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Anyone for phone sex...fit or toned bi guys or gay ...pics required...anyone from 21 to 38 ....

28 chi bi here looking for friends and chat. preferably people around my age. telegram me with intro if keen. @trimeow

I have been thinking for quite some time now that we have Singapore's Gay Missed Connection. Why not we make a Malaysia Edition for Malaysian gays?

Discreet regular playmates Tele group anyone?

I need some serious advice from any experienced gays out there. I've new to the homosexual world & not actively looking for relationships or anything.. BUT for some reason I tend to attract/lucky enough to befriend guys I find cute... The thing is.. it stays there: at friendship level only & as time passes, we continue to only act straight etc... i think their interest wanes. I'm not sure what I did wrong but reading around I was wondering if its the sexual part... I've NEVER gathered enough courage to kiss/sex etcetc those kinds of stuffs & I think they hinted? (I dunno I'm dumb) but I never got it & they never advanced... SO to all those experienced guys out there: Must sex come into the picture one time or another for it to move past friendship & how? I'm a dumb virgin so is there a way to not be friendzoned? & after we pass the friends mark, is there any hope to return? P.S: I'm a Libra & apparently I've been attracted & attracting Tauruses & Scorpios... I wanna lasting relationship with them but.. completely stupid in the sensual/sexual section. Any help/advice is appreciated.

很难说得上是幸福还是不幸福。一如异性婚姻，也不知能一齐走完人生路的能有几个？可以肯定的，已婚而有白头偕老的居多，因为有法律保障，也有子女牵制。但我偏偏还是对上了一个已婚的好男人。怎么办？

Anyone matriculating here next year? Would be good to know some friends first xD

Looking for the right one to take my virginity. Provide me with your telegram id and be able to host. Young bottom with a nice ass just for you:)

Always have ppl asking me annoying qns on social media—like “What’s your job?” when they don’t even know me, or dropping unnecessary remarks like “K” or “Ok.” So here’s a consolidation thread: feel free to post your best sarcastic clapbacks so we can all reference how to roast dumb stuff around. Wrong answers only. Sarcasm mandatory. 🏆 🔥 Example Replies: Q: “What’s your job? (without even fucking knowing a shit about u)” *A: “I’m a full-time oxygen consumer. Benefits included.” *A: “CEO of Saying ‘K’.” *A: “Minister of Eye Rolls.” Reply: “K” (after comprehensive explanation to all the shit) *A: “Wow, Shakespeare called—he wants his brevity back.” *A: “Groundbreaking. Truly redefining communication.” Q: “Is that your dog?” (while you’re holding a leash) *A: “No, I just borrow random mammals for cardio.” Reply: “?” after a full explanation *A: “Ah yes, the ancient art of punctuation-as-conversation.” *A: “Your contribution has been noted by the Council of Confusion. Drop your best sarcastic job titles or clapbacks below—let’s build the ultimate roast library.

This is a collective plea from all of us here at BW for you readers to share your sexual experiences. Come on don't be shy! I am sure everyone has some unique experiences to share. Do not worry about writing in broken english. It in fact provides a distinctive flavour to the post. Since we have allowed posting to be made anonymously (you do not need to be a registered member to post), your identity will not be exposed. I am attaching an example of a great post written in somewhat working class singlish. Up to today, I get hard reading it. I am sure many of you guys have similar stories to tell. Kindly share. ==================================================================== SteamedFish Unregistered User (4/8/04 7:23 am) FishingMan Last weekend I was drinking with friends at the NTUC Club. When we said goodbye, I thought I'll go to the nearby seaside to get some fresh air. There are some lovers and 2 men fishing. I walked to the far side to sit near the man to see how was his luck. The lights were quite dim but I can see him. Quite a stout chap with a handsome fair face about 30+. After a while, he got up, unzipped and peed into the sea. Hehe, I of course looked at his cock. Nice. He saw me that. He sat down and carried on his fishing. I asked him got any fish. He said no but got cheekopek. I know he was referring to me. But I was thick-skinned. I said we all men why say until like that? See also no harm right. He said don't know why ah quas like to peep at him. Happened so many time already. I said he's handsome, that's why. He say he old cock liao and got 2 children already. So I say he got man flavor. He said I got very sweet mouth. Is it I want to makan him. I say I dare not, wait he beat me up. He said don't bluff, last time that kelong owner also behaved like me. Seems like he's got naughty story so I asked him to tell me. He said last time he fishing at Changi, got one man saw him and told him he got kelong and he can fish there many fish. Since he said it's free, so he went because the kelong's nearby. When they got on the kelong, there were 2 workers there. The owner told them to go mainland to do something so they left. While he's fishing, he caught many fishes. The owner took a big pail to put in the fishes. But one time, he accidentally spill water on him. The owner said sorry and told him to wash with the clean pail of water. He said here nobody so can just wash naked nobody see also. So he got naked and washed. Then the owner also strip naked and his cock was hard already. He said he also want to wash. So they washed. Then the owner washed his back for him. Then told him to relax while he massage his back. He put a big canvas cloth on the floor and told him to lie down. He told the owner he's not gay. The owner said never mind, only help him relax. The owner massaged until his cock stand also. Quite nice. Then he asked him want to release fire or not? He said no. But the owner already shaking his cock until he cums. The owner also masturbated till he cummed. I said his story made me steamed. He said he also steamed. He asked me whether I got let people play backside. I said very seldom. He said he want to fxxk my backside. I said cannot, here so dangerous. He said I am so hamsup, he want to fxxk me also think twice. Wait he changed his mind then it's too late. So I said go someplace can or not? He said can if not far away. So he kept his fishing line and carried his big bag. We walked to Marina South and saw a big lorry park that's quite dim. There's one big lorry so we climbed on. He lay his canvas on the floor and we striped naked. He asked why I not shy to let men fxxk. I said not always but must be handsome like him then I willing. If not, then I don't want also. He laughed, like that he can fxxk any men if he want. I asked he got condom or not. He said no. He say how? I said if not then we just shake out. He said cannot that means he not handsome enough is it? I said no condom dangerous. He said I clean backide or not? I said should be, I washed before going out. He said he got plenty of water. He said he has an idea. He took out a plastic bag and inside was a big sandwich wrapped in lots of cellophane. He carefully removed the cellophane and put the sandwich back into the plastic bag. He wrapped the cellophane a few times round his cock and tie round his balls. I touched it and it felt quite strong with the few layers. He said I am like a wolf. But then no lube. Again he opened the sandwich bag and took out the small piece of wrapped butter. Wah lan eh, he said this time it is like people said I "bua" butter on my backside and kan karchng. I must say he's quite a good fxxker with all the right moves. I got my legs on his shoulders and told him he's good. He smiled and pumped me slow and fast. First I cummed then he after. We used his water to wipe clean and put on our clothes. He said it was fun. I said next time we better go hotel. ======================================================================

In 2026, blind and speed dating are considered a highly feasible and increasingly popular option for those in their 40s seeking serious, long-term commitment. As "dating fatigue" from apps peaks, older adults are shifting toward intentional, vetted experiences that prioritize emotional substance over digital curation. Do you believe in one? 😉

Hi brothers, I'm in my mid-40s, tall, and slightly stocky build. I've always been drawn to professionals esp army officers and doctors - there's something about their dedication that I find attractive. If you're a discreet individual looking for friendship or buddies, feel free to PM me.

I am wondering if it is possible to have such long distance romance / long term relationship? Exclusive? Monogamous? (not possible to find locally >>> looking overseas) mutually, flying in to one another's country to spend a couple of weeks together - quality time. While during long distance absence, have real time video call to connect, as regularly as possible...still maintaining LTR Anyone has such LTR before? Or Anyone is already in such LTR? >>> Share your success / unworkable stories with me >>> I am keen to explore... About Me: 56yo Singaporean Chinese 180 70 Top Discreet, Decent, Straight-act/look, bespectacled About U: Age below 38 Height under 178 cm Weight - average BUT not chubby Discreet, decent, straight act/look (Ethnicity: sensitive - pm to chat offline) Financially stable! Feel free to view / visit my profile bio. Thank you for reading.

Open school, so many isolated staircase and washrooms and gym showers, rooms to host too

Anyone here around my age wanna be friends? new here and just started exploring. str cur here telegram @trimeow ig@ standbytwink_

Hi, folks . When is your first ' blowjob' ? And where ?

It’s probably just me being too overly attached and one sided. So…… I’ve met this guy from the G app and at around February, and has been texting. After which, he had to fly overseas for work hence we continued texting daily and had weekly video calls. I must say the the texts isn’t as fresh as before that one thing to note. But we did had plans to travel later this year and had booked air tickets. Few weeks later, he had developed some dermatology medical issues and that’s where it started dying down as he said that he needs time to be alone and had no mood to text or communicate much as he is having anxiety and troubling with his issue. So we hardly texted. Afterwards, as we initially planned to fly separately to the country as he and I are in long distance, he gave a heads up to me that the trip might have to be cancelled as he might be flying back home earlier from his overseas work due to his condition and not end of the year. But he’ll try to stay there longer and make the trip happen as my flight can’t be cancelled or refunded. Recently, he gave me an update that he would be flying back home for a short trip due his condition and texted me that “we meet and talk more as well as discuss about the trip.” So for the past few weeks till now, I’ve noticed from time to time from he posts ig stories and spending time with his friends. And I also noticed occasionally he was active on the G app. I understand that he needs time alone and also needs his friends around him. But is it just me or I do feel I’m overly attached to him with all this things going on. And he probably had lesser attachment as compared to me. Side note: he was the one that wanted daily texts, initiates weekly video calls as well as the trip. Till now he does occasionally react to my ig stories. And we aren’t exclusive. So I’m lost right now and I need some advices.

I have recently started using this dating app called Hinge to find a partner, and as someone who is in his mid-thirties and has never dated before, life just started to feel really lonely navigating through alone. I have matched with a few guys and gone on a few dates before, but as with all online dating, you are matching with someone predominantly on whether they are good looking or not, so most of my attraction towards the guys I do meet in real life for such dates are purely due to looks. When those dates don't work out, I don't feel too upset about it because no feelings were involved, we went on the date, we don't vibe, we move on. 3 weeks ago, I ended up matching with this new guy and I remember coming across his profile, but had ran out of likes to give for the day (this shows how desperate I am to try and find someone on the app), so I gave him a rose (which is like a super like on Tinder) because he was cute and was someone who didn't take himself too seriously based on his profile. I was very much looking forward to conversing with him, but I knew it was going to be a 50/50 chance, he had to be interested in my profile first before we could get to that step. He did and actually messaged me back first, so we got to chatting and I really enjoyed our conversation, we had good banter almost immediately and soon brought the chat out to Telegram. The first week was just messages after messages, we replied to one another within the hour and I was constantly looking forward to them. By the second week however, the text messages from his side started slowing down, his replies were also starting to get shorter and I just found myself glued to my phone all day, waiting for him to message back. My interest towards him was still very strong, but it seemed like his has dwindled and I actually got really sad. Third week comes along and the messages were getting more and more sporadic, I tried to pep talk myself many times in my head that I didn't really know this guy, so I shouldn't let it affect me that much, if he was not interested, then I should just move on and hopefully find someone else who will be, but that is easier said than done. I was still very interested in him and I really wanted to give it an actual shot, because if I don't I know I will definitely regret it, so I asked him out. He agreed and we set a date. A huge part of me was so happy we could finally meet in real life, but another smaller part of me was also wishing that it would go horribly and I will instantly get over him once the date was over, because I didn't like how I was feeling, that longing for his attention felt suffocating. Well. The date actually went pretty well and we were able to hit it off in real life, our online banter translated really well offline and at that point in time, I felt like this was enough, if this was going to be our only date, I would be satisfied. The date ended and we went our separate ways, I dropped him a text minutes later and told him it was really nice to finally meet, he replied in kind, and then I half-jokingly told him he had better invite me out for a second meal. He had been "typing...", but the moment I send that out, he stopped and I was just left me on "read". The morning after, I woke up feeling satisfied and happy with the date, but then as the day went on, that sense of longing started to return and it started to intensify by late morning. I found myself once again checking my phone and yearning for a text from him, I couldn't focus on work, I had no appetite for breakfast, all I could think about was him and it was debilitating. I have never been in a relationship before because I have never felt so strongly for someone before to want to pursue a relationship with them, this is honestly the first time in my life I have developed such felt such strong feelings for a person and I do not like it. It's paralyzing, I know this isn't love, I know I'm just going through the infatuation phase, I mean I barely know the guy, we have only been talking online for 3 weeks, and only met up once, even I know that much that love take times to develop. But it's been a hard day. I feel like that intensity I felt during the late morning was probably brought on by my excessive caffeine intake in the morning because I have now calmed down and am feeling a little more in control, I guess typing this out also helped. Thanks for reading if you have gotten to this point, I just needed an outlet to express myself and would like to know if anyone else gone through this before and how you guys dealt with it. Update - 23rd May Thank you for all the replies guys! Just to share an update. He has texted me back and expressed that he isn't interested to pursue anything more, so I have also taken some time to get over him, and the feelings are starting to feel less intense as the days go by, now that I know for sure, it has definitely provided me with the closure I needed and also made it a tad easier to move on.

There are lots of prc on Grindr but I think most of them use blued. Haven’t tried meetup with any

How to Discreetly Find out if Someone You Know Is Gay Co-authored by Kateri Berasi, PsyD and Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA Last Updated: June 10, 2024 References Explore this Article Observing Their Behavior Talking to Them Asking Them on a Date Questions & Answers Tips and Warnings Related Articles References Article Summary Someone’s sexuality is personal, so it’s important to respect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay because you’re interested in dating them or want to support them as a friend. Being open with them can be scary, so you’re likely feeling really nervous. While you can’t tell if someone is gay by how they look, you can observe them to see if they're queer. However, you need to talk to them if you want to be sure. If you’re interested in dating them, start by asking them to hang out as friends so you can get to know them better. Disclaimer: the term ‘queer’ is used throughout this article to include different types of orientations and is not intended to offend or insult. Method 1 Observing Their Behavior 1 Listen to how they comment on other people’s appearance. People who are queer are more likely to notice and compliment people who are the same gender as them. Pay attention when the person is talking about people to see which sex they tend to focus on. Additionally, consider the types of comments they're making, such as opinions about the person's appearance.[1] For example, your guy friend might say things like, “Did you see that guy’s abs?” or “He looks great in a suit.” Keep in mind that this alone doesn’t mean the person is gay! 2 Consider the person's past relationships and crushes. It’s possible that the person is bisexual/pansexual, and they may even be gay but not ready to come out. However, showing interest in a different gender is typically a sign that someone is straight. To figure out if they’re interested in a certain gender, consider who they typically date, who they’ve had a crush on, and which gender they tend to compliment. For instance, a guy that enjoys dating girls is probably straight, though he may be bisexual or pansexual. 3 Notice if they use “they” when talking about dates or crushes. If they’re dating someone who’s the same gender as them, they might use the pronouns “they” and “them” so that people don’t realize they’re queer. Listen to how they talk about their dates to figure out if they tend to say “they.” If they do, you might want to talk to them about their orientation.[2] They might say, “My date went well last night. They were really interesting, and I hope they’ll say ‘yes’ to a second date!” Keep in mind that they might be using the pronouns ‘they’ and ‘them’ because they are their date’s preferred pronouns. Don’t make assumptions until you talk to them. 4 Consider if they never talk about their love life. If someone is in the closet, it might be hard for them to talk about their love life. They might be nervous that someone will realize that they’re queer, which they might not be ready for. Be open with them about your own dating life, then ask about theirs. If they don't want to open up, don't push them to share more than they're ready for.[3] You could say, “I’ve been seeing this guy lately, and I think our relationship has a future. How’s your dating life going?” Again, this doesn't mean that they're gay. 5 Avoid making assumptions based on their looks, style, or voice. In the past, people believed the myth that you could recognize a queer person by looking at their face, observing their style, watching them walk, or listening to their voice. However, none of that is true! Both gay and straight people can look, dress, and sound however they want to. Ignore the stereotypes that you see in the media because they aren’t true.[4] For example, a guy can paint his fingernails and not be gay. Similarly, a girl can prefer a short haircut and not be a lesbian. Additionally, straight guys can have high pitched voices just like straight girls can have deep voices. At the end of the day, it is always better to ask than to make assumptions![5] Method2 Talking to Them 1 Bring up the topic of sexuality to start the conversation. Talk about a book, movie, TV show, or current event that is related to sexuality. Share your LGBTQ+ positive thoughts on the topic. Then, listen as they share their thoughts.[6] You might say, “I really enjoyed Hayley Kiyoko's new video for ‘Girls Like Girls!’ It made me wear my rainbow bracelet today. What did you think?” Before talking with someone about their sexuality, ask yourself why you want to know this and why it matters to you. Are you coming from an open or judgmental place? If you're asking due to a desire to find connection or from a place of empathy or support, these are good indicators that your question is more likely to be well-received.[7] 2 Express your support for the LGBTQ+ community. If you’re out of the closet, let them know that you’re proud of your sexual identity. If you’re an ally, tell them that you support the community. Then, see how they respond.[8] Say, “I came out to my family last year, and it was so hard! But it’s so great to be able to share my truth with everyone, and I’m proud of who I am,” or “I think it’s important for everyone to feel accepted, so I’m an ally for the LGBTQ+ community. If we all work together, we can create real change.” 3 Ask them directly if they are gay if they seem open to talking about it. If the person seems excited to talk about LGBTQ+ issues, they likely won’t be offended if you ask if they’re gay.[9] Be direct and to the point when you ask. Then, be respectful of their response, even if they decline to answer.[10] Say, “Have you ever questioned your sexual orientation?” or “Do you identify as gay/queer?” 4 Let the person come out on their own terms. It’s important to remember that it’s not really your business if someone is queer or not. If they don’t want to share with you, just let it go. Similarly, keep it to yourself if they confide that they are queer. Let them decide who knows and who doesn’t.[11] Don’t pressure someone to share if they aren’t ready. If someone asks you if the person is queer, say, “If you’re wondering about their sexual orientation, why don’t you ask them?” 5 Avoid asking other people about the person’s sexuality. While you might be nervous about talking to them, it’s not okay to discuss their sexuality with other people. This is gossiping and may start rumors that aren’t true. Don’t talk to anyone else about this person’s sexuality.[12] For instance, don’t ask, “Do you think that Todd is gay?” Method3 Asking Them on a Date 1 Ask them to go out as friends if you’re interested in dating them. You’re likely eager to get to know them as a partner, so asking them to hang out as friends might sound like a step backward. However, it’s actually a great way to get to know them and find out if they’re open to dating. Invite them to do something as friends and use it as an opportunity to build a foundation for a relationship.[13] Say, “Would you like to play mini golf this Friday?” or “I heard you like live music. Do you want to go see this local band with me?” 2 Get to know them by spending more time with them. Ask them to do more things together so you can get to know them better. Additionally, text or call them often to help your relationship grow. As you do this, be open about your sexuality and listen to how they talk about theirs.[14] Ask them to do things like go out for dinner, see a movie, or go bowling. Say things like, “I’ve known I liked girls since I was 12 and developed a crush on a girl in my dance class. Have you ever had a crush on a girl?” 3 Flirt with them after you’ve gotten to know them a bit. Start by giving them small compliments to see how they respond. If they seem receptive, try out a cute nickname to see if they like it. Finally, get a little closer to them physically.[15] You might say something like, “You look so great today! This shirt is really flattering on you,” or “Every time I see you walk into the room all I can do is smile.” Warning: Just be sure to respect their boundaries and back off if they get stiff, pull away, or wrap their arms around themselves. 4 Invite them out on a date if you think they might be open to it. After you’ve gotten to know them really well, decide if they seem open to dating you. If they do, go ahead and ask them on a real date. You can do this in person, via text, or as part of a romantic gesture.[16] Say, “Spending time with you has been so great! Would you be interested in going on a date? If not, that’s totally okay, and I’m happy to just be your friend.” You could also text, “Getting to know you these past few months has been amazing. Wanna try a date? If not, we’re still on for game night.” You could send flowers with a note that says, “Would you like to have a first date with me? If so, text me a picture of the flowers. If not, our friendship can go on like nothing happened.” 5 Cope with rejection by celebrating yourself and connecting with friends. It's likely that you're going to develop feelings for people who aren't into you. While everyone goes through this, it can feel especially painful when it seems like everyone you like is straight. If you get rejected, remember that it's not about you, so there's no reason to doubt how awesome you are. Instead, remind yourself that you're an amazing person who's worthy of love, then spend time with your friends to lift yourself up.[17] Don't be afraid to put yourself out there again! Go out and meet some new people. Soon, you'll find someone else who catches your eye.

问世间 情归何处 你想他了吗？ 他又在哪儿？ 他想你了吗？ 他 在你心中的何处？ 你 又在他心中的那里？

Hello everyone, Today is Monday, and I hope you’re all having a great start to the week. I wanted to share some thoughts on the difference between having an attitude problem and being easygoing, especially in the context of the LGBTQ+ community. A person with an attitude problem can be difficult to deal with. They might be very picky, often negative, and hard to please. Their interactions with others can come across as harsh or unpleasant. Difficult to Deal With: They often have a negative outlook, making interactions challenging. Picky and Hard to Please: Their high standards and critical nature can create tension. Harsh Interactions: Their communication style can be blunt or unpleasant, leading to conflicts. Resistance to Change: They may be inflexible, which can hinder progress and cooperation. On the other hand, a person with a positive attitude is easygoing, humble, polite, and pleasant to be around. They are approachable and make interactions smooth and enjoyable. Easygoing and Humble: They are approachable and open-minded, making them pleasant to be around. Polite and Pleasant: Their respectful and kind demeanor fosters positive interactions. Smooth Interactions: They handle situations with grace, making socializing enjoyable. Adaptable: They are willing to embrace change and new ideas, promoting a harmonious environment. In summary, understanding the difference between these attitudes can greatly impact our interactions and the overall atmosphere within our communities. Let’s strive to be more positive and approachable, fostering inclusivity and support for everyone.

My boyfriend went onto Grindr and sent his stats and topless photos. For context, we were on a break for a while but agreed to be exclusive, and we had a major fight while he was overseas which led to us going no contact BUT had mutually agreed to not talk or see anyone else till he was back and tried to work things out. He saw a profile that looked like me and accused me of cheating, which on hindsight was him projecting onto me. After talking things out, I realised and pointed out that he had 1 more location-based chat to unlock for free and tried to clarify if there were indeed 3 initially as I have never really used the app. He assured me that there was only 1 unlock and hadn't spoken to anyone. A few days back a past fwb reached out to him, and my boyfriend told me about it as we agreed to have open disclosure if anyone from our pasts had contacted us. It turned out that my boyfriend had sent his stats and topless photos to the ex-fwb (without knowing it was him). It did hurt because I considered it as cheating, but I chose to forgive him pretty prematurely after a quick discussion about it, likely because I really wanted to work things out. I don't know what to do because I had already forgiven him, but I can't help but feel anxious and betrayed. I still feel so hurt about him going onto the app and proactively sending his stats and shirtless photos to random people after explicitly agreeing to stay exclusive and not talk to others. Please give me advice on how to proceed. I really like this guy and I don't know if I'm just ignoring all of the red flags at the moment. tl;dr: I need advice as my boyfriend and I got into a pretty rough patch, and he sent his stats and topless photos on Grindr.

I arrived at my workplace yesterday, and headed straight to a public toilet to adjust my hair. Suddenly there was this cisco officer who came into the washroom and had his eyes on me while going up to the the urinal. Even when he was peeing, his eyes was locked onto. Not that I was checking him out, but when someone glares at you, I'm sure you would be able to feel it. So once he was done, he stood next to me with a very obvious bulge while washing his hands. Once I was done, I quickly walked out to get a slip of water from the water cooler and saw him looking for me. I head back to that same direction as my work place was there and he suddenly approached and ask me to follow him to the enclosed stairs. I have no idea why I did that, maybe because he was armed? Then when we entered the enclosed room, I asked him ??? He replied 'come hook up'. I was very nervous and excited but didn't want to get wet and dirty as I'm just about to start work, so I rejected him and say maybe next time, smiled and go. Omggg,He had such a big bulge. Ok that's not the point. That was the second time I met him, the first time he just had his eyes on me all the way as well. What do you guys think, to go or not to go? Guys in uniform are so hot, especially with a big bulge LOL

To me this was pretty surprising as Japan is pretty conservative country. What you guys think?