that, I don't know why. Sometimes the Malaysians even commented on Singapore politics even tho it was my first time meeting them. So antagonistic and weird.

 

For me, I'm a sticky rice lah.

Just my preference as I don't find the appeal in white guys after a few dates.

I remembered being hit on my white guys in cafes or clubs but I always never call them back or I would date a few times and just cannot match well. 

Some of them don't understand why I can appreciate so many cultures, eat so many different type of food and would usually stick to one particular kind.

Asian gays are plenty here for sure but there's different animosity from within the Asian gay community.

So many stories I can share really!

 

 

[Guest 溶冰冰]

11 minutes ago, singalion said:

pointer:

 

Hm, if you know Singaporeans or Malaysians who immigrated to Australia through a relationship avenue, then probably

I m not sure if Filipinos and Thais are the only "desperate" ones.

 

I don't want to comment on the rest because the post seems to me carrying too many prejudices on other nationalities and a glorification on locals...

 

One of my Australian friends partnered a Singaporean Chinese, took him to Melbourne and guess what, just 3 months after that Singaporean received his passport, he quit the Australian. ...

 

 

 

 

Wah, mail order Sinkie. 

[calvt]

4 hours ago, And then said:

I live in Australia.

I used to be into white guys, but last few years, have become sticky rice, haha

Yeah, cruising here in Sydney sauna definitely another element of "difficulty" compared to SG... you just don't know whether your target is into ang mohs only, or not. There is nothing sadder than seeing a hot Asian guy go into a cubicle with a decrepit white grandpa. Breaks my heart, haha...

Quite common in the scene here. Like a white guy in the club would ask me for date then another Viet-aussie friend would comment why never ask him. The white guy would say because he doesn't like his attitude and they would quarrel and I would walk away cos i don't like drama!

 

I don't really want to say much when I see mixed-race couples because being in gay relationship already very challenging, much less a mixed-race one. I just don't like when some of these asians would put down another asian in front of example a white person. It's like showing their true ugly heart and I often avoid them.

 

 

[Guest Bretman]

12 minutes ago, calvt said:

 

That pinoy guy is Aussie Pinoy as he's born in Australia but have relatives back in the Philippines. When I first joined the company I was quite looking forward to get to know him but he was so stuck up and even made fun of my Singlish accent whereas he speaks in typical Aussie accent. Very femme and campy.

 

Lucky my boss was based in Sg before and she knew that was not appropriate to comment on.

HR even gave him a warning not to do that. Quite surprised cos I knew some nice pinoys from my Uni so he was quite rude.  Of course cannot say the same for everyone but thats my experience.

 

I was even sabotaged by him many times in work but lucky I was quite insistent on being fair and the manager knew he has some attitude problems. Company was able to let me handle Chinese speaking clients and that showed my strength to him. 

 

It was a nightmare to work with him for sure, he's on Grindr and we all can hear the sounds from the app. Always trying to flirt with other white colleagues or clients. And always commenting that the Gaysians on the app are always trying to steal his men. Really annoying and so I didn't interact with him anymore and lucky I left the company.

 

The dating scene in Sydney is hit and miss. Sometimes you meet nice HK or Korean guys. I even dated nice Chinese guys too. But you are right, those from SEA countries tend to want to fight with you over the Aussie guys. For that, I don't know why. Sometimes the Malaysians even commented on Singapore politics even tho it was my first time meeting them. So antagonistic and weird.

 

For me, I'm a sticky rice lah.

Just my preference as I don't find the appeal in white guys after a few dates.

I remembered being hit on my white guys in cafes or clubs but I always never call them back or I would date a few times and just cannot match well. 

Some of them don't understand why I can appreciate so many cultures, eat so many different type of food and would usually stick to one particular kind.

Asian gays are plenty here for sure but there's different animosity from within the Asian gay community.

So many stories I can share really!

 

 

 

If he persists on playing on your Sing accent, 

 

You can subtly drop hints that his Pinoy nose can straddle Sydney and Melbourne. 

 

Most pinoy from provinces have flat , broad nose that are wide and huge flares. 

 

But only when no colleagues are around. 

 

Pinoys love to go plastic surgery to raise their flat noses. 

 

But if u cannot win , just lay low and do a good work performance. 

 

Loud and effeminate types will eventually put their foot in their mouth themselves and cos self embarrassment. 

 

He will apologise to you one day.

 

 

[calvt]

Just now, Guest Bretman said:

 

If he persists on playing on your Sing accent, 

 

You can subtly drop hints that his Pinoy nose can straddle Sydney and Melbourne. 

 

Most pinoy from provinces have flat , broad nose that are wide and huge flares. 

 

But only when no colleagues are around. 

 

Pinoys love to go plastic surgery to raise their flat noses. 

 

But if u cannot win , just lay low and do a good work performance. 

 

Loud and effeminate types will eventually put their foot in their mouth themselves and cos self embarrassment. 

 

He will apologise to you one day.

 

 

He never apologise properly anyway I don't really care much then and I had left the company already as i found a better position.

But that was my first time encountering this person.

Even his pinoy friends were the similar attitude like him as he invited them for company drinks before.

Dominating every conversation and people were actually avoiding them. 

I don't also like to insult people's appearances so I just worked hard and concentrate on my role. 

[singalion]

39 minutes ago, calvt said:

 

That pinoy guy is Aussie Pinoy as he's born in Australia but have relatives back in the Philippines. When I first joined the company I was quite looking forward to get to know him but he was so stuck up and even made fun of my Singlish accent whereas he speaks in typical Aussie accent. Very femme and campy.

 

Lucky my boss was based in Sg before and she knew that was not appropriate to comment on.

HR even gave him a warning not to do that. Quite surprised cos I knew some nice pinoys from my Uni so he was quite rude.  Of course cannot say the same for everyone but thats my experience.

 

I was even sabotaged by him many times in work but lucky I was quite insistent on being fair and the manager knew he has some attitude problems. Company was able to let me handle Chinese speaking clients and that showed my strength to him. 

 

It was a nightmare to work with him for sure, he's on Grindr and we all can hear the sounds from the app. Always trying to flirt with other white colleagues or clients. And always commenting that the Gaysians on the app are always trying to steal his men. Really annoying and so I didn't interact with him anymore and lucky I left the company.

 

The dating scene in Sydney is hit and miss. Sometimes you meet nice HK or Korean guys. I even dated nice Chinese guys too. But you are right, those from SEA countries tend to want to fight with you over the Aussie guys. For that, I don't know why. Sometimes the Malaysians even commented on Singapore politics even tho it was my first time meeting them. So antagonistic and weird.

 

For me, I'm a sticky rice lah.

Just my preference as I don't find the appeal in white guys after a few dates.

I remembered being hit on my white guys in cafes or clubs but I always never call them back or I would date a few times and just cannot match well. 

Some of them don't understand why I can appreciate so many cultures, eat so many different type of food and would usually stick to one particular kind.

Asian gays are plenty here for sure but there's different animosity from within the Asian gay community.

So many stories I can share really!

 

 

 

On the Pinoy guy, he just achieved a bit too much ego and that feel "he made it in his life". You can meet straight colleagues also who are nasty and bitch with comments. he should have been happy that you do not "dig in his turf".

 

Wasn't aware it is such a sex rat race in Sydney for Asians. haha

 

For those Asian visitors to Sydney, surely they want to taste some different flavours, in particular those they don't get so much in their home countries. But there should be also some Asians who are posted to Australia and aren't necessarily into white guys...  Actually, those home grown Asian should be more into Asians also, mostly as they stick in their Asian community when growing up etc.

 

Did not frequent many places in Sydney but it seems to me that Melbourne is friendlier in the Asian community.

Not sure if it still exists there is one bar/pub/club somewhere a bit out of the center in Melbourne, where plenty of Asians meet up, you were able to see pure Asian couples also and Asians were mostly in their own group. It was more for the Asian singles to catch a suitable white guy... It was quite common for Asian guys to frequent that place.

 

I did mix a lot with the Asian community there, mostly due to locals who lived in Singapore before who have found their boyfriends there. Used to catch up with them when in town.

 

 

 

 

Edited March 16, 2023 by singalion

[Guest guest]

Some interesting observations about meeting white men for me:

1) Some white men told me they have no preferences for any ethnicity but later they tell me all their previous boyfriends/flings are all Asians. Just happened that all of them were Asians.

2) Met a white guy for hookup and was amused by his Chinese tattoo on his upper arm. We fucked a few times and one time he turned on Japanese porn for the audio so that he could cum. Now he said he wants to try dating, but I'm not sure if he has an Asian fetish and if it's influencing his thoughts.

[Guest Guest]

I haf 2 ang moh bf previously.

1 told me he prefer asian guy bcos we asian guy haf small to average cock tat turned him on. 

Another 1 told me asian guy like to moan n he luv seeing our small cock bouncing around when banging us. 

[Guest guest]

On 6/19/2023 at 4:01 AM, Guest Guest said:

I haf 2 ang moh bf previously.

1 told me he prefer asian guy bcos we asian guy haf small to average cock tat turned him on. 

Another 1 told me asian guy like to moan n he luv seeing our small cock bouncing around when banging us. 

 

1 ang moh told me he likes the mouth shape of Asian guys, especially when sucking his cock. Didn't really believe him until he got really hard inside my mouth. I also got equally hard when his body hair rubs against my body.