Guest Guest random Posted March 30, 2019 Report Share Posted March 30, 2019 Do you feel that most gays fit into some popular stereotypes? For those of you who have met many gays in real life or over the internet, do you find that most of them/us 1) behaves effeminately 2) very emotional 3) has the gay voice 4) prefers music and art over sports ...Are some of the examples.... of course there are exceptions to everything, but are those stereotypes more of a norm than exceptions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crispy96 Posted March 30, 2019 Report Share Posted March 30, 2019 which era are you living in? West93 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest random Posted March 30, 2019 Report Share Posted March 30, 2019 Sorry, i was born in the 1950s and just recently woke up from a 40 years coma, so.. I don’t know maybe the 60s-70s era? Sorry if I sound a bit outdated about today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lonelyglobe Posted March 30, 2019 Popular Post Report Share Posted March 30, 2019 Things have obviously change over the decades....just step into any gym and chances are half of them are gays, bi or curious one. In fact the more muscular one is, the higher chance of him being a gay and yes the trend seems to be towards so called manly gay....the only thing that didnt change is they are still as choosy as before.... mate69, Ahmad2003, fab and 3 others 3 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Masc btm Posted March 30, 2019 Report Share Posted March 30, 2019 2 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Things have obviously change over the decades....just step into any gym and chances are half of them are gays, bi or curious one. In fact the more muscular one is, the higher chance of him being a gay and yes the trend seems to be towards so called manly gay....the only thing that didnt change is they are still as choosy as before.... For a manly gay to be a bottom is double the crime and to like to be gang raped is considered cheaper than a whore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest 7 Posted March 30, 2019 Report Share Posted March 30, 2019 4 hours ago, Guest Guest random said: 1) behaves effeminately 2) very emotional 3) has the gay voice 4) prefers music and art over sports Those are outdated stereotypes for bottoms (and flexes who are more bottom-oriented). But don't forget that tops (and flexes who are more top-oriented) happen to be gays as well. They do not usually conform to those stereotypes, and if they did, bottoms would probably not generally be attracted to them. And in a society like Singapore, where most gays don't want to be publicly out, discretion is very important ~ regardless of top, bottom, or flex ~ so the vast majority of gays will not conform to those stereotypes at all, and if they do, many make efforts to hide their stereotypical inclinations as much as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest It is me again. Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 10 hours ago, Guest Guest random said: Do you feel that most gays fit into some popular stereotypes? For those of you who have met many gays in real life or over the internet, do you find that most of them/us 1) behaves effeminately (effemination is a gene, unless he the person deliberately acted it out and you will know) 2) very emotional (depends on what trigger it, we all a human and can get emtional, our PM cries all the time, during election, in parliament and making a statements) 3) has the gay voice (I have heard a kindergarden boys talking with gay voice, may be we are all trained to talk like that since young. Can a woman voice change into a man voice someday, was there such a therapy to change our voice into something acceptable and was it even a choice?) 4) prefers music and art over sports (It is a form of relaxation. May I act gardening, cooking, dancing, acting, shopping into your list. Gay people cannot have all these to pass their time from stressful unacceptable and rejected existence? Is there any law to forbid gay people from doing things they felt safe and meditative? It helps to mellow on the emotional part (as mentioned in your item (2) above). ...Are some of the examples.... Of course there are more. They are generally lonesome, filial to their parents, easily bullied, meticulous, soft-hearted, helpful and scared of snakes, spider and cockroach. I know I do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letsrelaxpp Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 One more, they like to look at guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 5) demands instant sex/session/fun, extremely self-entitled 6) many will post comments online where they can remain anonymous but have no guts to speak up in person 7) thinks the world must spin around them alone 8) loud quarrelsome, loves cliques. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest I am not a Guess! Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 2 hours ago, Guest guest said: 5) demands instant sex/session/fun, extremely self-entitled 6) many will post comments online where they can remain anonymous but have no guts to speak up in person 7) thinks the world must spin around them alone 8) loud quarrelsome, loves cliques. I fully agreed and they always hide themselve in anonymity as guest in this forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueblueblue Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 Nowadays the stereotype is muscular, wear singlet and very short shorts. Even go restaurant dinner die die must wear tight fitting t shirt or singlet. barocco80, mate69 and Dean70 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 Sometime got to understand theses hunks spent so much time, money and discipline to get that body shape, so ya must show off la....sports singlet are still ok but not those with sexy deep cut v neck or deep cut sides as well as once famous singlets with a ms universe sling over, say u not gay also no one believe ha.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anderson Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 (edited) Most gays are narcissistic though in different degree. Edited March 31, 2019 by Anderson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest vneck Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 is wearing v neck still a stereotype n labeled as gay? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest shake head Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 Wait till you meet the new generation. Most of them behave like princess, rude, inconsiderate, drama, no respect for other people time, no responsibility, spend money like crazy, must go tour every month. And most importantly, they think they are godsend (10) when they are are 5 and below. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, Guest vneck said: is wearing v neck still a stereotype n labeled as gay? lol Normal v neck is fine but those v until almost can see belly button is not. Edited March 31, 2019 by lonelyglobe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Little Bear Uncle Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 8 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Sometime got to understand theses hunks spent so much time, money and discipline to get that body shape, so ya must show off la....sports singlet are still ok but not those with sexy deep cut v neck or deep cut sides as well as once famous singlets with a ms universe sling over, say u not gay also no one believe ha.... If you got it, flaunt it. If you have the muscles, the muscles are more attractive than the clothes if you expose enough to show. If I wear nice sports wear, I'll wear them fitting well to show off that I don't have big tummy like most uncles. If I wear sloppy singlet( $1 from pasar malam), my biceps, chest and flat tummy will contrast with those fat uncles wearing the same sloppy singlet. I'm sloppily dressed yet not sloppy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tumo Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 Many of them are into things that straight guys are not into, for example, underwear. And I know for a fact that many gay guys prefer white colour underwear over other colours... not sure why though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted March 31, 2019 Report Share Posted March 31, 2019 7 hours ago, Guest Tumo said: Many of them are into things that straight guys are not into, for example, underwear. And I know for a fact that many gay guys prefer white colour underwear over other colours... not sure why though. Because white color attracts fellow gay men and says you like attention and are horny and up for sex/fun. At the pool, those who wear white skimpy trunks are usually gay men who are cruising for sex. I know, coz I have hooked up with them before long time ago, and that was what they told me. fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 17 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Sometime got to understand theses hunks spent so much time, money and discipline to get that body shape, so ya must show off la....sports singlet are still ok but not those with sexy deep cut v neck or deep cut sides as well as once famous singlets with a ms universe sling over, say u not gay also no one believe ha.... Spending time and discipline and some money to get into optimum body shape is one of the best things we gays can do. Then, it really doesn't matter how cheap or old our clothes are, as long as they are somewhat tight and show a nice profile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 23 hours ago, blueblueblue said: Nowadays the stereotype is muscular, wear singlet and very short shorts. Even go restaurant dinner die die must wear tight fitting t shirt or singlet. LOL.... tis is cnfrm gay style. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Keithy Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 Difficult to tell now as the line between straight men and gay men is getting blurry. A straight looking man with his Wife has given me the “look” and followed me into the toilet ....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 1 hour ago, Guest Keithy said: Difficult to tell now as the line between straight men and gay men is getting blurry. A straight looking man with his Wife has given me the “look” and followed me into the toilet ....... Thats call a bi.....50% gay & 50% straight 7 hours ago, mate69 said: Because white color attracts fellow gay men and says you like attention and are horny and up for sex/fun. At the pool, those who wear white skimpy trunks are usually gay men who are cruising for sex. I know, coz I have hooked up with them before long time ago, and that was what they told me. Not only white, even those very flowery design, bright red, yellow, pink etc are are all very gay color...straight normally will be in more conservative color like black, blue, grey and they dont wear skimpy ones, mostly will be in boring tights or square cut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomcat Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 there should be a stereotype for each species of gay, because there are more than one type of gay - am i right? there is the femme gay, the butch gay, the nerdy gay, the non sexual gay, the spiritual gay, closet gay etc... like skittles, they are same same but different haha Quote 🌑🌒🌓🌔🌕🌖🌗🌘🌑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 On 3/30/2019 at 11:21 PM, lonelyglobe said: Things have obviously change over the decades....just step into any gym and chances are half of them are gays, bi or curious one. In fact the more muscular one is, the higher chance of him being a gay and yes the trend seems to be towards so called manly gay....the only thing that didnt change is they are still as choosy as before.... Gays are very choose in the past as well? I always thought only newer generation will be like this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tumo Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 15 hours ago, mate69 said: Because white color attracts fellow gay men and says you like attention and are horny and up for sex/fun. At the pool, those who wear white skimpy trunks are usually gay men who are cruising for sex. I know, coz I have hooked up with them before long time ago, and that was what they told me. But I'm sure there are straight men who wear white underwear and white trunks, right? Isn't white (especially for underwear) just another colour? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tumo Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 7 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Thats call a bi.....50% gay & 50% straight Not only white, even those very flowery design, bright red, yellow, pink etc are are all very gay color...straight normally will be in more conservative color like black, blue, grey and they dont wear skimpy ones, mostly will be in boring tights or square cut. No ah I know of some straight friends who are married who wear plain white briefs and not other colours. I don't think that's wrong, and it doesn't make them gay. Haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 6 minutes ago, Guest Tumo said: But I'm sure there are straight men who wear white underwear and white trunks, right? Isn't white (especially for underwear) just another colour? No, white is NOT *just* another colour. Lol. Esp when it comes to skimpy speedos/trunks haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tumo Posted April 1, 2019 Report Share Posted April 1, 2019 41 minutes ago, mate69 said: No, white is NOT *just* another colour. Lol. Esp when it comes to skimpy speedos/trunks haha Haha skimpy speedos/trunks I can understand, but underwear leh? Isn't white quite a common colour? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted April 10, 2019 Report Share Posted April 10, 2019 On 4/1/2019 at 11:26 PM, Guest Tumo said: Haha skimpy speedos/trunks I can understand, but underwear leh? Isn't white quite a common colour? Ya white is common evn though hard to maintain (for undies) , nt ref to swimwear anyway stereotypes: esp fussing n dying for songkrAn evn once in a lifetime as though whether having it or is an issue Hope i wont do a sonkran in my life time next will b all abt gym and posing, goin after good looks/bod etc is so critical Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueblueblue Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 i recall meeting this mid to late 40s gay wearing rainbow cap, new urban male singlet, super tight and short shorts and boots walking ard orchard. looked a bit sad actually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letsrelaxpp Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 Look at it from another angle, wouldnt it be "sadder" if he do it in his 50s or 60s? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 16 minutes ago, blueblueblue said: i recall meeting this mid to late 40s gay wearing rainbow cap, new urban male singlet, super tight and short shorts and boots walking ard orchard. looked a bit sad actually. He prolly bought his um singlet 2 decades ago. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 9 minutes ago, Letsrelaxpp said: Look at it from another angle, wouldnt it be "sadder" if he do it in his 50s or 60s? Actually 50s is the new 30s. Think chuando. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guiest Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 Gay marriage is superfluos for some people in the gay circles. Marriage quickly becomes a stereotype. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letsrelaxpp Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 1 hour ago, fab said: Actually 50s is the new 30s. Think chuando. Yes but provided one maintain a good figure, take care of his skin etc.... CD is probably like one in a thousand that u can find, most u found on the street are ahem... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan 28 Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 (edited) Gays are usually not realistic with relationships , always looking for the perfect partner , perfect young look and figure , they do not bet an eye lid on matured or older guys , unlike straight people Edited April 11, 2019 by Dan 28 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 10 minutes ago, Dan 28 said: Gays are usually not realistic with relationships , always looking for the perfect partner , perfect young look and figure , they do not bet an eye lid on matured or older guys , unlike straight people You like old men? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Try and see Posted April 12, 2019 Report Share Posted April 12, 2019 Actually, we gay guys should try to have fun with these "gay stereotypes" and learn to laugh at ourselves instead of getting all triggered and offended. (Although I do notice that among the LGHT Youtubers that I have seen, it's usually the lesbians who get very easily upset and offended over lesbian stereotypes, many of them being true anyway.) Anyway, I recently came across two gay stereotypes on social media: 1) Gay men tend to walk very fast. There's even a joke that goes something like: "Hey, straight men, look behind you: There's a gay man trying to overtake and walk ahead of you." 2) Gay men like iced coffee. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted April 14, 2019 Report Share Posted April 14, 2019 (edited) A lot of gay men like to fuss over fashion, trends, styles and the like...even when they have no money to speak of, to keep up with the joneses. for what? sibeh uuuugh. just dress comfortable will do. who the hell cares about fashion when u cant afford it to begin with and have to borrow money from others just to feed this stupid fantasy obsession of theirs. a lot of them should get their life priorities right, instead of getting oh so excited about useless things like fashion trends, styles, hair, latest looks, music, entertainment etc Edited April 14, 2019 by mate69 Dean70 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted April 14, 2019 Report Share Posted April 14, 2019 I wouldnt say is useless things, everyone want to look the best but the best need not be branded stuff and the most important thing is to spent within your limit. mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 14, 2019 Report Share Posted April 14, 2019 6 hours ago, mate69 said: A lot of gay men like to fuss over fashion, trends, styles and the like...even when they have no money to speak of, to keep up with the joneses. for what? sibeh uuuugh. just dress comfortable will do. who the hell cares about fashion when u cant afford it to begin with and have to borrow money from others just to feed this stupid fantasy obsession of theirs. a lot of them should get their life priorities right, instead of getting oh so excited about useless things like fashion trends, styles, hair, latest looks, music, entertainment etc I also think all that is useless. The one thing that is NOT useless is is the body. Whatever we do to improve the body pays off generously, and makes these useless things like fashion, trends, styles superfluous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Punch Posted April 15, 2019 Report Share Posted April 15, 2019 Definitely...gays can't punch like straight guys (either no strength or not accurate). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 15, 2019 Report Share Posted April 15, 2019 4 hours ago, Guest Punch said: Definitely...gays can't punch like straight guys (either no strength or not accurate). WHAT??? In today's world where gays come out of the closet, an increasing number of athletes reveal that they are gay. Some very tough guys... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Punch Posted April 15, 2019 Report Share Posted April 15, 2019 2 hours ago, Steve5380 said: WHAT??? In today's world where gays come out of the closet, an increasing number of athletes reveal that they are gay. Some very tough guys... Well, most of the gays I met (even the muscular ones) can't even punch like an average fit straight guy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 16, 2019 Report Share Posted April 16, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, Guest Punch said: Well, most of the gays I met (even the muscular ones) can't even punch like an average fit straight guy... I know of a gay who is an old man in his 70s, still strong but not aggressive, who years ago started to practice Aikido, a mild martial art that has also spiritual elements. He does this with a group of younger guys who are all very kind and civil. The teacher is a very kind, sweet person who cannot kill a flea. Yet this gay has learned to punch, to cut (with sword practice), to break arms, wrists, legs, necks, dislocate shoulders, he jumps, falls, rolls, etc... all things that most average fit straight guys, of any age, never do. The punch of the average fit straight guy is often very... naive! A punch that you see in movies. A gay with minimum expertise easily gets out of the way of such punch, extends it to get the puncher out of balance, and throws him down and pins him in several ways. Being gay does not seem to make any difference . Edited April 16, 2019 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted April 16, 2019 Report Share Posted April 16, 2019 On 3/30/2019 at 10:17 PM, Guest Guest random said: Do you feel that most gays fit into some popular stereotypes? For those of you who have met many gays in real life or over the internet, do you find that most of them/us 1) behaves effeminately 2) very emotional 3) has the gay voice 4) prefers music and art over sports ...Are some of the examples.... of course there are exceptions to everything, but are those stereotypes more of a norm than exceptions? 1) Being a sissy is nt being gay 2) voice is gene’s issue or could be due to operation/surg, some health issues at vocal cords unless u r saying he has no adam apple anyone of u dare to admit u dont hve it?? many lady boys have it what is wrong w 4) 2) is just abt anger/emo mgt from the way, some commented and fighting non-stop on a same topic, it clearly shows emo mgt issues cannot see the link too: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan 28 Posted April 16, 2019 Report Share Posted April 16, 2019 1 hour ago, Steve5380 said: I know of a gay who is an old man in his 70s, still strong but not aggressive, who years ago started to practice Aikido, a mild martial art that has also spiritual elements. He does this with a group of younger guys who are all very kind and civil. The teacher is a very kind, sweet person who cannot kill a flea. Yet this gay has learned to punch, to cut (with sword practice), to break arms, wrists, legs, necks, dislocate shoulders, he jumps, falls, rolls, etc... all things that most average fit straight guys, of any age, never do. The punch of the average fit straight guy is often very... naive! A punch that you see in movies. A gay with minimum expertise easily gets out of the way of such punch, extends it to get the puncher out of balance, and throws him down and pins him in several ways. Being gay does not seem to make any difference . You are talking about one out of a million lah ....I also know of 80 years old grandma doing gymnastics....anyone above 80 around you doing it ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted April 16, 2019 Report Share Posted April 16, 2019 from this Video u will be MORE self-aware Gays tend to complain others T also dont like Gays I m ok with all but dont like Cliches, eg Gays tend to songkran (at least once a lifetime)- i never T tend to imitate a male (eg sit with legs opened, but nt the Gays in vid) And for sure Gays like to go to gym (be it to up their muscles) Closer to 11mins: good analysis, when btms and btms are in a pub/cruising venue and the "gin" part, i dont like it when Gays 打量 me, it is rude to "stare" (they must have tot i didnt noticed, pretending not to notice, doesnt mean i didnt noitice) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 16, 2019 Report Share Posted April 16, 2019 51 minutes ago, Dan 28 said: You are talking about one out of a million lah ....I also know of 80 years old grandma doing gymnastics....anyone above 80 around you doing it ? Dan, this was long time ago. Even in 1950 centenarians were practically non existent. Today in Japan, one out of 3,000 people is a centenarian. Today more than 41% of Americans live to 80 y.o. And a man who will live to 80 should be able to do what I described in his 70s. And "gay" should not make any difference. Some Aikido masters keep practicing it beyond their 80s. If they can do it, why not someone in their 70s? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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