Guest Sf Posted October 13, 2012 Report Share Posted October 13, 2012 I got married and later discovered that I am gay. Have a bf but would not allow him to get married. He is also gay but wants to get married so that his parents won't pester him. He also hopes to have a child. He insists that he does not like women at all now. Am I selfish? I don't know what to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ironrod Posted October 14, 2012 Report Share Posted October 14, 2012 You don't need counseling but your bf does.Ask him to contact me so I can screw his ass so hard that he will consider leaving u. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoSonni Posted October 14, 2012 Report Share Posted October 14, 2012 How exactly did you discover that you are into other men?Also, just an opinion, if you (in this case your bf) know that you aren't into women but still insist on getting married for whatever reason (family pressure), I think that is being selfish. That woman has every right to deserve marrying a man who is willing and able to love her back. Being pressured to get married is definitely a huge burden, but would I destroy a woman's potential love life just so my burden can be lifted? No.It is selfish for you to be doing what you're doing because you're doing it for your own reasons. At the same time, I think you might be "accidentally" doing the right thing (in my point of view anyway). zwei 1 Instagram | @sodamnsonniTwitter | @sosonni Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted October 14, 2012 Report Share Posted October 14, 2012 Hi, you're selfish. I think you might have some deep Daddy issues.Tell me about your childhood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted October 14, 2012 Report Share Posted October 14, 2012 I actually dont think you are selfish. You might just be helping to prevent another lady from getting hurt by marrying a gay guy who doesnt feel anything for her. Or even preventing a child being born into a broken family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
123ZZZ Posted October 14, 2012 Report Share Posted October 14, 2012 If I had known about myself then I would not have gotten married. Everyday is like a living lie.If I want to have a child then I would rather adopt.Knowing how miserable to live in lies everyday, I rather come out cause being gay is not a sin and it should not be judged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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