Funchub Posted June 22, 2022 Report Share Posted June 22, 2022 I have a relatively smaller penis than most and most of the time, I was assumed to be the bottom. The guys that approach me, after feeling my dick, will push my head down to suck them. Even guys I approach, after feeling my dick, will also push my head down. When alone, they all will try to top me or get me to give blowjob until they cum (only once, a guy ask me to fuck him). I feel embarrassed to ask a larger dick guy to suck me..Eventually I would just give up and naturally assume the bottom role and start sucking soon after contact ...so much so that it started to changed what turns me on. Now when i watch CD porn and wish I was the "lady" instead of fucking one.... Is this normal? sg indian here 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lol Posted June 22, 2022 Report Share Posted June 22, 2022 i dont know you. but i wont suck a small dick... too gross for me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Suck big kkj Posted June 22, 2022 Report Share Posted June 22, 2022 Suck big kkj is much more shiok than sucking small kkj. if big vs small, I will suck big kkj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dreamaway Posted June 22, 2022 Report Share Posted June 22, 2022 On 6/22/2022 at 7:36 PM, Funchub said: I have a relatively smaller penis than most and most of the time, I was assumed to be the bottom. The guys that approach me, after feeling my dick, will push my head down to suck them. Even guys I approach, after feeling my dick, will also push my head down. When alone, they all will try to top me or get me to give blowjob until they cum (only once, a guy ask me to fuck him). I feel embarrassed to ask a larger dick guy to suck me..Eventually I would just give up and naturally assume the bottom role and start sucking soon after contact ...so much so that it started to changed what turns me on. Now when i watch CD porn and wish I was the "lady" instead of fucking one.... Is this normal? Top or bottom. Does not matter as long as you are happy. Don't be too bother by how others perceive u. A lot of bottoms I know have big dicks and they prefer being bottom. Nothing normal or abnormal. Don't think binary. You could be versatile. Ng Ngai Lam and M4L4Y 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 22, 2022 Report Share Posted June 22, 2022 And many still say size doesn't matter. Obviously the comments already prove size does matter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2022 Report Share Posted June 22, 2022 My friend has a shemale friend who has a big dick. Wasted not a TOP. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Straight guy kkj Posted June 23, 2022 Report Share Posted June 23, 2022 I found out that straight guys normally have small kkj while gays tend to have bigger kkj. Wonder whether it’s true at urinal, straight guys kkj so small but nice to watch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Funchub Posted June 23, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2022 On 6/22/2022 at 9:31 PM, Since u r here said: how small is small? but so long u r happie now w the wish of being lady , ie most impt! cos if too small , how to really f**k another guy, although many claimed that it just need an index finger to reach another's prostate, nevertheless 1 will need alot of good technique too if it is really short There was another top wanna played w me, i was puzzled cos i m also top, then i get to know he could only thighfuck me, cos really not long enough...thigh fuck i wont mind letting him do all he needed ......... Not too small until cannot top a guy (maybe a person with small ass)... But when storking each other, many times can definately see I am smaller.....problem is by then I will shrink even more from feeling inadequate while the other guys are rock hard. I am also think of getting Viagra to keep my dick hard instead of automatically assuming the bottom role (not that I dislike it, just sometimes I wish to be treated like a top)... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Funchub Posted June 23, 2022 Author Report Share Posted June 23, 2022 (edited) On 6/23/2022 at 6:56 PM, Since u r here said: be it Cialis or viagra (alternatively wear a cock ring, but i have never tried those options) some btms also consume them to appear rock hard for their tops to hold like a stick but u mentioned u wish u r the lady, i can never imagine that , in fact whenever someone touch my hole, i m not very pleased Some btms like tongueing it , but i find it abit unhygenic, which is also why i never do kissing When I am always pushed to be the bottom, after a while it's like I accepted my fate..and eventually derive pleasure from it... one of them is imagining myself being feminized into a 'lady'...or being 'forced' or 'dominated'. Sometimes I envy the very guys who's dick I am gagging on, their confidence and their rock hard dicks...i sometimes wish I am them doing the exact thing to a obedient bottom....while at the same time wishing he will quickly cum down my throat, not sure if others feel the same? I always say I am flex.. but always end up being the bottom (guys just shove their dicks and even ass in my face... and I suck/lick them like a bitch....) Edited June 23, 2022 by Funchub Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted June 23, 2022 Report Share Posted June 23, 2022 (edited) I disagree with TS. My cock is as strong as steel and as big as I intended it to be. However my ass has the final say on who gets to enjoy themselves. Edited June 23, 2022 by Why? mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 23, 2022 Report Share Posted June 23, 2022 On 6/23/2022 at 10:42 AM, Guest Straight guy kkj said: I found out that straight guys normally have small kkj while gays tend to have bigger kkj. Wonder whether it’s true at urinal, straight guys kkj so small but nice to watch On 6/23/2022 at 10:47 AM, Since u r here said: sorry not conclusive at all, i saw most of the btms are not that long (everything has an exception though) even some rare tops (also gay) are not that lengthy too Agree.... In fact local men mostly 4" to 5.5". There are indeed TOPs with 4" erected cock. Doesn't mean small cock make you a bottom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted June 23, 2022 Report Share Posted June 23, 2022 Not necessary. I met some smaller guys who will just push you head down to suck their cock even if they know you are bigger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbuttboy Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 (edited) - Edited June 29, 2022 by bigbuttboy Since u r here 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 I find those TOP with 4 inches cock on his gym fit/muscular bod sexy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Get checked Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 On 6/24/2022 at 8:05 AM, bigbuttboy said: mine 2" only. and cant get hard. so worked hard on my ass so I can still be useful to the community as a good bottom if can’t get hard, should see a doctor. This can be a sign of health problems. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Anon sex only Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 On 6/22/2022 at 7:36 PM, Funchub said: I have a relatively smaller penis than most and most of the time, I was assumed to be the bottom. The guys that approach me, after feeling my dick, will push my head down to suck them. Even guys I approach, after feeling my dick, will also push my head down. When alone, they all will try to top me or get me to give blowjob until they cum (only once, a guy ask me to fuck him). I feel embarrassed to ask a larger dick guy to suck me..Eventually I would just give up and naturally assume the bottom role and start sucking soon after contact ...so much so that it started to changed what turns me on. Now when i watch CD porn and wish I was the "lady" instead of fucking one.... Is this normal? is the only sex you are having anonymous? Why not talk to people about what you are into and would like? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbuttboy Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 (edited) - Edited June 29, 2022 by bigbuttboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Get checked Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 On 6/24/2022 at 2:03 PM, bigbuttboy said: That's why I caged it. No need to use it liao Seems you completely missed the point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TEY2005 Posted June 24, 2022 Report Share Posted June 24, 2022 On 6/24/2022 at 2:03 PM, bigbuttboy said: That's why I caged it. No need to use it liao As in a real cage? Never seen one before. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 25, 2022 Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 On 6/24/2022 at 2:18 PM, Since u r here said: after caged will it get even smaller? & when goin thru custom inspection it might ring? if it is metal cage I m really curious will penis get smaller when cage it long term? If it does make penis get smaller, why do men want to make it small? I thought men want their penis big... No? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Try and see Posted June 25, 2022 Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 On 6/22/2022 at 7:36 PM, Funchub said: I have a relatively smaller penis than most and most of the time, I was assumed to be the bottom. The guys that approach me, after feeling my dick, will push my head down to suck them. Even guys I approach, after feeling my dick, will also push my head down. When alone, they all will try to top me or get me to give blowjob until they cum (only once, a guy ask me to fuck him). I feel embarrassed to ask a larger dick guy to suck me..Eventually I would just give up and naturally assume the bottom role and start sucking soon after contact ...so much so that it started to changed what turns me on. Now when i watch CD porn and wish I was the "lady" instead of fucking one.... Is this normal? I think it's more to do with what the other guy wants, rather than your cock size. I know because I have been in sexual encounters where my cock was a lot bigger than the other guy's, but the other guy just wanted me to masturbate him until he climaxed. They hardly touched my cock throughout the whole encounter. Even when some of these guys would occasionally feel and grope my cock, ultimately, they just wanted me to pleasure their cocks (until they climaxed) as a priority. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cityhallguy Posted June 25, 2022 Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 (edited) Here sharing my thought and my experience when I was in Tokyo. Firstly, small cock doesn’t mean must be btm and it might be a perfect opportunity for people like me who are top most of the time to try being a btm. I was in Ueno 24 Kaikan, Tokyo, I enjoyed spending my time there after work. That outlet got many straight acting bear daddies for me to hunt lol… And most of them cock size either same as mine or smaller than my pinky. There’s this very hot jap daddy, I like and his face looks very fierce like Yakuza. Both of us like what we saw on each other, so we went to the darkroom and find a futon bed for fun. Lucky, he can understand and speak bit of English and we kiss, bla bla those foreplay actions, then we both started to touch each other arse and fingers… both our arse were so tight hahaha. Then he gave me a sign and bit of English that he’s not btm and wanna top me. I went to feel his cock size… ok it was short and I never being a btm before, so why not give it a try. He told me in mixed Japanese and simple English “softly”, so I guessed he meant he will fuck me softly? Anyway, he put on his condom from his small little bag that he carried around and took out a small bottle of lub and lub me out. Then when he went in to fuck me, I didn’t felt his cock at all. It was after 1 or 2 pumping action then I realized, orh… he already went in! Seriously I didn’t feel it but since we in a missionary position and still got some light that I can see bit of his facial expression and the shiok sounds, which tell me his cock was in and enjoy my arse. So my mind was, errr….okay just try to enjoyed like a btm lor…. He didn’t take quite long or fast to cum. So overall, I didn’t physically feel how the btm really feel but mentally and emotionally I can feel how the btm feels being dominated by the top when the top fucking them. At Ueno 24Kaikan, I also met a chubby fair white Japanese daddy who go after me in the sauna and I was very horny too. So we found a futon bed and have fun. I have to admit, when my hand touch his cock…. I was shocked and disappointed as I couldn’t find it! We were than in 69 position, he sucking my cock and I was trying to reciprocate but seriously I can’t find his and I had to brush my hand around his bush to feel that small piece of meat. (Sorry, the way I tell the story about this Japanese guy cock is bit cruel and mean, so I’m okay if you bashed me for my manners). Then later he put a condom on my cock and I knew he wanted me to top him. So moved him around and fucked him in missionary position. So these were the two Japanese guys that I guess I will remember in my life hahaha… Edited June 25, 2022 by cityhallguy Topper and Bahamut LGH 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amazon Posted June 25, 2022 Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 Yup, had seen few cases. Guy with 1-2 inches little brothers able to father kids. Nothing wrong having small dicks. Key thing is it's functional. bubu zai 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Funtastic Posted June 25, 2022 Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 Well, i hope at least u have a tight axxhole. Worse is having a small kkj and loose hole. Its double whammy sure damn tak lakgu. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evilR Posted June 25, 2022 Report Share Posted June 25, 2022 As a vers top, I welcome guys with small dick. Can never really enjoy those with big d inside me haha Bahamut LGH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 26, 2022 Report Share Posted June 26, 2022 On 6/25/2022 at 10:31 AM, Since u r here said: google for it and u shall see many designs some are plastic and some metal, some have locked and key Some less complicated........ I wonder will they come out with digital lock ie at certain timing , master set it to be unlocked for a break........ i have never seen anyone dare to urinate at cubicle if they are wearing such things but i think for smaller dick guys they wont feel much pain locking it i supposed it is more of Dom (master) v Sub relationship? not so much of a btm v top? I also urinate as normal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 26, 2022 Report Share Posted June 26, 2022 On 6/25/2022 at 10:59 AM, Guest Guest said: I m really curious will penis get smaller when cage it long term? If it does make penis get smaller, why do men want to make it small? I thought men want their penis big... No? Depends what length u wearing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 26, 2022 Report Share Posted June 26, 2022 On 6/26/2022 at 6:50 PM, Since u r here said: Before erection, the sizing shd b ok but after erection? Eg morning wood? How? Cage not expandable at all Than will only hard inside the cage same length Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 26, 2022 Report Share Posted June 26, 2022 On 6/26/2022 at 7:06 PM, Since u r here said: how could it be? my before and after is a huge diffce Some people dick soft & hard is bit same length coz the cage if wear big still have space to grow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 26, 2022 Report Share Posted June 26, 2022 On 6/26/2022 at 7:11 PM, Since u r here said: may i presume those who r Subs, caged , will prefer to play a 0 role? Depends ur Relationship some btm want his top bf stay cage. some wife want lock her husband. just depending what u intro only Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 27, 2022 Report Share Posted June 27, 2022 (edited) On 6/26/2022 at 7:24 PM, Since u r here said: 被绿right? no1 get to control or have a say over my dick....... kinky too!!!!!! but i cant be the "cuckcolded " one No all into this Juz some additional fetish Edited June 27, 2022 by bubu zai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 27, 2022 Report Share Posted June 27, 2022 On 6/27/2022 at 7:29 PM, Since u r here said: i think u meant "not all into this" Autocorrect haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 28, 2022 Report Share Posted June 28, 2022 On 6/26/2022 at 7:07 PM, bubu zai said: Some people dick soft & hard is bit same length coz the cage if wear big still have space to grow Yes, I haf met 2 such guys previously. They haf big long flaccid, really a show-er. But their cock only get thicker n abt e same length as their flaccid when erected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gucici Posted June 28, 2022 Report Share Posted June 28, 2022 Maybe question is do you prefer to be the grower or non grower? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 28, 2022 Report Share Posted June 28, 2022 On 6/28/2022 at 10:09 PM, Guest Guest said: Yes, I haf met 2 such guys previously. They haf big long flaccid, really a show-er. But their cock only get thicker n abt e same length as their flaccid when erected. Yup small dick can erected bigger haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubu zai Posted June 28, 2022 Report Share Posted June 28, 2022 On 6/28/2022 at 10:37 PM, gucici said: Maybe question is do you prefer to be the grower or non grower? As long is dick is enough I guess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Terence34 Posted August 7, 2022 Report Share Posted August 7, 2022 Majority yes but my bf is only 5" small and he is a top Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 7, 2022 Report Share Posted August 7, 2022 On 8/8/2022 at 3:29 AM, Guest Terence34 said: Majority yes but my bf is only 5" small and he is a top Pls lah not oni ur bf. A lot of top r 5" . Quite normal loh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest EuropeanTraveller Posted August 7, 2022 Report Share Posted August 7, 2022 Hmmmm .... I love to get fucked. And let me tell you, I've met lots of guys with small penis who wanted to fuck me ... I rejected, but to answer your question ... doesn't matter if your cock is small, you can be top. Why not? And btw, at the same time I can tell you that I met lots of bottom boys with super huge cock ... and they use it for pissing only. That always makes me cry. What a waste of cock 😅 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curious observation Posted August 8, 2022 Report Share Posted August 8, 2022 Many muscular and fat guys have small dick, the size of peanut pod. Are they all bottom? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chunchun Posted August 9, 2022 Report Share Posted August 9, 2022 Maybe not automatically makes them bottom but might discourage some from trying to top, I think. But it all depends on their own preferences, like some bottoms are hung - sometimes even larger than the top hehe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 9, 2022 Report Share Posted August 9, 2022 On 8/8/2022 at 6:10 PM, Guest Curious observation said: Many muscular and fat guys have small dick, the size of peanut pod. Are they all bottom? 😆😆😆 true ! Many top muscular gym rats are just about 5". Some might be thick but length still about 5.5" the most. Hate those muscular tops in Grindr always say they are "large" but when meet up, so so only. Why tops always have the ego of saying they are big below? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Small Posted August 10, 2022 Report Share Posted August 10, 2022 On 6/24/2022 at 2:17 AM, repressednerd said: Not necessary. I met some smaller guys who will just push you head down to suck their cock even if they know you are bigger. Yup, I encountered 2 fit n goodlooking guys who are shorter than me and have dick smaller than mine, but they guided me to suck them. Maybe I am the strange one in this circle but I prefer guys with dick of average size. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirfalas Posted August 10, 2022 Report Share Posted August 10, 2022 (edited) On 8/10/2022 at 6:41 PM, Guest Small said: Yup, I encountered 2 fit n goodlooking guys who are shorter than me and have dick smaller than mine, but they guided me to suck them. Maybe I am the strange one in this circle but I prefer guys with dick of average size. I find 6" to be the perfect size haha. When I top it doesn't matter that much but I like it when I bottom, so don't have to prep so much. And it fits comfortably. And nice to suck too, deep enough to fill your mouth but not too much that your jaw hurts lol. Edited August 10, 2022 by Sirfalas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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