Guest Tired Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 Most friendships in this circles always ended up badly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 1 minute ago, Guest Tired said: Most friendships in this circles always ended up badly Forever depend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tsts Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 君子之交淡如水,小人之交甘若醴. Don't be so close to people. It's a sign you're very needy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchDragon Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 Depends on your luck. I've a best friend from here :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest haa Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 depends on race. race is vital in sg to make friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 4 minutes ago, Guest haa said: depends on race. race is vital in sg to make friends. doddysapta, DrKartist, fallequinox01 and 1 other 1 3 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Have A Coffee And Chill Posted January 3, 2018 Report Share Posted January 3, 2018 Genuine friendship is hard to come by and harder to maintain, no matter straight or gay. Take a deep breath. You will find genuine people someday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enthuboy_93 Posted January 4, 2018 Report Share Posted January 4, 2018 I believe in give and take ba How much you want from the other guy you've first got to give the same If the other guy genuinely wants to be friends with you, things will work out Otherwise, you've done your part. The other person's response/ reaction would give you an indication how to proceed with the friendship. Having said that, it is definitely very possible to find friends in this circle. After all, being in this circle is already one thing we all have in common. And commonality is usually how friendships begin All the best! Hecticday and mate69 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted January 4, 2018 Report Share Posted January 4, 2018 12 minutes ago, enthuboy_93 said: I believe in give and take ba How much you want from the other guy you've first got to give the same If the other guy genuinely wants to be friends with you, things will work out Otherwise, you've done your part. The other person's response/ reaction would give you an indication how to proceed with the friendship. Having said that, it is definitely very possible to find friends in this circle. After all, being in this circle is already one thing we all have in common. And commonality is usually how friendships begin All the best! Quite true. Be less judgemental and stop comparing what you had done for him that he did not do for you. Relations come with conditions cannot be genuine. enthuboy_93 and Hecticday 2 Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julestan Posted January 5, 2018 Report Share Posted January 5, 2018 (edited) It is nearly impossible to be friends with guys your type. Let's just stop pretending that you will not crave for him in any way: - wanting to cuddle cos he's so cute (did you ever want to cuddle with a friend who is a girl? if no then why should u want to cuddle with a pure platonic friend?) - wanting to fuck him/him to fuck u cos he's so your type and makes u feel horny - wanting to date him cos u think maybe u can progress into something deeper, but can start as "friends" first - thinking about him and how is he doing and what is he doing now (do you think about a girl friend that way?) - happy to see his text, get his call and when you don't hear from him you get impatient, upset, betrayed, overly concerned, overly imaginative - unhappy to see him doing other things other than hanging out with you - wanting to go clubbing/drinking with him regularly because you get a nice fuzzy/warm feeling when you are with him - wanting to grind with him on the dancefloor All these are factors that you do not actually really think of him as just purely a friend, so stop lying to yourself even if you can lie to him, to this forum and to the world. Therefore, if you truly want to make a friend in this circle, stop being pretentious yourself and stop being a hypocrite and just go all out to make friends with anybody/everybody, especially those not your type and people you will never fancy. My best friend and I are perfect examples, have been friends since we met in a club and we have been friends for over nearly 20 years. He's sort of a chub who prefers other meaty or those chunky muscular manly men and I am a skinny guy who prefers skinny, leanfit or muscular but not overly chunky twinks or boyish looking guys. We have agreed that even if we are the last 2 gay men alive we would never ever do anything sexual with each other, the thought is just too disgusting. Yet we were able to go naked in front of each other without feeling any embarrassment or even once when I had some discomfort at my dick due to foreskin pulling back problem and I was able to let him touch and examine my dick like he is a doctor. Edited January 5, 2018 by Julestan Hanabishi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Audiophile alphaville Posted January 5, 2018 Report Share Posted January 5, 2018 There are so many different breed of people out there. Majority are good at acting, most are good at pretending, some are pretty good at targeting and a handful are so good at hurting. So it is important that one must be good in defending. When there is a barrier built against own boundaries, no one can ever treat you as a bestie. But when one learns to open and close like a volcanic gantry, then anyone out there is like a flow of hot lava sending a warmth of genuine fresh air to you. Pompeii Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Okie Posted January 5, 2018 Report Share Posted January 5, 2018 3 hours ago, Julestan said: It is nearly impossible to be friends with guys your type. Let's just stop pretending that you will not crave for him in any way: - wanting to cuddle cos he's so cute (did you ever want to cuddle with a friend who is a girl? if no then why should u want to cuddle with a pure platonic friend?) - wanting to fuck him/him to fuck u cos he's so your type and makes u feel horny - wanting to date him cos u think maybe u can progress into something deeper, but can start as "friends" first - thinking about him and how is he doing and what is he doing now (do you think about a girl friend that way?) - happy to see his text, get his call and when you don't hear from him you get impatient, upset, betrayed, overly concerned, overly imaginative - unhappy to see him doing other things other than hanging out with you - wanting to go clubbing/drinking with him regularly because you get a nice fuzzy/warm feeling when you are with him - wanting to grind with him on the dancefloor All these are factors that you do not actually really think of him as just purely a friend, so stop lying to yourself even if you can lie to him, to this forum and to the world. Therefore, if you truly want to make a friend in this circle, stop being pretentious yourself and stop being a hypocrite and just go all out to make friends with anybody/everybody, especially those not your type and people you will never fancy. My best friend and I are perfect examples, have been friends since we met in a club and we have been friends for over nearly 20 years. He's sort of a chub who prefers other meaty or those chunky muscular manly men and I am a skinny guy who prefers skinny, leanfit or muscular but not overly chunky twinks or boyish looking guys. We have agreed that even if we are the last 2 gay men alive we would never ever do anything sexual with each other, the thought is just too disgusting. Yet we were able to go naked in front of each other without feeling any embarrassment or even once when I had some discomfort at my dick due to foreskin pulling back problem and I was able to let him touch and examine my dick like he is a doctor. Congratulations to your life long friendship! I really want to make more friend with anyone especially those i dont have feeling at all, but 90% of the time the reason they want to be my friend is because they hope to get action with me. Always those flirty messages. The worst is those who can't take my hint of disinterest with his advance. Any one here have advise? Esp. for those with slightly above average face n body like me how to get a real friendship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted January 5, 2018 Report Share Posted January 5, 2018 (edited) On 5/1/2018 at 4:15 PM, Guest Okie said: Congratulations to your life long friendship! I really want to make more friend with anyone especially those i dont have feeling at all, but 90% of the time the reason they want to be my friend is because they hope to get action with me. Always those flirty messages. The worst is those who can't take my hint of disinterest with his advance. Any one here have advise? Esp. for those with slightly above average face n body like me how to get a real friendship? Post withdrawn. Edited January 6, 2018 by LeanMature Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest fatty Posted January 5, 2018 Report Share Posted January 5, 2018 2 hours ago, Guest Okie said: Congratulations to your life long friendship! I really want to make more friend with anyone especially those i dont have feeling at all, but 90% of the time the reason they want to be my friend is because they hope to get action with me. Always those flirty messages. The worst is those who can't take my hint of disinterest with his advance. Any one here have advise? Esp. for those with slightly above average face n body like me how to get a real friendship? Can we be friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted January 5, 2018 Report Share Posted January 5, 2018 1 hour ago, LeanMature said: I prefer average to slightly below average look but I don't mind slightly above average face as friends. many ave and below looks will come queuing, fatty is first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yes it’s possible Posted January 6, 2018 Report Share Posted January 6, 2018 U never know..... I was lonely after I left my job 5 years ago and had too much time on my hands. So I went crazy going to sauna and toilets to try my luck and have some fun. I also answered my personal adv to meet you for fun and travel. Then one day I met him.... he is 20 years younger than me. Good looking and quite fit and muscular. He was casual and easy to talk to and he actually liked older men! We chatted for hours and later we went to his place. The rest was history..... He is now my best friend and only fuck buddy. We both like each other a lot and we give each other space. We meet when we can and each time we meet we still have incredible sex like that first day at his place.... so don’t give up looking. It is possible. To meet the one destined for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted January 6, 2018 Report Share Posted January 6, 2018 On 5/1/2018 at 7:30 PM, -Ignored- said: many ave and below looks will come queuing, fatty is first I am withdrawing my comment as I realized that if I don't, the Mod will issue me a warning. Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emptiness Posted January 7, 2018 Report Share Posted January 7, 2018 I lost a friend on Wed too... i called yesterday to make up but got blocked... the dispute was pretty minor but I don’t know how it got blown out of proportion. I still wanna be friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jiahao Posted January 7, 2018 Report Share Posted January 7, 2018 (edited) On 1/3/2018 at 7:03 PM, ArchDragon said: Depends on your luck. I've a best friend from here :3 Hi5. So did I. We just click. Edited January 7, 2018 by jiahao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trumpeter Posted January 7, 2018 Report Share Posted January 7, 2018 Friend come n go but gay friends go faster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wisdom Posted January 7, 2018 Report Share Posted January 7, 2018 I agree that for regular non-sexual friends, you need to choose guys that you would NEVER be attracted to, and vice versa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 9, 2018 Report Share Posted January 9, 2018 Depends on luck and the people you meet. Although in most case, it is really hard to find true friendship in this circle when you are not cute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 张曼欲 Posted January 9, 2018 Report Share Posted January 9, 2018 Yes, definitely friendship exist. Every man who pull down his underwear for me to suck is my best friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lol Posted January 9, 2018 Report Share Posted January 9, 2018 ^Lol. Best friend or friends with benefits Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julestan Posted January 10, 2018 Report Share Posted January 10, 2018 On 1/6/2018 at 7:52 PM, Guest Yes it’s possible said: U never know..... I was lonely after I left my job 5 years ago and had too much time on my hands. So I went crazy going to sauna and toilets to try my luck and have some fun. I also answered my personal adv to meet you for fun and travel. Then one day I met him.... he is 20 years younger than me. Good looking and quite fit and muscular. He was casual and easy to talk to and he actually liked older men! We chatted for hours and later we went to his place. The rest was history..... He is now my best friend and only fuck buddy. We both like each other a lot and we give each other space. We meet when we can and each time we meet we still have incredible sex like that first day at his place.... so don’t give up looking. It is possible. To meet the one destined for you. As long as you fuck, you are not true friends, don't deceive yourself. He is only still with you now because he does not have anybody special yet. Once he has a boyfriend, and he fucks with his boyfriend instead of you "best friend", which will lead to lesser meetups, let's see how your "friendship" still goes. True friends do not fuck each other, because they do not care who you fuck in your life since they are never into you in the first place. Fishie91, upbeatpony and fitnessboy 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Love Posted January 10, 2018 Report Share Posted January 10, 2018 Sometimes it’s not just about looks could be the person character, attitude attracts u over time my boss looks ugly and he’s married with kids. After working with him for 2 years, I started to develop love interest in him. Now I don’t know how to get myself out of this mess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Can lah Posted January 10, 2018 Report Share Posted January 10, 2018 1 hour ago, Julestan said: As long as you fuck, you are not true friends, don't deceive yourself. He is only still with you now because he does not have anybody special yet. Once he has a boyfriend, and he fucks with his boyfriend instead of you "best friend", which will lead to lesser meetups, let's see how your "friendship" still goes. True friends do not fuck each other, because they do not care who you fuck in your life since they are never into you in the first place. I don’t agree. I think you can fuck and still be best friend. Just don’t be possessive of each other. Have an open relationship w him where friendship is primary and sex secondary. He and you can fuck around and when the two of you are together and both are horny then fuck each other. Just don’t have demand on sex with each other. I am like that w my best friend although we both choose not to fuck around so that we keep ourselves clean for unprotected sex w each other. May be things will change if we start fucking around outside..... will see Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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