Guest whitesocks Posted March 19, 2022 Share Posted March 19, 2022 Hey guys, seeking some advice on how do you usually approach someone 🥺 I saw him in the gym a couple times, the first time we looked at each other and boy I felt all the butterflies in my stomach when he smiled with me. Been finding myself going to the same gym hoping to catch a sight of him but I don’t know how to say hi and not creep him out. I don’t even know if he’s into guys or not and I also want to play it cool 😂 Any advice is appreciated 🙏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 19, 2022 Share Posted March 19, 2022 On 3/19/2022 at 10:28 PM, Guest whitesocks said: Hey guys, seeking some advice on how do you usually approach someone 🥺 I saw him in the gym a couple times, the first time we looked at each other and boy I felt all the butterflies in my stomach when he smiled with me. Been finding myself going to the same gym hoping to catch a sight of him but I don’t know how to say hi and not creep him out. I don’t even know if he’s into guys or not and I also want to play it cool 😂 Any advice is appreciated 🙏 Just ask something neutral for the start. "Oh , are you staying around this area. We seem to visit the gym at the same time.... Seen you some times here already. " after some days ask to go for dinner... depending on the time you visit gyms. If he doesn't want to join, then you just need to do the talking while in the gym or changing room. Whether he is into guys or not, won't be easy to find out. But you just need to touch the subject by asking personal things. However, take it slow. If he likes your company he might invite you for more. Should he go clubbing or something with girls then probably he's not gay. He might even bluntly talk about his gf. Then you know . Don't take a smile from someone as an invitation or hint. There are friendly straight guys who smile also. Smiling back to you must not be any signal. Luv2bnaked29 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest HIM thinking Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/19/2022 at 10:28 PM, Guest whitesocks said: Hey guys, seeking some advice on how do you usually approach someone 🥺 I saw him in the gym a couple times, the first time we looked at each other and boy I felt all the butterflies in my stomach when he smiled with me. Any advice is appreciated 🙏 I suspect, he was thinking along the same line too. Just like you, he was shy. worried you might reject him. What advice would you give him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chunchun Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 Maybe just a casual Hi when passing each other in the gym or lockers? Or use a locker near his, maybe that will make it easier to say Hi or start a conversation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest whitesocks Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/20/2022 at 1:32 PM, Guest HIM thinking said: I suspect, he was thinking along the same line too. Just like you, he was shy. worried you might reject him. What advice would you give him? This is a good one. So we finally exchanged a few lines today when passing the weights. Nothing more than a few nods or smiles but that totally made my day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hello Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/20/2022 at 8:28 PM, Guest whitesocks said: This is a good one. So we finally exchanged a few lines today when passing the weights. Nothing more than a few nods or smiles but that totally made my day. Sounds like good news. Hope to see progression. Keep trying until he is fully won over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted March 20, 2022 Share Posted March 20, 2022 I had shared a similar experience recently but mine was that he approached me in the locker room. Well, I saw him again this weekend and we said hi to each other when passing by each other, but that was it. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cock hunter Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/21/2022 at 1:11 AM, doncoin said: I had shared a similar experience recently but mine was that he approached me in the locker room. Well, I saw him again this weekend and we said hi to each other when passing by each other, but that was it. That was what? just it? We thought you have a bod that a million gays would kill for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/21/2022 at 1:11 AM, doncoin said: I had shared a similar experience recently but mine was that he approached me in the locker room. Well, I saw him again this weekend and we said hi to each other when passing by each other, but that was it. Probably, he is just friendly and not a gay hater. You might not be his type or he is attached, married or got bf. but this thread not about you but whitesocks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/20/2022 at 9:06 PM, Guest cock hunter said: That was what? just it? We thought you have a bod that a million gays would kill for. Having "a bod that a million gays would kill for" doesn't mean anything. I workout to keep myself in shape and to look good in a tiny swimsuit on the beach. It is not for people to kill themselves over. Many things in life may be out of our control, but our bodies are definitely something we can manage. I enjoy the flirting, but it doesn't mean we have to fuck each other. On 3/20/2022 at 10:35 PM, singalion said: Probably, he is just friendly and not a gay hater. You might not be his type or he is attached, married or got bf. but this thread not about you but whitesocks... You're right it is about whitesocks. So the way to approach a crush at the gym is to say hello, flirt, make conversation and see where it goes. Sometimes after getting to know someone a little better, you realised that you are incompatible, or this is as far as you would like to know that person. mate69, chunchun and imbitchy 3 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/19/2022 at 10:28 PM, Guest whitesocks said: Hey guys, seeking some advice on how do you usually approach someone 🥺 I saw him in the gym a couple times, the first time we looked at each other and boy I felt all the butterflies in my stomach when he smiled with me. Been finding myself going to the same gym hoping to catch a sight of him but I don’t know how to say hi and not creep him out. I don’t even know if he’s into guys or not and I also want to play it cool 😂 Any advice is appreciated 🙏 Try this movement at the gym . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erwi Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/21/2022 at 10:49 PM, Guest Guest said: Try this movement at the gym . I like this animation LOL but how to tell whether is t or b? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manehiso Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/21/2022 at 1:11 AM, doncoin said: I had shared a similar experience recently but mine was that he approached me in the locker room. Well, I saw him again this weekend and we said hi to each other when passing by each other, but that was it. So nothing any more from there? U wanna try again maybe? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted March 21, 2022 Share Posted March 21, 2022 On 3/21/2022 at 10:53 AM, manehiso said: So nothing any more from there? U wanna try again maybe? I think I will let things evolve naturally. It is fun to keep flirting. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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