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Understand there is already tele for that. This is more to meet up n play. From skinny to slim to slim fit to lean to lean fit to lean bodyfats to fit and musculars. Once we meet often as a group or 3s or 1-1 or anything then can consider forming tele. Side can be the following; Nipple play BJ Edging HJ Circle jerk Worship Shower (open & closed door) Outdoor (public spaces/parks/anywhere) Sniff Kissing Naked & Cuddle Seek buddies for staycay/travel Sweat Swimwear fetish Tights fetish Singlets Suit

Anyone has an interest in skinny dudes? I am a bottom 26,168,56. Looking for guys that are into skinny guys and would wanna make me even skinnier.

One other way to approach investing for younger investors be to allocate a portion of ones portfolio say 20% to growth companies, then buy the etf like say qqq or if one was more geared towards stock picking be the companies whose products they use the most. So be it Apple, Nvda, Google etc This was my strategy few years back, but market in this sectors is abit crazy now so I'll only go back in when things settle down. I believe the US market is abit of the bubbly end of things. Remainder of the pf best if vested in blue chip firms, can be income or just ones that focus more on value.

Thanks @masseurinthemaking for the great session. The strength was good and many tight knots loosened. The strokes were smooth and efficient and even places I didn’t even realise ached were covered. The place had a simple yet comfy setup and was conducive too. Thank you for accommodating to my preferences and checking in from time to time throughout the session. I had a pleasant time and keep up the good work!

Able to host tonight @cck straight chi curious to experience 26 / 69kg / 174

Divorce Straight Man looking to try something new, PM Me your tele handle

Looking for a sub who is into bod worship of worn gear etc. Sub may be in Chasity and be made to serve. Fit / or decent looking subs can apply. locations : either public or in hourly rooms

Any suckers can host tmr morning at central area, maybe 8plus before I go work. 6.5inches big cock waiting to unload in your mouth. Prefer chn or whites.

Hi I will be visiting Penang from May 23 to 27 staying in GeorgeTown. I will try to visit U2 which I understand is over at Butterworth. I will then be in KL for two days before going to Korea. Hit me up if you want to chat. I am American Chinese from San Francisco.

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Er.. I felt you are conveniently being used by the str8 as a Tenga cup.

Bought black and white versions of a couple of new sexy underwear to try. (1) (2) (3) (4) Which one is nice ah?

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Anyone free now? Able to host

3 guy within 1 hour in rw, this really my record.

Tq for your post. I don't share your attitude and approach towards funeral and wakes and I prefer not to be there. As for your last sentence, I think it's a sign of the toxic customs passed by our elders. It's a custom based on fear. You fear that you'll be treated badly if you treat others like meh..... So everyone pretends to be nice just so they get treated nicely in return. Just be real my friend.

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Yes, worth it, pls try it yourself

Anyone free to meet?

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America (Counselling Today Magazine) An Unstoppable Force By Jennifer L.W. Fink March 2024 Determined or lazy? Unafraid to prioritize their mental health or just entitled? Tech-savvy or dependent on screens and uncomfortable with in-person communication? Each of these descriptors has been applied to Generation Z, the demographic cohort born between approximately 1997 and 2012. The oldest members of Gen Z just passed their mid-20s and are entering the counseling workforce, while the youngest members are still in middle school. Each year, the proportion of Gen Z counselors increases. “Everyone else in counseling — the millennials, the Silent Generation, the Boomers, Gen X — we’re all getting smaller in numbers as Gen Z gets bigger,” says Taylor Sweet-Cosce, PhD, LMHC, a late millennial who wrote a dissertation about Gen Z counselors-in-training. She is assistant director for student personal and professional development at the University of South Florida. Understanding Gen Z’s motivations, preferences and challenges can help educators and employers nurture and support the generation that will move counseling forward and shape mental health treatment for years to come. Gen Z Characteristics Most of Gen Z doesn’t remember the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks; the oldest Gen Zers were just four years old when the Twin Towers fell, and most weren’t yet born. The U.S. was at war in Iraq and Afghanistan most of their lives. Their childhood and adolescence have been marked by mass shootings, marriage equality victories, climate change, a widening wealth gap, and the Black Lives Matter and #MeToo movements — all of which they’ve experienced in real time via digital connections. “Gen Z is the first generation that are true digital natives,” says Daniel Hall, PhD, LPC, a millennial who is an associate professor and program director of the counselor education program at the University of Lynchburg in Virginia. “Technology has been ubiquitous throughout their lives.” The COVID-19 pandemic disrupted and reshaped their education; no other generation has entered the workforce without in-person counseling experience. And because the pandemic and its resulting shutdowns occurred during Gen Z’s youth and adolescence, many lacked in-person interactions with peers and non-family members at critical points during their development. These events and circumstances have heavily influenced Gen Z. And while Gen Z is comprised of a vast array of individuals, the cohort shares a few common characteristics. Let’s take a look. Comfort with Technology “Gen Z has such a knack and competency around technology,” Sweet-Cosce says. They may not be as familiar as their older co-workers and supervisors with desktop computers, email, Microsoft Office and printer/scanners, but “the learning curve is a lot shorter for Gen Z in terms of picking up new technologies,” Hall says. As a result, Hall says, Gen Z is more likely to adapt and experiment with new technologies in their counseling work. Gen Z counselors and counselors-in-training may be more likely to recommend that clients use digital applications to track their moods or artificial intelligence chatbots to provide empathetic, in-the-moment support. They may use video games in therapy and likely use digital platforms to support their own professional interests. “Look at TikTok and Instagram — they’re filled with mental health counselors, psychiatrists, doctors and other health care professionals,” Sweet-Cosce says. “These platforms create more visibility for counselors and also help them create their own identity as a counselor.” Broadly speaking, Gen Z counselors gravitate toward virtual counseling, likely because many routinely used videoconferencing tools during the pandemic and because the pandemic loosened regulations that previously limited virtual care. “I’ve seen more people within my generation remain online and have a preference for virtual counseling,” says Jasmine Trotter, LPC, a Gen Z counselor who uses the pronouns she/they and works with Wild Cactus Therapy at its Fort Worth, Texas, location. She’s noticed a strong demand for virtual therapy as well, particularly among fellow Gen Zers. Gen Z is not opposed to in-person interactions, however. “Gen Z still values in-person communication and interaction,” Hall says. “They just don’t want to be forced into it.” Educators and supervisors should carefully consider which activities require in-person connection and which can be effectively delivered via email, text messaging or videoconferencing. “If it’s simple communication of information, send it out and let people engage with it on their own time,” Hall suggests. “Bring folks together for activities and purposes that necessitate interpersonal interaction.” Emphasis on Mental Health Anxiety, depression and suicide are not taboo subjects for Generation Z. “Mental health is a normal part of conversations for this generation,” Hall says. In fact, he says, “they have a better understanding of their own mental health and of the impact of mental health on all areas of their lives.” Regular discussion or acknowledgment of mental health, though, does not mean that Gen Z is mentally healthier than previous generations. According to a recent survey by Gallup and the Walton Family Foundation, just 15% of Gen Z members ages 18 to 26 described their mental health as “excellent.” Compare that to millennials a decade ago when they were the same age: 52% of them said their mental health was “excellent” at the time. Technology plays a role in this generation’s experience — and management — of mental health. “I want to curate my work environment so it’s something that’s going to be healthy and helpful for me right now,” say Trotter, the Gen Z counselor, “instead of just buckling down, grinding my teeth and sitting it out, which is often what I’ve heard older therapists tell me. That’s not great for my mental health.” Trotter chose to work virtually for a practice where she has “complete control” over her schedule, can set her own rate and decide how many clients to see. “If I want to have a three-day weekend, I can,” she says, “and no one can tell me otherwise.” Social Justice Orientation Traditionally, the counseling field has treated multiculturalism and social justice approaches as “secondary,” Sweet-Cosce says, instead focusing on therapeutic modalities that center issues of the individual. In contrast, social justice counseling — a concept embraced by many Gen Z counselors — recognizes “issues of power, privilege and oppression as being central to client conceptualization,” according to Sweet-Cosce. Gen Z is acutely interested in social justice, diversity and inclusion, and Gen Z counselors and counselors-in-training tend to bring this interest to their work. “They really want to be big advocates for themselves, for their clients, for the world and for society as whole,” says Kayleigh Underwood, LPC-A, a millennial and crisis coordinator at the Southeastern Louisiana University Counseling Center. “That can be really wonderful on one hand but also cause some issues.” Some members of Gen Z distrust “the system,” she says, because they think that government and social systems have failed to protect individuals, families and marginalized groups. So, they may need support as they grapple with the cognitive dissonance of becoming part of a system they previously resisted or criticized. Underwood works with counselors-in-training and asks them to think about how they can reconcile their disappointment with larger systems with their role as mental health professionals. “For some, it’s ‘let me join the system so I can take it down from within,’” she says. “For others, doing what they can to help clients so they get what they need is enough.” Gen Z also embraces diversity. They aren’t simply “tolerant,” “accepting” or “LGBTQ-friendly.” Instead, they celebrate diverse identities and create inclusive, welcoming spaces. “I use inclusive language and gender-neutral terms,” Trotter says. “I don’t necessarily need to have a rainbow flag in the background to make my client feel welcomed in this space because I do that with language.” Prioritization of Boundaries and Balance Gen Z cares deeply about their work, but their careers are not the centerpiece of their lives. “It’s definitely more of a ‘work to live’ mentality instead of a ‘live to work’ mentality,” Sweet-Cosce says. But having this mindset doesn’t mean that Gen Z doesn’t want to work. In fact, Sweet-Cosce says she finds Gen Z counselors to be “incredibly determined, tenacious and very invested in getting what they need.” Compared to older generations, however, they’re less likely to tolerate working conditions they deem unfair or exploitative. They set and enforce firm work-life boundaries and actively pursue jobs that allow flexibility in terms of work hours and geographic location. “Gen Z is not afraid to want what we want right now,” Trotter says. “It’s not ‘I’ll wait five to 10 years and maybe ask later when I have more seniority.’ It’s ‘I want the schedule that works for me right now. I want the benefits that work for me now.’ Same thing with pay.” Counseling centers and health care systems that insist on rigid schedules and don’t offer counselors freedom and flexibility are already having trouble retaining young counselors. “They get the folks who need to get hours toward licensure, but as soon as those folks get their hours, they’re gone,” Hall says. “Gen Z is almost universally choosing jobs that have tremendous amounts of flexibility where they can set their own working hours and work at a location of their choosing.” Commitment to Authenticity Gen Z doesn’t want to tuck parts of their identity away during the workday. “They want work that aligns with and makes sense for who they are as people,” Sweet-Cosce says. That’s a bit of a shift for the counseling field. “In school, I was told to make sure you don’t share too much with the client,” Trotter says. “There’s a lot of wisdom in that advice, but I was often told to sort of remove myself from the room and that’s not what clients want — at least not what my clients want.” Trotter says she shows her “human” side with her clients. “I’ll say things like, ‘yeah, that sounds pretty messed up’ or ‘that’s really hard and we’re going to work through it,’ instead of just saying, ‘well, how does that make you feel?’ I want to connect and talk and be real.” She takes a genuine interest in her clients’ interests and isn’t afraid to share relevant experiences. “We are no longer in a space where we can be blank slates as counselors,” Sweet-Cosce says. Although maintaining professional boundaries can be a challenge, particularly when working with similarly aged clients, Gen Z counselors are committed to linking arms with clients in ways that feel “safe, practical and appropriate,” she says. Gen Z expects and appreciates authenticity, transparency and honesty from co-workers and colleagues as well. However, supervisors and colleagues should consider delivering feedback in language they can easily understand. When Underwood used the phrase “it’s giving some boundary issues” to critique her intern’s counseling session, the intern understood the message as intended — as feedback to maintain professional boundaries during therapy sessions and asked how to improve. Embracing Gen Z’s energy, enthusiasm and knowledge can strengthen the counseling field. “We have to be willing to change,” Underwood says. “This field can’t stay stuck in the ’80s or 2000s. It has to move into 2024 because that’s where our clients are.” Kindly click HERE for full article and various hyperlinks to other content in relation to the topic.

(2) is actually (1) in black color. It does not have a zipper but the front flap is detachable as it is fastened by 3 buttons to the rest of the underwear. (3) and (4) are of the same design but different colors. The white version is a bit revealing compared to the black one. Both designs actually came with a cock ring sown inside each underwear.😉

yishun anyone?

Sound cool, with a cage more amazing

Anyone needs a suck tmr bfr 1?

yeah, as mentioned by the above Bro, I used to start a thread on this couple years ago but it kind of "died" down quite abit. Anyway nice to E-meet everyone here! 😀 (Mid-30 guy here and like to go for evening / night walk to chill out) A

anyone heading over at 9+pm secret toilet?

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To the macho guy at Ten-Men Club yesterday evening, we had an aggressive 45 minutes fucking session with different styles! You are so sexually experienced, making me to cum 3 times. I really enjoyed your rough fingering, finger poking, butt slapping. Later, he mobilised two friends into the room to gang bang me like gangsters ... you three invite to your house on weekend but I am still considering ... worse of all, I forget to give you all my mobile phone number to continue our lusting sessions

The Farmer Gave Me Total Exhaustion Farmer: @Slimfit90 Cow: me After the first intense session, farmer and I have been casually messaging, talking about random things and how much people have been sending him DM's after my experience sharing. Out of a sudden one day, his message came in saying he missed seeing my horny reaction from the first session and would like to see it again. I do have second thoughts about it, afraid that if I go, I would get addicted to edging. But, after much consideration, I agreed to have another go. This time, we decided to up the game by including rope restraint and blindfolds. The day came again, and I arrived at farmer's place. Without wasting much time, I took off my cloths and surrender to farmer for the roping. Not too heavy roping, since that was also my first time being a rope bunny. It was just a simple rope work, with my hands tied above and behind my head, plus the blindfold. As I have disclosed that my "chi" has opened and my body is now more sensitive to touches after the first session, farmer decided to try it out. Just by brushing my legs, arms, and torso gently actually gives me shivers and soft moan, which farmer was happy with. The brushing and caressing went on for a while, using various parts or items. Do remember I was blindedfolded, so I had no idea what farmer used to brush against my body to trigger me into the orgasmic state. I probably would have guessed it was hand, stubble, and feathers? I have no idea. The caressing slowly made my penis hard and leaked with pre-cum. Farmer told me it was a lot, which I was quite satisfied with the result. The moaning and body trembles went on for a while, then farmer asked, "Are you ready for the edging?" My mind was stunned as I was already high for the brushing and caressing, and farmer has not yet even started with the real thing. He then proceeded to grab my penis and gave it a stroke. It sent shivers down my whole body which I felt was even more intense than ever. And before farmer continued, he noticed that my moan got louder and louder which was unacceptable. He proceeded to take one of his cloth and stuffed into my mouth to reduce my volume. I won't disclose what piece of cloth it was, I let the readers to have an imaginative mind. Farmer continued on to polish my penis gland and it made me growled and shouted like mad. If it is not for the gag in my mouth, the neighbours would have come knocking. The stroking and the polishing really gave me an intense sensation that was out of this world. As a fast-cummer, I tried really hard to not give-in to the penis edging. And then came his fingers at my anal sphicter. Slowly on the surface, and proceeded to the prostate. With one finger on my prostate and another hand on my penis, you could not imagine how hard I was biting on the cloth gag. Then, bam, I failed to hold on, the first ruined ejaculation leaked with my slimy cum. Farmer assured me that that was okay, as it was not a full on ejaculation, thus he proceeded with the penis gland polishing and prostate massages. Of course farmer is kind to his cow, and he gave breaks in betweens, but not long after, the second leaking came. Still with my hands tied up and mouth been gagged, I was already exhausted by this point. Yet, farmer told me, he was not done. He let me have a longer rest and we chatted for a bit. Well, he won't be a good farmer if he does not understand his cows better, right? As exhausted I was, with my penis being limp, farmer went on to try to squeeze my last drop out. He did try harder to get my penis hard back, and indeed he managed to do it. And with the hard penis gland polishing, I ejaculated the third time. Indeed, I was dried up as no liquid came out from my penis from the ejaculation. Only then farmer said he was done. That night I went home fully exhausted, and slept early. The next day I was also in a state of low energy and had full body soreness. But in my mind, it was truly a sexual experience journey I glad I took, with thanks to farmer. If you are still skeptical on the truthfulness of this experience write up, here is a photo proof of the rope mark farmer gave me.

U r oredi holding it in yr profile. U mean u never jo before?

bus 74 from Dover MRT 7 March 4:15pm You were wearing a dark grey T shirt, jeans, carrying red Kanken backpack. We boarded the bus together and we looked at each other a few times. Initially I was seated diagonally behind you but moved to sit opposite you. You eventually alighted at Sixth Avenue MRT. hmu if you are here

Fernvale anyone

Looking to have non-anal kinky fun with married daddy. I'm gay and not married 181 72 26 Chinese can't host please pm on tele @euilcus

I view going to wakes as a means of giving support to those grieving. To a smaller part, it is to pay respects to the dead - but this is based on the assumption that the spirit of the dead exists, is around, and is aware of what's going on. I may attend the wake of my enemies, just to rejoice on their death. (Partly joking) If the loved one of a friend had passed away, I would attend the wake to give support to the friend. If someone I like had passed away, but his children do not know who I am, I would probably go just to pay my respects to him, and for closure as well. However, I may not go if it hurts my feeling too much. As they say, grief is the price we pay for love.

Anyone going swimming today at lunchtime? Hit me up if you want some company and fun, lol

The most intense orgasmic session I ever had! Farmer: @Slimfit90 Bull: me So, the other day farmer sent me a message on BW, asking if I liked to be edge. He claimed that his rating is always 9 or 10 according to other bulls. Me myself have never tried an edging session before, deep in me, I was itching to try it out for once. We arrange to meet at farmer's place one week after the initial chat, it was then I decided to preserve my cum for the session. Going through the week was hard for me. Being busy with other stuff helped to keep my mind off the arranged session. It was until the day, I was feeling a slight nervous about it. My heart would pound hard thinking about the meet. Added on that I never met farmer before, it is really adding to the nervous feeling I had. I do willingly took the risk to meet up with farmer for the experience. After all, you only live once. However, once I entered farmer's place, I can feel the gentleness and caring from farmer. We straight away got into business, I stripped naked and lay on the bed. Farmer was massaging me here and there to loosen me up a bit, and proceeded to caress my penis. As my nervous feeling has not subside, I was slow to get a hard on. After a short while of playing with my dick, it got hard. But I am a fast cummer, and he had to stop for a bit. Farmer then proceed to massage my anal sphincter which I responded better. Once in a while farmer would do some small talk, and it helped to calm my nerve down even more and I started to enjoy the sensation. Farmer then decided to insert his finger into my anus and gave my prostate a gentle massage. I indeed enjoyed the feeling and gave out a little bit of moaning. Farmer also uses his other hand to caress and rub my nipple which I enjoyed it a lot. By now, my penis was fully erected without him touching it. The anal edge and the caressing went on for a little bit, while I was enjoying the moment, farmer suddenly used his beard stubble to rub against my neck, and few other areas like my armpit. All this happened while his finger is still busy with massaging my prostate. Out of a sudden, my groin area started to shake uncontrollably. Farmer said that was the reaction that he was looking for. He started to caress other parts of my body even more, like my arm, inner thigh. By now, the shaking has propogated to my whole body. It was not just the shaking, but I can feel all the muscles in my body was contracting very hard. That was the starting point of the most intense and longest orgasmic feeling I had. My whole body was shaking involuntarily and the muscles would contract hard. The funny thing about this orgasmic feeling is, I can "sort of" control if I want the feeling to go on or to stop. Of course I would keep it going. By this time, farmer has removed his finger from my prostate. As he said, even without touching me anywhere, my whole body would still twitch and move involuntarily. Did I not mentioned that intense feeling was accompanied by my moaning and loud breathing? If it was not because we were in a flat, I would have moaned even louder. Once farmer saw I relaxed down a bit, he would caress another part of my body, and that sent another wave of the intense orgasmic feeling throughout my whole body. I feel that this went on and on and on, for quite a while. And while I was going through the intense sensation, my penis was rock hard without the urge to ejaculate. Farmer then decided to have some water. I had a chance to relax down a little. But when he was back, he started blowing me. And this triggered another wave of the intense sensation. I couldn't help but to moan, breath loudly, and to grab on to whatever parts of farmer within the reach of my hands and legs. At some points, I even hugged farmer very tight. Farmer then decided to stroke my penis for me to ejaculate to end the session before making me exhausted from the intense orgasmic session. It was the strongest shoot I ever experienced as far as I can remember. The whole of my torso and chest were wet with cum. And seeing my reaction to his edging, farmer also ejaculated onto my torso and chest. I totally lost the track of time, but farmer told me the whole session was one hour. Thinking back about this, farmer has a real understanding of a man's body, the reaction, and what to do to please it. It was really an unforgettable experience.

For me, I prefer my bottoms to be physically smaller than me. I'm 180/95 so that means someone more petite and shorter. Build-wsie, he doesn't have to have 6 packs or be overly buffed. I like firm bodies and nothing that jiggles too much, especially the glutes when fucking, and I prefer guys who are tanned. Face-wise, as long as the complexion is relatively clear, and his teeth are clean, I am good. Having said that, it is just a general list of preferences. In reality, sexual chemistry and good attitude is more important to have a pleasurable time for both parties.

Discreet local chn 34 180 82 here

Boyish Bi Keen to bj for similar age or older.

May I know how can I contact him? Is he a massage therapist with HE or just pure FCK? Thankss

I'm going to Kuching for 1 week, can anyone suggest which massage center got male masseur? If from china it will be best. Can share some experience about that?

can pm me your Tele ID ?

Yes please 😀

Anyway mojo going back to indonesia next month for good. Anyone can find him before he leaves