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Before we got together , we were fb. Then somehow we got together . Now we broke up (idiotic cheating bf ^{%{>|£*\%) . and he said he wants to be back as Fb . Should I? Any of you here are fb of your ex ? Do you still have the feelings when you are making out with your ex ?

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  On 9/15/2011 at 4:03 AM, Ironrod said:

If u want to be a "TOOL" go ahead lor

When he finally found a new bf , he say bye bye to you then u better don't cry lor.

He already have a bf now. Just that he still want me to be his fb .

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  On 9/15/2011 at 8:06 AM, Guesty said:
I was innocently thinking you were asking about adding each other on facebook.. FB. :oops:

I thought so too! Dun worry, you're not the only one! ^_^

Will you be my valentine's? :D

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Sounds like you were on a contract that offers xxxx to members then the provider offered you an upgrade that you signed up hence you expected better services... only to realise it was a scam, then the provider reverted you back on to the original plan. Now, as a sensible human being, do you still want to continue with the same provider? There are many other providers out there, many different contracts and plans you can try...it's all in your hands. ;)

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you actually asked 3 questions.

everyone so far has answered the 1st.

no one has answered the 2nd (so far) so that in itself is your answer.

as for the 3rd (well, technically it can't be answered without first answering the second) but i am guessing that the feeling you are talking about (i.e. feeling "in love" with him) will NOT go away. esp if you are still having intimate relations with him.

you then have to ask yourself what is it that you actually want from him.

if you will be satisfied with just his lust while his love is reserved for someone else go ahead.

if it's going to drive you insane with jealousy then you would be better off finding an alternate FB or even better a real BF.

oh this is not really what you were asking but just in case you were hoping that by getting back together as his FB you might eventually win back his heart and be his BF again, uh don't bother. sure can hope, but you can hope all you like and you would still be better off buying one singapore sweep ticket a month.

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The fact that you guys are FB in the first place suggests a very unstable relationship. I highly doubt that friends with benefits often end with a happy ending. But if you were to ask me i'd say that you've been sleeping with a douchebag. You have to decide it yourself.

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To be honest, I think you two already breached the unspoken agreement of FB the first round. Once you end up having a relationship with your FB, the boundaries are blurred.

And now you are having a FB relationship with a ex-FB and ex-BF, you are going to make things more complicated. I am thinking, if you are going to go ahead with it, you really need to set your boundaries clear, if not you are going to end up having a BF relationship with a ex-FB, ex-BF and ex-FB. Some emotional investments are not worth it because they just keep you in a vicious cycle that disallowed you to have a different/proper relationship with potentials out there.

Remember you have a choice to say Yes or No. It does not have to be him wanting you to be his FB again, you can decide. Never allow yourself to be twisted in the arms to say Yes.

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why does anyone worry abt him being cocky or not?

it's his life... if he wants to be cocky, let him be.

it's yr life... if you are happy having sex with him, enjoy his free sexual services.

no one is forcing anyone to do anything here.

just be happy.

if he makes you happy, leave him.

he's not the only one here.

think of how many others you are missing out on whenever you are with him.

is he worth yr time?

no one else should answer the question for you.

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