Guest stbrianud Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 I don't. And most guys I meet don't lol... Slim guys are actually a huge turn off for me lol.. Cool to be friends with, but just not romantically or sexually weeean and Chub71 2
The.Intrv. Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 That's just like asking why society is contemptuous and judgemental; it is an intrinsic aspect of man, unfortunately. For these flaws I lament.
luke84 Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 firstly, perception of beauty from the environment. our society often praise/admire the fit and lean ones, teasing and mock the fat and old ones, so naturally when they grow up, they will do the same.they do not want to become that chub that others mock about, so while maintaining their body shape, they dislike and join the rest of their society to discriminate people of that size.(i mean, when arguing or teasing, attacking other people's size often give them the upper hand)secondly, we cannot deny that just like us, born gay, some maybe are born to prefer the young, the mature, the chub or the lean.lastly, health conscious. we all know that being over weight may have higher chance of various illnesses, such as heart attack, stroke, HBP. so they avoided it themselves through healthy diet and exercises. then they begin to dislike other fat people thinking why are they not concern about their own health?they are lazy people who have no discipline?they don't care for their loved one?
xenophile Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 All depends on whether you prefer some cushion for the pushing, or stiff board for your stiff rod.
Guest Ironrod Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 I think proportion is very important.Does matter u slim or fat - as long as u are symmetrical and proportion. U are good enough for me.
Guest ongwsjackson Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 The key to beauty, the glow of health.
Blissfull Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 I thought the current market is buff guys? "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own."
Silveriot Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 over generalising. i am sure other types of guys have their own market value as well.i think its fairer to say " fit/lean guys prefer slim/fit guys over chubs/meaty."imho. no offense to TS. iamziz 1
wahwahboi Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 I guess it all boils down to personal preference as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.However, there are factors which actually affects our choice on who we wanna be with, and I guess the most influencing factor would be the media and social setting. Muscular and slim men are portrayed by the media in a good light while the rest were either ignored or even mocked upon, and it's the same situation in different social apps like Grindr and stuff. So I guess it would be rather difficult for one to actually deviate from the social norm of preferring someone who is slim or fit.Though that might be the case, there are always exceptions to this. So ultimately, I think it really depends on what is the ideal date/partner of that person.
kennethhost Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 I prefer meaty than slim guy..... Glasses guy
tic-toc Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Tall guys If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.
Guest hotjack Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 was at woodlands civic ctr last weekend,saw this guy inviting me for fun ,he's meaty guy..not interested,,sorry ,no offense.prefer a slim or hunky guy...bcoz at the age of 36, i still maintain...
gongtang Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Hmm not all guys ah.... i prefer meaty guys. Or buff, even better. sum1outhere_03 1
zwei Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Men are sight sensual animals they prefer beautiful beings alike to straights looking at beautiful girls Fattie bom bom walk down the street
jason79 Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 hmm guess will choose a nice guy average body will do
merlinkun Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 My preference has more to the heart and brain though. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat."
zwei Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Hehe good character + average body is the best option out here.... Any hotter are too arrogant any chubbier are kind of desperate.. (no offence to the chubs) : just personal experience... Fattie bom bom walk down the street
Axel20 Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 (edited) . Edited February 8, 2015 by Axel20 merlinkun and Rumint 2
123ZZZ Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 first impression counts and all starts with outer appearancebefore getting to know the inner-side of someone, guess outer appearance is what you chose firstmedia paints that it is so important to look fit, look beautiful, and everyone is a follower unfortunately
tanweien Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 hard to say heart though.. Seems like finding needle in the ocean..whenever i am sincere to someone, in the end, i will always be the one getting hurt..is easier to look at looks, then to look at heart, and people tend to always go for the easy way out, i guess? hmmmm
123ZZZ Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 can understand what you are saying, tanweien, sometimes wonder if it is worth to be sincere when you are the one always getting hurtnot wanting to be a pessimist, but why is it so difficult to like someone who also likes you and will be with you for the longest of time... sigh...
qez Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 From what i read about evolutionary psychology, subconsciously...Guys want to group up with fit and healthy guys. Healthy guys are more able to provide resources, provide security.It could be a form of handicap principle. Just like a male peacock that is so good at surviving in the wild that it can afford to grow extravagant tail feathers, capable guys that can acquire all the food and resources they need can afford to go on a diet and forgo storing fats in case of food shortage. That they can afford to spend time and money on to spend on gym and supplements simply because they can afford to do so.
tamshui Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 I think its more about person than the looks...beauty fades a good heart is forever... besides that I found that beautiful people can me very ugly . but for myself I perfer a man with some meat on his bones, but I have met so thin guys that are very charming.... As for Guys with perfect bodies..... I think they will spend more time in the gym than with me......maybe my problem is I just like men,,, and find that if I like them... and they have some physical parts I like ... its just a plus! 雨降って地固まる ame futte ji katamaru : Literally: after the rain, earth hardens (Meaning: Adversity builds character./After a storm, things will stand on more solid ground than they did before)
Allegro Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Meaty and must be at least 170cm, I wanna hug a teddy bear, not a bag of bones
Gayslut Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Muscular, beefy with a big cock. http://memoirsofagayslut.blogspot.sg/
thaiboyz Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I preferred guys with lean toned compact bods over those beefy guys. Even say so, I dun mind ave bod with good looking face. I will go for good looking face with ave bods than beautiful body with a CMI face. Again, is the overall package thingy.
scorpiox Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Prefer lean fit. Especially guys who is nerd with nice fit lean bod, i will gaga.. 「地獄風火輪」
WightTonguehlk Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Uhh for top: buff, fit , overly buff.For bottom: lean slim chub etc LOL HAHAHAHA
Guest Guest Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Lean meat for me, preferably with a brain in it, and a good character.Those sex-only, me-only, despo and arrogant ones can flush down the drain, no matter how good they look.Like there was this tall lean guy I met at a friends gathering. he is my type in physique, but when we got down to talk, turn out that he is such a self-centred jerk...instant turn off!
SeannyShortcake Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 The tide is turning to the slimmer,more lean fit types as compared to the beefy,gym bods that used to be a great hit in the Aj world.Was talking to this bodybuilder a while back who was asking for tips to loose weight and waste all that muscle away just to attract a few more guys.To each his own.I take everything from lean to muscled :3
azimuth Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I agree that lean fit seems to be in demand these days.
BranLim Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Slim to average. A little amount of fat is fine. Nice to hug also. Too skinny equals all bones and skin = turn off. Don't particularly fancy muscles, also = turn off.
vic_firth92 Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 muscular bottom? or lean slim bottom?slim bottom.
crazyfreak Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Lean fit for me i guess muscular ok bah i guess we all wear masks to protect and deceive how many masks do you have with you today?
acidalkali Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 i wouldbe friend with the skinny...hug the chubby...fxxk the slim...and be fxxked by the muscular...can hug you? hahaha
unpluggedhose90 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 i'm a chub and my preferences are towards slim/lean/fit/muscular... Or at least somewhat there... I know that the "market value" for chubs are much much lower than the fit/muscular guys but still, everyone has their preferences =/Maybe because most of my friends are that kind of built that's why it has made me so used to wanting someone of the same kind as a partner...Luck hasn't been on my sides be it Grindr/Jack'd, clubs or pubs... It's always my friends who are slimmer/fitter that always get the attention... =/
zwei Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 Time to go run and lose those flabs then ?? Instead of complaining about your value as a chub here SeannyShortcake 1 Fattie bom bom walk down the street
snowball Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 (edited) why do so many people put the blame on the built? it may not always be the truth, most time is the look, yes, is your face makes the difference, no ? i like cute decent face with meaty or stocky built. Edited November 9, 2012 by snowball
Torrent Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 why do so many people put the blame on the built? it may not always be the truth, most time is the look, yes, is your face makes the difference, no ?Physical attractiveness is still an aspect of how attraction works between people, nobody can deny this ever.It's not about being shallow, it's just within our nature (look around you, animals do courtship based on the same concept as well). Of course, everybody has their ideal level of attractiveness, what may appeal to you doesn't necessarily mean others will see the same way too.I have seen people who are absolutely turned on by chubs. Chubs being discouraged probably haven't met them yet, if looks doesn't really matter to you much, why get depressed over this? Who cares what others think, it's more important how you and your future man thinks.
wan862011 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 (edited) Used to date a chub guy before 5 yrs younger than me but in the end it was all bullshit... Promised me that will lose some kg by in the end didn't happened... Beside he used me and showel me with his $$$ buy me things this that so that i stop talking about it, appeaciate him and his image which i don/t. So right now prefer slim and muscular only... I won't recommend ppl dating the opposite attraction... it does not work out... Date your own size preferences Edited November 9, 2012 by wan862011
wan862011 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 (edited) i'm a chub and my preferences are towards slim/lean/fit/muscular... Or at least somewhat there... I know that the "market value" for chubs are much much lower than the fit/muscular guys but still, everyone has their preferences =/Maybe because most of my friends are that kind of built that's why it has made me so used to wanting someone of the same kind as a partner...Luck hasn't been on my sides be it Grindr/Jack'd, clubs or pubs... It's always my friends who are slimmer/fitter that always get the attention... =/ur type preferences are just exactly like my ex who's also a chub but lazy to lose weight when i ask him.. not only that showeled me with his $$$ buy me things which i don't asked him at all so that i could love him, appeaciate him and accept him which i'm not... If u think that ur perferences towards slim/lean/fit/muscluar then u better lose some weight, make it into Size M. If not that slim/lean/fit/muscular guy u will attach later will used u and your money eventually cause since ur body image does not attract him, why not use your $$... so lose the weight Edited November 9, 2012 by wan862011
unpluggedhose90 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 (edited) ur type preferences are just exactly like my ex who's also a chub but lazy to lose weight when i ask him.. not only that showeled me with his $$$ buy me things which i don't asked him at all so that i could love him, appeaciate him and accept him which i'm not... If u think that ur perferences towards slim/lean/fit/muscluar then u better lose some weight, make it into Size M. If not that slim/lean/fit/muscular guy u will attach later will used u and your money eventually cause since ur body image does not attract him, why not use your $$... so lose the weight I feel you have something against your ex and you make it sound like all chubs are lazy and unwilling to exercise... Plus just because your ex showered you with gift and money, doesn't mean everyone else does that. Not every non-chub will make use of others too. Well I must say you are so wrong.. Not every chubs are lazy and don't exercise... Just like not every slim guys are active and exercises. Thank you for your advice and concern. I have lost some weight and have transitioned from XL/XXL to M/L sized clothes over the years and currently still exercising and losing those extra pounds. I wanted to type more in response to your reply but I cannot comprehend what you were trying to convey, especially at the end. Edited November 9, 2012 by unpluggedhose90
Guest Guest Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I prefer someone who is healthy - BMI, eating & living habits.I think Chubs are adorable but proper/regular exercise is more important.
gz69 Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I have met a handsome muscular top at one of the spas many times. It has always being a great encounter. He can lift me up and let me ride him while hugging him. And we have a routine as to how to end our sex. Always enjoyable and sometimes we adjourn for desserts nearby.And it is great to see him take my dick into his mouth while I pin his strong arms above his head. Or to finger his bottom and watch him wince. Nice guy.
chubseekbf Posted November 10, 2012 Posted November 10, 2012 Hi i am chubby, my waist is 39, weight 97, 1-74 ms, 30 yrs old, stay in Singapore, if can be bfs, that's great, i very shy ,no pics and cam, u can leave me your pics and number, what's your job??This is a chub seeking a nice bf .I am 100 percent sincere, you can email <spam>
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