Guest thatwasrunie Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 i tried something during my shower.my best friend told me that being anal-ed was a great feeling so me being virgin still, i tried to put a finger in but it hurt real bad. Is it true that being anal comes with feeling rather great and high ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riko Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 First time is always painful. Plus you're not used to having something stuck up your ass, so you'd probably tend to clench it and forcing your finger (or anything) up when it's tense hurts like hell.That's why people who can't learn to relax but like the feeling take substances like poppers or anything that helps them relax.But once you've tried it, it's good. I was a staunch top until this particular someone convinced me enough. It hurt the first time and was really uncomfortable, but once you get into the swing of things, it's really good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oralb Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 ok i am gonna sound like a broken record again, if you need poppers to relax, then you are NOT READY FOR ANAL.poppers is a chemical that may have harmful effect on your body, what's worst is that it lower your guard and may lead you to have unsafe sex.lastly poppers is used as video head cleaner..nuff said When I Think It, I Do It, I Win It! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buaya Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Oh, was informed by my doctor that poppers interact with some drugs you are taking and might cause serious problems. Do take extra care, especially if you are on medication.Anyway, I definitely agree with Oral that if you need poppers, you are not prepared for the sex...Up to now, I still dun understand why would people need such drugs to help them relax or get high for sex... If not relaxed or not high, then dun have sex.Equally, if you are not relaxed or high, then you will not enjoy fingering yourself...Anyway, not all bottoms enjoy fingering themselves also... My partner is one such person... He is a pure bottom, but is dead against and dislike fingering himself. Totally.So, perhaps you can try fingering yourself just to relax the anal muscles and to figure out how to use those muscles etc... Then when you are ready, try the real thing... But try to find someone you like a lot, so you can be relaxed totally and will then enjoy the process. Cheers. Visit me @ http://ibuaya.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tic-toc Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 u cannot just insert ur finger into yr ass, u need to use lubricants. If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buaya Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 We all assumed he used lubricants... Visit me @ http://ibuaya.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worldangel Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Newbies who would like to experience this would use 'soap' under the shower a good oral sex makes your day, a good anal sex makes your "hole weak" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 dun use soap lah - better to use some moisturiser when fingering yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frogprince Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Can clean the ass also if use soap.. Soapy clean Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worldangel Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 dun use soap lah - better to use some moisturiser when fingering yourself. Yah lah ...... moisturiser or lubricants are of better alternative, but some how newbies would find only soap available in shower cubicle .... :oops: a good oral sex makes your day, a good anal sex makes your "hole weak" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest thatwasrunie Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 noted !but sometimes, how the hell you relax yourself. i mean like it is rather exciting and scary to have something up your ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
night listener Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Do NOT use moisturizers or soap!The anus made of mucous membrane. Using moisturizers (which contain plenty of chemicals) and soap will irritate your anus. Causing shitting sensation (the inside tissues are irritated and need to expel) and later itching sensation.Use a proper lubricant, which can be easily purchased.Then your initial experience will be better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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