Guest love Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 if u are attached , will u tear yr sauna card to prove yr love to yr boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest No Love Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 if u are attached , will u tear yr sauna card to prove yr love to yr boyfriend?No...I will not tear it....I still like to play around...Life should be like that...There is no real Love .....if you don't your boy friend will...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Behrhunter Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Depending on the situation of the two parties. For both my relationship, yes. If it is MUTUALLY decided that you guys are going to be monogamous. It is only fair that both parties have them removed. To me, not having the membership card in my wallet definitely deters me from going there. But this concept is somewhat not applicable with more saunas not requiring a membership. If it is an open relationship, then I don't see the purpose. But to be honest, the idea that removal of the sauna membership card is a sign of fidelity seems to be somewhat a false sense of security IMHO. I did it to appease my past 2 ex-es and I never touched other men sexually outside of the saunas as well. Why I say so is cos of the main few reasons among others which I have personally experienced. - I don't need to go to the sauna to get hooked up, and same goes for many guys. I've never been to the saunas for ages due to the fact that I have totally lost the habit of doing so during my past relationship. But now that I am single and I do not go there doesn't mean that I am an angel. - The sauna cards can easily be 'secretly' replaced without your knowledge. Which was what my 2nd ex did. Even at saunas where the card is compulsory, some guys end up (1)borrowing their friends card to enter. (2)Get a replacement card (3)Or merely register under new e-mail address Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radialhead Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 In a heartbeat. merlinkun 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Featheric Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Someone did that for me.But I think he still goes after by just entering through email or card replacement.I am not so naive even then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krugerboy2002 Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Does that prove anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Sure.If he has place.Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rotikawin Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 I threw away my membership card down the chute in his presence. More symbolic to me than him, coz its my own resolve to stay committed. I've not entered sauna ever since I was attached. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzy Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 tearing sauna card doesnt mean you wont find other means right?but i will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 shut down all the sauna to prove yr love is greater than those sauna.to close down a sauna is easy with media. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiboyz Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 (edited) One can go through the motions of all sorts; throw, burn or even chew and swallow it, he will still venture saunas secretly if given opportunities. It is actually based on his wills and determination, he will stop visiting these places based on his own willingness and not due to obligation. He won't even think twice even if he can gain free entry becos he doesn't feel the need to be there as he is satisfied with his partner . I prefer this than he is avoiding those places since his bf doesn't like it . In other words, if given a chance he will step in. So it doesn't matter he keep his card or not, things won't change much if he is jus putting a show Edited October 18, 2012 by thaiboyz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 i agree with thaiboyz.no need to do all these nonsense. to prove to ur bf, others or even urself. u know urself best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Someone did that for me.But I think he still goes after by just entering through email or card replacement.I am not so naive even then.Cheating is IN.The best is to remain single & true to yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkk Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 we go together merlinkun 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest faynic Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 If one wants to cheat, what's the used of throwing away the card? One can still go by per visit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lyra Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Can tearing up of a sauna card prove anything?Whether you or your ex does it, commitment is his/your own business. For me, if the person makes a show of that in front of me, to prove something, I would trust him less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c0ldFire Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 (edited) agree .. too drama.. must be covering up something..and as gays ourselves, do we need sauna to cheat?if we realy want sex, other than sauna, there are thousand and one ways to cheat..but .. there is only one reason for us to stop cheating. Edited October 18, 2012 by c0ldFire Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 I know of this couple, let's call them Mr Hyde & Mr SeetMr Hyde would be waiting in the carpark nxt to 17 to catch Mr Seet coming then call him up to chk on him, & vice versa.Life is a Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 If finding love is as easy as throwing away a membership card, you will see lots of cards in dust bins everywhere. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest faynic Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 If finding love is as easy as throwing away a membership card, you will see lots of cards in dust bins everywhere.thats a good one! I will definitely throw all whatever cards I have if I can find love.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 thats a good one! I will definitely throw all whatever cards I have if I can find love....imagine if you throw away gym membership, your bf will be a gym guy and if you throw away popular membership, you will get a bookworm.if only. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pokemonrulz Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Done that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The.Intrv. Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Done that.Whaaaaaaaat. I never knew you visited saunas. Christ I am aghast... For these flaws I lament. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 Done that.Pokemon cards are not membership cards for places where strangers with unknown background history have sex with each other. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest faynic Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 imagine if you throw away gym membership, your bf will be a gym guy and if you throw away popular membership, you will get a bookworm.if only.Or u throw away your credit cards, your bf will be a rich guyIf only Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 Cheating is IN.The best is to remain single & true to yourself.Do you feel lonely at night? Do you feel like you want to share your intimacy with someone who cares about you?Probably NOT. Because sex can dehumanise a person so much that he only crave for sex and ignore human emotions. When you reach 40s 50s then you realise sex is not everything. Then you mourn for your lost time that you could share with sweet memories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warlock88 Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 maybe can just stash one side bah. ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
an.guirel Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 Like others have said, you can give up all your sauna cards, gay apps and whatnots but still be unfaithful. Or you could have all of those and yet be faithful. It's more of a decision every person makes themselves and whether they are willing to be determined to be faithful to their partner. bluesea78 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest markj Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 i highly doubt any sane mind will allow an ex-convict to still possess a knife. Might want to do a reality check on whats actually transpiring whole holding that card. Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 I don't see the reason to tear it.If he trust you enough, that is. (: How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hop3 Posted October 20, 2012 Report Share Posted October 20, 2012 I guess I can throw it...and be loyal to ur bf is a must and of course he must do that to u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oxt85 Posted October 21, 2012 Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted October 21, 2012 Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 i don't even have a sauna card O_O; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesea78 Posted October 21, 2012 Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 yup. agree to the side which believe that, with a card/apps and still faithful.. then those who cut up, throw, incinerate the cards and yet unfaithful... ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sauna Posted October 21, 2012 Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 i already threw my sauna card into the dustbin. but was cruise at the gym shower steam room instead.he did a good blow job for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ziddyzid Posted October 21, 2012 Report Share Posted October 21, 2012 "Sauna Card is a somber musical that tells the timeless story of a recent university grad call Jackd who found love in a sauna. There, he meets the boy next door, Growlr, Grindr the Slut and other colorful types who help Jackd finally discover his purpose in life! Will Jackd ever convince Growlr his sauna days are truly over?"Screenplay by EasleyAdapted from Blowingwind Forum Topic: Will You Give Up Yr Sauna CardComing to you from STDs Production Pte Ltd. oh well the devil makes us sin but we like it when we're spinning, in his grin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guested Posted October 22, 2012 Report Share Posted October 22, 2012 Sure.If he has place.Lol.This i agree with. My bf and i dont have a place and we'll make out in a sauna, mostly kbox. Anyone touching us, hands off. Lol. But it can be fun, ogling at the other guys whom we find cute. Haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imchaser Posted October 22, 2012 Report Share Posted October 22, 2012 if u are attached , will u tear yr sauna card to prove yr love to yr boyfriend?Dont be silly. Some people here dont have credit cards, and they needed those sauna cards to fill up their empty wallet slots. ziddyzid 1 Volunteering for the underwear association for third world countries. Please donate your used underwear to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 22, 2012 Report Share Posted October 22, 2012 w/o sauna card does not make you a saint, you are what you are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted October 22, 2012 Report Share Posted October 22, 2012 I don't have to prove to myself let alone my bf anything. My love for him is genuine and true... Yea maybe I am one of the lucky ones. Or maybe I'm being immature... I'm sure people still think that of my type of relationship... But fxxk it. We are as we are. It's not the big things that matter all the time. Sometimes it's the little things. Those moments when he steals my heart and doesn't even know it. Shawnlim522 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pokemonrulz Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 Whaaaaaaaat. I never knew you visited saunas. Christ I am aghast... Haha don't drama ok darling Not anymore!Pokemon cards are not membership cards for places where strangers with unknown background history have sex with each other. You're evil Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gray Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 Not everyone goes sauna. I know I don't. Neither do I have gay apps in my phone either cos I'm not into casual sex. Still I do face temptation outside. Like your rational head tells you its not worth it but your dickhead says YES. But so far I have yet to act on these desires. My bf tells me that one day we might reach a stage where it is ok for us to have sex outside and come home to each other cos he wants to think that sex is just sex and love is love but so far we are not comfortable with that yet. Do you feel lonely at night? Do you feel like you want to share your intimacy with someone who cares about you?Probably NOT. Because sex can dehumanise a person so much that he only crave for sex and ignore human emotions. When you reach 40s 50s then you realise sex is not everything. Then you mourn for your lost time that you could share with sweet memories.It's the other way round for me lol. I have someone right now and he is my 2nd ever bf. Things are going so well that we might just stay together for quite long. But sometimes I will wonder what I'm missing out on out there. Will I regret not having as much as sex outside and having wild parties when I'm young next time when I'm 40/50 and old and unattractive? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilder Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 (edited) Goodness, why so emotional? If I have sauna card, I dun need to tear neither he needs to. We still love each other and mutual trust. Honestly, I've seen many boys cheating on their BFs. The irony, they don't kiss coz "I'm attached" but they can fxxk. So might as well make it an open relationship if one wants to cheat. Edited November 6, 2012 by Hilder Yo jeez...jeez mama... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 TS must be a young kid who treats dumping away sauna card as proof of love...just like when i was young, being able to access BF's pager voicemail is a proof my bf trusts me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest arghh Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 I will not throw it away but request to have his instead. Than I framed our cards together and place it near our bedside to remind us that love doesn't come easy. The sauna cards remind of our adventure, pain, anxiety and lonesome one night pleasure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethhost Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 Yes, I will..... Glasses guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 (edited) It works if:1. You and your bf surrender your card to the saunas and request for refund. Once paid, the sauana will ban the couple forever.2. Tell the saunas to ban your bf from going to their saunas. They should keep a list of blacklisted persons like what Resort world did... 3. Impose hefty levy like $100 per entry for people in open relationship.4. Since gay community is closely knitted, gossip works too and when it gets into your ears your bf have adultered behind your back, get to the bottom of it - stay or quit. Edited November 6, 2012 by Why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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