Boring boyfriend

[Guest Fatty]

7 hours ago, Guest lyrebird said:

my bf and I also like to order the same things when we go to the same places. We have our usual haunts.

 

Once in a while we will do something new together - explore a new area, travel,  do something different - cycling, picnic, cook for each other, hiking. Doing challenging things together once in a while lets us see each other's imperfections and is great to keep us understanding each other more and growing together.

How about inviting a third person for sex?

[Guest Fatty]

19 hours ago, Guest yttaF said:

 

Exactly ... especially since PAP doesn't want any more local engineers anymore. Look at how the SMRT suffered due to the serious lack of engineers last time. Only now then they hire engineers in truckloads. Please dump him asap. You should go date the SMRT senior executives instead!!

Of course. Haven't you heard they are going to cut the maintenance team's bonus after the flooding incident? Is the senior management's bonus cut? No right? 

 

 

[HydroNaut]

On 25/10/2017 at 8:16 PM, Guest Bored said:

my bf is a few years younger than me but he is like an uncle who likes to do the same things and eat the same things every time we meet. we attached only 4 months! he is very certain abt this rs and now wants to move in. I am very scared. any advice? I am 34 and he is 29

 

You should be lucky that he likes to eat the same things and do the same things everytime. 

If he like to keep changing tastes.....be prepared that he will have you changed soon too.

 

I also wanna find someone like that too as then i am least worrying. If you dun like let me know. 

 

[lovehandle]

9 minutes ago, HydroNaut said:

 

You should be lucky that he likes to eat the same things and do the same things everytime. 

If he like to keep changing tastes.....be prepared that he will have you changed soon too.

 

I also wanna find someone like that too as then i am least worrying. If you dun like let me know. 

 

q a good point indeed

 

but it may still be the case of some love standard food and clothing yet promiscuous or love different sex partners (esp so for men)

[Kissme]

Have u try giving suggestions instead of complaining? 

 

If u into each other, this simple things should b tolerable. 

 

Maybe he really likes the food that he eats daily, he really likes the place that you always been. Maybe it reminds me of you being together. 

 

Anyway, try to communicate with each other. We all can talk, but rarely listen.

[always_in_transit]

On 10/25/2017 at 8:16 PM, Guest Bored said:

my bf is a few years younger than me but he is like an uncle who likes to do the same things and eat the same things every time we meet. we attached only 4 months! he is very certain abt this rs and now wants to move in. I am very scared. any advice? I am 34 and he is 29

Don't blame him for who he is. Don't try to change him (or anyone else for that matter) to suite yourself. If you can accept him, great. If you cannot accept him, look for another boyfriend.

[always_in_transit]

On 10/25/2017 at 8:16 PM, Guest Bored said:

my bf is a few years younger than me but he is like an uncle who likes to do the same things and eat the same things every time we meet. we attached only 4 months! he is very certain abt this rs and now wants to move in. I am very scared. any advice? I am 34 and he is 29

Don't blame him for who he is. Don't try to change him (or anyone else for that matter) to suite yourself. If you can accept him, great. If you cannot accept him, look for another boyfriend.

[always_in_transit]

On 10/25/2017 at 8:16 PM, Guest Bored said:

my bf is a few years younger than me but he is like an uncle who likes to do the same things and eat the same things every time we meet. we attached only 4 months! he is very certain abt this rs and now wants to move in. I am very scared. any advice? I am 34 and he is 29

Don't blame him for who he is. Don't try to change him (or anyone else for that matter) to suite yourself. If you can accept him, great. If you cannot accept him, look for another boyfriend.

[Guest Samoht]

On 10/30/2017 at 3:00 PM, always_in_transit said:

Don't blame him for who he is. Don't try to change him (or anyone else for that matter) to suite yourself. If you can accept him, great. If you cannot accept him, look for another boyfriend.

 

That's right. If you are not happy anymore, just leave. You are doing a favor for both of you. Pretty much he is no longer happy too.

[Guest Wild Mood Swings]

Have you ever tried dating girls? I mean real ones.

 

They are very exciting and unpredictable. One moment you are happy together, then she suddenly insults you or say hurtful things for no apparent reason. It's called mood swings. That's  why they are siao char bor. They'll take your emotions on a roller coaster ride. Last time one men's magazine ran an article called Is Your Girlfriend A Psycho?

 

Girls are very exciting because they expect guys to entertian them all the time. Guys have to surprise her with diffrent gifts, different experiences.  Like you suddenly compose a poem or song for her. They get off on that. 

 

Girls need a lot of attention and reassurances. You have to be able to read her mind. Girls get off on guys with ESP.  Otherwise she'll be unhappy and withdrawn.

 

Girls like guys to pay for their stuff. It's equal opportunity out there and grisl can get jobs. Somehow, guys paying for stuff is still expected.

 

They are all about:"What have you done for me lately?" Guys must always be doing something for them. 

[Guest Fat Short Uncle]

I am an uncle and I don’t like to eat the same food every day. I like to travel on road less travelled. I am an engineer. 

[snowman]

On 10/25/2017 at 8:16 PM, Guest Bored said:

my bf is a few years younger than me but he is like an uncle who likes to do the same things and eat the same things every time we meet. we attached only 4 months! he is very certain abt this rs and now wants to move in. I am very scared. any advice? I am 34 and he is 29

 

If not for the fact that I have never dated anyone who is 34 years old, I would have been quite afraid that this post was referring to me 🤣 My exes have all called me "uncle" and I am very fond of routines.

[wilfgene]

21 hours ago, snowman said:

 

If not for the fact that I have never dated anyone who is 34 years old, I would have been quite afraid that this post was referring to me 🤣 My exes have all called me "uncle" and I am very fond of routines.

This may be a blend of complacency and withdrawal.  I tell myself that there are greater worlds and forces beyond me. And with my luck, don't bother having my cake and eat it too.  Saved my hearth quite a few time in swimming complex with sudden rains and drop dead gorgeous cruisers.