Hole4use Posted February 21 Posted February 21 3 minutes ago, juicyass said: Likewise, if you want to cum, u cum. If not, it's either keep going with full speed or don't. As a bottom myself, I use myself as cumdump by tops. Also, I don't bother to cum, as long as the tops cum then I am satisfied as they are. I have a few tops asking why i don't like to cum during sex, I just said I don't. Me Too ..I Do Not Need To Cum At All...Same Here, The Tops Used My Butthole To Cum, And I Will Be As Happy And Satisfied As They Are...I Do Not Need Them To Care If Do I Need To Either .. Quote
Anon_cock Posted February 21 Posted February 21 1 hour ago, juicyass said: Likewise, if you want to cum, u cum. If not, it's either keep going with full speed or don't. As a bottom myself, I use myself as cumdump by tops. Also, I don't bother to cum, as long as the tops cum then I am satisfied as they are. I have a few tops asking why i don't like to cum during sex, I just said I don't. yum, cumdump bottom. juicyass 1 Quote
DonT Posted February 22 Posted February 22 (edited) Depends on the situation. If we are just jerking, some signal is good so both can cum together. For oral or anal, usually he will moan more and some will say “i cumming” and thrust even faster. Edited February 22 by DonT Quote
DonT Posted February 22 Posted February 22 On 7/8/2021 at 9:34 PM, Neh Neh said: What is the point to turn on the tap and dont drink the water to quesh the thirst? Nice one😋 Quote
Aikuchi Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Is it rude to say to the bottom ... "Where do u want it?" Before I cum. Quote
Balestier Posted February 22 Posted February 22 On 2/21/2026 at 9:05 AM, Naveyafluz said: I preferred to be informed when he is cumming, so that i can admire his face expression. I like to moan before I cum ... Quote
Aikuchi Posted February 22 Posted February 22 On 2/21/2026 at 9:05 AM, Naveyafluz said: I preferred to be informed when he is cumming, so that i can admire his face expression. Haha. Actually i also like to see the bottom face when they cum. Kimochi 1 Quote
juicyass Posted February 22 Posted February 22 2 hours ago, Aikuchi said: Is it rude to say to the bottom ... "Where do u want it?" Before I cum. It is not rude to ask. Some bottom prefer to cum on stomach or inside the anus or inside the mouth. If the top didn't ask, I would tell them to cum inside my ass (or in condom) for convenience in cleaning up. Quote
Carrot Cake Man Posted February 25 Posted February 25 sometimes if the person is kuai lan i will cum on their clothes or hair HAHAH .. Quote
Why? Posted February 25 Posted February 25 On 7/8/2021 at 9:34 PM, Neh Neh said: What is the point to turn on the tap and dont drink the water to quesh the thirst? Not everyone who turn on the tap is thirsty or need a drink. Quote
GregZy Posted February 26 Posted February 26 To some btm, while they are feeling high, sudden cumming by the top kind of disrupt their enjoyment. So they would prefer the top to gives some signal so they can be ready to receive their protein shake. My personal experience is my breath will get heavier and starts to groan louder. Somehow the btm gets it and start to tell me where to shoot. milodinosaur91 1 Quote
Anon_cock Posted February 26 Posted February 26 my friend say cum shot / announcing cum only happens in porn cause they want the money shot. real life, people just breed inside no need announce. Quote
Giggidy Posted February 26 Posted February 26 As a bottom, I would prefer if the top gives me a warning when he's gonna cum. That way I could either squeeze my ass tighter if I want it in me or tell him I want in on my face/mouth. That way I won't lose my momentum/rhythm he I'm riding him or if he's fucking me. Quote
milodinosaur91 Posted February 26 Posted February 26 think better to inform although i think we will kind of know it by the expression closing to cum hahha QinWei 1 Quote
fun72 Posted February 28 Posted February 28 ejaculation is spiral reflect action, not every time can control / known b4 cum. Quote
thinking35 Posted February 28 Posted February 28 On 2/22/2026 at 1:11 PM, Aikuchi said: Is it rude to say to the bottom ... "Where do u want it?" Before I cum. I don't think so... I do ask. But am not sure if bottom feels it's rude 😛 Quote
Anon_cock Posted February 28 Posted February 28 "oh, i want u to shoot inside me" "breed me please" "cum inside please" "oh fuck yeah i want ur cum inside" mate69 and HC-B 2 Quote
QinWei Posted February 28 Posted February 28 On 2/26/2026 at 2:00 PM, milodinosaur91 said: think better to inform although i think we will kind of know it by the expression closing to cum hahha this dinosaur knows it SO well!!!! Although some sauna is really dark and no1 bothers to repair the light /change the bulb this qn is Do u think a Top should inform before shooting, i read some of the replies it didnt ans to this qn at all! of cos there are bottoms by no-control,e.g. i just penetrate them a few secs and they cummed so suddenly, i take such as a compliment! milodinosaur91 1 Quote there are more than one option avail in googling me https://x.com/gnnbccb?s=21&t=WxsKRj9hm-pT2wyoEmonPQ
Aikuchi Posted February 28 Posted February 28 2 hours ago, QinWei said: this dinosaur knows it SO well!!!! Although some sauna is really dark and no1 bothers to repair the light /change the bulb this qn is Do u think a Top should inform before shooting, i read some of the replies it didnt ans to this qn at all! of cos there are bottoms by no-control,e.g. i just penetrate them a few secs and they cummed so suddenly, i take such as a compliment! As a top, I think should inform. But there are many ways to inform. Haha! milodinosaur91 1 Quote
QinWei Posted February 28 Posted February 28 48 minutes ago, Aikuchi said: As a top, I think should inform. But there are many ways to inform. Haha! i whispered softly i dont like the shouting type (i think that is already came!!!) Quote there are more than one option avail in googling me https://x.com/gnnbccb?s=21&t=WxsKRj9hm-pT2wyoEmonPQ
Veloster Posted February 28 Posted February 28 3 hours ago, Aikuchi said: As a top, I think should inform. But there are many ways to inform. Haha! You bet 🤣 Quote
Veloster Posted February 28 Posted February 28 On 2/22/2026 at 1:11 PM, Aikuchi said: Is it rude to say to the bottom ... "Where do u want it?" Before I cum. Not sure but generally it's good to ask esp if he is new ..as a bi top esp with chicks or guys I generally asked them..becos some just love to see the cum shoot all over their boobs or bods ...and if it's inside them all the more one should ask them! Again it all depends on each other's preference ... Quote
aftereightme Posted February 28 Posted February 28 (edited) It depends on situation and mood. Sometimes, I refused to tell the other parties as I enjoy to see their eyes wide open with shock and surprise when I cum into their mouth by thrusting their heads forcefully to suck my cock shaft inwards and outwards hungrily ... with all my sperms dripping out like porn stars 🌟 Edited February 28 by aftereightme Quote
fenghou Posted February 28 Posted February 28 So for Geneo showers, it requires card access. or for non-tenants, you’d need to download the app and do registration. Doesn’t this make it not conducive at all since everything can be tracked? I was there exploring and yea Quote
Hole4use Posted March 2 Posted March 2 I Feel That In My Own Opinion As A Pure Btm, It's Erotic That The Top Dun Tell Me At All When They Using My Butthole To Cum In mate69 1 Quote
cutejack Posted March 3 Posted March 3 Rude to the kind btms and not rude to the notti, rude n arrogant kind. Depends for me. I ever get scolded for not informing. At the same time ever get hold tight of my ass cheek when cumming without informing. Usually I'm considerate n pull out one then regret coz kinky to shoot in ley. Quote
Balestier Posted March 3 Posted March 3 (edited) Once I pissed a bttm off for shooting 3 weeks load on his body. Sorry dude. U know who u are. Edited March 3 by Balestier Quote
LeanMature Posted March 7 Posted March 7 First thing first, ask "where do you want me to cum?". This should be mutual, then there is no need to inform before cumming. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post
Aikuchi Posted March 8 Posted March 8 20 hours ago, LeanMature said: First thing first, ask "where do you want me to cum?". This should be mutual, then there is no need to inform before cumming. Understandably. But there have been times, beforehand 'anywhere i want', then toward the end, 'on my body, on my body!'. So it possibly could change midway through. So I guessing it could be flexible as well, depending on person, situation and level of kink for some. DonT 1 Quote
Hole4use Posted March 8 Posted March 8 To Me On My Personal View Or Opinion, It Will Truly Be Kinky And Erotic That The Top Just Dun Tell Me When They Cums And Unload It Into My Butthole. Regardless If My Butthole Is Ready To Receive The Load...However, I Have Not Met Such Kind Of Top Yet .. Quote
Anon_cock Posted March 8 Posted March 8 22 hours ago, LeanMature said: First thing first, ask "where do you want me to cum?". This should be mutual, then there is no need to inform before cumming. i think this works if the bottom don't want the top to cum inside for safety / risk issue. like sometimes im on prep fucking with a top, we go from condom to removing condom to bareback to him wanting to pull out, to me wanting him to breed inside me, to him needed to jerk off to cum, to him wanting to shoot on my body, to me asking him to shoot directly on my cock head so i can use his cum to rub my cock! to him suddenly decided to shoot on the bed. wtf... Quote
Magicerife Posted March 9 Posted March 9 A simple "i'm close" goes a long way. It’s the sexual equivalent of saying "Watch your head" before someone walks through a low door. asiandaddy 1 Quote ---Dignity is a facade we wear to hide our ignorance.
LeanMature Posted March 25 Posted March 25 On 3/8/2026 at 1:14 PM, Aikuchi said: Understandably. But there have been times, beforehand 'anywhere i want', then toward the end, 'on my body, on my body!'. So it possibly could change midway through. So I guessing it could be flexible as well, depending on person, situation and level of kink for some. Some are not too happy about changing midway through, as they are very insistent to cum inside mouth only. It's best to stick to what was agreed before the session. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post
Aikuchi Posted March 25 Posted March 25 3 minutes ago, LeanMature said: Some are not too happy about changing midway through, as they are very insistent to cum inside mouth only. It's best to stick to what was agreed before the session. So best to check in a few times, haha! Sometimes, they do surprise me by wanting to swallow suddenly when im about to cum! Quote
LDMBRce Posted March 25 Posted March 25 As a pure btm i like top be natural form.. if he like to just offload inside, i think that is signalling me that he love the hole and the experience he want to enjoy to the last moment.. Hole4use 1 Quote
sissybaby Posted March 25 Posted March 25 it depends.. for me it feels kinda naughty if the top cums in me without telling me and i can actually feel it after Quote
mate69 Posted March 25 Posted March 25 5 hours ago, sissybaby said: it depends.. for me it feels kinda naughty if the top cums in me without telling me and i can actually feel it after Yes Quote
AppleEater Posted March 26 Posted March 26 As a top, I like my bottom to cum together with me, as the anal contractions from him cumming gives pressure and hence more pleasure while i am cumming inside him. cutejack 1 Quote
LDMBRce Posted March 26 Posted March 26 2 hours ago, AppleEater said: As a top, I like my bottom to cum together with me, as the anal contractions from him cumming gives pressure and hence more pleasure while i am cumming inside him. if the btm still can continue to let you rub inside, of course that anal contractions feels like nice fitting toothless mouth sux hungrily for the jiz.. best if both can continue few more rounds Quote
Hole4use Posted March 27 Posted March 27 On 3/25/2026 at 10:22 PM, LDMBRce said: As a pure btm i like top be natural form.. if he like to just offload inside, i think that is signalling me that he love the hole and the experience he want to enjoy to the last moment.. Agree To Your Point Absolutely...As A Pure Btm...Letting The Top Liking My Hole Is The Priority... LDMBRce 1 Quote
Hole4use Posted March 27 Posted March 27 On 3/25/2026 at 10:25 PM, sissybaby said: it depends.. for me it feels kinda naughty if the top cums in me without telling me and i can actually feel it after Agree To Your Point..I Would Prefer The Top Not To Tell At All When He Cums....As Mentioned Earlier On This Same Thread Quote
Why? Posted March 28 Posted March 28 (edited) Fortunately, they are not real bullets. Otherwise, the term "RUDE" seems overly forgiving. Edited March 28 by Why? Quote
Kenjikenji Posted March 29 Posted March 29 On 2/22/2026 at 1:11 PM, Aikuchi said: Is it rude to say to the bottom ... "Where do u want it?" Before I cum. I don’t think so . I think it is nice cos u do want to see what the btm prefer . Quote
Jellapho Posted March 29 Posted March 29 Interesting question.... sometimes it just cannot be controlled, so to cum without informing is understandable. passinthenight 1 Quote
Hole4use Posted March 30 Posted March 30 19 hours ago, Jellapho said: Interesting question.... sometimes it just cannot be controlled, so to cum without informing is understandable. Some How Or Rather, There Are No Tops That I Had Come Across That I Won't Know Abt It When They Cum... Quote
Brian37 Posted April 1 Posted April 1 If fucking the mouth n u never say cumming then rude. He might not want swallow it. If fucking ass then if u say u cuming he might like it cause mean his ass hole is nice to make u cum. And if the taker say cumming mean u doing a good job n make him enjoy. Quote
LeL9 Posted April 1 Posted April 1 as a top i will say "cuming"...... I wont have time to ask where you want me to shoot. By default usually I am inside his ass when I am about to cum. I think it is a form courtesy and respect to the btm by informing before shoot. dboy84 1 Quote
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