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GKS Posted August 30, 2022 Author Report Share Posted August 30, 2022 (edited) 真的，至少还有你。 不知多少人能彻底理解这句话？ Edited August 30, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted September 6, 2022 Author Report Share Posted September 6, 2022 (edited) 星期一陪了弟弟去完成了一个日间手术。今天陪家母与女帮佣去新山。刚回到家。司机陪我聊天。 中秋节即将来临。祝吹风会员与关爱我的读者，中秋节吉祥！ Edited September 6, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted September 6, 2022 Report Share Posted September 6, 2022 On 9/6/2022 at 11:37 PM, GKS said: 星期一陪了弟弟去懂了一个日渐手术。今天陪家母与女帮佣去新山。刚回到家。司机陪我聊天。 中秋节即将来临。祝吹风会员与关爱我的读者，中秋节吉祥！ 嗨! 什么是日渐手术?没听过 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted September 6, 2022 Author Report Share Posted September 6, 2022 On 9/6/2022 at 11:54 PM, friendchat said: 嗨! 什么是日渐手术?没听过 太累了！打错字。 更正中。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted September 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted September 8, 2022 (edited) 感情累到放空时，只剩下无底的寂寞。 Edited September 8, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted September 10, 2022 Report Share Posted September 10, 2022 On 9/6/2022 at 11:37 PM, GKS said: 星期一陪了弟弟去完成了一个日间手术。今天陪家母与女帮佣去新山。刚回到家。司机陪我聊天。 中秋节即将来临。祝吹风会员与关爱我的读者，中秋节吉祥！ 嗨!中秋节快乐。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted September 13, 2022 Author Report Share Posted September 13, 2022 一年又到仲秋。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted October 2, 2022 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2022 你最喜欢的许富凯。请他来唱一首歌给你听。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted October 2, 2022 Report Share Posted October 2, 2022 On 10/2/2022 at 11:23 AM, GKS said: 你最喜欢的许富凯。请他来唱一首歌给你听。 嗯!经典老歌好听，谢谢分享👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted October 3, 2022 Author Report Share Posted October 3, 2022 On 10/3/2022 at 7:11 AM, friendchat said: 嗯!经典老歌好听，谢谢分享👍 这首就送给你。你喜欢可以到回味日本怀念金曲 (Memorable Japanese songs from the past) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted October 3, 2022 Report Share Posted October 3, 2022 On 10/3/2022 at 6:00 PM, GKS said: 这首就送给你。你喜欢可以到回味日本怀念金曲 (Memorable Japanese songs from the past) 好的，谢谢🙏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted October 3, 2022 Author Report Share Posted October 3, 2022 On 10/3/2022 at 3:09 PM, Jeffrey05 said: 爱老头肥胖 不是很难的事。星马、日本都有。 不必舍近求远。 但爱是什么？ 却是在寻觅你爱之前，必须弄清楚的。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted October 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted October 8, 2022 It was the least expectation that the tempo of my life accelerating even at the late 50s. Colleagues amazed by my creativity, resilience coping with the 4G leadership as a turbo driver. Just like Libertango, a typical classical piece, could be interpreted in novice style and presented amiably, when one adopts the effective approach confronted with the new challenges ahead. Not sure whether I would still stick to the iron principle to write in Chinese if there is a time machine for me to bring back to the original point. I have seen others written in English for the similar theme of my sharings which have invited more Bwers participated in discussions. I have decided to break away my persistency on Chinese expression to have a new breath of the breeze. This morning just come across some good discussion about the issue of the the married men. Finally, I accept the fact that many people are comfortable to express and share in English. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted October 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted October 8, 2022 (edited) Recommended these topics, Is it wrong to have fun with married man? Will you avoid it? Can Gay people actually find happiness in marriage with female? Edited October 8, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted November 6, 2022 Author Report Share Posted November 6, 2022 聆听着催眠曲，却睡不着。 肚子饿，但太夜了。不敢吃。 你呢？ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendchat Posted November 7, 2022 Report Share Posted November 7, 2022 23 hours ago, GKS said: 聆听着催眠曲，却睡不着。 肚子饿，但太夜了。不敢吃。 你呢？ 怎么啦睡不着，有心事? GKS 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted November 8, 2022 Author Report Share Posted November 8, 2022 20 hours ago, friendchat said: 怎么啦睡不着，有心事? 仅是饿。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted November 18, 2022 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2022 A 你还记得我们曾在克拉码头看过类似的表演。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted December 20, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 20, 2022 小寒曾说过：“我们东方人是善于抒情的民族。”我与她有同感。 这部影片就是一个典范。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted December 24, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 24, 2022 (edited) 又来到2022的圣诞节。 水，虽然无法掌握，它却蕴含在土壤之中。 火，虽然无法碰触，它却饱蓄在树木之中。 风，虽然无法抓取，它却停歇在石头之上。 即使置之不理，仍会充斥在各个地方。 悠悠时光，让我不禁叹息...... 口中吐出的叹息，如雪一般粉碎，化为眼泪。 我不忍其落下，便将之隐藏起来，即使明知泪水能再度集结， 我却仍愚蠢又凄凉地不敢落下一滴泪。 感谢大家，有你们的陪伴，让这一条很难前进的道路，有了一点温暖。我依然会在吹风园地等你们。 希望大家多多指教、多多敢于忠于自己的感情与人格。多关心周围的人， 尤其是那些一直静静地在一角的人。 祝圣诞快乐！ 注：下午我将离开新加坡过圣诞去。这几天会静一静。 Edited December 24, 2022 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted January 3, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 3, 2023 也许临近新春，我又接到A的电话。他依旧时在乎身旁的人而无法畅所欲言。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted January 4, 2023 Author Report Share Posted January 4, 2023 新年伊始，许多新意涌现。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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GKS Posted September 11, 2023 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2023 (edited) 与人夫交往者，看看这一篇文章。 异性交往发生关系却各自有家庭，记住两点就幸福了 作者/星光 来源/点点星光 ID:diandianxingguang888 两性之间的感情很难讲清楚，婚姻生活漫长需要彼此忠诚，然而，世间熙熙攘攘，爱情转瞬即逝 。很多时候，我们以为彼此足够相爱，但是真到婚后才知道准备其实不充分。 很多人说：对的时间遇到错的人，是一种无奈；错的时间遇到对的人，是一种遗憾。 但无论你是无奈还是遗憾，当你有了家庭，与异性相爱却无法在一起时，一定要牢记这两点，如此才能幸福！ 01 能坚守的爱，才是真爱 杨绛曾说：“婚外情就是两个有病的人以为自己遇到了良药，其实是遇到了麻醉药，等药效一过比以前更疼，说不定还会遇到要你命的鹤顶红。” 有家庭的人跟别的异性相爱，不是什么高级的浪漫，它就是婚外情。不管出于任何目的，处于自己有家庭的情况，就算是真的喜欢对方，也不能触碰婚姻的红线。因为大部分的爱情，比起新鲜感和刺激感，平淡日子中的温暖和温馨，才是真的真爱。生活中大部分时候，比爱情更重要的，是责任和坚守。 爱情需要专注，而非暧昧不休。而且当夫妻感情出现问题，最重要的应该是沟通，找到解救的办法，而不是选择换一个人，陷入不切实际的温柔乡。就算你真觉得现在的婚姻是一场错误，另寻良人也有体面且正确的处理方法，而不是选择婚内出轨。 夫妻之间没有了爱，婚姻失去了最后一丝温度。对于实在无法挽回的婚姻，有时候放手，不是放过对方也是放过自己。 02 不要以爱的名义伤害 有家庭，还是没有底线的选择，与其他异性暧昧不清，翻车是迟早的事情。有人会讲，爱本来就是无可奈何不顾一切的。不爱就是不爱了，爱上别人就是爱上别人了。但是在错的时间爱上对的人，就是错的，有时候放弃不是因为不爱，而是因为太爱。所以，请不要以爱的名义伤害，伤害陪伴你很久的伴侣，伤害现在深爱着你的人。 有家庭的人，最忌讳就是与异性没有边界感，一是容易被人下套，二是一旦有了机会自己就会蠢蠢欲动。有了对象结了婚，与异性朋友关系再好，交往中就要注意尺度和道德底线，杜绝一切可能的暧昧，这是红线更是底线。那些管不住下半身的人，最终也管不住人生。走上出轨道路的人，终将也会走向自己人生的下坡路。 世间终究难有两全法，不是所有爱情都要有结局，但生活永远要继续。既然选择了婚姻，就应该承担起对伴侣的责任，承担起作为父母的责任。绝对不要因为一时之快，伤害到爱自己的人们。而且，你现在说不爱的人，也曾经是你亲口说的“对的人”。 世上没有真正完美的伴侣，可能很多人对于爱情都有遗憾，但这都不是婚内出轨的借口。 有家庭的人，不论男女，要时刻坚定内心，牢记自己是有家室的人，明白自己身上的责任！ Edited September 11, 2023 by GKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted October 24, 2023 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2023 当秋叶飘零，风吹过山谷，离情如梦幻的细雨，无声而来，无声而去。那是一种柔情的流转，一场无声的告别。在离情的时光里，我仿佛漫游在一片梦境之中，远山近水，红叶如火，而你，如同一朵流星，划过我的心头。我们相遇在生命中的某个拐点，然后，我们离情。 离情的美，宛如夜空中闪烁的星辰，那些瞬息即逝的时刻，让我感受到了生命的脆弱与宝贵。离情的苦，就如同溪水轻轻流淌，时而波涛汹涌，时而平静如镜，却总是不断地前行，不停地奔赴。 离情也是一种成全。离情的背后，是一颗坚韧的心，是一段永恒的回忆。我们或许会离开，或许会分开，但离情的情感会永存，如同一首美妙的乐曲，永不停息。 离情，是自然的律动，是生命的轮回。在离情的画卷中，我们如飘渺的云彩，轻盈而自由，如流水，温柔而坚韧。我们在不同的时空里谱写着自己的故事，以离情为笔，将爱情、友情、亲情镶嵌其中，留下一幅幅绚丽多彩的画卷。 离情，是生命之舞，是心灵之歌。让我们在这场精彩的离情之旅中，学会感恩，学会珍惜，学会释怀。当夜幕降临，星光点点，愿离情如美丽的繁星，闪烁在我们的心田，照亮我们前行的道路，成为生命的一份珍贵的礼物。 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GKS Posted October 29, 2023 Author Report Share Posted October 29, 2023 (edited) 在这里开辟了一个专栏，除了当时的科技水平页只有forum这类，连云端都还没问世，也仅能于此记录历程与抒发情怀，还有希望能与共同经历者组成支援团。感谢那些参与讨论，在留言箱留言的朋友，但支援团迄今无法落实，但平心而论， 在那个封闭的时代，能如此交流，也是极至幸运。 今天，新加坡人的三观开放多了，但新加坡的语言生态，也渐渐转变成英语为主流。我的专栏也只有少数沟通者，反而是英文专栏也有人在谈人夫与同志关系的专题。就如以下两个类似的精彩专栏： Is it wrong to have fun with married man? Will you avoid it? Can Gay people actually find happiness in marriage with female? 今天，我附上一个已婚者概述心路历程的访谈短片。 再过三星期，每到冬季，我习惯到欧洲一人流浪去了。先预祝大家圣诞快乐！ A special column has been established here, back when the level of technology was limited, and there were only forums like this. Even cloud computing hadn't appeared yet. It's here that the journey and emotions were recorded. We also hoped to form a support group with those who shared similar experiences. Thanks to those who participated in discussions and left comments in the message box. In that closed era, being able to communicate like this was truly exceptional. Fast forward to today, things have become more open, but Singapore's language ecosystem has also shifted towards English. My column now has only a few communicators. Interestingly, there are discussions in English columns about relationships between married men and same-sex partners. Eg Is it wrong to have fun with married man? Will you avoid it? Can Gay people actually find happiness in marriage with female? In three weeks, as winter approaches, I have a habit of wandering alone in Europe. I'd like to wish everyone an early Merry Christmas! Edited November 3, 2023 by GKS pistachio 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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