keyboard Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 Do you have a checklist of the characteristic of your potential partner?What are they, and which are the ones which are unrealistic?Think about it seriously for a while, what might be impossible might actually exist in someone who's reading this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamer Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 wow. i'm a virgin at relationships but, is having a checklist better?i tend to fall for fairer guys with thick, dark hair n eyebrows... with a sense of humour too. and my knees go weak around sweet, charismatic guys who are very patient and concerned. AND the most important and perhaps the shallowest of all i guess, is that, he must SMELL NICE. haha.but that being said, i'm pretty open to going out with anyone to "test water" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 It's all feel that matters to me. Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saranghaeyo Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 Keep it simple. Just like normal relationship had the truth and be faithful.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Do you have a checklist of the characteristic of your potential partner? Yeah - furry, with a tail, balanced stripes, nice long whiskers, claws and sharp teeth! :clap: LOL.... j/k only. kekeke... dreamer 1 Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilsen Willim Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Ermm... For me is taller than me ( Must ) , Nice and charming... well expect standart decent looks luh... and definetly not someone i could call "Father".... I dont quite care about loyality,... i will get nasty if he is nasty.... i mean.. the commitment must come from both party Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamer Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 but it's always the imperfect ones who sweep u off ur feet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 18, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Yeah - furry, with a tail, balanced stripes, nice long whiskers, claws and sharp teeth! :clap: Isn't your current partner, big, heavy, round, multiple glasses, flashes when the right button is pressed? And you always bring it out to find your second love, with the furry, tail, stripes, whiskers, claws and sharp teeth!hee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 18, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 I'm very surprised that the responses are well, very short. Is it really that the expectation of your partner is just that one or two things? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stylishvicky Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Must love dogs, love museums and books, drive a two-seater silver Mercedes S class, nice-looking with muscular bod, and possess weird sense of humor that only we are able to laugh.Live independently, mature and a nurturing figure who can teach me stuff.Kind-hearted and gentle, and when I am down, never fails to comfort me like a cozy fire.(Elvin Ng =0) Quote Trevvy: http://www.trevvy.co...choliousnickson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lct Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 No such thing in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Date a thousand and pick one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted January 19, 2012 Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 i would like it if my future bf is the kind who doesn't mind "playing" in public, like u know, holding hands, or pecks on the cheeks, or letting me play with his face. i mean it's obviously not a must, but i think it's nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeowPrince Posted January 19, 2012 Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 Isn't your current partner, big, heavy, round, multiple glasses, flashes when the right button is pressed?And you always bring it out to find your second love, with the furry, tail, stripes, whiskers, claws and sharp teeth! hee Nooooooo!My harem consists of several shapely, hard bodies, with stiff protrusions that range from short-and-stubby to thick-and-wide to long-and-hung. But they are just for use.The furry, tailed, striped ones with claws are our guards! I like to play with the guards... Safe clean fun - no oral, no anal. :yuk: Quote Instagram @the_meowprince Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raind Posted January 19, 2012 Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 (edited) . Edited July 8, 2012 by raind Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 19, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 The furry, tailed, striped ones with claws are our guards! I like to play with the guards... Don't know why, but I always wanted to swing some by their tails. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 19, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 Date a thousand and pick one. There's 365 days a year, to date a thousand will take close to 3 years... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted January 19, 2012 Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 There's 365 days a year, to date a thousand will take close to 3 years...Yep keyboard, at my age it won't work for me but you will do OK Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanTL Posted January 19, 2012 Report Share Posted January 19, 2012 I kinda wish my life played out like 500 Days of Summer. The perfect guy for me has to be romantic and sentimental. I tend to live in the past a lot, in a good way, reminiscing and so on. So I appreciate people who feel the same. I think most people tend to mistake lust for love. Which becomes their only bond in the "relationship" which is why they don't really last long. I've never had a boyfriend before but I wish I had my Mr Right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 20, 2012 Maybe I should change the topic to What are the characteristics that you have that will appeal to your perfect partner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XmasMint Posted January 20, 2012 Report Share Posted January 20, 2012 Maybe I should change the topic to What are the characteristics that you have that will appeal to your perfect partner.I have 8 tentacles, live in a beautiful tank with an oceanic-ish view and has awesome prediction for world cup matches to help my partner win lotsa $ from bets . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 20, 2012 I have 8 tentacles, live in a beautiful tank with an oceanic-ish view and has awesome prediction for world cup matches to help my partner win lotsa $ from bets .LOLX, aren't you dead already? Some other 8 legged creature took over your home and is doing predictions that will come true 4 years later! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XmasMint Posted January 20, 2012 Report Share Posted January 20, 2012 LOLX, aren't you dead already? Some other 8 legged creature took over your home and is doing predictions that will come true 4 years later!Reincarnation ma. I accumulated good karma when I was alive previously, so....can reincarnate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 21, 2012 Author Report Share Posted January 21, 2012 Reincarnation ma. I accumulated good karma when I was alive previously, so....can reincarnate.Technically you can't reincarnate before you die leh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest blastingmindfuck Posted January 21, 2012 Report Share Posted January 21, 2012 wow. i'm a virgin at relationships but, is having a checklist better? i tend to fall for fairer guys with thick, dark hair n eyebrows... with a sense of humour too. and my knees go weak around sweet, charismatic guys who are very patient and concerned. AND the most important and perhaps the shallowest of all i guess, is that, he must SMELL NICE. haha. but that being said, i'm pretty open to going out with anyone to "test water" It's all feel that matters to me. Keep it simple. Just like normal relationship had the truth and be faithful.. Ermm... For me is taller than me ( Must ) , Nice and charming... well expect standart decent looks luh... and definetly not someone i could call "Father".... I dont quite care about loyality,... i will get nasty if he is nasty.... i mean.. the commitment must come from both party Must love dogs, love museums and books, drive a two-seater silver Mercedes S class, nice-looking with muscular bod, and possess weird sense of humor that only we are able to laugh. Live independently, mature and a nurturing figure who can teach me stuff. Kind-hearted and gentle, and when I am down, never fails to comfort me like a cozy fire. (Elvin Ng =0) Sorry that i quote so many ppl's reply.For me will be... FAIR skin, around my height, non-chub, non-ahpek, love to read books. can understand me. someone truthful. best is got car la. cos i'm extremely lazy. LOL.and lastly. must be able to let me develop feeling for him. or else met all criteria also useless. wth am i talking abt. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XmasMint Posted January 21, 2012 Report Share Posted January 21, 2012 Technically you can't reincarnate before you die leh.I not thinking clearly when I was replying ...too late at night le. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TannedKE Posted January 21, 2012 Report Share Posted January 21, 2012 For me... Hmmm I prefer him to be slightly taller than me, slightly older by 1-2 years (I am 20). Chinese guy with nice tan skin XD tan guys are HOT! (I am a bit tan ) hopefully a decent body with abs and biceps so I can play with them while we are on bed I am training my body and working towards it too, I don't like bamboos or chubs especially polar bears.For character wise, standard de- caring, I will rush down to his house if he is sick and alone to cook and take care of him, I don't expect that in return but at least a message of concern.-Observant/tentitive, I will take note of what he likes/dislikes when we hangout and hopefully he does the same too -trustworthy, I can trust that he won't cheat on me, backstab me.He should really love me n not like me cos I will do the same, and I prefer knowing each other well first, love and then go steady not the other way. Enjoy and play sports together Private time is also important, we don't have to meet everyday, that's insane. Sleep over at each other house once in a while and of cos sex, sex, sex! (I will be moving into a mansionette at the far end of jurong west, next to NTU, with a room of my own! LOL I sound like I am selling/promoting myself. Haha but I don't usually make the first move XD *shy* Quote MAKING LOVE HELPS TO STRENGTHEN BONDS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RinTinTin Posted January 21, 2012 Report Share Posted January 21, 2012 Everyone has an ideal type for a partner, but I guess it's never easy to find one that perfectly suits into our criteria.For me, I'd want my partner to be taller than me, have a nice chest and hopefully gyms a lot (so he can bring me along when I'm free, I want a nice chest too)Personality-wise, pretty sure it's the same as many, faithful, loving etc etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandriel Posted January 22, 2012 Report Share Posted January 22, 2012 Physical: Around my height and not chubby above average looking will be good enough, no need to be like, good looking!Attributes: Straight-acting, gentlemenly(a damn big plus 0.0), older or at least my age (20), able to carry conversation together and has a goood sense of humourhahaha that's all! apparently the above seem like its too much to ask for sia T.T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted January 22, 2012 Report Share Posted January 22, 2012 The 4 sciences in relationship:Chemistry: Internal qualitiesPhysics: External appearanceBiology: Sexual functioningMathematics: Financial feasibility derryfawne and bluesea78 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magicerife Posted January 22, 2012 Report Share Posted January 22, 2012 hahaha sometimes the right perfect person just remains elusive. isnt such arbiturary criteria subjective? one can never meet the most perfect guy/girl who fit their impression and bill of mr or ms right. it's all about learning to give and take in a relationship and accommodate to each other. the right person should be someone who can bring out the best in you and make you an even better person no?end of the day, it's the little imperfections that made them all so perfect and unique no? so says the mcys commercial "funeral", if anyone remembers it. Quote ---Dignity is a facade we wear to hide our ignorance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchDragon Posted February 5, 2012 Report Share Posted February 5, 2012 My ideal type will be either around my stats or have muscles. Decent looking. Around my age too. Only Chinese and no chubs. Likes fashion and of course the main thing is to respect and be truthful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justme3212 Posted February 5, 2012 Report Share Posted February 5, 2012 You can never find the perfect criteria, fact being we are human. even factory made products sometime also fail QC. Wat abt man?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted February 5, 2012 Report Share Posted February 5, 2012 if we had the perfect partner in our judgement, then the relationship would be way too boring. and most people aren't strong enough, so they would be haunted by insecurity questions, "omg he's too perfect, every other guy is gonna want him."interestingly, girls are really different. they may have their preferences, but they always tell me they never want someone who is too perfect.and ironically, most gay men i know often end up with guys who're obviously NOT their "prefect partner" in mind. it's funny, but it's life, i suppose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesea78 Posted February 6, 2012 Report Share Posted February 6, 2012 we are only human, how to find a perfect ideal partner when we are living in a imperfect world? if we start to choose people, the other party will also start picking also.. Anyhow, I prefer Chinese, non-chub, non-smoker, prefer same stats, character exceed good looks, most impt, down to earth, i dun mind a sticking bf, For me, when u take someone as ur bf or live long partner, u got to accept his short comings too. Cos, we will grow old, black hair to grey hair, 6 abs washboard will turn into "8 Guo lian jun", white teeth will turn yellow & start dropping off... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted February 6, 2012 Report Share Posted February 6, 2012 (edited) As straight couples would say, children strengthen the family nucleus by demands of care. Gays in Asia are better placed to learn this from the strong marriages of their kith and kin. I am all for gay couples raising kids by adoption, surrogation or sponsorship. The net income of 2-male couples would equal or even exceed that of straight couples and support a good standard of living for the family. I have seen gay men make excellent dads and neat home makers. Edited February 6, 2012 by Marad44 bluesea78 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesea78 Posted February 6, 2012 Report Share Posted February 6, 2012 As straight couples would say, children strengthen the family unit by demands of care. Gays in Asia are better placed to learn this from the strong marriages of their kith and kin. I am all for gay couples raising kids by adoption, surrogation or sponsorship. I have seen gay men make great dads and neat home makers.IMHO, the other way is, if both set of parents and supportive of their child sexual orientation, to accept them and receive them into the family, this give acknowledgement of the couple relationship.I tried out wif my parents, well.. i didnt come out to them neither am i ready, on the other side, my exbf was the only son in the family and his parents are very conservative, so we just told our parents we are good frens frm army, though we are 6 yrs apart.. and got to to stay over at each other place pretty often i have meals at his place and vice versa.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted February 6, 2012 Report Share Posted February 6, 2012 Absolutely bluesea78! You might want to watch this when you have the time. Thanks to raind, who showed it to me, the 39min 36 sec video blew my mind. I watched with tears swelling. The question by the woman to the gay man stunned me speechless for moments at a time.. Her, "There are lot of gay men who are homophobic" gets the guy bawling. "It's not what they say about gays that is the problem. The problem starts when gays believe it." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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