RinTinTin Posted December 8, 2011 Report Share Posted December 8, 2011 Never had one before either.School is the biggest obstacle, loads of projects and all.I guess the second factor would be how little I talk, even my friends complain I don't talk much in class.Lack of exposure to the LGBT community too would also be another factor. Pretty sure there are a lot of reasons why I haven't found the right one.But I believe when it's time, he'll appear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Dating Expert Posted December 9, 2011 Report Share Posted December 9, 2011 GUISEEE ,it's okay not to have a bf.But please love yourself.Love yourself & others would love you.Accept yourself & others would accept you.Believe in yourself & others would believe in you.Have confidence in yourself & others would have confidence in you.Everything is in a state of mind.Stop telling yourself how depress it is & stuffs like this.Loneliness is nothing.Let me tell you all something that is ENCOURAGING .In every 5 guys , 1 guy is a homosexual.YES. It's true.Let me tell you all how to find the right one1. Accept yourself2. Let everyone know that you are gay3. Gays would find you themselves , if they are interested you ( trust me , there are just too many ) 4. Start making friends with them5. Understand them6. Develop trust in one another7. Be faithful8. BOOOOOMZ . There you go. Trust me , have too many to count already. LOLLLL ~ ^ ^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dating Expert Posted December 9, 2011 Report Share Posted December 9, 2011 A video for you guys to watch.Pretty interesting.It's about high school & life of someone who is gay. And you will see how he accepts himself and then how many bfs he have.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BX_ejdpqaJ8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rivrics Posted December 9, 2011 Report Share Posted December 9, 2011 GUISEEE ,it's okay not to have a bf.But please love yourself.Love yourself & others would love you.Accept yourself & others would accept you.Believe in yourself & others would believe in you.Have confidence in yourself & others would have confidence in you.Everything is in a state of mind.Stop telling yourself how depress it is & stuffs like this.Loneliness is nothing.Let me tell you all something that is ENCOURAGING .In every 5 guys , 1 guy is a homosexual.YES. It's true.Let me tell you all how to find the right one1. Accept yourself2. Let everyone know that you are gay3. Gays would find you themselves , if they are interested you ( trust me , there are just too many ) 4. Start making friends with them5. Understand them6. Develop trust in one another7. Be faithful8. BOOOOOMZ . There you go. Trust me , have too many to count already. LOLLLL ~ ^ ^Yes its true. How would you know how it feels like to love another if you don't know how to love yourself? How would you know how it feels like to accept another if you never accept yourself? How would you know what it feels like if you never experience it yourself? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilovewhoiam Posted December 11, 2011 Report Share Posted December 11, 2011 I've 20 and I've never had a BF, tho' I had several GFs in the past. I just couldn't find the right guy now. The guys I'm interested in are either too scared to commit or they're straight. So sad... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexandre Posted December 12, 2011 Report Share Posted December 12, 2011 I've never had a gf and a bf, well, pretty much due to the fact that i dont like to talk at all, im forever alone, and the one that is being called the "teacher's pet", as for now, in the teaching industry it's even harder to find time for one I'm happy because I learnt to be contented. Black & White life with surprising rainbows sometimes. Â Your Friendly Gay "Cher" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jayy Posted December 12, 2011 Report Share Posted December 12, 2011 Nothing is too hard if you set your mind to it, Alexandre. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
josefwang Posted December 12, 2011 Report Share Posted December 12, 2011 Me! Lol single hood isn't that bad.. At least you don't have to worry about your partner being jealous when u go out with another guy friend of yours hahha probably it be a different thing if I am attached lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted December 12, 2011 Report Share Posted December 12, 2011 still never had a bf. sometiems i'm fine with that, yet sometimes i feel really really lonely, but i don't really know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurio_boy Posted December 13, 2011 Report Share Posted December 13, 2011 Me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittensandBjorn Posted December 19, 2011 Report Share Posted December 19, 2011 Never had a bf/gf too.Although I used to secretly like this close friend of mine who's straight (and attached).and during secondary school, I rejected a girl(schoolmate) who really like me(kind of regretted that).. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DefyingMyGravitY Posted December 19, 2011 Report Share Posted December 19, 2011 Sometimes I really wonder if we are really happy when we said out loud that we can live w/o someone to keep us warm at night. Sometimes I think its a biggest lie to ourselves and how long this curse gona last........Love and loneliness can both bring us happiness and yet woes~~Perhaps we are just not easily contented creatures on earth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittensandBjorn Posted December 19, 2011 Report Share Posted December 19, 2011 Kind of depressing when you see your friend(s) getting attached before you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smart74 Posted December 19, 2011 Report Share Posted December 19, 2011 me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smallboix Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 I never had a bf before... although i had a couple of gf before... Can't seem to find a guy to love... o.o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 me too.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflector Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 I had been single for As long as I rmb... Bo luck means bo luck... Hai... Cursed life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 I had been single for As long as I rmb... Bo luck means bo luck... Hai... Cursed life actually dun be so picky, still have de....... reflector 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflector Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 actually dun be so picky, still have de.......Den hw come u dun hv? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 Den hw come u dun hv? cos ppl are picky..... wan handsome, wan young, wan big rod, wan this wan that...... that y lo..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 someone described the perfect man as this:"everybody wants a tall, muscled, well-educated, rich, good-looking, smart, with huge white wings on his back... fxxk sorry but where the hell will they find such a guy!?"how true. actually... i'm really hot too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 actually... i'm really hot too. how hot ah??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Thaiboyz Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 I had three wonderful relationships for several years. Those times were fruitful and rich, they would make me smile whenever I recalled them After my last rs, I didn't seek and yearn for another one, I became a happy swinging single who enjoyed both my personal time and wirh guys whom I fancied. I was swinging like a pendulum till someone came into my life again. With a high swinging lifestyle, it was difficult for me to slow down immediately and go back to be a faithfully discipline someone. It was a tough period for him to accept and myself to adjust. There were several rows of arguments and disagreements, testing his patience and determination to hold on with me. After several months, I started to see his truth and sincereity to stay with my nonsense. I hv also slowed down slowly to appreciate his cares and concerns. He has proven his love and I started to regain myself to commit. We are now a couple and I must thanks him to be so patient to get back from my swinging singlehood GachiMuchi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflector Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 I had three wonderful relationships for several years. Those times were fruitful and rich, they would make me smile whenever I recalled them After my last rs, I didn't seek and yearn for another one, I became a happy swinging single who enjoyed both my personal time and wirh guys whom I fancied. I was swinging like a pendulum till someone came into my life again. With a high swinging lifestyle, it was difficult for me to slow down immediately and go back to be a faithfully discipline someone. It was a tough period for him to accept and myself to adjust. There were several rows of arguments and disagreements, testing his patience and determination to hold on with me. After several months, I started to see his truth and sincereity to stay with my nonsense. I hv also slowed down slowly to appreciate his cares and concerns. He has proven his love and I started to regain myself to commit. We are now a couple and I must thanks him to be so patient to get back from my swinging singlehood Good for u lo... Such fairy tales nv happen to me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflector Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 cos ppl are picky..... wan handsome, wan young, wan big rod, wan this wan that...... that y lo.....Ya agree... Damn sian... I guess no 1 is into slim person like me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 Ya agree... Damn sian... I guess no 1 is into slim person like me how slim r u wor?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflector Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 how slim r u wor??50kg? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 50kg? okay mah, me 60kg, still average built also Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflector Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 okay mah, me 60kg, still average built also 50 is ok meh? I wanna grow fat oso can't..... Anyway tats besides the topic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest maxiplay Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 50 is ok meh? I wanna grow fat oso can't..... Anyway tats besides the topic 50 to me no problem...... i only concern r u like to wear short shorts or not..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 how hot ah???like very. but most people are too distracted by my tummy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVisitors Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 For me having been through 11 relationships. that doesn't mean I am a failure, nor do I allow any setbacks to make me a very bitter person.Life goes on, look forward, don't look backards with any regrets or hate.Everyone is different, thus every of my ex bfs characteristics are different. Thus each relationship is a different experience from one another, without the need to compare among who is better or worst.When an experience ends, evaluate your own strenght and weakness , and how much you contributed to it when together, then from there, you learn to be more mature and better equiped yourself to handle the next one.In order to enter a new fresh phrase with someone new, you have to forgive all the past, heal yourself, and let go of all unpleasant experiences from the previous. Or else you will bring over the past stale negative left overs in you, which will interfere with the next relationship you are having.So dont give up hope. Being single now for many who has never have a bf, is a time you cultivate the maturity and skill to handle a relationship. even you are a greenhorn.A wise person will learn the advises and experiences shared by the more experienced ones, even that means you are a greenhorn.I only cannot accept some greenhorns here, who never had a relationship, or any/have enough sexual experiences, comes here and advise people on their theories and thoughts. Because when you read their postings, you will instinctively know, how much they do really know.Its a bit kind of like being a Jane Austen. The old spinster who never had a relationship or being married before, but can write tons of books, with love and marriage as her main theme.Its like reading their fantasies, which hardly comes close to reality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Dear Bwers,Please note our rules of no underage in the forum. Please also refrain on ducussing of underage stuff. Any person violating the rule will be suspended or banned. Any of you who come across underage kids in the forum are to inform the mod and we will do the necessary. GMP/s : No personal ads on the Main Forum too. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riverrobles Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 do i really need a bf? specially when I'm still not out of the closet. its like cheating someone. shyboi 1    I'm really turned-on if both heads (the head above and the head below) are both functioning well https://asianguysgonewild.newtumbl.com https://linktr.ee/riverrobles     Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allegro Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 The problem is finding one who will be honest, respectful and don't do hookups behind your back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 I never have one... Don think i will ever will have one... Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 I never have one... Don think i will ever will have one... why? having someone to share your life with..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charles91 Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 I don't have one yet. Or rather I never have one before. Hahahas. It's not as easy as it seems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoSonni Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 reading this thread was so depressing lol - that being said, i also never had one HAHAH Instagram |Â @sodamnsonniTwitter |Â @sosonni Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 reading this thread was so depressing lol - that being said, i also never had one HAHAHÂ You are still so young! why worry.....go play around first.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slynn Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Never know such a thread exists. I haven't had a proper relationship before either. le sigh. But it's not bothering me as much as I think it should be xD "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 let it be natural or dun think of having 1 if u cant commit..... some gays wanna have bf but realise theres even more issues and problems when they have bf..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 why? having someone to share your life with.....Nah... Is all bullshit... I dont believe in it.. Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Nah... Is all bullshit... I dont believe in it.. u prob havent met that person yet...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deeram Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Me too Deeram Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 u prob havent met that person yet...... Perhaps... Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Perhaps... so any criterias or qualities you looking for? of cos dun make it into an advertisement..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucasMediantor Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 me too.... But I never felt lonely b4.... Something is much more important than just going around and trying to find your Half.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toro Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 so any criterias or qualities you looking for?of cos dun make it into an advertisement..... Nah, not looking... Toro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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