Is it rude to shoot without informing first?

[lx]

I like it when being asked 'Do you want me to cum now or you want to blow more?' 😁

[LeanMature]

On 4/1/2026 at 4:27 PM, Brian37 said:

If fucking the mouth n u never say cumming then rude. He might not want swallow it. If fucking ass then if u say u cuming he might like it cause mean his ass hole is nice to make u cum. And if the taker say cumming mean u doing a good job n make him enjoy. 

 

From experience, those who like to mouth fuck usually want to cum inside mouth.  It's anti-climax to push the head out and cum outside.

[Hole4use]

It's So Kinky To Receive Cum In The Butthole Without Even Knowing That The Top Had Already Released. However , No Tops That I Met Are Able To Do This 

Edited April 4 by Hole4use

[pthc]

On 2/22/2026 at 1:11 PM, Aikuchi said:

Is it rude to say to the bottom ...

"Where do u want it?" Before I cum. 

Not at all. As a bottom, I would prefer if the top can communicate with me where he should cum (prefer on my tummy).

[YourHubby]

why should i inform if you are mine?

[Funchub]

Sometimes they will grab your head tight and shove there dicks in ur mouth before they cum......problem is when they are already choking me with their dick for a while..then start to cum..will be overwelming and will leave me gaging....best if they give a slight breather and push it in just before they cum inside, can enjoy their cum down my throat.. .

[LeL9]

i will normally asked the btm, "Do u want me to tell u before I shoot?" 

 

[Hole4use]

On 6/30/2026 at 1:16 AM, LeL9 said:

i will normally asked the btm, "Do u want me to tell u before I shoot?" 

 

 

I Would Prefer Not To Know At All...I Dun Want To Be Let Known At All...Just Release It Into My Butthole As When Ready To Cum...

Edited July 1 by Hole4use

[Jimlim]

I seriously can read that my partner is going to cum, during mouth fuck. I m really fine with them holding my head n cum into my mouth. 

[doncoin]

 

[HC-B]

As a top, I’ve loaded my cum raw and bareback inside many a bottom’s ass without asking or telling them and almost all of them loved and enjoyed it — except 1 chonky persistent prick who got pissed. 🙄 I only topped him just to get rid of him anyway. 😏

 

As a bottom, I’ve been loaded with cum deep in my ass raw and bareback by tops who ask or tell they were cumming, or don’t even bother at all. And I’m totally fine with all them. Some were polite and courteous, a few were grunting beasts, and yet others were just stealthy quiet bastards. I’ve only ever told — no, instructed — 1 top to cum inside me raw because he fucked me so well I was in gay bottom bliss and I did not want him to waste his sperm on my skin or the floor.

[EastSgDad]

For me... all depends 😉 

 

Once, many years ago, after the session with me, my ex (then-bf) walked to the toilet to wash up, with a dripping stream from his butt... leaving behind a trail 🤣

 

Flashback ... Hahaha. So funny yet lovely

Edited July 4 by EastSgDad

[Home_SG]

There is always tell tales sign when he is cumming. Top can feel the btm getting tighter and btm can feel the even expanded dick of the top say for penetration. 

[Guest More!]

If possible like to know beforehand what you like when cumming during the suck so I can make it more hot.

[quanjishou]

On 6/23/2026 at 5:16 PM, Funchub said:

Sometimes they will grab your head tight and shove there dicks in ur mouth before they cum......problem is when they are already choking me with their dick for a while..then start to cum..will be overwelming and will leave me gaging....best if they give a slight breather and push it in just before they cum inside, can enjoy their cum down my throat.. .

i would prefer my top not to cum right inside my throat, cos i wanna them cum in my mouth so that i can taste their juice before swallowing it.

[LeanMature]

39 minutes ago, quanjishou said:

i would prefer my top not to cum right inside my throat, cos i wanna them cum in my mouth so that i can taste their juice before swallowing it.

 

This is the difference between a blow job and a mouth fuck.  Want to taste juice, do a blow job.  A mouth fuck will end up being gagged and shooting straight down your throat.  No waste.

[ChronicBator]

I like being ridden by the bottom, when he jerks off and cums on my stomach, it's so damn hot. So I usually try to cum after the bottom

[joshTWjosh]

On 7/5/2026 at 2:46 PM, quanjishou said:

i would prefer my top not to cum right inside my throat, cos i wanna them cum in my mouth so that i can taste their juice before swallowing it.

But that’s totally diff thing. Cum in the mouth vs throat fk

[quanjishou]

1 hour ago, joshTWjosh said:

But that’s totally diff thing. Cum in the mouth vs throat fk

I know is diff thing, i am just stating my preference. even it is throat fk the top can pull out to the tongue before shooting isnt it to satisfied the btm to taste his cum?

[Anon_cock]

my therapist say announcing is for porn... real life people just shoot.

[loveseeker]

No one like to give the btm a good facial? So when walk out the room, everyone can see him with cums on face and hair. I am bad boy 😜

[cutejack]

9 hours ago, Anon_cock said:

my therapist say announcing is for porn... real life people just shoot.

U trying to tell that be natural? Lol

[Hole4use]

On 7/4/2026 at 7:48 AM, HC-B said:

As a top, I’ve loaded my cum raw and bareback inside many a bottom’s ass without asking or telling them and almost all of them loved and enjoyed it — except 1 chonky persistent prick who got pissed. 🙄 I only topped him just to get rid of him anyway. 😏

 

As a bottom, I’ve been loaded with cum deep in my ass raw and bareback by tops who ask or tell they were cumming, or don’t even bother at all. And I’m totally fine with all them. Some were polite and courteous, a few were grunting beasts, and yet others were just stealthy quiet bastards. I’ve only ever told — no, instructed — 1 top to cum inside me raw because he fucked me so well I was in gay bottom bliss and I did not want him to waste his sperm on my skin or the floor.

 

I Prefer Not To Be Told When The Top Cums Too...Just Shoot Once Ready...

[onlylonely]

Communication is a two-way process 

[davidlei]

As a bottom, when I spread my legs or bend over for a top, that is permission to use my hole as you wish. My whole purpose in life is to make sure my top is satisfied. So, it is totally up to him, fill my hole with cum, cover my ass cheeks with cum, on my face or down my throat. Don't ask my permission, just do it. I love an aggressive, dominant top.

[Guest You shall not pass?]

7 minutes ago, davidlei said:

As a bottom, when I spread my legs or bend over for a top, that is permission to use my hole as you wish. My whole purpose in life is to make sure my top is satisfied. So, it is totally up to him, fill my hole with cum, cover my ass cheeks with cum, on my face or down my throat. Don't ask my permission, just do it. I love an aggressive, dominant top.

So his STD fluid is permitted to enter your body?

[XgymX]

tbh if there is rapport with each other, you will know when he is about to cum through the moan actions or rhythm. 

[mate69]

19 hours ago, davidlei said:

As a bottom, when I spread my legs or bend over for a top, that is permission to use my hole as you wish. My whole purpose in life is to make sure my top is satisfied. So, it is totally up to him, fill my hole with cum, cover my ass cheeks with cum, on my face or down my throat. Don't ask my permission, just do it. I love an aggressive, dominant top.

 

Exactly my type of bottom

[EastSgDad]

For me, I tend to inform first.

Hmm... perhaps, I should just ...

Hahaha 🤣

[Creampielover]

Wouldn’t it also depend on knowing the guy? 
 

I would know when my regulars are about to cum through, then I will either tighten my hole or increase speed the way he likes. 

 

If it’s a new guy, I may not know when he is going to unless he informed beforehand. I would love to be able to know when he is cumming so that I, as the bottom, can adjust to give him (and myself) the most amount of pleasure.

[EastSgDad]

Verdict: inform or not, it's between individuals ... comfortable level

 

Stay safe,  everyone. 

Take care. 

[fattycatty162]

Yes coz,

he might want to shoot together

💦💦💦

[mate69]

There was one guy who requested me to NOT inform him when I pee into his ass or mouth AFTER I fxked or mouthfxked him

[davidlei]

1 hour ago, mate69 said:

There was one guy who requested me to NOT inform him when I pee into his ass or mouth AFTER I fxked or mouthfxked him

That is so hot! Wish there were more guys like you. 

Only met one guy, that was into doing this.

[CKBE-Fanz88]

It's basic courtesy to "advise" before releasing, it can be quite gross and shocking for the receiver, especially if he is deep-throating or breathing. Will usually murmur I'm near or I'm cumming when the sensation is near and also, squeeze his arm repeatedly as a signal, if he missed out my advice. Usually, you may see those wary ones retreating back and take your rod out of their mouth and changed to just licking the hard and jerking u off fast and furious. Those who are prepared to take it full load and pull your bum towards their head tight and suck furiously and rhythmically fast. Even after you finished cumming, the bobbing and sucking doesn't stop, literally squeezing out your last drop of cum down their throat. I do cum a lot and my cum is thick, so it's always good to warn before hand la, less the choking and unhappiness. 

[cutejack]

On 9/14/2026 at 12:34 PM, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

It's basic courtesy to "advise" before releasing, it can be quite gross and shocking for the receiver, especially if he is deep-throating or breathing. Will usually murmur I'm near or I'm cumming when the sensation is near and also, squeeze his arm repeatedly as a signal, if he missed out my advice. Usually, you may see those wary ones retreating back and take your rod out of their mouth and changed to just licking the hard and jerking u off fast and furious. Those who are prepared to take it full load and pull your bum towards their head tight and suck furiously and rhythmically fast. Even after you finished cumming, the bobbing and sucking doesn't stop, literally squeezing out your last drop of cum down their throat. I do cum a lot and my cum is thick, so it's always good to warn before hand la, less the choking and unhappiness. 

Unless they are with an empty stomach n hungry ya. Complete ur sentence please.

[davidlei]

I guess another downside to not letting your submissive know, is if he had his eyes open when you do a facial. It has happened to me, they don't aim for the eyes, but sometimes it ends up there. Cum in my eyes are the worst. 

[LeanMature]

On 9/14/2026 at 12:34 PM, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

It's basic courtesy to "advise" before releasing, it can be quite gross and shocking for the receiver, especially if he is deep-throating or breathing. Will usually murmur I'm near or I'm cumming when the sensation is near and also, squeeze his arm repeatedly as a signal, if he missed out my advice. Usually, you may see those wary ones retreating back and take your rod out of their mouth and changed to just licking the hard and jerking u off fast and furious. Those who are prepared to take it full load and pull your bum towards their head tight and suck furiously and rhythmically fast. Even after you finished cumming, the bobbing and sucking doesn't stop, literally squeezing out your last drop of cum down their throat. I do cum a lot and my cum is thick, so it's always good to warn before hand la, less the choking and unhappiness. 

 

Right, the issue is not when, but where.  If agree to cum on face, then don't cum inside mouth. 

[Thatguy642]

With blowjobs especially yes, if I cum without warning it would probably choke the other person 😂

[Pubico1]

39 minutes ago, Thatguy642 said:

With blowjobs especially yes, if I cum without warning it would probably choke the other person 😂

Wow that must mean you are capable of ejaculating forceful projectiles of manly nectar when fully aroused max 🔥 

[CKBE-Fanz88]

On 9/17/2026 at 6:09 PM, LeanMature said:

 

Right, the issue is not when, but where.  If agree to cum on face, then don't cum inside mouth. 

Yea, mutual respect da best!

[CKBE-Fanz88]

On 9/19/2026 at 1:39 PM, Pubico1 said:

Wow that must mean you are capable of ejaculating forceful projectiles of manly nectar when fully aroused max 🔥 

Hmmm, not forceful jets la. I just cum alot and its thick, hence the reason.

[Veloster]

37 minutes ago, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

Yea, mutual respect da best!

I always asked first of cos most bi guys don't take cum in their mouths so they almost all enjoy cumming on their bods and that's cool with me too...cummin tgt on each other's bods is hot!

[CKBE-Fanz88]

3 hours ago, Veloster said:

I always asked first of cos most bi guys don't take cum in their mouths so they almost all enjoy cumming on their bods and that's cool with me too...cummin tgt on each other's bods is hot!

That's hot and sexy!

Used to have a FWB who likes to play with cum on his body after we (threesome) ejaculate. He will rub the cum like massage oil on his abs before we all go shower together.

[Veloster]

1 hour ago, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

That's hot and sexy!

Used to have a FWB who likes to play with cum on his body after we (threesome) ejaculate. He will rub the cum like massage oil on his abs before we all go shower together.

Awesome 👍 😎 

[NaughtyHardDick]

Mmmmm I love shooting deep in the ass.

i love bottom that willingly to accept all my hot cum inside.

It make my breeding kink happy.

 

want to spread my seed more in more bottom ass deep and nice.

[mate69]

6 hours ago, NaughtyHardDick said:

Mmmmm I love shooting deep in the ass.

i love bottom that willingly to accept all my hot cum inside.

It make my breeding kink happy.

 

want to spread my seed more in more bottom ass deep and nice.

 

Exactly. Same here for me.

It's always how it ends for me as a top.

And I have NEVER been asked not to. It's a given that this is how it will end

[davidlei]

1 hour ago, mate69 said:

 

Exactly. Same here for me.

It's always how it ends for me as a top.

And I have NEVER been asked not to. It's a given that this is how it will end

Exactly the way it should be. A total submissive bottom was born to be bred.

[davidlei]

I always thought that was the ultimate submission, to let the TOP know that you are not really a male, but down deep you are only a girl trying to get pregnant. 

[Guest Guest]

On 9/22/2026 at 11:51 PM, davidlei said:

I always thought that was the ultimate submission, to let the TOP know that you are not really a male, but down deep you are only a girl trying to get pregnant. 

 

Yes...