Guest S.D Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 Hi all,Wanna ask if have anyone meet up with Grindr member for ONS or kinky session ? Is it even safe to have the though of meeting them ? zzx.sunny 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 My mama told me when I was young: "Don't talk to strangers." Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 My mama told me when I was young, "we are all superstars"... no well...my mama told me when I was young, "if you don't have the balls, then don't play with fire." qedcwc 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 (edited) Generally, Singapore is rather safe and most guys are nice. I am referring to the meeting and not their health conditions. It could be Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff, Growlr, etc. It all depends on your luck. If you are lucky, you meet nice guys and have a good session. if you strike lottery, you can get more than just a good fxxk (pun intended), it could be STI, HIV, HPV, Hepatitis, etc.Safety depends a lot on you and your partner/s, so remember to protect yourself and keep your valuables to the minimum.If you are afraid of the heat, stay out of the kitchen! Edited May 20, 2012 by GachiMuchi merlinkun and BeYourself 2 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtsc Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 Not from grindr but also from similar websites. if you are not sure or feeling uneasy, then don't or discuss with that fellow to meet up first. If he refuses then might be better to skip. merlinkun 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest S.D Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 Probably my curiosity overtook my emotions of wanting to meet up with them.Added him on FB and he look rather nice, and had the gentleman feel (to me)I'm still thinking very hard if to meet him ..But what are the basic things to know before actual meet up, example: wear condom, what else ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 Just remember that because people can be anonymous, be wary if they start to ask you personal data. For all you know it could be a scammer or murderer behind the phone.Chatting is a good start, at least knows the person a little bit. Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 But what are the basic things to know before actual meet up, example: wear condom, what else ?I think most people will find out all the usual stuff... photo, stats, T/B, whose place/where. Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 from my various encounters,how he show his profile is already indicative of a no. of things.some state directly what they are looking for or tell you what they want.if not,show bod or indicate sexual role: most prob will lead to sexshow face: some will lead to sex, some are sincere in being friendsthose who do not show anything - distance, age, height, weight etc (with or w/o pic): sitting on the fence, will wait to see how situations develop and react from there.if i may add, most blank profiles with no pic - can be quite a gem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 (edited) You meant your little head overtook your big head and wanted to meet up with "them" (that's more than 1).Meeting Strangers 1011. Try to meet in a crowded place like hawker center or fast food restaurant.2. Just be nice and friendly and if you feel uncomfortable with him after meeting him, just be nice and tell him that you are not ready to proceed further.3. No one can force you to do thing you don't want to do.4. Prepare yourself, if you are bottom, some cleaning of your ass is necessary. If you are top, it would be good to wash your little brother too.5. Bring your condoms and lube if you are prepared to have sex. Don't leave home without it. (I mean the condom, not your credit card)6. Don't wear or carry too many valuables and leave your Prada, G&B bags home.7. After sex, check and make sure all your belongings are with you, your mobile phone, wallet, etc. Say thank you and make a clean exit. Edited May 20, 2012 by GachiMuchi merlinkun 1 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sepias Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 from my various encounters,how he show his profile is already indicative of a no. of things.some state directly what they are looking for or tell you what they want.if not,show bod or indicate sexual role: most prob will lead to sexshow face: some will lead to sex, some are sincere in being friendsthose who do not show anything - distance, age, height, weight etc (with or w/o pic): sitting on the fence, will wait to see how situations develop and react from there.if i may add, most blank profiles with no pic - can be quite a gem.Not true. I indicate sexual roles, becos I dont wan to attract same sexual role as me for a relationship. And to me, those who dont show anything, especially blank profiles are just rude. I tend to ignore them. Becos the reason they messaged me is definitely superficial, either from my pic or the data. So, I am as superficial as they are. Unless they re gonna tell me, if my profile was blank they wld still message me. Quote Sometimes I give my heart away too easily. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 Personally, when I see a person with a blank profile without a pic, I won't even bother to reply them. Waste of my time to even ask them for a pic. BlueBeat, Vince and thaiboyz 3 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiboyz Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 I share the same view as GM, I won't bother to reply or I will ask for a face pic to continue any further correspondence. One of the most annoying case was when tat blank profiles asked for more of my photos. I won't entertain such case further. To me its rude to have a blank profile. GachiMuchi and Vince 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minejastr0 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 So far, everything went well for me. Met quite a number of them through grindr. I got irritated if any faceless/body pic profiles ask for my face pic. I felt that they should initiate by showing their's first.. Azorius 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azorius Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 (edited) ..... Edited January 14, 2018 by Azorius Quote My amateur video links: http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=30971&p=618776 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minejastr0 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 I agree =) Some guys had the audacity to bitch me when I said that they should show first. Like come on, who do they think they are? XDYa! And u know y. There was once he said i should show mine first. Ok, so i showed mine. Then he never showed his lor.Sianzz Dashy_Boy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azorius Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 (edited) ..... Edited January 14, 2018 by Azorius Exynos, Dashy_Boy and SSboy 3 Quote My amateur video links: http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=30971&p=618776 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashy_Boy Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Ya! And u know y. There was once he said i should show mine first. Ok, so i showed mine. Then he never showed his lor.SianzzOh man... hugs... *sayang* minejastr0 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Singaporean gay men... haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minejastr0 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Oh man... hugs... *sayang*Aww..so sweet of u.. haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 I think the worst is when the person look completely different from his picture. Dashy_Boy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minejastr0 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 I think the worst is when the person look completely different from his picture.Happened to me once. But thats from fridae.. haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 many times i met guys from web w/o pics... so it kind of excitmement who you going to meet... many times surprise but some are SHOCK !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest fake Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 some of u guys are in dream land. some ppl will post their younger picture or some one else picture. Picture don t mean a thing , meet face to face in person.u guys want picture i got so many from trevvy to send . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy.99 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 i cannot be bothered with things like Grindr. it is a waste of time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silveriot Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 instead of 'online shopping', go to aj spas and choose your meat from the rack. What you see is what you get. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest waytt Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 instead of 'online shopping', go to aj spas and choose your meat from the rack. What you see is what you get.Nice!! I agree with this. ''choose your meat from the rack. What you see is what you get'' ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Canned Food Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Nice!! I agree with this. ''choose your meat from the rack. What you see is what you get'' !Not true. Sometimes, the photo's were taken many years ago, what we get are stale meat which had long expired the "Best Use Before" dates. :twisted: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest waytt Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Not true. Sometimes, the photo's were taken many years ago, what we get are stale meat which had long expired the "Best Use Before" dates. :twisted: Photos? I'm talking about Gay Spas. Are there photo's in gay sauna? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy.99 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 instead of 'online shopping', go to aj spas and choose your meat from the rack. What you see is what you get.i totally agree. sometimes a photo can tell anything also. photo can be faked. but at spa, you cannot hide anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 maybe gachi send his younger day pic to get the 23 yr old guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 many times i met guys from web w/o pics... so it kind of excitmement who you going to meet... many times surprise but some are SHOCK !!!Yah i did that a few times, the users not willing to show face but the conversations keep us going. Most of them are very discreet. Go w/o expectation when meeting up. Many turn out to be pretty good looking and nice guys. I am gd friends now with 2 of them meeting this way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
digital03 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Ya! And u know y. There was once he said i should show mine first. Ok, so i showed mine. Then he never showed his lor.Sianzzat least u dont get block after showing... lol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 maybe gachi send his younger day pic to get the 23 yr old guy.I don't need to do that. My current look is enough to get me guys. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minejastr0 Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 at least u dont get block after showing... lol...but he got blocked by me hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maquis Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 You meant your little head overtook your big head and wanted to meet up with "them" (that's more than 1).Meeting Strangers 1011. Try to meet in a crowded place like hawker center or fast food restaurant.2. Just be nice and friendly and if you feel uncomfortable with him after meeting him, just be nice and tell him that you are not ready to proceed further.3. No one can force you to do thing you don't want to do.4. Prepare yourself, if you are bottom, some cleaning of your ass is necessary. If you are top, it would be good to wash your little brother too.5. Bring your condoms and lube if you are prepared to have sex. Don't leave home without it. (I mean the condom, not your credit card)6. Don't wear or carry too many valuables and leave your Prada, G&B bags home.7. After sex, check and make sure all your belongings are with you, your mobile phone, wallet, etc. Say thank you and make a clean exit.Good rules, and maybe good to add a few. SG might be relatively safe but nonetheless good to look after yourself...8. if neither of u have a place & u agree meeting up in a public place (e.g. park/carpark) at night, get there early and make sure u know who's around (whether police or your date's shady friends) and where the exits are9. leave some kind of hint as to where u are going - a sticky note in your room with the meeting point is enough10. lastly, how do I emphasize this enough, brush your teeth (please...!) (and not just on a grindr date but also before you visit a sauna or meet up with a FB) Dashy_Boy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ewannatic Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 I am discreet so I don't show my pic on my profile. But when I initiate a chat, I will definitely attach a pic. That is basic courtesy if you ask me. But absolutely cannot stand when those ask me for face pic first when they initiate chat with me. I usually either reply you first or ignore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orangair Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 10. lastly, how do I emphasize this enough, brush your teeth (please...!) (and not just on a grindr date but also before you visit a sauna or meet up with a FB)Brushing your teeth actually increases your chance of getting HIV or Hep C. It is recommended that you do not to brush your teeth before having deep kiss to decrease sexually transmitted disease. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashy_Boy Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 wow these are good statements to follow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maquis Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Brushing your teeth actually increases your chance of getting HIV or Hep C. It is recommended that you do not to brush your teeth before having deep kiss to decrease sexually transmitted disease.Would you mind providing a link to a page with scientific evidence of that, cause I've never heard of the phenomenon that plaque reduces HIV infections...What I can prove to you empirically as well as statistically though, is that the probability of anyone with mouth odor having his kit off with me is nil... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Brushing your teeth actually increases your chance of getting HIV or Hep C. It is recommended that you do not to brush your teeth before having deep kiss to decrease sexually transmitted disease.at least rinse your mouth, pop some mints or get those fresh breath spray.rmb a guy not too bad looking initiated kissing with me. his breath was so bad that i got turned off and pushed him away. told him his breath was bad and he got really pissed . must hv been a huge dent to his ego. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Would you mind providing a link to a page with scientific evidence of that, cause I've never heard of the phenomenon that plaque reduces HIV infections...What I can prove to you empirically as well as statistically though, is that the probability of anyone with mouth odor having his kit off with me is nil...he is not wrong. i do rmb reading somewhere that some of us brush our teeth with a bit of force, causing our gums to bleed temporarily. this can transmit diseases between both parties. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Yes I do meet up with decent guys from Grindr, for a nice convo over Starbucks coffee or a cook-out in my kitchen (: Quote Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamemo Posted May 21, 2012 Report Share Posted May 21, 2012 Yes I do meet up with decent guys from Grindr, for a nice convo over Starbucks coffee or a cook-out in my kitchen (:nver jio me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 mamemo how to jio yr picture is without a head?and was that a old pic of yr bod? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamemo Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 mamemo how to jio yr picture is without a head?and was that a old pic of yr bod?click to my profile and you can see my head "just wanna put the ironic wording as my avatar.cant u get any brighter? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest curious Posted October 8, 2012 Report Share Posted October 8, 2012 Is it safe? i just wondering cause a lot of guys have been asking me out to have fun but i just not sure if i should do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minejastr0 Posted October 8, 2012 Report Share Posted October 8, 2012 Up to you... I've done that in the past Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted October 8, 2012 Report Share Posted October 8, 2012 Why would an App in a smartphone be unsafe??? It's what you do with it that determine how dangerous it is. Quote https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted October 8, 2012 Report Share Posted October 8, 2012 (edited) Why are you asking others' advise on a choice decision?Everything you do or don't do depends on you. Not what others says.Your decision, your choice, your action. Edited October 8, 2012 by GachiMuchi Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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