uncannyxmen Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 what don't last so long? you mean you cum fast or you get tired fast? it's two different thing. Quote Lesson Learned.... Trust your instinct :thumb: ...and p.s. never use 'comic sans' as font its damn gross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jey Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 Feeling sore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uncannyxmen Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 ow ok... use a lot of lube usually you need to put it like every 5 to 10 min. Quote Lesson Learned.... Trust your instinct :thumb: ...and p.s. never use 'comic sans' as font its damn gross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jey Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 Oh icic. Are you experience? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 Any bottom tips to share?? I find myself not being able to last so long in sex. Prolly about 30-45mins. How do bottoms actually manage to last over hours??Hello Newbie, Before asking such general questions, please use the SEARCH function on the top right corner of the page. Maturebtm@sk 1 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leo yok loo Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 No need to ask. Just practise more ha ha. After u get enter by 100 guys, u will become an expert. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 Not onlh expert..no more sore..no feeling.n like wolf cave oredi.hahahahaah Maturebtm@sk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted December 5, 2014 Report Share Posted December 5, 2014 just relax. listen to what the top wants. once relax, the initial pain will be forgotten fast n you will want more frm the top. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousB Posted May 7, 2015 Report Share Posted May 7, 2015 definitely squeeze according to his fucking rhythm...yummy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anddomtake Posted May 7, 2015 Report Share Posted May 7, 2015 usually, i like to be in control, so i'll make sure i'll be riding on top of him, squeezing the ass a little at a regular intervals. Just hearing him moan and knowing that I am in full control just gives me such a rush. PhallusKnight 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted May 7, 2015 Report Share Posted May 7, 2015 (edited) it depends on both. whoever wants to be in charge will do what one or both enjoys. if the top wants it i will do it, if he wants to take care, i will listen to him Edited May 7, 2015 by mydontay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johny Ng Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 As mention on title, I have been wondering how btm learn to enjoy getting penetrate by top since you will feel like need to take dump when the top in and out his tool. Is there way to learn to enjoy the sensation of getting penetrate? Other then using dildo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 Of cause it's the feeling is so much different! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Durian Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 2 hours ago, Johny Ng said: As mention on title, I have been wondering how btm learn to enjoy getting penetrate by top since you will feel like need to take dump when the top in and out his tool. Is there way to learn to enjoy the sensation of getting penetrate? Other then using dildo. Is an acquired taste, can't be learned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a44 Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 need to touch/hit your g spot to feel sensation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armitage Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 tried with a dildo before and it really feels like shitting lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoBoyyy Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 try to relax yourself as fully as possible. it helps a lot if you're sufficiently horny just before getting fucked - you really gotta want that cock in your hole. if you're tense your ass muscles clench which gives you the sensation of wanting to shit. of course it also helps to make sure you've already shat and cleaned your hole out beforehand cuz finding shit on the condom when your top pulls out to change positions or smth is a turnoff for most (not to mention the smell ugh) GuestK 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 (edited) Either u r born with it or u r not. Certain things can't be trained. Edited November 14, 2016 by fab Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkuser Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 1 hour ago, JoBoyyy said: try to relax yourself as fully as possible. it helps a lot if you're sufficiently horny just before getting fucked - you really gotta want that cock in your hole. if you're tense your ass muscles clench which gives you the sensation of wanting to shit. of course it also helps to make sure you've already shat and cleaned your hole out beforehand cuz finding shit on the condom when your top pulls out to change positions or smth is a turnoff for most (not to mention the smell ugh) agreed. Being horny and really, really wanting it is one of the keys. The relaxation technique the other, really have to know how to relax that muscle. 1 hour ago, fab said: Either u r born with it or u r not. Certain things can't be trained. I don't agree with that. I used to not do it and not want it, but then for some reason changed perception and wanted to try to have it in me. That changed it fairly easily, see above. It's all in the mind, and if you can acquire the taste/desire for it, you should be good to go. The practical side, i.e. relaxation of the muscle to ease the act of entering, can sure be trained and gets better with practice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 if you really like the guy, you will let him top and feel super shiok, yes, i used to be a top but i am now a flexi to my boyfriend, we take turn fucking each other and the feeling is so great and awesome, i love my bf's cock deep inside me, pump me hard, i am his, and he is my grocksd 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 I never really enjoyed the sensation of being penetrated in the anus. But I love it when my bf penetrates me in missionary style while holding me tight and french kissing me passionately, and he would whisper softly that he loves me. For me this significantly alleviates the discomfort as I feel being loved and cared for, and what he does truly makes me feel like giving myself entirely to him. Gary Changg, mate69 and p2468 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 壯漢0號 Posted November 14, 2016 Report Share Posted November 14, 2016 1 hour ago, bkkandy said: agreed. Being horny and really, really wanting it is one of the keys. The relaxation technique the other, really have to know how to relax that muscle. I don't agree with that. I used to not do it and not want it, but then for some reason changed perception and wanted to try to have it in me. That changed it fairly easily, see above. It's all in the mind, and if you can acquire the taste/desire for it, you should be good to go. The practical side, i.e. relaxation of the muscle to ease the act of entering, can sure be trained and gets better with practice. Haha，he's talking about us slut bottoms. Like my fb said we are born with hidden cb inside our ass and sensitive nipples. Once we get deflowered, we get hooked on getting fucked and become slut bottoms. Really I asked so many versatiles and bottoms, we slut bottoms have something very sensitive like female senses but outside men body. grocksd 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p2468 Posted November 15, 2016 Report Share Posted November 15, 2016 9 hours ago, Guest Guest said: I never really enjoyed the sensation of being penetrated in the anus. But I love it when my bf penetrates me in missionary style while holding me tight and french kissing me passionately, and he would whisper softly that he loves me. For me this significantly alleviates the discomfort as I feel being loved and cared for, and what he does truly makes me feel like giving myself entirely to him. Me too enjoyed in missionary style. Feel his breath, his chest, his pump. Shiok ah.!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killerwhale Posted November 15, 2016 Report Share Posted November 15, 2016 start with butt plugs make sure your butt hole remembers the feeling of having something other than poop inside and to stretch it out let your brain be used to the feeling then proceed to upgrade from butt plug to dildo now start fcuking yourself slowly, again to let your butt muscles and brain get used to fcuking motion slowly up the fcuking speed finally, get a real man (or legal-aged boy) to fcuk you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johny Ng Posted November 15, 2016 Report Share Posted November 15, 2016 o.o In summary, you have to be really, really horny in which you desire the deeks poke you and having bf poke you will make you ease of pain if done right. Thanks for the info and tips guy. bkkuser 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted November 15, 2016 Report Share Posted November 15, 2016 You know what helps. This is a list, strike out those that doesnt apply for yourself. 1) Foreplay (be it kissing, licking all over, massage etc) done to you 2) Him sucking your dick, nipples, the feel of tingling sensations all over your body 3) Fingering, Rimming 4) Him lying down and you sitting slowly onto his dick 5) Poppers and Lubrications 6) Practice makes perfect mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
platoniclover Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 Hi all, I heard some people say bottom role is easier compared to a top. What things bottoms can do to make tops happier? Please share your experiences here! Marcoknw 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kungfu Ass Posted March 13, 2017 Report Share Posted March 13, 2017 16 minutes ago, platoniclover said: What things bottoms can do to make tops happier? Learn how to use your ass to grip a pen. Then change pen to candle. Next learn to increase the gripping strength. Loose and tighten. Loose and tighten. If you practise well, your top will shiok to 9 clouds. And you can conquer all tops. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jonlittle Posted March 14, 2017 Report Share Posted March 14, 2017 I always use a numbing lube to make things less painful for myself. And I usually ask to be fingered first; it helps to relax. But even so, I tend to be too nervous about the impending pain. So, I need a lot of verbal assurance. Then I can try my best to feel the muscles relaxing slowly and eventually enough for his tip to fully enter. And that's just the beginning to even more pain. Sigh. Every time feels like first time for me. Even I find myself a hassle. Lol. It feels freaking awesome when I can fully relax and enjoy it though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 where to get such numbing lube? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jonlittle Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 (edited) 4 hours ago, mydontay said: where to get such numbing lube? I got mine from Amazon. Well, PM me to know more. Edited March 15, 2017 by jonlittle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heliumduck Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 On 14/03/2017 at 11:57 AM, jonlittle said: I always use a numbing lube to make things less painful for myself. And I usually ask to be fingered first; it helps to relax. But even so, I tend to be too nervous about the impending pain. So, I need a lot of verbal assurance. Then I can try my best to feel the muscles relaxing slowly and eventually enough for his tip to fully enter. And that's just the beginning to even more pain. Sigh. Every time feels like first time for me. Even I find myself a hassle. Lol. It feels freaking awesome when I can fully relax and enjoy it though. 17 minutes ago, jonlittle said: I got mine from Amazon. Well, PM me to know more. so you use your hands to spread it all over.... then wont the anaesthetic be all over the bodies of both/all parties Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jonlittle Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 1 minute ago, heliumduck said: so you use your hands to spread it all over.... then wont the anaesthetic be all over the bodies of both/all parties I use it as per its purpose and avoid applying it excessively. So, I don't spread it all over per se. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heliumduck Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 Just now, jonlittle said: I use it as per its purpose and avoid applying it excessively. So, I don't spread it all over per se. understand, i guess normal lube is mixed in ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jonlittle Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 (edited) 4 minutes ago, heliumduck said: understand, i guess normal lube is mixed in ? Not really. I don't like being oiled all over. I feel it is too much a hassle to wash off completely. I'm okay with using the numbing lube for a 'small' area. xD Edited March 15, 2017 by jonlittle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heliumduck Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 5 minutes ago, jonlittle said: Not really. I don't like being oiled all over. I feel it is too much a hassle to wash off completely. I'm okay with using the numbing lube for a 'small' area. xD LOL self applied huh? i assume the top is using a condom hence wil lnot feel the effects of it ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ahhh pain ahhh Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 On 3/14/2017 at 11:57 AM, jonlittle said: I always use a numbing lube to make things less painful for myself. And I usually ask to be fingered first; it helps to relax. But even so, I tend to be too nervous about the impending pain. So, I need a lot of verbal assurance. Then I can try my best to feel the muscles relaxing slowly and eventually enough for his tip to fully enter. And that's just the beginning to even more pain. Sigh. Every time feels like first time for me. Even I find myself a hassle. Lol. It feels freaking awesome when I can fully relax and enjoy it though. 90% gays are bottom, why some are so desperate that even pain also want to be bottom. The pain of the starting penetration cannot be avoided and it's part of the mating ritual. It's to let the top feel that you are willing to suffer for him that makes him so excited and perform harder to satisfy you later. The painful noises you make is a mating signal to stimulate the top. That's why gay porn always must show this. If you don't enjoy that pain, then why force yourself to be a bottom? Brapantybtm 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted March 15, 2017 Report Share Posted March 15, 2017 Each dick is different. The top`s skill in anal pentration matters too. Size is, to me, not a major issue as I have been an anglophile. In Singlish, I go for AMDK.. To get used to the first fuck, lubricate well and start from the riding position..The bottom has more control and can control the rate of insertion. Of course there is some uneasiness initially but do overcome the fear and pain by lots of kissing and sucking. Look at that top`s face and treat him as if he is your bf/husband...The pleasure will sink in quickly... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dareexhibition_sub Posted March 16, 2017 Report Share Posted March 16, 2017 Read some books related to how to bottoming. If you trained your asshole well enough, you can get it to suck in any cock. Try with your finger and combining it with deep breathing and relaxing your asshole. Eventually, finger will enter with ease without you pushing in. Now, I need cocks to transform me into a cock hungry slut slave boy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest togepipi Posted March 16, 2017 Report Share Posted March 16, 2017 19 hours ago, abang said: Each dick is different. The top`s skill in anal pentration matters too. Size is, to me, not a major issue as I have been an anglophile. In Singlish, I go for AMDK.. To get used to the first fuck, lubricate well and start from the riding position..The bottom has more control and can control the rate of insertion. Of course there is some uneasiness initially but do overcome the fear and pain by lots of kissing and sucking. Look at that top`s face and treat him as if he is your bf/husband...The pleasure will sink in quickly... Yeah focusing on pleasure towards top always put off some of the pain for me. Funny that top usually asks me to ride as it is easier (so he says) but missionary is the one that works perfectly. XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydontay Posted March 16, 2017 Report Share Posted March 16, 2017 I agreed that the the top plays a very important part in making the sex enjoyable for both. The top should not rush into it. Yes, the inital few thrust would be painful for the bottom. So some foreplay, lubricants do help to relax the bottom and reduce the pain. If the bottom is feeling the pain, the top should withdraw and try again, inserting slowly ... till the bottom finds the pain managable, then the top can insert fully. Allow the bottom to "get used" to the top's tool before the thrusting in and out. After a while, the bottom will not feel the pain anymore, and the top can start the action. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guess phang Posted March 17, 2017 Report Share Posted March 17, 2017 Met a china man from northern china. In his kampong, if you are rich can buy either girl or boy (about 15 above) into family. They become your property including sex. When a boy was bought, it was no secret he will be used in bed as well. Some tikopek would go near the house to hear the boy cried of pain at first night! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest togepipi Posted March 17, 2017 Report Share Posted March 17, 2017 For everyone's info. The technical know-how on bottoming is in this thread instead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Terence71 Posted April 29, 2017 Report Share Posted April 29, 2017 Its my instinct to squeeze the cock to want to feel the whole cock.. My top likes it as I can see him shiok and feel the cock grows and inch deeper... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hips don't lie Posted April 29, 2017 Report Share Posted April 29, 2017 I think if you can gyrate the hips and ass like this when you ride the top, sure make volcano want to explode, but stop and puase then repeat the build up , sure can die one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted April 29, 2017 Report Share Posted April 29, 2017 22 minutes ago, Guest hips don't lie said: I think if you can gyrate the hips and ass like this when you ride the top, sure make volcano want to explode, but stop and puase then repeat the build up , sure can die one Hahahahaha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 17 hours ago, Guest hips don't lie said: I think if you can gyrate the hips and ass like this when you ride the top, sure make volcano want to explode, but stop and puase then repeat the build up , sure can die one With short cocks.. you do know this will not work well and in some cases hurt a top as his cock pop out as you gyrate too far off and it miss the hole trying to go back in and bends a cock hehee... Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Topper Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 As a top, I love nothing more than to rim my bottom for a long time and then finger play and nipple play until he is so relaxed and horny, he wants me to ram him through the wall! Yum! Respect and relax your bottom through hot foreplay, then you can have your wicked way! Who's in! Stormfire and dannyG 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kampung Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 On 3/17/2017 at 9:44 AM, Guest Guess phang said: Met a china man from northern china. In his kampong, if you are rich can buy either girl or boy (about 15 above) into family. They become your property including sex. When a boy was bought, it was no secret he will be used in bed as well. Some tikopek would go near the house to hear the boy cried of pain at first night! Which china kampung is that ? Should visit there to buy some adult man too. rockyhorry1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyG Posted May 6, 2017 Report Share Posted May 6, 2017 On Sunday, April 30, 2017 at 2:08 PM, Guest Topper said: As a top, I love nothing more than to rim my bottom for a long time and then finger play and nipple play until he is so relaxed and horny, he wants me to ram him through the wall! Yum! Respect and relax your bottom through hot foreplay, then you can have your wicked way! Who's in! That's exactly right! The longer and sexier the foreplay, the longer I can last It's true for me that when I get so horny due to great foreplay, even the first time cock introduction is pain free, even with huge cock. But i like to control it. And after that the top can really do anythong with me Stormfire 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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