Confuse

[Guest ZZZ123]

now studying at uni and confuse

cause room mate help mast and blow ........ admit like it

now he want to do more ........ say try both top and bottom

no experience ........ any can share his experience pls

thanks ........ frightened

curious though

[GachiMuchi]

As a young adult exploring your sexuality, I would say, go ahead and try. But just remember that you should first learn how to put on a condom and practice safe sex all the time.

It recent news, there have been rising cases of teen contracting HIV through unprotected sex.

If you can find BW to ask questions, I believe finding sites that teaches you how to put on a condom and what is safe sex should not be difficult for you rite?

Remember that sex can be "addictive" once you tasted it. Also that the outcome of your 1st sexual experience will either leave you with a good feel or it could leave you traumatized for the rest of your life.

So you do need to think it over.

[kerbee10]

You should review your sexual orientation first......at the same time your room mates orientation....get this clear..and you will know what you are doing..and where you are heading in future years to come..

My advice, stop this, and go study hard...

[Guest Guest]

now studying at uni and confuse

cause room mate help mast and blow ........ admit like it

now he want to do more ........ say try both top and bottom

no experience ........ any can share his experience pls

thanks ........ frightened

curious though

Does it sound like he's in the U with a writing style such as that??

Take kerbee's advice: Go, study hard.

Sex and studies do not mix.

[GachiMuchi]

You should review your sexual orientation first......at the same time your room mates orientation....get this clear..and you will know what you are doing..and where you are heading in future years to come..

My advice, stop this, and go study hard...

KB, you sounded like his father ah.

[oralb]

maybe KB IS his father.... hahahahaha

come to think of it, why is he confused? he found this forum, which is a PLU one, so he kinda know his orientation.

What else he wanted? step by step guide on how to perform top or btm role?

how to have safe sex?

whether to even have sex with room mate?

the psychological impact of mixing sex with study?

argh... so many questions so little time

moral is - study hard, play "hard"

[Frogprince]

Since u have already started masturbating and oral sex... Then i guess he is not confused about his orientation.

But if you are looking for an detail description of how to have sex.. then i will suggest a p--n movie.. If you can find this forum, i'm sure you can find free download p--n. Much more effective then just words..

If you looking for assurance whether you should do anal sex. I guess even if we say no, you will still do it at the peak of your passion..

[kerbee10]

Does not mean found BW he has found his orientation, I believe in still in a maze zone, as at his age curiousity for sex is great, however there is other sources, room mate i mean to stimulate more sexual attractivness on this.

Hey SON, or should I call you BOY, its will over mind and not curiousity over mind, talk to your room mate about what he wants. GO and study if not the papa here will cane you hard.

Cheers

[Guest Guest]

My advice is, if you never try, don't start, is not a great thing to be gay or bi, don't get addicted, avoid ur roomate or let him know what puzzle you, unless you enjot & like the same sex fun.

Nothing is complicated, don't use confuse as an excuse, you consider adult nt 13 years old, you can call hotline for help if you really need help.

Is gd to have normal life with kids & family, but once you accept what you are don't regret but be responsible what you did

[Guest Guest_Rain]

I second Kerbee and Guest.

Go study hard ...

[Guest Sex is OK]

Is OK to have sex if you like each other. Sex is an expression of love. Don't feel so guilty of it.

[Guest Guest]

Is OK to have sex if you like each other. Sex is an expression of love. Don't feel so guilty of it.

I don't really agree by that, most ppl in this circle flirt around even after they attach & do you mean they " LOVE " all his ONS mate or regular sex buddy? If so you Love is too cheap then. LOVE ROMANCE & LUST are different, don't mixed them out. Most people don't feel gulity when they " betray " their lover, they can even say " we may still fool around. But it is always with extreme discretion because regardless whatever the situation may be, we NEVER want to hurt the people we care about ", funny right?

For ZZZ123's case, we all know that his room mate just want to have fun & release, that is not Love at all is Lust, so kindly don't misleading ZZZ123, i believe he is mature enough, someone who can go Uni i don't think they are stupid but more to find excuse by having same sex fun

[Guest curious?]

We may be highly educated but sometimes we are confused. You must be good looking or at least have some assets to have a man down on you. I guessed your roomate is trying to experience his sexuality. But, confirmed both are gay. That is how it started (seduction!). IF YOU WANT TO END IT, NEVER START!

[kerbee10]

Disagree with what "sex is okie" have said, and what Guest has said is very true....

Many sex occured due to lust, and adding to it, sometimes its a release of frustration or when someone is lonely, then they will source for that.

To correct on Curious?

IF YOU WANT TO END IT, NEVER START!-----------X

IF you want to end something, its never too late if you want to ,even you have started, its a matter of fact that the decision made is for your goodself and not for anyone.Its your choice, the end is always the new beginning.........then beginning will also come to the end.....ironica its the cycle of life....

Cheers

[Guest Guest]

since u are in the Uni, my advice is that ur studies is ur top piority study hard , but do not forget to play hard too :thumb: . since u are confuse state in sexual orientation , i suggest u join in some activities( SPORTS or gatherings etc) which u can socialised with both guys and gals , in this way thru the activities u will be able to find ur orienation. take ur time , and dun rush . it takes time . i wish u well

[Guest Curious?]

Well said, sometimes we don't know how and when it started? The question boiled down to who started it (who is the one who made the first move? It doesn't mean he said "I love you", at least not in words!)? The most important thing is love, having a kind heart doesn't ｄｏ　you any good! Just be sincere in anything we do.

[oralb]

now studying at uni and confuse

cause room mate help mast and blow ........ admit like it

now he want to do more ........ say try both top and bottom

no experience ........ any can share his experience pls

thanks ........ frightened

curious though

i took the liberty to quote his entire posting.

now what is he confuse about? whether is he PLU? whether he should carry on do more?

no experience? share experience? like what kind of experience? being top and bottom?

i meant he just pop in here do a random rants and disappeared, no reply since oct 6.

maybe all this while he is telling us that he was confused by all the studying in the uni.

[worldangel]

now studying at uni and confuse

cause room mate help mast and blow ........ admit like it

now he want to do more ........ say try both top and bottom

no experience ........ any can share his experience pls

thanks ........ frightened

curious though

I believe the initiator of the topic ZZZ123 has learned a lot by reading so many comments from many contributors in this BW and SgBoy/Trevvy as he posted also similar question in Trevvy too.

[kerbee10]

The subject is "confuse"..........

I think he is confuse....and trying to makes us confuse as well.....

so the BW Confucious..now is in confusion....