How to make a top cum faster

[Guest Highsex]

Just met up with a bi top. He told me that he will need a long time in order to cum .Even he done with his gf also take a long time to cum.

 So i  tried to use all my hand and mouth skills to make him cum. After an hour, he still have not shot , so i ask him to try anal him but he rejected. He still want me to suck for him as he said he enjoyed it so much. So tried to suck him and jerk him again.

I am really tired , in the end i lost, never able to make him cum.

So any ways to make a top cum faster?

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest Lucky]

  On 4/12/2018 at 6:43 PM, Guest Highsex said:

Just met up with a bi top. He told me that he will need a long time in order to cum .Even he done with his gf also take a long time to cum.

 So i  tried to use all my hand and mouth skills to make him cum. After an hour, he still have not shot , so i ask him to try anal him but he rejected. He still want me to suck for him as he said he enjoyed it so much. So tried to suck him and jerk him again.

I am really tired , in the end i lost, never able to make him cum.

So any ways to make a top cum faster?

 

 

 

 

 

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Consider yourself lucky to have long sessions! What would you prefer, premature ejaculation? All done, lights off! LOLZ! 

[Kimochi]

  On 4/12/2018 at 6:43 PM, Guest Highsex said:

Just met up with a bi top. He told me that he will need a long time in order to cum .Even he done with his gf also take a long time to cum.

 So i  tried to use all my hand and mouth skills to make him cum. After an hour, he still have not shot , so i ask him to try anal him but he rejected. He still want me to suck for him as he said he enjoyed it so much. So tried to suck him and jerk him again.

I am really tired , in the end i lost, never able to make him cum.

So any ways to make a top cum faster?

 

 

 

Find his g spot and stimulate it. (Not easy ) or directly ask. 

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[kimlo777]

try inserting your last finger in his asshole and finger him as you suck  his cock.

[cutejack]

  On 4/13/2018 at 1:39 AM, kimlo777 said:

try inserting your last finger in his asshole and finger him as you suck  his cock.

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Better listen to this ,our sex n foreplay expert Mr kimlo. He can do wonders on bed who others cant.

[Guest Guest]

  On 4/13/2018 at 2:47 AM, cutejack said:

Better listen to this ,our sex n foreplay expert Mr kimlo. He can do wonders on bed who others cant.

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Lol.... Sibei suan u sound ! 

[cutejack]

  On 4/13/2018 at 4:57 AM, Guest Guest said:

Lol.... Sibei suan u sound ! 

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Lol

[lovehandle]

i think it is very normal for a top not to cum that fast (anal should be faster?!)

 

no matter how one hj me w some bj concurrently, it is quite tough and take some time

prostate "massaging" doesnt count (not for a top pls)

[cutejack]

Depends. Some tops faster also problem. Some tops extremely late especially married n used to fuck wife.take so long to cum.

[Guest :-(]

My bf and I cum in less than 5minutes lol

[Guest guest]

as long as you happy can le luh

[Guest Guest]

  On 4/13/2018 at 6:53 AM, cutejack said:

Some tops extremely late especially married n used to fuck wife.take so long to cum.

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I agree married men took long. Had sex wif tis str8 married man fr office for 3x n he reali took long to cum when I bj n hj him. He was curious abt m2m n wanted to try. Tink he like it n had 3x since. He oni cum normal when fxxking my hole but when bj n hj he took so bloody long tat my hand n mouth oredi tired n still haven cum. Like wat u said they r use to fxxking wife's cb so they reali nid a hole to ram in n out to make them cum. A hole tat their Lj can feel e tenderness grabbing onto e shafts in order to make e Lj head feel shiok n cum, so our ass hole is e closer to a cb. 

[cutejack]

  On 4/13/2018 at 11:00 AM, Guest Guest said:

I agree married men took long. Had sex wif tis str8 married man fr office for 3x n he reali took long to cum when I bj n hj him. He was curious abt m2m n wanted to try. Tink he like it n had 3x since. He oni cum normal when fxxking my hole but when bj n hj he took so bloody long tat my hand n mouth oredi tired n still haven cum. Like wat u said they r use to fxxking wife's cb so they reali nid a hole to ram in n out to make them cum. A hole tat their Lj can feel e tenderness grabbing onto e shafts in order to make e Lj head feel shiok n cum, so our ass hole is e closer to a cb. 

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Thats known dude. Better than cb. Tighter. A married uncle of 4 kids told me that penetrating asshole is much much tedious than fucking a cb. Shiok too

[Guest Guest]

  On 4/13/2018 at 11:11 AM, cutejack said:

Thats known dude. Better than cb. Tighter. A married uncle of 4 kids told me that penetrating asshole is much much tedious than fucking a cb. Shiok too

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Haha tat str8 married man told me too. He told me not every woman enjoy bj for man.

[cutejack]

Of course..Almost no wife will suck la.

[Guest Bottom]

  On 4/13/2018 at 6:21 AM, lovehandle said:

i think it is very normal for a top not to cum that fast (anal should be faster?!)

 

no matter how one hj me w some bj concurrently, it is quite tough and take some time

prostate "massaging" doesnt count (not for a top pls)

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U are just like my bf who is pure top...I can do anything on him but he will not let anything near his hole..even if I were to put a finger near his hole he would get very angry like as if he got raped!!!.

[Ben Ben Ben]

  On 4/13/2018 at 11:20 AM, Guest Guest said:

Haha tat str8 married man told me too. He told me not every woman enjoy bj for man.

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Why gays enjoy bj? 

[cutejack]

  On 4/13/2018 at 2:25 PM, Ben Ben Ben said:

Why gays enjoy bj? 

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Str8 men also la. Read properly

[lovehandle]

  On 4/13/2018 at 12:35 PM, Guest Bottom said:

U are just like my bf who is pure top...I can do anything on him but he will not let anything near his hole..even if I were to put a finger near his hole he would get very angry like as if he got raped!!!.

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i tot many tops are like that?! isnt that a norm? eg 

https://www.blowingwind.io/forum/topic/94849-prostate-orgasm/?do=findComment&comment=1976914

but i guess that makes u even liked them more right?

 

 

Once a while there are exceptions

i was at a sauna one nite, sometimes some looked very shy and the body parts that he choose to touch on will give u a hint of what he s looking for?

i got mixed signals, so i decided to ASK directly instead before getting into a room : I asked are u a btm? (before that , i was touching his behind and abit of fondling his frontal since he wasnt very upfront w me too) he was quite "unhappy" and then run off ( i think he murmured he is a top or flex, vaguely - cant rem now)

n

Another commonly faced situation:

some told me  in sauna that so and so is a flex, again i will be puzzled but why all the time the flex alway touched others' back and hole? hardly see him touch elsewhere, yet he is a flex

 

[Guest Bottom]

  On 4/13/2018 at 3:04 PM, lovehandle said:

i tot many tops are like that?! isnt that a norm? eg 

https://www.blowingwind.io/forum/topic/94849-prostate-orgasm/?do=findComment&comment=1976914

but i guess that makes u even liked them more right?

 

 

Once a while there are exceptions

i was at a sauna one nite, sometimes some looked very shy and the body parts that he choose to touch on will give u a hint of what he s looking for?

i got mixed signals, so i decided to ASK directly instead before getting into a room : I asked are u a btm? (before that , i was touching his behind and abit of fondling his frontal since he wasnt very upfront w me too) he was quite "unhappy" and then run off ( i think he murmured he is a top or flex, vaguely - cant rem now)

n

Another commonly faced situation:

some told me  in sauna that so and so is a flex, again i will be puzzled but why all the time the flex alway touched others' back and hole? hardly see him touch elsewhere, yet he is a flex

 

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But I don't understand why the top must react that way or feel so insulted that someone touches his ass or wants to finger him...prostate stimulation is fun for everyone right??

 

 

[Kimochi]

  On 4/14/2018 at 2:07 AM, Guest Bottom said:

But I don't understand why the top must react that way or feel so insulted that someone touches his ass or wants to finger him...prostate stimulation is fun for everyone right??

 

 

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Not for everyone. Only bottoms or flew like it. Same principle as you like guys mean you like guys. 

[Guest Bottom]

  On 4/14/2018 at 2:18 AM, Kimochi said:

Not for everyone. Only bottoms or flew like it. Same principle as you like guys mean you like guys. 

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I think some tops are too fixated with thinking being fingered means bottom. Until u try and really experience it you will enjoy it. As a top don't u enjoy some fingering?

[lovehandle]

kimochi not a gd reply lah

  On 4/14/2018 at 2:07 AM, Guest Bottom said:

But I don't understand why the top must react that way or feel so insulted that someone touches his ass or wants to finger him...prostate stimulation is fun for everyone right??

 

 

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there r tops who luv rimming, for me, if possible dont even rim , cos i tend to associate it w hygiene factor (for me lah)

if u asked do we enjoy fingering, maybe a few seconds out of the whole foreplay , still ok

 

some areas are a no boundary eg , if i would to walk towds u , and stuff my index fingers into your nostril gently , how would u feel ? is it good?

 

i have seen some adults as well as kids luv digging, and they even allow their thumbs to do the digging and then they will taste their output, prolly to wet their fingers and to smoothen/lube it and then to continue the excavation work, so if u r would to walk towards them and fit in your index finger lightly excavating it for them, they will thank  u

but not all can accept it, hence it is the same feel too

while i did some silly things in pri sch, i saw my classmate (and he was then TCS young actor) digging his legs w shoes on and then keep smelling his finger after that , he repeated that in the classroom! (if this is not a school setting, i m not surprised he will smell his shoes directly or lift up his feet)

i m not laughing at him, i m trying to say, pp being comfy at doing things that some others may not feel gd at all

 

i shared before when doing prostate exam is a if-can-avoid-i will! the doc heard me squirmed,and he asked is it very uncomfortable as in my prostate is bleeding or in pain, i told him no no, just that i didnt like the feeling of pp poking down there (even though it is not a sex thingy)some said during such examination or abit of touch during massage and EVEN waxing can cum on the bed already [i think top will not , top need to work on it, need to have a "concept" of stimulation first to drive thru something, which is why some joked that men r better (screw)drivers, not women]

and there r some tops who will barge in (at a sauna) and then just "try their luck" halfway into me too (that maybe makes us even hated the feeling)

some patrons will keep poking to ask me whether i can btm for them???????? maybe older i will????????????????????? but they have to wait for years later

i can never forget the Ah beng, after a round of negotiation he came on my tummy , he dry humped me, yes dry hump is ok to me (everytime he saw me he will ask to raw me, i said no, then he will propose w condom, i will decline him again, he just dont get it)

i have seen some btms, no matter how we foreplay-ed , their erections r forever not on, if i pretend to leave,they will pull me back and it was they who initiated that too, but somehow they have no/limited erection(yes, they may not be young but some r young ones) so i stop linking to No-erections doesnt mean u failed to attract them
some btms just want cuddling and spooning, when u requested (i will always ask, can i top them) , they too declined instantly! cos they dont wish to be fingered or entered down there too(have to learn to respect) i saw the same btm went onto a public bed(yes a Malay for sure wearing a pair of those blue shorts) to sleep with another top(dont ask me how do i know the guy sleeping there is a top, a top is a top, v clearly to me) , the malay guy , again wanted only cuddling and nothing more
so it is not accurate to say that only top whatsoever, a btm also doesnt like to be  Anal (to the extent, one even recommend me another so that i can go find target instead of him) cos he made me horny and yet cannot perform on him

 

 

i watch a Jp movie it s about gangster or the Yakuza?! he bcame weird and .....bcos he was violated by his gang hence in a way, he just dislike the feeling 
it could be due to several other reasons

 

Dear guest, a man has many other body parts u could play with, so dont touch his btm, just leave it alone, u have everything to touch mah

some liked licking fingers and toes, (but the floor r so dirty) , once i noticed someone licked my toes, strictly no kissing then

even at normal situation,  i dont open up my mouth for any french kissing , he can peck on my face or other parts but strictly no french kissing even for normal situation (some just r very gd kissers but some r not)

- just like we know many women dont like performing bjs too (cos they see it as a urinary tool)

U must understand from a top (esp one who is very into hygiene) when u finger him, u will very likely used the same finger to fondle/touch/caress him later and he likely didnt wash his inner sacred area for feces (i have pp who tried topping me but have to pull out cos get scared of cos, i didnt wash down there for those who luv assuming, shall get free gifts from me too) 
 

[Guest No more hair]

I cant cum from a bj. I still prefer cum bareback 

[lovehandle]

  On 4/14/2018 at 3:15 AM, Guest No more hair said:

I cant cum from a bj. I still prefer cum bareback 

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u might not have met a good blower

preference is another thing

 

[Kimochi]

  On 4/14/2018 at 2:41 AM, Guest Bottom said:

I think some tops are too fixated with thinking being fingered means bottom. Until u try and really experience it you will enjoy it. As a top don't u enjoy some fingering?

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Nope. Tried many times. 

[Guest guest]

My bf (Top) like me fingering his hole massaging his prostate spot, he love the sensitive feel there. But he told me he will not allow a cock going inside his hole. 

[Guest Slut Executive]

Top is power man, bottom is obey woman.

As a bottom, I already accept that I give my body to the top to be used like a woman. In Bangkok, even if the Thai never fucked a man before, the first time he fucked me he already know how to make me bend over and penetrate me. Then his hands automatically go under me to fondle my nipples as he ram into me.

 

Some initially don't believe that I'm so obedient. Starting they were quite gentle but when they start getting that siok feeling coming, they want to ram harder to get higher. I'm a man myself so I understand he needs tighter grip and faster friction on his cock. Then he let go his wild animal inside him and start to scold bad words and abusing me. 

 

Only then he can cum faster. But seeing I'm so submissive, they are also scared that they become like me and get abused by men if they become bottom like me. So they afraid to even let people touch their holes.

[Guest This is stupid]

I hate the "pure" top and bottom thing, you are a man with a cock and ass, so be a real man and use both lah! 

[Guest Flex]

  On 4/14/2018 at 3:20 PM, Guest This is stupid said:

I hate the "pure" top and bottom thing, you are a man with a cock and ass, so be a real man and use both lah! 

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Agree 100%

[Guest Ask]

Squeeze his nipples while sucking him, he will cum very fast.

[lovehandle]

it will not 

  On 4/15/2018 at 5:09 AM, Guest Ask said:

Squeeze his nipples while sucking him, he will cum very fast.

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[tyan]

Shiok to enjoy being sucked for hours although I agree that the sucker will get tired on his jaw. But I hate it when I cum within 5mins!!!! 

[Guest btm loves tops]

tops cum faster depending on whether they are doing what they like, depends on the individual

 

some tops love tight asses

some tops like to rub their cock between your ass cheeks

some tops like their nipples to be squeezed or bitten

some tops are turned on by hairy btm

some tops like to hear btm moan and cum first

some tops enjoy seeing the btm's body (muscular, meaty, skinny, fat etc)

 

i met a top who loves tanline, especially when your tanline is just one strip, he cummed on my tanline, slurped it up and tongue shared it with a kiss

[MasterDaddy]

Daddy takes long to cum and it is always hard for a boy to suck Daddy to completion. Most complain of jaw ache after an hour or so. Playing with Daddy's nipples always helps and Daddy loves to twist, pull and pinch his nipples while being sucked. Having said that some guys do have the technique and can make Daddy cum relatively quickly. Problem is most guys don't really know how to suck a dick - maybe the problem lies in the expression itself "suck a dick". Getting cum from a guys balls requires technique and good tongue work rather than just sucking. Working the shaft, stimulating the cock head and piss slit all require skill that few guys seem to develop. One thing is for sure though. Nothing beats shooting a load after being sucked. It's always worth waiting for. It can be torture when you feel the spunk rise in your balls only to recede back but then eventually the explosion of hot fresh cum is extacy. 

[Trinity]

Imho....3 things help them cum faster. One, a good natural moan. Two, tight arse. Three, ability to squeeze n massage his hard dick while inside you. Using your anal n internal muscles. 

[MasterDaddy]

Yes agreed there are things that help a top cum faster. Communication between the top and his bottom is very important. Daddy is very verbal when fucking - or being sucked - and expects his bottom to reciprocate - unless of course his mouth is full when the odd groan of satisfaction will suffice. Hearing Daddy's bottom boy express some genuine moans helps but too much groaning and moaning can be a turn off especially if there are neighbours to consider. Far better to hear "fuck me daddy" "breed my arse" "fuck my boi cunt" "give me that big hard dick" "make me your bitch". Hearing these always makes Daddy's cum rise in his balls a little faster. A tight arse also helps I suppose. But having said that Daddy has never come across an arse that isn't tight. Maybe a reflection of the sort of guys Daddy mixes with. Good lubrication is important however as an aid to cumming, especially for long fucks as no one wants a sore arse and cock at the end of a good long fuck session. Some guys do know how to milk a cock with their arse muscles and can move their arses in the most sexy and provocative ways. These bottoms are always preferable to the ones who just lie there as if dead expecting the top to do all the work. Perhaps the most important thing though is the sensation felt by the top when his cock is pumping arse. Nothing of course beats barebacking for sensation. But that's generally a no no these days so it is important to get the right fit of condom. Most of us just use whatever is to hand. Daddy however always has difficulty with standard condoms. They can be too tight causing all loss of session in the cock and with loss of sensation cumming becomes difficult if not impossible. For Daddy the remedy lay in buying a supply of extra large condoms. Not because Daddy's cock is extra long (Daddy is very modest.) but because it is thick and the extra width of the condom allows for more feeling and does not cut the blood or spunk supply. The position one fucks in also plays a part in the speed of cumming. Daddy finds that if a fuck is taking long and the bottom is showing signs of fatigue having the guy on his back so he can play with Daddy's nipples always gets Daddy to orgasm a little faster. Also flipping the boy over doggy style so daddy can admire his boys' arse, see his cock pumping in and out of the boi cunt and maybe giving a few slaps to the bitches arse cheeks, is always a turn-on that gets the spunk flowing. Fucking a guy on his back, legs up so Daddy can get his cock in deep and also lean over and kiss his boy as he fucks him is always a sign of passionate intimacy. Fucking a boy doggy, holding his shoulders down, slapping his arse and fucking hard and watching your cock pumping in and out of the arse hole is pure dominance and lust. Depending on your relationship with your partner each has its place and each can speed up the flow of cum .

Edited April 18, 2018 by MasterDaddy
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[Guest Aha]

  On 4/15/2018 at 5:37 AM, lovehandle said:

it will not 

 

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Oh, yes it will! 

[Milkudry]

  On 4/18/2018 at 5:36 PM, MasterDaddy said:

Yes agreed there are things that help a top cum faster. Communication between the top and his bottom is very important. Daddy is very verbal when fucking - or being sucked - and expects his bottom to reciprocate - unless of course his mouth is full when the odd groan of satisfaction will suffice. Hearing Daddy's bottom boy express some genuine moans helps but too much groaning and moaning can be a turn off especially if there are neighbours to consider. Far better to hear "fuck me daddy" "breed my arse" "fuck my boi cunt" "give me that big hard dick" "make me your bitch". Hearing these always makes Daddy's cum rise in his balls a little faster. A tight arse also helps I suppose. But having said that Daddy has never come across an arse that isn't tight. Maybe a reflection of the sort of guys Daddy mixes with. Good lubrication is important however as an aid to cumming, especially for long fucks as no one wants a sore arse and cock at the end of a good long fuck session. Some guys do know how to milk a cock with their arse muscles and can move their arses in the most sexy and provocative ways. These bottoms are always preferable to the ones who just lie there as if dead expecting the top to do all the work. Perhaps the most important thing though is the sensation felt by the top when his cock is pumping arse. Nothing of course beats barebacking for sensation. But that's generally a no no these days so it is important to get the right fit of condom. Most of us just use whatever is to hand. Daddy however always has difficulty with standard condoms. They can be too tight causing all loss of session in the cock and with loss of sensation cumming becomes difficult if not impossible. For Daddy the remedy lay in buying a supply of extra large condoms. Not because Daddy's cock is extra long (Daddy is very modest.) but because it is thick and the extra width of the condom allows for more feeling and does not cut the blood or spunk supply. The position one fucks in also plays a part in the speed of cumming. Daddy finds that if a fuck is taking long and the bottom is showing signs of fatigue having the guy on his back so he can play with Daddy's nipples always gets Daddy to orgasm a little faster. Also flipping the boy over doggy style so daddy can admire his boys' arse, see his cock pumping in and out of the boi cunt and maybe giving a few slaps to the bitches arse cheeks, is always a turn-on that gets the spunk flowing. Fucking a guy on his back, legs up so Daddy can get his cock in deep and also lean over and kiss his boy as he fucks him is always a sign of passionate intimacy. Fucking a boy doggy, holding his shoulders down, slapping his arse and fucking hard and watching your cock pumping in and out of the arse hole is pure dominance and lust. Depending on your relationship with your partner each has its place and each can speed up the flow of cum .

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Reading all that got me so hot and bothered

Oh please MasterDaddy, please fuck me?