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So what if you have HIV? Do your best to spread the word and make people understand the perils of hooking up online and at saunas. It is not the end of the world but it is very serious indeed and you'll forever have a big hole in your wallet along with a multitude of other problems. Live your life to the fullest, but eschew making hiv seem like a small issue and that it isn't a big deal. Instead, save potential victims from getting hiv from their rash and ignorant actions.

Been to their church twice...friends pulled me in...the overly warm reception is expected, but I didn't expect them to haunt me until months after. Relentless smses, calls and even the cell group leader talked to me personally to get me to join them for good. As a free-thinker I find it ludicrous that the youths couldn't see through the whole showmanship of Kong Hee. Throw in good music, pretty young people, rock concert-like environment, a hip culture and dangerously persuasive speeches and you gain devotees.

A few of my friends wanted to go but didn't because they were afraid to get spotted. I feel the same too.

I don't know what's CHC's stand on gays and lesbians, but I'm sure if it boosts church membership and tithes, he would welcome us with open arms.

Nothing wrong with being attracted to good-looking or hot guys...It's human nature. But you cannot think you deserve someone much better looking than yourself: that is wrong. This gay community needs to wake up and stop hankering after someone much better. They rarely accept the advances of someone their standard and only expect someone much better in their delusion that they are as good. Not being superficial here...More of being fair. The few occasions that I'd went to irc when I say I seek "similar", deluded people can tell me "I don't know what's your similar", thinking that I am in the wrong not to be out to them. So, next time ask yourself: if you're a chub, are you ok with other chubs; likewise for other less-desired types. And if you want hunks/gd looking ppl/younger dudes to like you, ask yourself if you're ok with fatter/uglier/older dudes in the same "ratio". If you like guys 20 years younger, would you accept someone 20 yrs older?

Appalling behaviour...There are some who even claim to be Chinese, even after meeting up. Even if, according to Sacha, you are so called "mixed", isn't deception intended when you definitely look like Malay/Indian? Who cares whether you're mixed with another "completely different race" in name but which effectively looks the same or similar. Javanese or Malay or Melayayu(another type of race that looks Indian but refuse to be associated with them). How about Chinese claiming to be mixed because they have both Cantonese and Hokkien grandparents or something along that line? How would the Malays and Indians react when the person they are meeting is Malay/Indian but claimed to be Chinese?

9gag's my daily entertainment.

This thread is funny. As much as I know that no matter how ugly you are by society's standards, you'd still find someone who likes you, I do not believe that what you said can be true, unless that guy's not really fat but slightly chubby. I'd not met a single "chaser" yet and those who don't mind chubs actually only accept very slightly overweight guys. Just what I know, not saying you're wrong.

Troller...He's devastated enough...

It's impossible to turn a straight guy gay, but you can make him lust after you. His orientation won't change, but you can turn him on nonetheless if you're hot enough. That's what i know.

Thinking of starting a biz...

It can if you choose to take it further under the right circumstances.

The chatroom is boring and full of weird people. Not worth your time.