What Is Safe Sex Discussion (compiled)

[Guest ah lian]

This might offend you, buddies.. But just wanna raise it out for safe sex awareness.

All, what actually safe sex means to you? Is it just a practice that preventing you to infected by HIV? I don't think so... If you were to search in google/yahoo about STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) - you will get a whole list of it, and some of them have no vaccine or medicine to cure yet - such as Herpes, warts and etc. Those diseases can easily spread through oral sex or just by touching (with wound). I'm here not to scare anyone but I do believe that there might be doctors who are reading this forum. Please give advice if you know anything about this, or if i'm wrong. So, is your sex safe enough? Comments are welcome.

[oralb]

in computer world, there is a trade off between security and convenience. this means the higher the security, the more inconvenience to the user and vice versa.

likewise in sex life, there is a trade off between safe sex and enjoyment.

yes u are right, currently practise of using condom only prevents HIV and other diease that transmit through fluid exchange.

however the only 100% safe sex is masterbation. thus the question comes, do you want to be 100% safe and depends only on the gentleness of your both hand? of coz the other end of the scale would mean going raw on all encounter which can be 100% enjoyment with the Scythe of Death awaiting you...

it is always a trade-off

[Guest 2727]

Play Safe not only using condom, you need to use all your six sense. See and touch is alway what I have say.

For me. If I see that guy have rotten skin here and there I will prefer to skip them.

Example:1

I saw this guy in banbusa, those that I like. I give him a smile and he approached me. After a short talk I notice he have some cut on both his elbow. He explain it is because of his job that he had it. I end up having an hour of chit chat with him but do nothing. That also because he do not want to accept the answer "no".

Example:2

Happened in Leo fitness, I was in the dark steam room. I figure out this guy look nice, so I touched him starting from his butt then slowly up to his back. Half way I feel some round dot about 8mm, 5 to 6 of them. I scare is some type of skin disease. So I stopped and process to clean up my hand. After that lesson I will prefer not to go to dark places in suana.

[oralb]

while phyiscal appearance can be a tell-all sign, do note that quite of number of STD do not have any phyiscal appearance during the early stages and some not at all.

Also those that with skin irregularities do not necessary means they have STD, it could just be allegy or rashes.

of coz trust your 6th sense, if you are not comfortable with it, then dont do it.

[Guest 2727]

while phyiscal appearance can be a tell-all sign, do note that quite of number of STD do not have any phyiscal appearance during the early stages and some not at all.

Also those that with skin irregularities do not necessary means they have STD, it could just be allegy or rashes.

of coz trust your 6th sense, if you are not comfortable with it, then dont do it.

So can I know if kissing and hugging. can get virus?

Example 3: The other day one guy suck until my "Nini" very painful.But I don't see any scratch on the skin surface. After a few day the pain gone. Normally I will tell them "please don't bite", but now they suck until so hard, I also very scare already.

Example 4: One uncle is a heavy smoker. I did not know it until I am inside the room. I tell him I want to go then, but he keep kissing me until I pour all over him.

You are right, sometime there is something inside you have to be more careful of.

But HOW?

[Guest Guest]

Maybe you have virus inside you oredi. When was the last time you went for a HIV test?

Next time run before you "pour" all over an uncle. Btw, where exactly on your body was the uncle kissing you.

[Guest ah lian]

well, as what oralb said.. the safest way is masturbation. But how many of us can reject temptation? What i'm doing is not to visit sauna, or even visit sauna - will just look at their bodies. That's why i like to go to sauna/public bathroom in Japan or China.. where everyone naked and you don't have to do it but just watch.

Another way.. stick to one. You lover and please tell your lover not to be notti outside.

If really can't stand it... no kissing, or oralsex with a condom on, if you met a stranger that you like.

Or just straight away anal sex with condom on.

Sigh... poor human/ especially plu.. so many battles with the viruses/bacterias.

Love yourself, love your darling and love your family. Take care.

[skylancer]

well, for me...

There are alot of ways to prevent STD

1) Don flirt around.. if u want to play can but dont anal or action involving exchange fliud.

2) Stick with one partner. LTR and dont flirt will be safe.. I had with my dear for so long nothing happen since before we attach, we go for blood test til now nothing come out even we sometimes do raw together.

3) Do wear condoms. Even condom is not 100% safe but it is better than no protection right?

4) self control.. That is the most important in all kind of sex as if u dont control. the :twisted: hiv will come... dont think it is joking matter.. u will know sooner or later...

right?

[Guest 2727]

Maybe you have virus inside you oredi. When was the last time you went for a HIV test?

Next time run before you "pour" all over an uncle. Btw, where exactly on your body was the uncle kissing you.

Err... Kiss my hand loh. Err... arm also got. Err....A bit on my nipples. my neck also, then my banana also! Err....my mouth for very long. Then I say I wanted to go. Then he beg me to stay and promise don't kiss my mouth anymore. But the initial smell still inside, after a while I pour.

Then reluctantly he let me go. Where to go to check HIV huh? You check before are not?

[Guest scarlet]

You can go for anonymous HIV testing at Action for Aids centre at DSC Clinic at Kelantan lane. Look up either DSC or AFA websites for more info on address and times of operation. It's best to have yourself tested once every three months, for if I remember correctly, if you are infected, the anti-bodies formed against HIV in your body only show up positively in your blood three months after the date of contact/infection. As always be smart, play safe and have yourself tested regularly. Cheers.

[Guest 2727]

You can go for anonymous HIV testing at Action for Aids centre at DSC Clinic at Kelantan lane. Look up either DSC or AFA websites for more info on address and times of operation. It's best to have yourself tested once every three months, for if I remember correctly, if you are infected, the anti-bodies formed against HIV in your body only show up positively in your blood three months after the date of contact/infection. As always be smart, play safe and have yourself tested regularly. Cheers.

Thank scalet, But can also tell me if kissing and sucking can cause infection.

[LupCheong]

[beef4beef]

these are quite funny ... any more?

[gayted]

I like the third one, thanks!

[LupCheong]

[Guest oh dear]

http://www.clicknetwork.tv/watch.aspx?c=6&p=4&v=284

oh dear...

[Guest pornvideo_addict]

http://www.clicknetwork.tv/watch.aspx?c=6&p=4&v=284

oh dear...

Plain stupid.... can someone volunteer to give her a lesson how to put on and remove condom!!

[Freedom711]

Plain stupid.... can someone volunteer to give her a lesson how to put on and remove condom!!

OMG!!! its such a HI RISk to watch this vid....LOL...terrible....i doubt she ever help her bf wear condom b4 lol

[oralb]

hahaha... what do you expect?

Ris Low craved for attention, much like us craving for cock and ass. And she knew she only get 5 min of fame. In no time she will be forgotten. Hence she needs all the limelight and attention she can get at this moment.

People like clicknetwork knows that, and they loved to capitalize on her craving as well, hence trashy clips like this (i wondered she asked why she needed to be in bikini, while i wondered why the director of this shot never insisted her to remove her jacket)

[Guest ttttt]

L.A.M.E.

[Guest Guest]

Just noticed the banner advertising the Safe Sex Community Message by Blowing Wind:

Safe Sex, Use A Condom!

Wow, this is certainly a way to get readers' attention...

Thumbs up.

[Guest virgin]

anyone can define wat is safe sex? anal with condom? suck with condom?rim with condom?finger poke with condom?kissing with plastic sheets?

[Guest Guest]

Anal with condom (must). Oral with condom (not everyone does that).

If u want 100% safe, then dun do it at all.

[Guest maxiplay]

Anal with condom (must). Oral with condom (not everyone does that). If u want 100% safe,

then just jo for each other or rub against the shorts also not bad ideas. Edited May 3, 2012 by maxiplay

[TheVisitors]

There is no such a thing as safe sex no matter what safe measurements you may have taken.

Even if you decide to lock yourself in Rapunzel's tower, and thinking thats the safest place in the world, who knows....the Hailey's comet may just decide to land on you there.

[Tight Ass]

anyone can define wat is safe sex?

Best precaution is to keep your ASS TIGHT and UNMOLESTED.

[gummibear]

Caressing the dial and licking the iron cast door of your deposit box?

[alien]

Safe sex? Dun have sex at all lor.

[Guest Life Searcher]

suck a cock, anyone wear a condom? Just survey if anyone really do this always

I asked those uncles in sauna. They said wear a condom to do suck is ridiculous stupid. Condom is necessary for anal only

[MarriedTop]

anyone can define wat is safe sex? anal with condom? suck with condom?rim with condom?finger poke with condom?kissing with plastic sheets?

I kind of see the rational of all above accept rim with condom.

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[SeannyShortcake]

Making out with a plastic bag.

Ta da,safe sex.

[SuperSentai]

Make out with your own hand, and your own mouth if you're flexible enough and your tool is long enough