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14 hours ago, Baredom said:

Guys like it rough. The number of times I’ve heard “oh yeah, fuck me harder” matched with slapping the ass cheek over and over or even choking. Geez

 

The bottom is always “so tight” and the top is always “so big”. 
 

Both shoot hot cum all over each other and then just go to sleep. Um, REALLY???

 

The bottom is always “so tight” and the top is always “so big” cos they choose the right models mah.

 

 

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I think the biggest myths or mis education esp to young people is

 

1. All cocks are huge and rock hard 

2. Anal sex is clean with no mess

3. Cum like machine

4. Can go on for hrs

 

Reality hits like a brick when everything is different

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1 hour ago, lightsmith32 said:

I think the biggest myths or mis education esp to young people is

 

1. All cocks are huge and rock hard 

2. Anal sex is clean with no mess

3. Cum like machine

4. Can go on for hrs

 

Reality hits like a brick when everything is different

:lol::lol::lol: true !

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9 hours ago, briefsnottrunks said:

 

The bottom is always “so tight” and the top is always “so big” cos they choose the right models mah.

 

 

Nah, just bullshit. The bottom is probably so loose he wouldn’t feel anything smaller than 6 inches anymore. It’s just scripted. Many times, poorly scripted. 

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6 hours ago, lightsmith32 said:

I think the biggest myths or mis education esp to young people is

 

1. All cocks are huge and rock hard 

2. Anal sex is clean with no mess

3. Cum like machine

4. Can go on for hrs

 

Reality hits like a brick when everything is different

I find another very bad miseducation is that people like it rough and want to talk dirty. There’s a place for that but also for tenderness and passion. Not just banging away like animals. The younguns enter the scene expecting all that and behave like that and then get all chuffed if you don’t respond like them pornstars. 

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2 hours ago, Baredom said:

I find another very bad miseducation is that people like it rough and want to talk dirty. There’s a place for that but also for tenderness and passion. Not just banging away like animals. The younguns enter the scene expecting all that and behave like that and then get all chuffed if you don’t respond like them pornstars. 

Lol that’s me. Though I do star in amateur porn so maybe it’s affected my own reality.

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5 hours ago, Baredom said:

I find another very bad miseducation is that people like it rough and want to talk dirty. There’s a place for that but also for tenderness and passion. Not just banging away like animals. The younguns enter the scene expecting all that and behave like that and then get all chuffed if you don’t respond like them pornstars. 

This one hit or miss ... somethimes when its the time of the month for me when the hormones spike im supre aggressive also .. ill just take my btm like an animal ...

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On 7/29/2023 at 6:41 AM, Baredom said:

Guys like it rough. The number of times I’ve heard “oh yeah, fuck me harder” matched with slapping the ass cheek over and over or even choking. Geez

 

The bottom is always “so tight” and the top is always “so big”. 
 

Both shoot hot cum all over each other and then just go to sleep. Um, REALLY???

 

Umm I mean.. i like slapping ass and soemtimes choking albeit not too hard 😆. I don't find this too unrealistic tbh and yeah soemtimes afterwards you're just so tired lol so just lie down phew! Soemtimes lie down accidentally fall asleep a bit and just shower after lor.

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On 2/10/2023 at 10:32 AM, TopChinese said:

3. Bottoms are clean and ready to be f**ked at any time. Without lube also.

 

No porn clip is going to include the days of healthy vegetable diet as well as hours of douching and preparation bottoms have to go through before a hookup. Not to mention the disappointment when the top cancels last minute "because he has to go for dinner with BF/wife". 

 

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Saw another video today .. knn .. the top carry the btm all kind of position. Even upside down while standing .. intriguing but very impractical.

It is acting, so anything also possible. 😅

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Have to admit is hot and very gd for a fap session .. but i wont be carrying my boy upside down during our session

Porn has to act until hot, if not no one will watch. 😂

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1 minute ago, bluerunner said:

Among the myths:

1. Clean shaven guys are often deceived as bottom.

2. Man w curved down dick is often portrayed as bottom

3. Small build men played bottom role most of the time. 
 

However, it’s true that men with nicer bodies are more often … more bottom. 

Really? Wow, this is new to me. 

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On 11/20/2023 at 12:14 AM, bluerunner said:

Among the myths:

1. Clean shaven guys are often deceived as bottom.

2. Man w curved down dick is often portrayed as bottom

3. Small build men played bottom role most of the time. 
 

However, it’s true that men with nicer bodies are more often … more bottom. 

 

DON'T BE DISCOURAGED!

 

If you are clean shaven, have a straight dick, are somewhat small built ..   you can aim for the nicest body AND BE A TOP TOO.

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Porn has conditioned me to think that more cum is better. Somehow it’s more manly or perhaps more virile. 
 

Also, the stronger the ejaculation ie the further you shoot, the better. None of the trickling out nonsense. Be a man - SHOOT! 

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On 3/12/2024 at 10:55 AM, Baredom said:

IIt’s a learnt response. Similarly others get high hearing the sex talk too. 

Oh dear I am so conditioned to western porn that when I watched a local clip of a gangbang, the bodies were hot, the sex was hot, but then I heard the top saying ' you like it right, naughty boy' in Singaporean accent my cock went soft and I had to stop watching 

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4 hours ago, Guest Potato said:

Oh dear I am so conditioned to western porn that when I watched a local clip of a gangbang, the bodies were hot, the sex was hot, but then I heard the top saying ' you like it right, naughty boy' in Singaporean accent my cock went soft and I had to stop watching 

Singapore gay porn?

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2 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Singapore gay porn?

yes amateur one la, on twitter (now X) got some local gay like to share clips of his gangbang. 

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7 hours ago, Guest Potato said:

Oh dear I am so conditioned to western porn that when I watched a local clip of a gangbang, the bodies were hot, the sex was hot, but then I heard the top saying ' you like it right, naughty boy' in Singaporean accent my cock went soft and I had to stop watching 

HAHAHA. This was really funny. Thanks for making me laugh.

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On 2/10/2023 at 10:34 AM, TopChinese said:

4. Tops can stay hard all the time and fuck for hours and hours until the insatiable bottom is happy. 

 

10 mins already asking a lot ok. You think we are all f**k machines? Consider yourself lucky if you can cum at the same time. And money for the Grab home. 

I met one that was hard for an hour non-stop. Originally I thought staying hard beyond even 30 minutes is a myth. But outliers exists and I was lucky.

 

he's young though, maybe that's why

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"Amatuer 1st anal" or "straight first gay fk"... well, its not if it goes in so smoothly without lube, without pain & with professional videography.

 

I've only seen once...a bottom being anal for the first time (self recorded) the conversation he had with his top & his top making sure that his bottom is ok to received slowly... painful but nice in the end... so legit!!!

 

That is what i want to experience!!!

 

 

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59 minutes ago, M4L4Y said:

"Amatuer 1st anal" or "straight first gay fk"... well, its not if it goes in so smoothly without lube, without pain & with professional videography.

 

I've only seen once...a bottom being anal for the first time (self recorded) the conversation he had with his top & his top making sure that his bottom is ok to received slowly... painful but nice in the end... so legit!!!

 

That is what i want to experience!!!

 

 

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On 3/28/2024 at 3:47 PM, Guest Potato said:

Oh dear I am so conditioned to western porn that when I watched a local clip of a gangbang, the bodies were hot, the sex was hot, but then I heard the top saying ' you like it right, naughty boy' in Singaporean accent my cock went soft and I had to stop watching 

 

I met a top at the sauna who tried to squeeze my (facial) cheeks (weakly) while topping me and when he kept saying something like, "you like it huh? bitch", his Singaporean accent made it sound so strange. Or maybe he wasn't putting too much into his roleplay. He wasn't even forceful when he pushed me to kneel on the ground for him to cum on my face.

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11 hours ago, repressednerd said:

 

I met a top at the sauna who tried to squeeze my (facial) cheeks (weakly) while topping me and when he kept saying something like, "you like it huh? bitch", his Singaporean accent made it sound so strange. Or maybe he wasn't putting too much into his roleplay. He wasn't even forceful when he pushed me to kneel on the ground for him to cum on my face.

 

Real doms are hard to find in SG. Many just want to try, but u can't fake it, a real sub always know 😊

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11 hours ago, repressednerd said:

 

I met a top at the sauna who tried to squeeze my (facial) cheeks (weakly) while topping me and when he kept saying something like, "you like it huh? bitch", his Singaporean accent made it sound so strange. Or maybe he wasn't putting too much into his roleplay. He wasn't even forceful when he pushed me to kneel on the ground for him to cum on my face.

Those top who saying you like it huh, bitch. Such a turn off for me.

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2 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Those top who saying you like it huh, bitch. Such a turn off for me.

What else would they say.  You prefer them to grunt:  I am fucking your CB, you whore?   

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14 hours ago, repressednerd said:

 

I met a top at the sauna who tried to squeeze my (facial) cheeks (weakly) while topping me and when he kept saying something like, "you like it huh? bitch", his Singaporean accent made it sound so strange. Or maybe he wasn't putting too much into his roleplay. He wasn't even forceful when he pushed me to kneel on the ground for him to cum on my face.

Better than my friend call me and ask with malay woman accent :" want to watch dirty movie?"

 

The way he pronounced dirty is so funny. And a turn off.

 

That's why I always watch alone.

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Visiting my friend's boyfriend's home, and suddenly join him in the shower. After seducing him easily by deepthroating his cock a few times, he turns me around and fucks me so hard as his skin slaps against mine.

 

Or he suddenly has a device from Doraemon or similar and I freeze, so that he can tear off my clothes and fuck me hard. After he finishes inside me and dresses me, he unfreezes me, I leave his house and suddenly cum drips out of my shorts as I board the bus, attracting disapproving stares from aunties.

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5 hours ago, Guest guest said:

Visiting my friend's boyfriend's home, and suddenly join him in the shower. After seducing him easily by deepthroating his cock a few times, he turns me around and fucks me so hard as his skin slaps against mine.

 

Or he suddenly has a device from Doraemon or similar and I freeze, so that he can tear off my clothes and fuck me hard. After he finishes inside me and dresses me, he unfreezes me, I leave his house and suddenly cum drips out of my shorts as I board the bus, attracting disapproving stares from aunties.

 

The second one is a fantasy more than a porn myth. 

 

The first one is much closer to a porn myth, and the way porn myths go, as you are fucked by your friend's boyfriend, your friend appears and a threesome ensues. 

 

The closest experience I had to this scenario was in a gay sauna.  I met a guy, went to a private room and I fucked him.  While we were enjoying the afterglow, his boyfriend was going from one room to another, calling out and looking for him.  We did not have a threesome, the boyfriend sounded unhappy, so I just wrapped my towel around my waist and left the room.  

 

 

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I am not that old, but somehow,  I felt my gay excitement has dwindled.  Probably the peak of my gay sex life is over, or I watched too much porn and developed a dry feelings about sex?  or My priority in life has suddently took a new turn? or I felt nobody can be trusted to be true to you?  or I plan to stay away from high risk activities?  or I decided not to give myself too much stress being gay?  or  I am  becoming a saint? or I didn't want my hater to find something to fault me? or I retreated completely into a safe closet? or...I am no longer good looking and fear rejection? or....I can't find the right reason nor motivation to have sex again.  

 

Anyone in the same club as me?

 

 

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I have been 'lucky' on my sex journey, as I have been able to get the type of guys whom I desire/lust for (across many nationalities and races as I travel a lot),and getting into sex acts which one often fantasize (1-1, groupie, GS etc). Sensual as well as animalistic exchanges.


Having done most of what one typical chap would ask for, I am rather contented in going slow nowadays.  And also concluded that local Chinese are one of the most bland sex partners as can be. 

 

 

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On 4/14/2024 at 1:57 PM, Guest guest said:

I have been 'lucky' on my sex journey, as I have been able to get the type of guys whom I desire/lust for (across many nationalities and races as I travel a lot),and getting into sex acts which one often fantasize (1-1, groupie, GS etc). Sensual as well as animalistic exchanges.

Continue to take your HIV drugs.  Don't stop.  Also let your partner know your status.  Thank you. 

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