Cuddles only

[Blindleech]

Anyone into just cuddles? 

[hairy40'sgindian]

Yes...

[hazilyhasty]

I love cuddles! It’s cozy, you feel warm and nice, and falling asleep together is cute. It’s beyond me that sometimes people automatically want to fuck when they get to cuddling, as if it’s some kind of checklist you need to tick off before going third base...

[Firday]

42 minutes ago, hazilyhasty said:

I love cuddles! It’s cozy, you feel warm and nice, and falling asleep together is cute. It’s beyond me that sometimes people automatically want to fuck when they get to cuddling, as if it’s some kind of checklist you need to tick off before going third base...

if me... i also can't resist your butt, cuddle my dick inside your butt...double cuddling...so why not.

 

 

[XiaoYuEr]

Yes the warm and fuzzy feel of being spooned! 

[Blindleech]

1 hour ago, hazilyhasty said:

I love cuddles! It’s cozy, you feel warm and nice, and falling asleep together is cute. It’s beyond me that sometimes people automatically want to fuck when they get to cuddling, as if it’s some kind of checklist you need to tick off before going third base...

Exactly. That warm feeling. 

[Blindleech]

8 minutes ago, XiaoYuEr said:

Yes the warm and fuzzy feel of being spooned! 

Big spoon works better for me 

[XiaoYuEr]

21 minutes ago, Blindleech said:

Big spoon works better for me 

Yes, it's about compatibility when it comes to spooning too.

 

From the small spoon's perspective, feels great to be cocooned by the guy you fancy -  his scent, his warmth etc... 

[hazilyhasty]

5 hours ago, Firday said:

if me... i also can't resist your butt, cuddle my dick inside your butt...double cuddling...so why not.

Haha, thanks! I'm quite flustered. Let's just say of course I wouldn't mind cuddling a dick inside my butt, but that doesn't have to happen all the time  

[Blindleech]

Sleepovers anyone?

[Blindleech]

Cuddles anyone? 

[kimlo777]

i love cuddles too.

[yoyo74]

I love cuddles too but only with slim or lean fit bodies as those are the bodies i like to feel touching

[Blindleech]

Anyone can host now?

[LeanMature]

Do cuddles have pre-requisites ?  Like no fat, no fem, no mature blah....blah...

[milky6547]

22 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

Do cuddles have pre-requisites ?  Like no fat, no fem, no mature blah....blah...

I guess so, I prefer to cuddle guys that are not so chubby or skinny too. 

[Blindleech]

1 hour ago, LeanMature said:

Do cuddles have pre-requisites ?  Like no fat, no fem, no mature blah....blah...

Well, as long as its physically related there should be a min “standard” ba

[lovehandle]

For those in search of a boyfriend, maybe can just fet a human-size doll

much more comforting

 

[Blindleech]

2 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

For those in search of a boyfriend, maybe can just fet a human-size doll

much more comforting

 

Lol. This is funny. But its quite sad at the same time

[lovehandle]

5 minutes ago, Blindleech said:

Lol. This is funny. But its quite sad at the same time

U got the point!!!!

 

i thk when one is sick and tired of searching, he will land up searching for alternatives!

[LeanMature]

6 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

For those in search of a boyfriend, maybe can just fet a human-size doll

 

For lesbians only.

[lovehandle]

Just now, LeanMature said:

 

For lesbians only.

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, u have no respect for diversity and the LGBT community lol

 

the video clearly shown a man (straight) , not les leh

[LeanMature]

4 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, u have no respect for diversity and the LGBT community lol

 

the video clearly shown a man (straight) , not les leh

 

Diversity ?  Then why no male dolls ?

[lovehandle]

Surely there is, mayb not common?

 

go online and search

 

rem? When watchg jp gay porn, some made to fuck inflated “dolls” i dont rem they r lady dolls

surely someone will b using their brain to invent for the pink$ mkt too

 

even have gay drama on renting a gay robot

 

u really want a gay doll??? I rather b alone i also dont wanna that

 can talk to my bear-bears instead

2 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

 

Diversity ?  Then why no male dolls ?

 

[Gym fit 36]

Cuddle with the right person is shiok haha 

[Blindleech]

4 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

U got the point!!!!

 

i thk when one is sick and tired of searching, he will land up searching for alternatives!

Dam. U are scarying me. I might just end up like him next time

[lovehandle]

38 minutes ago, Blindleech said:

Dam. U are scarying me. I might just end up like him next time

Gays r much more “active” in search but ultra high in xpectation

cannot this cannot that

so u wont end up passively w a doll

 

unless u r the very 宅男type，likely u will get one to talk to

 

Edited April 16, 2018 by lovehandle

[Blindleech]

30 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

Gays r much more “active” in search but ultra high in xpectation

cannot this cannot that

so u wont end up passively w a doll

 

unless u r the very 宅男type，likely u will get one to talk to

 

Forever alone

[lovehandle]

Just now, Blindleech said:

Forever alone

me too,

btw, i have seen some gays (maybe not in sg )  , taiwan (the gentler speaker) fb frens (cant paste them here) really bring their bears to everywhere (me too, once on a trip)

the bears/plush toys are as good as their buddies/friends

https://yoonminze.tumblr.com/post/169590968042

[Blindleech]

11 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

me too,

btw, i have seen some gays (maybe not in sg )  , taiwan (the gentler speaker) fb frens (cant paste them here) really bring their bears to everywhere (me too, once on a trip)

the bears/plush toys are as good as their buddies/friends

https://yoonminze.tumblr.com/post/169590968042

Well, small size plush toys are still fine. It does help to give u that warm feeling. If u get what i mean. 

[lovehandle]

Hmmmmmm, i saw them carrying them while travelling(they r not doin tour solo but w bf too)

it s at least 30cm or larger

i thk we talked to them

a btm was shocked to hear that from me that  we actually talk to bear-bears or toys ?!??!!

it s not just gd for cuddling but also a companion?

 

2 minutes ago, Blindleech said:

Well, small size plush toys are still fine. It does help to give u that warm feeling. If u get what i mean. 

 

[Blindleech]

2 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

Hmmmmmm, i saw them carrying them while travelling(they r not doin tour solo but w bf too)

it s at least 30cm or larger

i thk we talked to them

a btm was shocked to hear that from me that  we actually talk to bear-bears or toys ?!??!!

it s not just gd for cuddling but also a companion?

 

 

I guess its normal for them to react that way. We all react to smth that is not the norm differently

[lovehandle]

But like in the video, i will avoid bringg them out (to cafe or tours) due to hygiene and wierd eyeballing

i cannot bear to dirty them and also , some of their bears r collectibles!!!

[Gooey]

On 4/7/2018 at 5:22 PM, XiaoYuEr said:

Yes the warm and fuzzy feel of being spooned! 

 

Exactly! The feeling of loving and being loved even without coitus! Cuddling is awesome!

 

For me, bears and other animal plushies are for collection inside glass cabinet. I will usually get at least 1 from very trip that I do (small sized only), mainly from all those animal sanctuaries - they are just adorable!

[Blindleech]

4 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

But like in the video, i will avoid bringg them out (to cafe or tours) due to hygiene and wierd eyeballing

i cannot bear to dirty them and also , some of their bears r collectibles!!!

Well. Then prob u are not that attached to it ba.

[lovehandle]

Eg someone luv his gf or whoever, may not wish to b clingy 24hrs

and i cant bare to dirty them 

 

i m not to the extent of talkg to them all the time even at home

[Blindleech]

7 hours ago, -Ignored- said:

Eg someone luv his gf or whoever, may not wish to b clingy 24hrs

and i cant bare to dirty them 

 

i m not to the extent of talkg to them all the time even at home

Then what u do with them

[lovehandle]

i posted the video of the doll is cos i saw the trend of having gay dolls or male dolls esp there r videos and dramas on such concept too

 

but if u r ref to our thread on soft toys or collectibles /items , it is cos alll along we liked (like my taiwanese frens) , it is all along we been collecting or keeping those characters/bears 

for them, they like to change their clothing/accessories apparels eg hats, clutch etc for their bears and bring them around (to chit chat) even though they r attached w a  real bf or not

for me, i think it dpends, i dont have the changing element, but i keep them bside my bear (some have it in display)

i dont use them for "funny" things as there r "bears" (too cute to ruin them or dirty them)

 

(there are even male bosses who opend handicraft bears for collections and for handicraft sewing courses in sg, n u know in many ctries, there are teady bear museums?)

 

i think i shared before in the plushtoy thread: saw a lcaucasian ady who is so into a bear (in a  sg bear exhibition/fair that some rare collections can be purchased) that she talked to the bear, and she is tearing,  i felt so emotionally touched when i saw that ( i think some r really fanatics w such things, i m nt yet at the stage lah, )

(Gays r fussy to pick and choose who/humans to cuddle on bed) i think having some teady bears to cuddle is faster! by the time, we put up an ad or grindr (many turn out to be a scam too), let save the trip....

 

in short, mine is seated bside my bear and once a while i will cuddle them or "talk to them" (nowadays i dont take them out, i cannot imagine if u r alone and then when u returned to your seat, your collectible is gone! it will be terrible.........) 

erm, u seemed to be into this topic, u collect bears or plush toys too? (not those for investment or re sale eg some buy certain toys eg Hello kitty for re sale later)

 

but i think the norm is many will ask what is a man/大男人 doing w such toys? (which is why i mentioned a btm did qn me why r there toys in my bedroom? maybe they thought only gals or btms will do that? n yes, the taiwanese i mentioned, is a btm for sure, u can easily sense though i didnt ask him directly)

the teady bear will not act on u , flame u etc , they r very receptive

1 minute ago, Blindleech said:

Then what u do with them

 

[lovehandle]

On 4/16/2018 at 8:53 PM, LeanMature said:

 

Diversity ?  Then why no male dolls ?

Neh, male dolls (sometimes i introduce a topic is based on after i crossrefce to other threads as well)

and some of u have already seen it (though i didnt copy the link initially) 

plenty i trust

some members were being asked did they purchase it eventually if u have browse the thread

 

 

 

[Blindleech]

1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

i posted the video of the doll is cos i saw the trend of having gay dolls or male dolls esp there r videos and dramas on such concept too

 

but if u r ref to our thread on soft toys or collectibles /items , it is cos alll along we liked (like my taiwanese frens) , it is all along we been collecting or keeping those characters/bears 

for them, they like to change their clothing/accessories apparels eg hats, clutch etc for their bears and bring them around (to chit chat) even though they r attached w a  real bf or not

for me, i think it dpends, i dont have the changing element, but i keep them bside my bear (some have it in display)

i dont use them for "funny" things as there r "bears" (too cute to ruin them or dirty them)

 

(there are even male bosses who opend handicraft bears for collections and for handicraft sewing courses in sg, n u know in many ctries, there are teady bear museums?)

 

i think i shared before in the plushtoy thread: saw a lcaucasian ady who is so into a bear (in a  sg bear exhibition/fair that some rare collections can be purchased) that she talked to the bear, and she is tearing,  i felt so emotionally touched when i saw that ( i think some r really fanatics w such things, i m nt yet at the stage lah, )

(Gays r fussy to pick and choose who/humans to cuddle on bed) i think having some teady bears to cuddle is faster! by the time, we put up an ad or grindr (many turn out to be a scam too), let save the trip....

 

in short, mine is seated bside my bear and once a while i will cuddle them or "talk to them" (nowadays i dont take them out, i cannot imagine if u r alone and then when u returned to your seat, your collectible is gone! it will be terrible.........) 

erm, u seemed to be into this topic, u collect bears or plush toys too? (not those for investment or re sale eg some buy certain toys eg Hello kitty for re sale later)

 

but i think the norm is many will ask what is a man/大男人 doing w such toys? (which is why i mentioned a btm did qn me why r there toys in my bedroom? maybe they thought only gals or btms will do that? n yes, the taiwanese i mentioned, is a btm for sure, u can easily sense though i didnt ask him directly)

the teady bear will not act on u , flame u etc , they r very receptive

 

 I see. Just wanna know more about it lo. Since u posted the video. It sounds interesting tho. 

[lovehandle]

1 minute ago, Blindleech said:

 I see. Just wanna know more about it lo. Since u posted the video. It sounds interesting tho. 

ok

 

the bear/collectibles/plush toy is a diff concept  but for those who r into the life size dolls, then might as well go find their collectibles to talk to or hug cos softer

the lifesized dolls looked so plastic n may not be soft

[Blindleech]

Well it does satisfy that need for physical intimacy i guess. But what is scary is the fact that people do talk to their dolls. It really reflect how the society is right now

[lovehandle]

5 minutes ago, Blindleech said:

Well it does satisfy that need for physical intimacy i guess. But what is scary is the fact that people do talk to their dolls. It really reflect how the society is right now

it means they have no faith in humans liao

 

 

[Blindleech]

2 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

it means they have no faith in humans liao

 

 

[LeanMature]

12 hours ago, Blindleech said:

Well it does satisfy that need for physical intimacy i guess. But what is scary is the fact that people do talk to their dolls. It really reflect how the society is right now

 

Some people just want cuddles and the human touch (not sex) but then, that too people set requirement.  

[Blindleech]

3 hours ago, LeanMature said:

 

Some people just want cuddles and the human touch (not sex) but then, that too people set requirement.  

Yup. I like cuddles. Like its not just the hug. But u can feel the warmness from the body. Its quite shiok

[Blindleech]

I can understand when people do set requirements when it comes to anything physical ba. Like as much as people do say looks doesnt matter, but the basis of attraction requires at least a min requirement 

Edited April 18, 2018 by Blindleech

[LeanMature]

23 hours ago, Blindleech said:

I can understand when people do set requirements when it comes to anything physical ba. Like as much as people do say looks doesnt matter, but the basis of attraction requires at least a min requirement 

 

Does requirement for cuddles and requirement for sex the same or difference?  If same, then cuddle is just a pretext for sex ? 

[Gooey]

2 hours ago, LeanMature said:

 

Does requirement for cuddles and requirement for sex the same or difference?  If same, then cuddle is just a pretext for sex ? 

I guess it depends on the person.

Personally, I feel cuddling fulfills both my physical and emotional needs, whereas as sex, if it's casual / one night stand, will only fulfill physical needs... 

[Blindleech]

3 hours ago, LeanMature said:

 

Does requirement for cuddles and requirement for sex the same or difference?  If same, then cuddle is just a pretext for sex ? 

Nope. Its diff. Tho its similiar.