just wondering,but have you ever felt insecure about your dick?when?

[hai]

i always feel insecure about mine.but alot of people tell me that mine is the average or sum shit.so want to hear your stories too

[yhtang]

On 5/3/2022 at 6:12 AM, hai said:

i always feel insecure about mine.but alot of people tell me that mine is the average or sum shit.so want to hear your stories too

 

The only way for us to assuage your insecurity over your penis size would be to show it.  We can then comment on whether yours is average or not.

 

As for mine, I am thankful it works and can give me an orgasm.  ☺️

[hai]

On 5/3/2022 at 3:05 PM, yhtang said:

 

The only way for us to assuage your insecurity over your penis size would be to show it.  We can then comment on whether yours is average or not.

 

As for mine, I am thankful it works and can give me an orgasm.  ☺️

mines 4.5-5 inches ah,so ye

[DiDing]

On 5/4/2022 at 1:21 AM, hai said:

mines 4.5-5 inches ah,so ye

That's roughly my size. Well I think it is average and I think it looks fine on me. 

 

Anw I don't see too much an issue on size. Every size have its market of people who appreciate it.

 

[Guest 5.5]

I would ask for sick picture exchange on gay dating app so as to know how other's dicks are like. 

I feel small at a maximum of 5.5 inches when I have straightened against a ruler. Hahaha.

[Guest 5.5]

dick* not sick pictures. Hahaha.

[Guest Measured]

If your are a bottom, you should not worry too much about your dick size. 

[NeitherHereNorThere]

Size should be relative and not absolute.. Smaller frame, smaller dick, ok mah. Go for smaller frame bottom, I'm sure he will appreciate that you're not too big

[yhtang]

On 5/4/2022 at 1:21 AM, hai said:

mines 4.5-5 inches ah,so ye

 

Mine is not too different.  I always say mine is the non choke variety.  That often elicits a blowjob. 😂

[Guest Okay]

Mine is abt 4.5" to 5" too.

 

I did get rejected few times, after they touched my very average kkj.

 

Nonetheless, there are plenty still ok with my size.

Because of this size also, a hunky manly guy allowed me to penetrate him, as he was curious how it feels like to be a btm.

 

Just look at the positive side and be happy with what you are born with.

 

 

[Guest Guest]

I always believe size does matter in Gay . Put 2 naked men together, 1 small cock n 1 big cock n c who got e most pick. 

 

Those small cock here who frequent sauna, may I noe anyone hook u ? 

[GachiMuchi]

On 5/3/2022 at 6:12 AM, hai said:

i always feel insecure about mine.but alot of people tell me that mine is the average or sum shit.so want to hear your stories too

 

On 5/4/2022 at 1:21 AM, hai said:

mines 4.5-5 inches ah,so ye

 

1. You can't change your dick size.

2. if it's not broken, don't fix it.

3. 4.5 - 5 in is average for Singaporean size.

4. Don't focus on your dick size, focus on what you can do to maximize the potential of your dick. A dick is a like a tool. How you use the tool and how good you can use it means a big difference to the bottom, if you are a top.

5. If you are a bottom, your dick is not that important.

6. How big do you think you want your dick to be before you can be happy?

7. If your dick is "lembut" (soft) even you got a big cock also no use.

8. your bottom will only complained about you only when you are a lousy or selfish top who do not do more foreplay, clean your cock, or make extra effort to send the bottom "to heaven" with your tongue, mouth or fucking skills.

 

You got a long way to go man. you should be more worried, it the bottom only try you once and block you the next time. It might not be your dick. It might just be you and how you do it, attitude, personality, etc.

 

Hope it helps.

Edited May 4, 2022 by GachiMuchi

[Guest Guest]

On 5/5/2022 at 1:11 AM, GachiMuchi said:

 

3. 4.5 - 5 in is average for Singaporean size.

 

Very true that majority Singaporean men are 4-5" long.  But I m always reading people here posting they met big cock guy at toilet, they hook up a big cock guy, they suck a big cock guy, saw his colleagues' big cock, saw his straight friends' big cock, all about big cock here big cock there..... But non posting they met and had sex with small cock guy. Make me think that Singapore men have the biggest cock in Asia. 🤣

[SociNerd]

Idk but I guess for tops I've always only ever met people bigger than me so I have this perception that mine is small, when I've measured it and it's roughly 5.4", even though literally everyone I've met says it's actually a good size

[And then]

On 5/5/2022 at 4:33 PM, SociNerd said:

Idk but I guess for tops I've always only ever met people bigger than me so I have this perception that mine is small, when I've measured it and it's roughly 5.4", even though literally everyone I've met says it's actually a good size

 

so... you are saying everyone you meet are bigger than you, yet they say you have a good size dick.

therefore indirectly complimenting themselves?

 

[SociNerd]

On 5/5/2022 at 3:05 PM, And then said:

 

so... you are saying everyone you meet are bigger than you, yet they say you have a good size dick.

therefore indirectly complimenting themselves?

 

I have no idea

[hai]

On 5/4/2022 at 4:01 AM, Guest Measured said:

If your are a bottom, you should not worry too much about your dick size. 

i mean for my own pleasure also mah

[Guest Guest]

On 5/5/2022 at 2:33 PM, SociNerd said:

Idk but I guess for tops I've always only ever met people bigger than me so I have this perception that mine is small, when I've measured it and it's roughly 5.4", even though literally everyone I've met says it's actually a good size

So u won't take any top tat is below 5" ?

[SociNerd]

On 5/7/2022 at 11:20 AM, Guest Guest said:

So u won't take any top tat is below 5" ?

I did once, but really couldn't feel anything. He even had good technique. But sadly, nope

[FlippantMount]

I never liked how mine look and it's average size of 5.5inches. Might look even smaller now with all the fats around it ....

[Guest guest]

Seems size really does matter in gay. 

[MasterDaddy1]

Most insecurity about cock size is caused by looking at pornography. Seeing all those big dicked guys on screen leads to the misguided belief that any cock less than 25cm is abnormal. The irony is that while many bottoms say they want a big dicked top, when faced with the reality of actually being fucked by a well endowed top they cannot take it. I have known many endowed tops who curse the size of their cock. One I knew was 28cm and thick. No guy or girl could take it and he could not sustain a real  hard-on for more than a few minutes. It is the same with dildo's.  Greedy bottoms buy the biggest they can find and then cannot use them. So don't be insecure about your size. Your cock is the only one you have so learn to use it to its best advantage. 

[Guest Guest]

On 5/7/2022 at 9:16 PM, MasterDaddy1 said:

Most insecurity about cock size is caused by looking at pornography. Seeing all those big dicked guys on screen leads to the misguided belief that any cock less than 25cm is abnormal. The irony is that while many bottoms say they want a big dicked top, when faced with the reality of actually being fucked by a well endowed top they cannot take it. I have known many endowed tops who curse the size of their cock. One I knew was 28cm and thick. No guy or girl could take it and he could not sustain a real  hard-on for more than a few minutes. It is the same with dildo's.  Greedy bottoms buy the biggest they can find and then cannot use them. So don't be insecure about your size. Your cock is the only one you have so learn to use it to its best advantage. 

As the above member said,  he really couldn't feel anything even he had good technique.

[cutejack]

On 5/7/2022 at 10:31 PM, Guest Guest said:

As the above member said,  he really couldn't feel anything even he had good technique.

Could be his hole is too loose even to feel it. 

[SociNerd]

On 5/7/2022 at 11:23 PM, cutejack said:

Could be his hole is too loose even to feel it. 

My hole is always tight just so u know lolol. When I say feel stuff I meant getting in there to hit spots. It simply wasnt long enough to reach mine

[solarplexus]

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Edited May 7, 2022 by solarplexus

[SociNerd]

On 5/8/2022 at 12:14 AM, solarplexus said:

This is me. And I try my best not to ask that much dreaded question most times but honestly become a tad bit disappointed when the meetup was not what I wanted. There was only 2 occasions where I had smaller sized ones (1 was average in girth, the other was thick) and they both managed to hit the spot well. Can't even deny cos I was leaking; but otherwise yea, it usually ends up not feeling much.

Right u feel me. SOME girth can compensate but it really doesnt beat at least a solid 5 incher

[timber_wolf]

On 5/5/2022 at 1:11 AM, GachiMuchi said:

 

 

1. You can't change your dick size.

2. if it's not broken, don't fix it.

3. 4.5 - 5 in is average for Singaporean size.

4. Don't focus on your dick size, focus on what you can do to maximize the potential of your dick. A dick is a like a tool. How you use the tool and how good you can use it means a big difference to the bottom, if you are a top.

5. If you are a bottom, your dick is not that important.

6. How big do you think you want your dick to be before you can be happy?

7. If your dick is "lembut" (soft) even you got a big cock also no use.

8. your bottom will only complained about you only when you are a lousy or selfish top who do not do more foreplay, clean your cock, or make extra effort to send the bottom "to heaven" with your tongue, mouth or fucking skills.

 

You got a long way to go man. you should be more worried, it the bottom only try you once and block you the next time. It might not be your dick. It might just be you and how you do it, attitude, personality, etc.

 

Hope it helps.

Best answer ever to this insecurity issue anyone is facing with lol

[Dirtyme]

Sometimes I do wonder how it would be to have a 6-7 inch dick. Even long when soft. 

 

Im a grower, but sometimes i hope i was a show-er too. 🤣

[Guest Guess]

On 5/7/2022 at 9:16 PM, MasterDaddy1 said:

Most insecurity about cock size is caused by looking at pornography. Seeing all those big dicked guys on screen leads to the misguided belief that any cock less than 25cm is abnormal. The irony is that while many bottoms say they want a big dicked top, when faced with the reality of actually being fucked by a well endowed top they cannot take it. I have known many endowed tops who curse the size of their cock. One I knew was 28cm and thick. No guy or girl could take it and he could not sustain a real  hard-on for more than a few minutes. It is the same with dildo's.  Greedy bottoms buy the biggest they can find and then cannot use them. So don't be insecure about your size. Your cock is the only one you have so learn to use it to its best advantage. 

my sentiments too

[familiarStranger]

Sigh... unfortunately, I'm one of them who feels that my dick size is below average. Small actually..

 

And yes, I feel unsecured and am extremely nervous when anyone sees me nude. Buy yet I feel excited at being seen naked.

 

Conflicting feelings here.

[manehiso]

On 5/10/2022 at 10:56 AM, familiarStranger said:

Sigh... unfortunately, I'm one of them who feels that my dick size is below average. Small actually..

 

And yes, I feel unsecured and am extremely nervous when anyone sees me nude. Buy yet I feel excited at being seen naked.

 

Conflicting feelings here.

Yes u're definitely conflicted there, at least about being seen naked.. Haha