Sending pictures to guys because it’s courtesy?

[greg01greg]

Why do most guys say this when they send pictures voluntarily without the other party asking and say it’s “basic courtesy” ? 

 

First of all, I did not ask for a picture, so why do some guys throw hissy fit when they don’t get pictures in return. 
Do you have to send pictures just because they sent one to you? 
 

I had a guy spewing and cursing at me just because I didn’t send a picture to him.

 

So whenever guys send me pictures without me asking for it, I would just say THANK YOU 

 

That’s being courteous yes? Or am I the rude one? 

 

Edited March 22, 2022 by greg01greg

[GachiMuchi]

On 3/22/2022 at 2:38 PM, greg01greg said:

Why do most guys say this when they send pictures voluntarily without the other party asking and say it’s “basic courtesy” ? 

 

First of all, I did not ask for a picture, so why do some guys throw hissy fit when they don’t get pictures in return. 
Do you have to send pictures just because they sent one to you? 
 

I had a guy spewing and cursing at me just because I didn’t send a picture to him.

 

So whenever guys send me pictures without me asking for it, I would just say THANK YOU 

 

That’s being courteous yes? Or am I the rude one? 

 

I don't think you are rude, either you don't know how to play the game or don't want to follow the "hidden" rules of the game, or just don't want to show yourself for whatever the reasons.

 

Those who sent their pics are :

1. very confident with their looks

2. trust you enough to give you their pics.

3. using fake pictures of someone else.

 

They thrown a fit because :

1. they felt "cheated" because you did not reciprocate.

2. they assumed that you give one in return but were disappointed.

3. you did not play the dating game according to the rules of engagement.

 

You did not give them a picture because:

1. you are not confident of your own looks?

2. you are worried that you might be rejected?

3. you do not want to play according to the rules of engagement?

4. you want to remain anonymous and unseen.

 

[greg01greg]

On 3/22/2022 at 2:53 PM, GachiMuchi said:

I don't think you are rude, either you don't know how to play the game or don't want to follow the "hidden" rules of the game, or just don't want to show yourself for whatever the reasons.

 

Those who sent their pics are :

1. very confident with their looks

2. trust you enough to give you their pics.

3. using fake pictures of someone else.

 

They thrown a fit because :

1. they felt "cheated" because you did not reciprocate.

2. they assumed that you give one in return but were disappointed.

3. you did not play the dating game according to the rules of engagement.

 

You did not give them a picture because:

1. you are not confident of your own looks?

2. you are worried that you might be rejected?

3. you do not want to play according to the rules of engagement?

4. you want to remain anonymous and unseen.

 

haha - I am confident with my looks but I don't have to send my pictures just because a guy decide to send one voluntarily. 

all your reasons are valid 

I just find it amusing why they get mad over pictures

 

when I use dating apps overseas, guys there would just reply me with thank you when I dont return the favour, they just move on

they dont curse and swear at me

 

[GachiMuchi]

On 3/22/2022 at 3:05 PM, greg01greg said:

haha - I am confident with my looks but I don't have to send my pictures just because a guy decide to send one voluntarily. 

all your reasons are valid 

I just find it amusing why they get mad over pictures

 

when I use dating apps overseas, guys there would just reply me with thank you when I dont return the favour, they just move on

they dont curse and swear at me

 

 

Those are called Dating App Rage!

You are not in Kansas but in Asia. People reacts differently here.

1. they hate not to be reciprocated.

2. they wasted their pic on someone who did not respond.

3. they had sperm for brains.

4. the Kiasu and Kiasi mentality

 

You are better off not to hook up with these types of people. Just block them.

 

[greg01greg]

On 3/22/2022 at 5:48 PM, GachiMuchi said:

 

Those are called Dating App Rage!

You are not in Kansas but in Asia. People reacts differently here.

1. they hate not to be reciprocated.

2. they wasted their pic on someone who did not respond.

3. they had sperm for brains.

4. the Kiasu and Kiasi mentality

 

You are better off not to hook up with these types of people. Just block them.

 

When you need to hook up, you need to hook up. 
I seek men.. not child throwing a tanty just because things don’t go their way. 
I still can remember this guy went off at me till the next day just because of a picture. Lol
And no.. I don’t block guys, I let make an arse of themselves.. 

 

I just don’t get the courtesy part.. just where in the fine print on dating apps, personal ads stated - “ITS BASIC COURTESY TO SEND PICTURES IF YOU RECEIVE ONE

ppl make up their own rules along the way. I get that. 

[And then]

On 3/22/2022 at 6:44 PM, greg01greg said:

When you need to hook up, you need to hook up. 
I seek men.. not child throwing a tanty just because things don’t go their way. 
I still can remember this guy went off at me till the next day just because of a picture. Lol
And no.. I don’t block guys, I let make an arse of themselves.. 

 

I just don’t get the courtesy part.. just where in the fine print on dating apps, personal ads stated - “ITS BASIC COURTESY TO SEND PICTURES IF YOU RECEIVE ONE

ppl make up their own rules along the way. I get that. 

unless it is an agreement to trade pics, your point is quite valid

you did not ask to be sent a picture

they have no right to expect a picture in return

some guys will send nudes, hoping maybe to also get nudes back in return

[greg01greg]

On 3/22/2022 at 9:56 PM, And then said:

unless it is an agreement to trade pics, your point is quite valid

you did not ask to be sent a picture

they have no right to expect a picture in return

some guys will send nudes, hoping maybe to also get nudes back in return

Yes! And that TRADE PICTURES thing. 
why do they use that term - “trade pictures” ???

yes yes.. these boys took it upon themselves sending out pictures followed by asking to trade 

and then they go - “but I sent you a picture already?” 
for no apparent reason I get accused of collecting pictures. 
 

if there’s anyone collecting pictures are those ones asking for pictures first before even they start chatting. 
don’t you hate that? 
 

hi.. 

Your face picture? 
 

ugh….

[yuquidam]

After his bout of tantrum I'll send his picture back to him and say,

 

"Sorry, I neither ask for your pic nor did I agree to trade pics. Here you go... your precious pic returned. Good bye!"

 

It's his own stupidity to send a pic without asking if the other party is willing or ready to exchange pics. 

 

 

Edited March 23, 2022 by yuquidam

[greg01greg]

On 3/22/2022 at 11:02 PM, yuquidam said:

After his bout of tantrum I'll send his picture back to him and say,

 

"Sorry, I neither ask for your pic nor did I agree to trade pics. Here you go... your previous pic returned. Good bye!"

 

It's his own stupidity to send a pic without asking if the other party is willing or ready to exchange pics. 

 

 

Have you encountered this before? 

[yuquidam]

On 3/22/2022 at 11:17 PM, greg01greg said:

Have you encountered this before? 

No. Never tried any dating apps before.

 

And no such encounter in this forum too. LOL 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[greg01greg]

On 3/22/2022 at 11:31 PM, yuquidam said:

No. Never tried any dating apps before.

 

And no such encounter in this forum too. LOL 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lucky you. I only have issues here in Singapore. 
I had none whenever I’m overseas. 
But I have to say I have encountered some white folks here adapted to the dating culture here. Some of them would ask for pictures in return 

[Guest Guest]

For a person who is perhaps into his 30s and has lived overeas for a long time, someone sure seems to have a lot of "growing up" issues acclimatizing into another country.

[greg01greg]

And please don’t say ITS COMMON SENSE sending pictures.  
 

 

[yuquidam]

On 3/23/2022 at 9:40 AM, greg01greg said:

And please don’t say ITS COMMON SENSE sending pictures.  
 

 

It's indeed not COMMON SENSE. 

 

In fact, it's total NON-SENSE. 

[Guest guest]

if looking for a date, it is common sense and basic courtesy

if looking for a hook up, then all rules out of window

[greg01greg]

On 3/24/2022 at 9:53 PM, Guest guest said:

if looking for a date, it is common sense and basic courtesy

if looking for a hook up, then all rules out of window

????? And how this making sense? Lol 

look - if anyone wants to send a picture voluntarily, do it by all means - just don’t expect one in return. 
 

in short don’t go twisting someone’s arm and force them to send a picture. 
 

there’s nothing in any rule book that youre supposed return the favour. 
 

it’s just that I keep getting this “it’s basic courtesy” that you send a picture as well when someone send one to you. 
what’s the “basic courtesy” all about? Who came up with this idea? 
 

 

Edited March 24, 2022 by greg01greg

[Guest guest yi]

sending picture to guys is to seek sexual gratification from compliments and enticement for sex

[Guest Guest]

 

On 3/25/2022 at 12:35 AM, greg01greg said:

????? And how this making sense? Lol 

look - if anyone wants to send a picture voluntarily, do it by all means - just don’t expect one in return. 
 

in short don’t go twisting someone’s arm and force them to send a picture. 
 

there’s nothing in any rule book that youre supposed return the favour. 
 

it’s just that I keep getting this “it’s basic courtesy” that you send a picture as well when someone send one to you. 
what’s the “basic courtesy” all about? Who came up with this idea? 

 

In some cultures, reciprocity is important: "when people gives you something, you give them back in return". That is just how some people are brought up, even if this request for reciprocity is misguided in some cases. In other places, nobody cares for reciprocity, selfishness guides their lives and they will just take and take and take everything without ever giving back, especially if whatever that was given was unasked in the first place. 

 

That's how the world works, dude: Different strokes for different folks. So it is "basic courtesy" not to make claims like those below: 

 

On 3/22/2022 at 11:43 PM, greg01greg said:

Lucky you. I only have issues here in Singapore. 
I had none whenever I’m overseas. 

 

Such statements would have been responded with cries of "racism" or whatever if any single race were to be associated to such a comment. And you only get away with the label of being "xenophobic" because Singaporeans have already been unfairly accused of being so. 

 

Grow up, mate. Just like how you find it annoying to see people expecting reciprocity in trading pictures, there are others here who also find it irritating with you and your inability to grow up and accept the fact that everyone is brought up differently and expect different things. If you cannot get yourself acclimatized to the environment after returning to Singapore for so long, why don't you just go back to where you came from, since you might feel more at home over there?    

 

I think you are only tolerated because the mod see a younger him in you. Otherwise, he'd have thrown you to the trolls for those feeding-session shows in the zoo, like how a particular "lion" get preyed upon everyday. 

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 11:33 AM, Guest Guest said:

 

 

In some cultures, reciprocity is important: "when people gives you something, you give them back in return". That is just how some people are brought up, even if this request for reciprocity is misguided in some cases. In other places, nobody cares for reciprocity, selfishness guides their lives and they will just take and take and take everything without ever giving back, especially if whatever that was given was unasked in the first place. 

 

That's how the world works, dude: Different strokes for different folks. So it is "basic courtesy" not to make claims like those below: 

 

 

Such statements would have been responded with cries of "racism" or whatever if any single race were to be associated to such a comment. And you only get away with the label of being "xenophobic" because Singaporeans have already been unfairly accused of being so. 

 

Grow up, mate. Just like how you find it annoying to see people expecting reciprocity in trading pictures, there are others here who also find it irritating with you and your inability to grow up and accept the fact that everyone is brought up differently and expect different things. If you cannot get yourself acclimatized to the environment after returning to Singapore for so long, why don't you just go back to where you came from, since you might feel more at home over there?    

 

I think you are only tolerated because the mod see a younger him in you. Otherwise, he'd have thrown you to the trolls for those feeding-session shows in the zoo, like how a particular "lion" get preyed upon everyday. 

ahhhh it's amazing how this topic turned into the "woke" channel

your version of asking me to grow up is to force myself to adapt to a hooking culture here.. 

so im asian.. I do like some asian food and some I dont

 

am I suppose to force myself to like those I dont just because I live here in singapore? 

so we are back to common sense...

 

a simple topic about having an option receiving pictures turned a whole new topic on racism.. 

"woke" much?

 

hey grow up.. stop being too sheltered.. whoever you are

Edited March 25, 2022 by greg01greg

[Guest Wtf]

On 3/25/2022 at 12:32 PM, greg01greg said:

ahhhh it's amazing how this topic turned into the "woke" channel

your version of asking me to grow up is to force myself to adapt to a hooking culture here.. 

so im asian.. I do like some asian food and some I dont

 

am I suppose to force myself to like those I dont just because I live here in singapore? 

so we are back to common sense...

 

a simple topic about having an option receiving pictures turned a whole new topic on racism.. 

"woke" much?

 

hey grow up.. stop being too sheltered.. whoever you are

The person telling you to grow up is not telling you that you have to like anyone, they’re telling you to grow up and accept that some people expect reciprocity and some don’t and that is part of the hook up culture on the app here. If you don’t like that culture, you can choose not to use the app, just like you can choose to create inane threads here where you are basically looking to pick fights with people.

 

Or you change how you use and engage on the app. The block button is there for a reason and you can also just choose to ignore people. The only thing you can control on the app is your own behaviour (just like in real life), so just suck it up and handle it in whichever you way is best for you. Why do you care if some anonymous person on an app accuses you of lacking basic courtesy? 

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 2:02 PM, Guest Wtf said:

The person telling you to grow up is not telling you that you have to like anyone, they’re telling you to grow up and accept that some people expect reciprocity and some don’t and that is part of the hook up culture on the app here. If you don’t like that culture, you can choose not to use the app, just like you can choose to create inane threads here where you are basically looking to pick fights with people.

 

Or you change how you use and engage on the app. The block button is there for a reason and you can also just choose to ignore people. The only thing you can control on the app is your own behaviour (just like in real life), so just suck it up and handle it in whichever you way is best for you. Why do you care if some anonymous person on an app accuses you of lacking basic courtesy? 

and here it goes when the subject is taken out of context... lol

 

 

[Guest Wtf]

On 3/25/2022 at 2:21 PM, greg01greg said:

and here it goes when the subject is taken out of context... lol

 

 

Did you not understand my post? 

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 2:31 PM, Guest Wtf said:

Did you not understand my post? 

no I do not because I dont think you understood what's the topic about. 

anyway I think whatever I say here you gonna refute that I'm here to pick fights which clearly im not.

have a pleasant day

[Guest Wtf]

On 3/25/2022 at 2:38 PM, greg01greg said:

no I do not because I dont think you understood what's the topic about. 

anyway I think whatever I say here you gonna refute that I'm here to pick fights which clearly im not.

have a pleasant day

Your topic is not that complicated to understand: you don’t like the way some guys act on hook-up/dating apps.
 

These apps are full of bad behaviour and I am sure we have all upset someone on them at one point, as well as been annoyed by the bad behaviour of someone else.
 

My point is that you can’t change those guys, so you have to look at how you want to handle it if it annoys me you so much: get off the app, block, or just ignore it and move on.  

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 2:55 PM, Guest Wtf said:

Your topic is not that complicated to understand: you don’t like the way some guys act on hook-up/dating apps.
 

These apps are full of bad behaviour and I am sure we have all upset someone on them at one point, as well as been annoyed by the bad behaviour of someone else.
 

My point is that you can’t change those guys, so you have to look at how you want to handle it if it annoys me you so much: get off the app, block, or just ignore it and move on.  

point taken - which I have ignored those screaming queens for demanding pictures

so I guess I hope this topic will reach to those guys sending pictures voluntarily to stop expecting the other party to return a favour. 

and stop accusing, calling ppl names

 

and please dont say "because this is singapore, it's how it is"

 

if the other party dont feel like sharing his pictures with you, politely say thank you

[tapsilog]

FOR ME, if you give pics unsolicited, i can or cannot give you back. i mean, i didnt ask for your pic and you gave at your own risk.
if we agree to trade, whether i like your pic or not, i need to give as agreed. 

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 3:28 PM, tapsilog said:

FOR ME, if you give pics unsolicited, i can or cannot give you back. i mean, i didnt ask for your pic and you gave at your own risk.
if we agree to trade, whether i like your pic or not, i need to give as agreed. 

exactly and I dont do this "trade" pictures thing

[Guest Guest]

 

 

On 3/25/2022 at 3:35 PM, greg01greg said:

exactly and I dont do this "trade" pictures thing

 

If that is the case, then why don't you just use your common sense and state it so in the app itself, instead of coming here to rant on how some part of the gay culture works in the entire country??? 

 

 

 

On 3/25/2022 at 12:32 PM, greg01greg said:

ahhhh it's amazing how this topic turned into the "woke" channel

your version of asking me to grow up is to force myself to adapt to a hooking culture here.. 

so im asian.. I do like some asian food and some I dont

 

am I suppose to force myself to like those I dont just because I live here in singapore? 

so we are back to common sense...

 

a simple topic about having an option receiving pictures turned a whole new topic on racism.. 

"woke" much?

 

hey grow up.. stop being too sheltered.. whoever you are

 

How is that in any way "forcing" you to do anything? If you are claiming that anyone is forcing you to "adapt to a hooking culture here", then aren't you also forcing others to refrain from sending you their pictures as well? How is this even a "woke" channel?

 

For someone who is having so much issues adapting to life in another country, you are in NO position to claim anyone else is "being too sheltered". So dude, the person who should be growing up is you. What's amazing is how you did not even realise this.

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 5:54 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

 

 

If that is the case, then why don't you just use your common sense and state it so in the app itself, instead of coming here to rant on how some part of the gay culture works in the entire country??? 

 

 

 

 

How is that in any way "forcing" you to do anything? If you are claiming that anyone is forcing you to "adapt to a hooking culture here", then aren't you also forcing others to refrain from sending you their pictures as well? How is this even a "woke" channel?

 

For someone who is having so much issues adapting to life in another country, you are in NO position to claim anyone else is "being too sheltered". So dude, the person who should be growing up is you. What's amazing is how you did not even realise this.

Jesus Christ lol you're just here having a bone to pick with me aren't you?

so would you like me to show you the content of my profile and list out all my dos and donts here? 

I can tell you.. it will make you read like a novel... 

for crying out loud.. youre here just to troll.. 

 

youre the one ankle biter who just can't stop with the questions after questions..

 

 

I bet youre one of those who send out pictures and go ape shit crazy when someone dont return you the favour.. 

rant away then.. 

Edited March 25, 2022 by greg01greg

[Guest Guest]

On 3/25/2022 at 6:11 PM, greg01greg said:

Jesus Christ lol you're just here having a bone to pick with me aren't you?

so would you like me to show you the content of my profile and list out all my dos and donts here? 

I can tell you.. it will make you read like a novel... 

for crying out loud.. youre here just to troll.. 

 

youre the one ankle biter who just can't stop with the questions after questions..

 

 

I bet youre one of those who send out pictures and go ape shit crazy when someone dont return you the favour.. 

rant away then.. 

 

 

If your app is listing your profile in the form of a "novel", you so obviously missed the entire plot by not making it known that you do not trade pictures in the very first line. And excuse me, you are the one with a bone to pick with the entire country here by coming here to rant and rant and rant all the time. That's not on me. That's on YOU. You are just so full of crap shit (yup, read: "yourself") that I don't even know how you survive in any of the previous countries. Do you really think you are better than everyone here?  

 

And yeah , here we go again, more of your baseless assumptions that I am "one of those who send out pictures". You really think you know everything, don't you? From the way the gay culture works on the apps, to the question whether I am "one of those who send out pictures". You think you know-it-all, don't you?  

 

For crying out loud.. you're here just to rant and be a crybaby! Seriously, grow up! 

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 6:46 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

 

If your app is listing your profile in the form of a "novel", you so obviously missed the entire plot by not making it known that you do not trade pictures in the very first line. And excuse me, you are the one with a bone to pick with the entire country here by coming here to rant and rant and rant all the time. That's not on me. That's on YOU. You are just so full of crap shit (yup, read: "yourself") that I don't even know how you survive in any of the previous countries. Do you really think you are better than everyone here?  

 

And yeah , here we go again, more of your baseless assumptions that I am "one of those who send out pictures". You really think you know everything, don't you? From the way the gay culture works on the apps, to the question whether I am "one of those who send out pictures". You think you know-it-all, don't you?  

 

For crying out loud.. you're here just to rant and be a crybaby! Seriously, grow up! 

lol. Seriously I don’t know why you’re that upset about this. 
Lighten up. This is just a discussion. 
take a moment and get your blood pressure checked. 

so let me call truce, how else you like me to respond to you without you going ape shit crazy on me? 
 

you want me to stop opening harmless discussion on this forum.. 

or 

if you see any topics created by me, I suggest you look away. 
don’t get yourself worked up for nothing. 
remember this is a forum site, and we are here to discuss anything. 
relax.. it’s not worth getting upset over

 

this is me the grown up me telling you calm yourself down. 
It’s Friday. It’s the weekend. Have a laugh. 

[Guest Guest]

On 3/25/2022 at 6:58 PM, greg01greg said:

lol. Seriously I don’t know why you’re that upset about this. 
Lighten up. This is just a discussion. 
take a moment and get your blood pressure checked. 

so let me call truce, how else you like me to respond to you without you going ape shit crazy on me? 
 

you want me to stop opening harmless discussion on this forum.. 

or 

if you see any topics created by me, I suggest you look away. 
don’t get yourself worked up for nothing. 
remember this is a forum site, and we are here to discuss anything. 
relax.. it’s not worth getting upset over

 

this is me the grown up me telling you calm yourself down. 
It’s Friday. It’s the weekend. Have a laugh. 

 

Excuse me, you first labeled other people as "trolls", and then you claim others to be "one of those who send out pictures and go ape shit crazy when someone dont return .. the favour". And then you wonder why anyone will go "ape shit crazy on" you, hiding behind the pretense that "This is just a discussion". ignoring all those insults you yourself dished out??? Just what type of a barbaric monkey environment have you been brought up in? Thank goodness there are more and more Singaporeans who dare stand up for themselves now, instead of letting people like you walk all over them. 

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 7:12 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

Excuse me, you first labeled other people as "trolls", and then you claim others to be "one of those who send out pictures and go ape shit crazy when someone dont return .. the favour". And then you wonder why anyone will go "ape shit crazy on" you, hiding behind the pretense that "This is just a discussion". ignoring all those insults you yourself dished out??? Just what type of a barbaric monkey environment have you been brought up in? Thank goodness there are more and more Singaporeans who dare stand up for themselves now, instead of letting people like you walk all over them. 

 And yes mate. You’re trolling right now. You need to let it go.

more and more Singaporeans standing up? Like who?  
so far you’re the one here throwing a tantrum. 
again RELAX, take a nap.. lol 

seriously sunshine, cool yourself down. Gosh lol 

sorry I can’t stop laughing now. 

[Guest Guest]

On 3/25/2022 at 7:18 PM, greg01greg said:

sorry I can’t stop laughing now. 

 

Perfect picture of a troll with a troll thread he started.  

[Guest guest]

On 3/25/2022 at 12:35 AM, greg01greg said:

????? And how this making sense? Lol 

look - if anyone wants to send a picture voluntarily, do it by all means - just don’t expect one in return. 
 

in short don’t go twisting someone’s arm and force them to send a picture. 
 

there’s nothing in any rule book that youre supposed return the favour. 
 

it’s just that I keep getting this “it’s basic courtesy” that you send a picture as well when someone send one to you. 
what’s the “basic courtesy” all about? Who came up with this idea? 
 

 

 

U mean its ok to date someone who wears a paperbag over his head?

 

if you are out looking for dates, you still want to remain anonymous? lol? how is this normal?

[greg01greg]

On 3/25/2022 at 9:43 PM, Guest guest said:

 

U mean its ok to date someone who wears a paperbag over his head?

 

if you are out looking for dates, you still want to remain anonymous? lol? how is this normal?

This discussion is about those sending out pictures voluntarily (before engaging in further conversation) and expect a picture in return. 
It’s not about having a blind date. 

[Guest guest]

On 3/25/2022 at 9:56 PM, greg01greg said:

This discussion is about those sending out pictures voluntarily (before engaging in further conversation) and expect a picture in return. 
It’s not about having a blind date. 

 

like i said, its the context.

If in the app profile you write that you are looking for LTR or date, and people respond with an intro + their pic and expect a return, very common sense ma.

if you didnt write anything or made it clear its for hookup, then its their mistake in assuming a return pic.

[yuquidam]

On 3/25/2022 at 3:28 PM, tapsilog said:

FOR ME, if you give pics unsolicited, i can or cannot give you back. i mean, i didnt ask for your pic and you gave at your own risk.
if we agree to trade, whether i like your pic or not, i need to give as agreed. 

Exactly!

 

And this is exactly what greg01greg is saying. 

 

The point greg01greg is making is not about reciprocity but about DEMANDING reciprocity when pic was UNSOLICITED.

 

If you VOLUNTARILY give a pic and the other party chooses not to, then move on. This is a free world, deal with it. 

 

 

[yuquidam]

On 3/22/2022 at 9:56 PM, And then said:

unless it is an agreement to trade pics, your point is quite valid

you did not ask to be sent a picture

they have no right to expect a picture in return

some guys will send nudes, hoping maybe to also get nudes back in return

Fully agree! This is COMMON SENSE.

Edited March 26, 2022 by yuquidam

[Guest Guest]

On 3/26/2022 at 12:49 AM, yuquidam said:

Exactly!

 

And this is exactly what greg01greg is saying. 

 

The point greg01greg is making is not about reciprocity but about DEMANDING reciprocity when pic was UNSOLICITED.

 

If you VOLUNTARILY give a pic and the other party chooses not to, then move on. This is a free world, deal with it. 

 

 

 

Are those people who are "demanding" reciprocity with their unsolicited pictures living in the same free world, or is this free world only inhabited by greg01greg and you? Yup, you go deal with that too, OK? 

 

[greg01greg]

On 3/26/2022 at 1:10 AM, yuquidam said:

Fully agree! This is COMMON SENSE.

This topic should not be that complicated. 

[Guest guest]

On 3/26/2022 at 12:49 AM, yuquidam said:

Exactly!

 

And this is exactly what greg01greg is saying. 

 

The point greg01greg is making is not about reciprocity but about DEMANDING reciprocity when pic was UNSOLICITED.

 

If you VOLUNTARILY give a pic and the other party chooses not to, then move on. This is a free world, deal with it. 

 

 

 

so your profile states "Looking For: Looking for movie buddies"

If I am into movies as well, I intro myself to you and send u a pic with the intention of having a movie buddy, in this case don't you think it is common sense to reply with your pic?

If you dont reply with pic, how to proceed?

[Guest Guest]

On 3/26/2022 at 11:18 AM, greg01greg said:

This topic should not be that complicated. 

 

It's only complicated because you expect the entire world to behave according to how YOU want everyone to behave. That's the only complication here.

[greg01greg]

On 3/26/2022 at 8:40 PM, Guest Guest said:

 

It's only complicated because you expect the entire world to behave according to how YOU want everyone to behave. That's the only complication here.

Ok sunshine. Whatever get you to sleep well at night.  

remember to check your blood pressure  

[Guest Guest]

On 3/26/2022 at 9:21 PM, greg01greg said:

Ok sunshine. Whatever get you to sleep well at night.  

remember to check your blood pressure  

 

Oh midnight, I do not need anything to help me sleep well at night. 🙂 remember to go check your brain at IMH soon 🙂

[G_M]

Seriously, I don't see why you people cannot live and let live. 

 

Some people call it common sense, some people just feels it's reciprocatory. 

 

Argue and argue, over and over again and repeat and repeat what everyone had already mentioned.

 

[G_M]

This thread had run it's course.

Therefore it will be locked!