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Guest mrrd_exe Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 Extracted from a blog ... 故事有種蛋蛋的哀傷喔他好似大約29或31碎長的帥帥的~身材瘦而結實~大約168左右的身高他一進房裡就捧著我的臉扎扎實實先是親了一口這讓我很是驚訝..因為在那肉慾的場所接吻雖然還是大部分人在過程中會做的動作但是一劈頭就先親真讓我想不透他的目的只見他有點笨拙的親了大約一分鐘後瞪著我的臉輕輕把我的額頭的頭髮略撥到旁邊去接著就是輕嚙我的脖子再往下到胸部用著算是生澀但是熱切的技巧品嚐其實當時我才經歷過五次的性愛所以肉腳是一定的~可是他大約大了我10歲技巧完全贏不了我多少~其實讓我覺得有點好奇其實在我破處後的大約五年內我實在很不能容忍超過14cm以上的尺寸我覺得超過14就真的快要痛死了(當然以後發現大的好處尤其現在年輕人發育越來越好要找到14以下的只能去考古系找XD)而這個滿身小肌肉的小熟男把他的內褲蛻下時拿著我的手去觸碰他已經勃起的陽具老實說當時我真的還蠻驚喜的因為他大約才12公分而且偏細不長卻很直的小屌跟他瘦瘦結實的身材其實挺一致化而且對於當時對小屌有偏好的新破處世代的我來說更是暗爽在心理他後來慢慢的挺了進來~非常的輕柔非常的小心的邊問著我:"底迪~會不會痛?"當時我真的是...嘴巴帶笑到都快裂到耳朵邊的含羞說:"不會"之後他很賣力但是依舊非常小心的..快速的抽差衝刺著隔30秒就會問候我:"會不會不舒服~會不會太快~要不要休息一下"然後看著他擔心的眼神~帥氣但是已經是滿頭汗的臉龐全身因為努力衝刺卻又要把重心自己分掉擔心全壓在你身上會讓你不舒服而滿身汗的身軀老實說當時我覺得很性感而且這是第一次做愛不會覺得痛楚而難受所以那時的我以為這就是一個美好的性愛了他大約撐了快20分鐘中間多次停下來好延緩他的時間只見那時他邊拿著毛巾擦著滿頭的汗說:"底迪舒服嗎?我們休息一下~好熱而且你太緊了我擔心我會射出來"那時他應該是我第四次或第五次的經驗所以我想太緊是絕對的加上我又是緊張大師就算他不是大屌應該還是能感受到那種緊張和緊實過程中的十來分鐘我一直是很享受的看著他一下半閉眼努力忍住的表情一下是舒服張口小聲呻吟喘氣的衝刺時而又是雙眼全開認真的看著我的雙眼充滿疼惜然後就忍不住又找了我的嘴唇開始一陣輕柔的猛親等到他終於射完了之後..他抱著我躺了一倘兒接著就說:"等我一下"然後就起身了~叫我起來鎖門然後還交代說等他進來會敲幾聲才開我敷衍的回答也起身鎖上準備倒頭休息一下因為很多人這樣說其實只是他要脫身不要繼續抱著你睡..只想趕快洗掉一身汗的藉口所以我也沒有想太多~剛躺下忽然有一種空虛感起來這才知道尺寸太小的完全沒有任何痛楚沒錯可是也沒有任何滿足這才懵懵懂懂的發現原來這就是大家說的空洞感完全像是做了一場夢一樣 很虛一點都沒有真實感於是想不到大約2~3分鐘後門外竟然真的傳來了剛剛約定的敲門聲可是我當時完全是意興闌珊的感腳不過隨著他在外面邊敲邊小聲喊自己還是起身幫他開了門不過那個臉也就淡定沒激情了看著他手邊拿了一個錢包打開拿出一張大約幾個月的小寶寶照片放在我手上我當時還以為是他小時候問著他:"你小時候是個小胖子耶~好可愛喔"結果他把我摟住輕輕的用嘴唇偷偷的在我額頭親了一下說"那不是我~那是我兒子~很可愛喔""你結婚了?!"我其實是有點驚訝的因為當時剛出道也才幾年所以對於這些事情還真是第一次聽說"對啊~不過我老婆生完小孩後就不想我碰她了雖然我本來也不是很喜歡她可是我一直想再生個小孩而且我老婆也不愛接吻~不愛愛撫~不喜歡做愛讓我很喪氣"邊說罷他有點使盡的抱緊我"其實我不算是純同志~因為我沒有喜歡過男生可是我又不想花錢找小姐我覺得這對我的婚姻也是一種不尊重所以只有忽然很想發洩的時候我才來這種場所"他像是抱著他兒子般的輕輕把我摟住搖了搖"喔~所以你不是被逼著結婚的"當時像是聽到了天方夜譚般的也完全答不上腔"也算是~因為我個性一直很內向之前只交往過幾個女朋友時間也不長(這點我完全從他做愛時親吻愛撫的生澀感可以體會到)等到年紀大了到了適婚年齡時剛好那時就是空窗期...所以爸媽就很擔心的幫我相親所以這個老婆是相親來的~其實真的不是很愛"他有點無奈的邊嘆氣邊跟我說著他的經歷"你知道為什麼我剛剛一進來就親你?"他頭往下看著我的眼睛再度輕輕撥開我遮住眼睛的劉海"嗯......嗯..."我搖了搖頭~沒法回答"因為你很像我某任的女友我很愛她~我們當時已經論及婚嫁了..所以看到你第一眼就喜歡上你了"於是這個男人開始話很多的娓娓的道著只是那時我的空虛感越來越重...所以後來其實就是貼著他的胸開始神遊的沒注意他說的話因為雖然我從小到大從來沒有過任何一個時期很想交男友可是這次遇到一個已婚男人偏偏我也沒有成為小三的雄心壯志加上剛剛性愛結束後的空虛感讓我實在很不想再聽的任何事情就是有一種"so~what?that's not my business"的感腳活該也是緣~大約隔了快要一年的一個周日再到了那裡~~ 晃了一圈~還是沒啥像樣的人可是因為睡眠不足~所以眼睛很痠只好找了間空房去瞇一下躺下不久正在迷迷糊糊的時候嘴巴就被抓起來喇舌眼睛開了看到一個人深情的看著我不過我只覺得他很面善~完全沒有印象...之後就開始做了~做到一半的時候記憶忽然慢慢湧現回來本來覺得這個男人好輕柔而且插入又不痛~真好可是等到開始隱約記得這個人我做過只是想不起他是誰?我不知為啥有一種厭惡感起來為神馬會這樣~現在我還是說不上來..不過也是那時候我才發現[談戀愛][交男友]這事情似乎跟我沒有甚麼關係了因為我發現我無法跟同一個男人做兩次(同一天不限因為我最長記錄同一天跟一個男淫做了四次所以我同一天是可以無限制的..可是當天做完出了房門就是陌生人假如隔天他又來找我~我就完全沒辦法再做的下去了)連這個當時幾乎做愛唯一不會不舒服不會讓我痛得很踢人下床的小帥哥人夫我都不想跟他有第二次接觸.本來被挑逗起來的慾望和已經勃發的xx竟然因為回想起他是我曾經做過的男人忽然像喪氣的氣球一樣立馬消掉..然後開始有種淡淡的厭惡感起來開始想把他推開..他似乎看出我的表情變了他很無辜也不知自己做錯了甚麼可能以為他弄痛我了開口問我:"不舒服嗎?"我淡淡的搖頭最後自己一直想要起身不過他在我起身前就射了出來之後我半坐起來捧著額頭揉著~~裝著頭痛他開始慢慢的用兩根拇指也在我太陽穴慢慢的揉著等到我打算離開只好慢慢張開眼接觸到他深情又含著淚的眼睛老實說嚇了我一跳所以一時也就不好強制走開"你還記得我嗎?"還是眼睛閃著淡淡淚光看著我..那麼輕柔的我有點遲疑的回憶記憶中的男淫....還是決定緩緩的搖了搖頭"啊~不記得了?你現在有男友了嗎?我之前好幾個月前在這裡碰到你我們那天做了兩次愛我還拿給你看我兒子的照片記不記得?我本來很少來了有時一年都來不到兩次後來那天回去我就很後悔沒跟你要聯絡方式所以下個禮拜我又來想說要來找你..沒找到之後我連續來了快要半年每個禮拜幾乎都抽空來有時公司派我去出差我還是堅持周日要趕回來可是有幾次還是要停在當地到大約一,二週開會我就會擔心可能這個禮拜你就去了那我又找不到你了..."一樣口吻很輕柔~緩緩的說著很多的話說著他怎麼連續幾個月的找一直過了半年後他才放棄沒有再來結果又隔了半年這次來竟然又碰到我了他的激動~他的想念...可是那時在我的耳裡都是不值得一聽的因為我心裡一直被一種"同一個人做過兩次"的莫名厭惡感盤據加上這個人結了婚了~又不是鈣..講再多還不是白搭?我可不想當個沒地位就算了連身體都不能時刻擁有的小三所以我只記得我冷冷的回拒了他晚餐的邀約他很失落~可能還以為我是故意編了藉口一直到我們出了房門到了交誼廳他杵在交誼廳接浴室的走道上看了好一會....才死了心的離開其實在很多年後的今天寫出來有種蛋蛋的哀傷一邊寫著..當時一些對話就慢慢回想了起來現在想想當時自己真不知福其實他是個很好的哥很照顧人~很親切~很溫暖~很喜歡我甚至做愛也是那麼的呵護溫和不過也或許是因為這樣的好人讓我認清了--我真的無法跟一個男人同床兩次even someone like him!認清自己才能走出適合自己的一片新天新地謝謝那位不知名的哥~希望你現在一切都好不知你是否已找到另一個能給予你快樂的人不管他是男生還是女生....謝謝你對我的照顧~和給我短暫但真摯的愛護! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shine Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 Thanks for sharing! Looks interesting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lyra Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 you guys make this sound so interesting... too bad I can't read Chinese... Anyone free and kind enough to translate? Google translate is so bad... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mrrd_exe Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 Chapter 2: Another married 年輕大叔年輕大叔把我的手拉住,放在他的腰間~~這時我羞怯的跟他說"帥哥哥"他看了我一眼壞壞的笑了一下就把我的手拉高親吻了一下~然後放在他的胸口,臉就朝我這裡看~我忍不住覺得很羞只好閉起眼睛嘴角微揚的假寐;結果不到一分鐘這帥大叔就拉了拉我的手跟我說要不要睡到他旁邊好啦~他比了他身邊空位的動作~我就嬌羞的看著他的眼睛搖搖頭~然後又低下頭半閉眼睛,結果帥大叔一看我這小浪娃也有含羞草的一面,可能激起他的慾望,而且又覺得我真是個柔弱的小底迪~馬上保護心大起~就直接爬到旁邊跟我幾同一張床(其實床是很小的大約是一半的單人床寬所以兩個人躺著跟本幾乎是疊著睡)不過那時他剛過來~所以他是把我稍微抱起變成半躺在他身上睡覺就把我的頭放在他的胸肌上;老實說~我這人躺在人身上還真不會睡覺~因為覺得又悶又熱又擔心自己當時的大胖紙體重把人家躺垮了所以像隻蟲一樣扭來扭去本來是打算把重心轉移不要一直壓在別人身上不過可能無心的讓大叔的慾望更up up and away!結果不到幾分鐘~大叔就受不鳥開始抱著我親一面嘴角很開懷的壞笑,之後開始亂摸我的奶奶這一摸不同小可~他才知道轉到開關啦!! XD我的乳頭一向是超敏感地帶曾經在韓國有一次跟一個心儀的棒子大演活春宮被旁人看到我的性感帶後來結束後一個我沒有很喜歡的人一到我身邊馬上也不親嘴也不摸別的地方~直接往乳頭就狂舔狂攻我頭先還能堅決的拒絕~後來就被啃到失智~莫名其妙就被上了XD於是這個大叔也是一面看我的表情和身體不自覺得扭動一面大開眼界的小聲喊"太離譜啦~這麼厲害?!"之後也是攻乳首多於其它地方~然後就講了關鍵字:"大叔可以玩你肛肛嘛?"我一聽馬上嬌羞的微點頭~然後表面鎮定但是手開始像女飛賊一樣到處往床頭看我睡著前灑在附近的幾個套子,終於摸到一個遞給大叔~大叔再度壞壞的對我一笑然後用嘴巴撕開了套子~套在他的莖莖上.不過那天去忘了帶隨身KY,不過幸好大叔的不大~大約就14公分~還偏瘦所以不會有太大痛楚就進去了大叔一面不敢動作太大吵醒旁邊的人來分肉,一邊又性奮到滿臉脹紅~滿頭汗的一下親我的嘴~一下在我耳朵講:"你這小弟好淫,好厲害""好爽好爽~爽翻天"然後又把我的兩隻手十指緊握~這時我才發現他手上帶著婚戒我還特別用手在去環了一下~是那種最簡單式樣的婚戒就是跟情侶間那種有點花俏有點設計感的情人戒不同.然後過了不久~大叔就忽然性奮的噴射出來!之後又摟著我狂親狂抱~邊擦著他滿身的汗水想不到這時我略轉向大叔的臉的方向才看到有一個大約180幾公分身材非常Hunk~皮膚誘黑~光頭的亞洲20來歲猛男正站在一直深情款款的看著我.............. (待續) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 He seems more like a married mommy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Samtan Posted July 1, 2012 Report Share Posted July 1, 2012 Is this another blog as compared to the link given above?Chapter 2: Another married 年輕大叔年輕大叔把我的手拉住,放在他的腰間~~這時我羞怯的跟他說"帥哥哥"他看了我一眼壞壞的笑了一下就把我的手拉高親吻了一下~然後放在他的胸口,臉就朝我這裡看~我忍不住覺得很羞只好閉起眼睛嘴角微揚的假寐;結果不到一分鐘這帥大叔就拉了拉我的手跟我說要不要睡到他旁邊好啦~他比了他身邊空位的動作~我就嬌羞的看著他的眼睛搖搖頭~然後又低下頭半閉眼睛,結果帥大叔一看我這小浪娃也有含羞草的一面,可能激起他的慾望,而且又覺得我真是個柔弱的小底迪~馬上保護心大起~就直接爬到旁邊跟我幾同一張床(其實床是很小的大約是一半的單人床寬所以兩個人躺著跟本幾乎是疊著睡)不過那時他剛過來~所以他是把我稍微抱起變成半躺在他身上睡覺就把我的頭放在他的胸肌上;老實說~我這人躺在人身上還真不會睡覺~因為覺得又悶又熱又擔心自己當時的大胖紙體重把人家躺垮了所以像隻蟲一樣扭來扭去本來是打算把重心轉移不要一直壓在別人身上不過可能無心的讓大叔的慾望更up up and away!結果不到幾分鐘~大叔就受不鳥開始抱著我親一面嘴角很開懷的壞笑,之後開始亂摸我的奶奶這一摸不同小可~他才知道轉到開關啦!! XD我的乳頭一向是超敏感地帶曾經在韓國有一次跟一個心儀的棒子大演活春宮被旁人看到我的性感帶後來結束後一個我沒有很喜歡的人一到我身邊馬上也不親嘴也不摸別的地方~直接往乳頭就狂舔狂攻我頭先還能堅決的拒絕~後來就被啃到失智~莫名其妙就被上了XD於是這個大叔也是一面看我的表情和身體不自覺得扭動一面大開眼界的小聲喊"太離譜啦~這麼厲害?!"之後也是攻乳首多於其它地方~然後就講了關鍵字:"大叔可以玩你肛肛嘛?"我一聽馬上嬌羞的微點頭~然後表面鎮定但是手開始像女飛賊一樣到處往床頭看我睡著前灑在附近的幾個套子,終於摸到一個遞給大叔~大叔再度壞壞的對我一笑然後用嘴巴撕開了套子~套在他的莖莖上.不過那天去忘了帶隨身KY,不過幸好大叔的不大~大約就14公分~還偏瘦所以不會有太大痛楚就進去了大叔一面不敢動作太大吵醒旁邊的人來分肉,一邊又性奮到滿臉脹紅~滿頭汗的一下親我的嘴~一下在我耳朵講:"你這小弟好淫,好厲害""好爽好爽~爽翻天"然後又把我的兩隻手十指緊握~這時我才發現他手上帶著婚戒我還特別用手在去環了一下~是那種最簡單式樣的婚戒就是跟情侶間那種有點花俏有點設計感的情人戒不同.然後過了不久~大叔就忽然性奮的噴射出來!之後又摟著我狂親狂抱~邊擦著他滿身的汗水想不到這時我略轉向大叔的臉的方向才看到有一個大約180幾公分身材非常Hunk~皮膚誘黑~光頭的亞洲20來歲猛男正站在一直深情款款的看著我.............. (待續) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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iamziz Posted October 8, 2013 Report Share Posted October 8, 2013 (edited) I found an old article I wrote on March 17th, 2009. I used to have my own blog. More like an open diary for 3 years. I stopped and brought it down. Admitting One's Weaknesses Do you remember each time you went for an interview, one of the common questions asked is 'tell us what some of your weakness and strengths are'. Often enough, we tend to take a deep breath, trying to compose ourselves in the little time we have and share with the strangers on the other side of the table - 'the real us'. However, we tend to share more of our strengths than our weaknesses. We would go deep inside of our mind and heart and ask ourselves 'do I really have weaknesses? If yes, what are they?' In this journey I call 'life'; I have met and spent time, sometimes, a big part of my life with some people. I applaud their strengths but I wish they would open up and admit their weaknesses. The usual case scenario, 'being right' and 'not to be blamed' are common factors. As such, despite your diplomacy and tone to tell them they have erred or suggesting to them other better ways to perform an act, you are immediately labelled as being not understanding or wrong or 'never listened'. Worst, if he or she is your partner, the person might choose to walk out of your life. How do I know? I have 'been' there before. What about you?Our ego is so strong that by telling others we are not perfect and admitting we are not superman, seems a challenge. We rather argue and fight. We rather lose a friend or a loved one.To have our says be told incorrect or unacceptable is a 'no-no'. We then question others if they don't trust us when they disagree with us. We always believe in what comes out from our mouth despite deep inside we know the other party is right. We believe we are always right. I remembered when I was still working a company; I had to train a new staff. Then, I was not having any degree yet but the newcomer was a degree holder. He despised my educational level and didn't pay much attention to learn what he needed to learn. However, as time moved on, he learned that he was not going to be efficient in his work and decided to let his guard down. He began to be nice and putting our educational qualifications aside, we not only became good colleagues but also good friends. He had learned his weaknesses were acting superior just because he had the paper qualification. The above example is a true story with a twist. There are many other situations you and I have experienced. We put so much effort to care for our friends and loved ones. They requested us to be their guardian angels. However, the moment we voiced our concerns and cares, we were told "Shut up!" I have my weaknesses, too. Too many to list down here but I will share some. I can get angry easily if the instructions I give to get work done not carried out properly. I tend to procrastinate I can't see someone crying. My heart cries for them and I am not embarrassed to say I might shed a few tears, too. I am a person who doesn't hurt you back if you choose to hurt me. I don't like to argue and after presenting my side of argument when I have to, I will take a step back and let you have all the credits even though you are wrong as life is too short for me to get into fights. I don't care if you look down on my imperfections. The list goes on. Have you got a ball to tell yourself you "fucked up" sometimes and to admit you are just a human being and as a human being you have weaknesses, just like other people, too? Have you also the guts the next time you got into a situation to keep your mouth shut and to let your soul telling you to get your sanity straightened and say, "I shouldn't be an egoistic bastard and admit I am wrong." Again, life is short. Why make it difficult? Edited October 8, 2013 by iamziz ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IkuTube Posted October 8, 2013 Report Share Posted October 8, 2013 Taken from a blog. Story of Life It has been few weeks that I allow myself to get into an observation mode. Something that I tell myself not to let my mind to wander, not to rely on any of my past experiences to pass on with judgement but to give my mind a room to consciously becoming aware. To let it have its own introspection allowing me to view life with a different perspective. Though I must admit that it is hard - since our mind was born to do just that : wandering - these few weeks have let me to experience life differently.It started when I got back from a short holidays. On arriving at Changi Airport, just after the touched down, there was a sudden melancholy within me. It was not much a feeling of sadness but, definitely, I felt at the general condition and at our acceptance towards life. At how we would go through life whether we were happy or sad, whether we were rich or poor and how life continued to prevail no matter what took place.I felt so much about the supposed forces in people and the outcome of the events. About the power that predetermined the ways of life. About who each one of us was. About what their life was about. About the consequences from it all.Not that I was missing the relaxing holidays nor that I had wanted it not to end. I was glad to come home. The next few weeks would be busy. I had few events already arranged and I was looking forward. In fact, few days before, I had hoped for these events to happen without much delay. There was an anticipated feeling of joy awaiting impatiently.What I felt on arrival was about the empathy for life around me. About where my life was around Life. As I looked around at the faces of other passengers, the airport workers, the shop sales personnel and all others that crossed my path that night, I felt their hearts. I felt at their peaceful spiritual accumulation. I felt at their establishment at their own identity. 'Life is what it is' so I told myself. For all that we had to go through, at the end of the day, it was about how we made purposeful use of it all.The realization that I have learned from the observation mode is the act of gratitude. It is the state of being grateful and thankfulness. It is about how we can empower it to do some spectacular, wonderful and valuable other things. Life is about how we cope with it. How we set the rules, choose what to do and what works. The state of being is within our privileges, within our philosophy. We just have to embrace it in totality to forge the right path in life.All other questions "Why are we here?", "What is life all about?" and "What is the purpose of our existence?" are no longer important. Marilyn Monroe said "Life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a Universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up." I learn that humans, unconsciously, stay alive because they are living. They do things in life because they honor at the payoff instead of the process. In doing so, they open doors of opportunity and strive toward a greater sense of fulfillment.What I see is that humans accept that life is random. It is neither fair nor unfair. From here, life becomes easy. Our circumstances, in each one of us, may vary but our essences do not. Yet, in all these crises and blunders of Life, we push through and persevere. It is this very act that we create the life of our dreams. It is this very act that we, without much thought, are living out our bliss. It is this very act that we transcend our circumstances, or our status, and we take up the reins of destiny and living our life to the fullest.I just do not have words to describe how I am feeling. There is so much I learn since coming back from the trip. Somehow, I am beginning to see at Life with new eyes. I see others as myself and find, within each of us, that how we live our lives is paramount. What counts is what we do and not what we express spiritually or empirically. Being grateful has its importance and place but how we live Life goes beyond everything.Truth is, we live in a world where our lives are full of different reactions to different circumstances. It is in our acceptance not to just flatten everything but we need to find wisdom in all life contradictions. Click Here To Visit My Blog @ "The Blessed Life" *Let me live my life to be an instrument of 'Love', in how I speak and in how I see others* - May there be Love and Peace beyond all understanding - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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iamziz Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 (edited) The Last 24 Hours of One's Life An article I wrote on 24th May, 2008. A friend sent me a very interesting; touching and moving article of a writer who wrote a letter to his friends knowing that he was dying. It brought so much light to me and many others whom I shared it with. You will be able to find the letter at the bottom of this page. Death seems to be a taboo subject. Many avoid talking about it while some feel it is bad to even bring out the subject. In my 15 years police stint with the Singapore Police Force, my first encounter with death was carrying a decomposed body floating in a reservoir and many others including suicide cases, traffic accidents, murder etc. While the first death in the family was my favourite brother-in-law who died at the age of 34 due to colon cancer. I find death can be rather an uplifting subject as we train our hearts to be more caring, loving, thoughtful, preventing ourselves from being idiots or assholes, more of a real human being. As we know, tomorrow may never come. Perhaps understanding the subject explains my passion visiting graveyards of any religion or belief when I travel. Recently, I posed the question to heaps of my friends and acquaintances what they would do if they only had 24 hours left in their life. I am not surprised, only a handful came back. Some said they needed to give a serious thought about it but didn’t get back to me in time for this article to be posted. Been about 2 weeks already. I don’t blame them. Perhaps as I mentioned earlier – it is a taboo subject or they dare not question it or simply let fate takes its call. I was just finding out how one would spend his or her last moments. For me, if I knew I had 24 hours left, I would like to be with someone I love so much, be in his arm and close my eyes slowly. Allow me to quote some of the entries I received:To loosely quote great Aussie filmaker, Baz Lurhman (who probably stole it from someone else)...."There is nothing as great in life as to love and be loved in return"...so whatever my last 24 hours on this planet hold for me...I hope I am experiencing both!Daniel Craig (no, not THAT guy)"Love, Fate, Hope, Destiny"Cambodia If I knew I had 24 hours more to live; I wouldn’t spend another extra cent on myself but make arrangement to distribute my wealth to my parents and siblings first, then to my needy relatives, friends and charities.JoeSingapore I would get myself closer to God and be surrounded with the presence of the loved ones. Not to forget, seek forgiveness for our sin (be it to mankind and God). Mark Masyuzil Singapore As to what I would do if I had 24 hours to live...that's a hard one! Probably in all reality, I would go to my room and sulk, or find a wonderful green expanse on top of a sand hill out the back end of my property and just watch the sun go down while I sat around a campfire, sipping on a billy of tea!... Anyway, Ziz my mate, I would love to be the guy in your last 24 hours being held in YOUR arms. John Australia If you are not one of those who submitted an entry, take a moment and ask yourself what would you do or how would you want your last 24 hours to be. Don’t take too long to think about it as you can’t guarantee how it will happen, you can only hope it does. Don't be afraid to question yourself. Take a slow dance. Smile. Cry. Laugh. Say 'please'. Say 'thank you'. Say 'I am sorry'. Say 'I love you'. Bring your pride down and let the human touch flows. Ziz24th May, 2008 --------------------- Farewell Letter From A Genius: Gabriel Garcia Marquez is a famous writer from Columbia. He is a Nobel Peace prize winner for literature and is undoubtedly a genius. He has retired from public life for reasons of health. He has a form of cancer which is terminal. He has sent a farewell letter to all his friends and it has been circulated around the Internet. It is recommended reading because it is moving to see how one of the best and most brilliant of writers expresses himself and with sorrow. HE SAYS:If God, for a second, forgot what I have become and granted me a little bit more of life, I would use it to the best of my ability. I wouldn't possibly say everything that is in my mind, but I would be more thoughtful of all I say. I would give merit to things not for what they are worth, but for what they mean to express. I would sleep little, I would dream more, because I know that for every minute that we close our eyes, we waste 60 seconds of light. I would walk while others stop; I would awake while others sleep. If God would give me a little bit more of life, I would dress in a simple manner. I would place myself in front of the sun, leaving not only my body, but my soul naked at its mercy. To all men I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love. I would give wings to children, but I would leave it to them to learn how to fly by themselves. To old people I would say that death doesn't arrive when they grow old, but with forgetfulness. I have learned so much with you all, I have learned that everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, without knowing that true happiness is obtained in the journey taken and the form used to reach the top of the hill. I have learned that when a newborn baby holds, with its little hand, his father's finger, it has trapped him for the rest of his life. I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground. Say always what you feel, not what you think. If I knew that today is the last time that I am going to see you asleep, I would hug you with all my strength and I would pray to the Lord to let me be the guardian angel of your soul. If I knew that these are the last moments to see you, I would say "I love you". There is always tomorrow, and life gives us another opportunity to do things right; but in case I am wrong, and today is all that is left to me, I would love to tell you how much I love you and that I will never forget you. Tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone, young or old. Today could be the last time to see your loved ones, which is why you mustn't wait; do it today, in case tomorrow never arrives. I am sure you will be sorry you wasted the opportunity today to give a smile, a hug, a kiss, and that you were too busy to grant them their last wish. Keep your loved ones near you; tell them in their ears and to their faces how much you need them and love them. Love them and treat them well; take your time to tell them "I am sorry"; "forgive me", "please", "thank you", and all those loving words you know. Nobody will know you for your secret thought. Ask the Lord for wisdom and strength to express them. Show your friends and loved ones how important they are to you. Send this letter to those you love. 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